I'm about to share a long story y'all... so feel free to Colin Powell my ass.
This is at least 2 years old, but I'ma set it up and walk y'all thru it...
Ok, I'm 22 goin on 23 and she is 26 w/ three kids. I met her on my way home on public transpo. We small talked, vibed, etc. etc. One day soon after I met her I asked, "How hard is it for you to get time for yourself?", considering that she worked and had three young children...(Oh wait, lemme give y'all the background on the kids, they are like 6, 4, and 18 months when I met her. All by the same nigga so I'm thinking "ok, at least she ain't make the same mistake more than once with 3 different niggas". OH SO HOW I WAS MISTAKEN. Also told me that the last time she had sex was when the 18 mo. old was conceived, which was the last time she was with her baby-daddy. She fine y'all, to have 3 kids, got like 3 stomach stretch marks though. With a cute face too, and a cute little attitude that made it easy to joke around.)
Ok, back to the story, she takes me asking her that question as me wanting to see her. So, she take initiative and ask when I'm free and she walked to my apt. to kick it (I was living in a townhouse at the time, more than enough space for just me).
After about a week and a half from meeting her we were at my crib joking around and just chillin' and start playing and some kinda way the sexual tension came out, I don't wear a shirt when I'm at home and I think she said something about it. Basically, said something about 'tempting', so I fuck with her about it since she left herself open for it. I start playing w/ her neck then rubbing....then all of a sudden she get on top of me and start grinding her pussy on my dick, with our clothes still on, grinding hard and long while kissing and licking on my neck. Like I had opened the flood gates.
So, from then on we fucking. She was
never my girl, I made this clear which she didn't like but had to accept in order to fuck w/ me. I'ma real player, honest about everything and if you don't like it.....Bitch Walk!
So, I got this other little younger lady, that lives in the same apt complex with her older brother and female cousin.
Since, we have two chicks, lets designate some names....Chick 1 with the three kids = Tori, Nice young lady = Spelman.
So spelman is like 2 years younger than me with no kids and in school, just like me. Spelman, is fine as hell too, her hip to waist ratio was nice. But she was just too nice, she wanted love.....more on that later.
Anyway, I told both of 'em that I didn't wanna be with 'em but they stayed around. I knew Spelman first, and after fucking for a while we agreed to be platonic friends because we were just too cool together.
Now, back to Tori, she came along and I told her about Spelman, and even told her that we fucked since Tori and I had met, she ain't like that, but she had to accept it.
Moving along, as I got to know more about Tori, her true colors started to show. She was irresponsible w/ a number of things. It was customary for me to come over her house, not to far from mine, after I got home from being in the street around 1-2am. One night I get there, I had a key, walk in and its dark...What the ??? She's laying there on the couch face down, it was winter so when I walked in I also noticed that the heat didn't hit me in the face.... the power was off!!! She fessed up, but I was disappointed that she ain't tell me ahead of time, for the kids sake. Good that the kids weren't there, she sent 'em to her mother's house. So, I give her money for the bill ($280) and spending money ($75) until she get her check, she pays me back in installments, until its paid in full. But, other stuff like instead of saving, the day she paid me off in full, she bought all the kids shoes...And bought herself 2 pair! That wasn't necessary to me. Then there was a car situation thats so in dept that I'm gonna shorten it by saying.... Baby-daddy's uncle gave her a car, she ain't get it in her name, and was just driving around w/ uncles plates on it after he asked her to change it..... He came and took the keys

while I was there

That was it, I was out. She officially had her pink slip, so I told her why that night after Uncle left, who is also a pastor, we had a heart to heart. I explained that I can't take on her responsibilities for her and that I expected her to be more responsible seeing as how she has 3 lives to care for.
2 weeks later she text message me that we need to talk....I inquire and she texts me back that she's pregnant..........