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Stopped an unaliving last night even though I didnt want to

do yall practice the poly in front of the kids or only when they are gone, like being affectionate around your girls? and do your girls know/understand what poly is? is your bm know you are in a poly relationship if she do she straight up hating on you
 
DJ said:
Lets call my wife RiRi, and our Gf Alicia
I was eating dinner with my kids and wife last night. My daughters were at theyre mothers house for the weekend, and just came home.
My retirement is close and it is a big subject in my house because my daughters want to take a road trip down the coast to Florida and then across the country to Mexico. I agreed and said we can do it when the older one graduates hs, it would her graduation present and I should be retired or real close to it.
The younger daughter sophomore in says "mommy said you aint ever retiring, you like young girls and RiRi and Alicia wont stay young forever, you will be paying alimony for as long as you live"
My wife didnt say anything she just got up from the table, I knew she was hot to death. My daughter yells "RiRi you didnt asked to be excused from the table" I am like "now is not the time,"
I go out back to talk to my wife, she is livid, absolutely flipping, cussing bout my bm, screaming how she invited the bitch to our wedding, how she has never done anything but be nice to her. I agreed with her, told her chill.
She is like "I aint chilling shit, call the bitch right now, I aint no girl, I am a grown ass woman. Ill show her young girl, Im going to beat that bitches ass, I should drive over there now."
Im like nah baby, I dont want to have to bond you out, that aint the answer. Im like calm down, get your head straight and call her.
After about 30 mins or so, I end up calling her, my wife standing right next to me. I ask her why are you talking about my wife and telling my daughters I am going to be paying alimony and shit.
She starts to say, you know you only with her for arm candy and blah, blah, blah.
My wife snatches the phone and proceeds to go off calling her every derogatory name possible and tells her next time she sees her she is going to beat her to death.
Here is the problem, my wife drops the kids off sometime to theyre moms, and sometime my bm will pick them up from my house while my wife is home and I am not.
I am sure my will get over it in time, but for now this shit is a huge problem.
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Bruh i didn’t make it past the first line without lmao @ RIri and Alicia
 
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dadamaja said:
do yall practice the poly in front of the kids or only when they are gone, like being affectionate around your girls? and do your girls know/understand what poly is? is your bm know you are in a poly relationship if she do she straight up hating on you
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My kids know, and my older kids know as well as my older 2 that don't live with me.
We are affectionate, not overly though. Our gf has keys to the house, comes and goes as she pleases, she sleeps with us when she stays the night. She is an emergency contact for my kids as well.
These are 2 teenage girls so they love having 2 female figures that they can go too, if my wife is busy they can go to Alicia to take them to get they nails done, shopping, movies and shit like that.

Yeah my bm knows what is going on, been a cunt since she found out, but I told her it's none of her business. I been told her she is a hater and a jealous bitch.
 
parisian said:
I understand. However, they could have made you aware of the disrespect from their mom without putting you at odds with your wife. Discretion matters
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I agree.
We are a pretty open and honest household, and I wouldn't want my kids to keep anything from me or lie to me. I did let her know she should have talked to me first about it.
 
DJ said:
I agree.
We are a pretty open and honest household, and I wouldn't want my kids to keep anything from me or lie to me. I did let her know she should have talked to me first about it.
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Respect, brother.... And since this is BGOL, you need to explain how you manage a wife and a girlfriend openly! That shit is crazy... Lol
 
parisian said:
Respect, brother.... And since this is BGOL, you need to explain how you manage a wife and a girlfriend openly! That shit is crazy... Lol
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It's not as hard as you think it might be. We are a normal family, the only difference is I basically have 2 wives. We are committed to each other, we ain't out cheating and fucking and playing kid games. We all have the same common goals and we help and support each other to achieve them. Our gf doesn't live with us, but that is in the plans for the near future since I plan on seeding my wife up this year. It gonna be a huge help to have here home to help take care of a new born. The main thing I tell people was this was never my idea, this was my wife's play call. I really thought it was a fad for her and was going to fade out, but that wasn't the case. Life has been really great.
 
DJ said:
It's not as hard as you think it might be. We are a normal family, the only difference is I basically have 2 wives. We are committed to each other, we ain't out cheating and fucking and playing kid games. We all have the same common goals and we help and support each other to achieve them. Our gf doesn't live with us, but that is in the plans for the near future since I plan on seeding my wife up this year. It gonna be a huge help to have here home to help take care of a new born. The main thing I tell people was this was never my idea, this was my wife's play call. I really thought it was a fad for her and was going to fade out, but that wasn't the case. Life has been really great.
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some dream of it, you made it a reality... respect
 
parisian said:
some dream of it, you made it a reality... respect
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My aunt is a baptist pastor, she is 65, my uncle is 61, they been married for over 30 yrs.
They were at my wedding, our gf Alicia was a brides maid.
Well she had met my aunt and my aunt had asked her how long she has known my wife and all that other jazz. We Alicia told her that she is our gf.
A few weeks after when got back from our honeymoon I get a call from aunt. Hey nephew what is going on the bridesmaid Alicia said she is your girlfriend, you just got married and why is she at your wedding as a brides maid for your new wife.
I had to break it down for her and tell her what was going on.
2 days later I get a call from my uncle, hey nephew your auntie told me what's going on so you think you could have your wife talk to her about it and maybe convince her what a good this could be ?
I laughed my ass off, like unc go sit your old ass down somewhere my auntie ain't never going for that shit.
 
Aww Skeet Skeet! said:
Fam, I just want to wish you the best with that. Because my ass would let whatever happens happen.
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Lol nah fam, I could never do that, lol.
My relationship isn't conventional but ot has really taught me how selfless my wife is. How much she would put me before herself, and that is priceless. I love that woman to death and I would never let her do something stupid that may remover her from my life.
 

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