Fuck it. Don't say shit to em!
This...folks have to stop trying to help these females out here that don t want it...
let them be.....
Fuck it. Don't say shit to em!
I know right,people on here have active imaginations.. whatever they feel like you are in their head that's what you are to them I guess.
Anything that's said will get some chick tryna start a movement and playing a victim. I think the point is that she doesn't want anybody saying anything to her (unless you worth a millie I bet). But I've literally had the shit happen to me. I was in a horrible mood was down the street walking,and a chick who happened to be passing by said "damn,smile sometime boo" it wasn't the end of the world. I didn't need to start a movement,I wasn't judging her and no awareness was needed. It's actually considered kind in most places. Only a crazy can turn a kind gesture into something sinister.
WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff is an old white man, not a black female
dont fall for the horse shit
cant believe these goofy broads dont know how transparent they are
if they dont wanna get hollered at then start lookin like the fat ugly bitches that nobody talks to
The post isn't just about the smiling part. Alot of their posts are saying shit like don't speak to me if I don't speak to you and I'm not any affectionate nickname you wanna call me. I'm not outside for you to talk to me. Let me enjoy my day.
so full of self pity, feeling sorry for themselves... women need to understand and accept their role as prey, to male predators.
but seriously in just observing people I noticed that women (particularity pretty women) behave like prey animals in the wild.
how do you think you would feel if you lived in the knowledge that there is someone actively trying to "get" you all the time.
but seriously in just observing people I noticed that women (particularity pretty women) behave like prey animals in the wild.
how do you think you would feel if you lived in the knowledge that there is someone actively trying to "get" you all the time.
I don't start a movement when it happens to me. This, just like many other things is just to bring awareness. It'd be nice if people were decent human beings. But the majority of them are not. We deal with it. Her movement isn't going to DO anything. Not on a real scale, but hell if you can get 1 guy to realize that 'hmmm maybe i should take into consideration someone elses feelings'
I call that a win.
Being social is not selfish.
Women have said to me in the past, and I didn't get frustrated, but I do see how that could become annoying.
I never got into the "making passes at random women in the street" thing, personally. I wait until a woman makes extended eye contact or flashes me a smile before I try my luck.
I am really thinking like I just logged onto bizarro girl online.
What the fuck is wrong with smiling?
Some young black women have a problem with smiling even at the suggestion of another?
How is it dehumanizing or offensive?
Grumpy ass folks spreading their bah hum bug ass attitude.
Now chicks want to be mean-mugging 24/7?
Soulless, bitter, broken ass young black folks.
This comment is ironic to me.men are going to be men...
what ever a woman likes or doesn't like, is her problem, not mine.
Can any of you over 35 even imagine this as a subject 10 or 20yrs ago? Now you got these girls being reaffirmed by skinny jean wearing metrosexuals or "men" raised in single parent households by their mothers grandmothers, older sisters and aunts.
A guy saying "good morning beautiful - I'd love to see your smile..." is dehumanizing? so Its better to just say "smile, bitch!" or "good morning cunt" and smack that ass or pinch a bit of boob?
Being social is saying good morning, afternoon, evening or some type of small talk not ordering a person to perform an expression
Fixed.
And telling some1 to smile is as considerate as it gets. Being social is not selfish.
Thirsty dudes create the illusion that women must make themselves less inviting... Less inviting women creates more thirsty dudes.... And so on, and so on..... This is a vicious cycle, that would only get worse if we continue the path that we are on..
This is nothing more than a case of self hate, where were our internal hate is transferred towards the people that look like us. By looking at our potential loved ones that look like us, as potential enemies, it only speaks in volumes the amount of hate that we have inside towards who we are as a people..
Don't believe me, just look how these same sisters shuck and grin every time they are in the presence of a white man, especially one with money and power..
Please explain to me what's so wrong with this?
Women are more socialized in the americas towards 1 another and to men than the opposite. And this isn't about being social. And there's many different ways to be considerate of someone. Leaving them in peace is 1.
The middle of this post is truth. The other 2 parts are bullshit.
This bitch here...
Who would have thought that playful banter/introduction into a conversation with a woman- which is an important part of the courting process- would be seen as form of oppression.
As a man, you see a woman you find attractive, put your bid in, if she bites great, if not, on to the next. Hell we're all here cause some man "harassed" some women.
I swear, there are parts of the feminist movement that is ruining women.
The cruel irony is that this rule only applies to the cats that these chicks don't want to be approached by! SUPER NIGGAS NEED NOT ABIDE!!!
"It's not sexual harassment if I WANT TO FUCK YOU."- A chick who approached me on the job...that I fucked.
*two cents*
This bitch here...
I like her nerve.
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she might have a phat ass..
I'm tryin to think of some phrase or thing that white people say innocently that annoys black people off...its the same kind of thing.
But for real MOST dudes on here would be annoyed if some stranger said to them to smile out of the blue..
hell let a white person say that shit to you..how would you feel?
I don't understand this approach at all.
I smile at most people I see and typically say hello or ask how their day is. I don't really go around asking women to smile, or anyone for that matter...most of the time, my smile makes them smile back.
Why not just smile at them and hope for the best?
This comment is ironic to me.
There's a group that says something similar about a different group, and if you read the same comment you made but made by them, you'd flip your shit.
Think about it.
And if you can't figure it out, you basically said 'can you believe women, having the nerve to say what they don't like and what annoys them, I wish it were the old days where they knew their place and shut the fuck up'
Sounds eerily familiar to anothe group that opines for the good ole days when a group they felt superior to would shut the fuck up and know their place.
This bitch here...
I've discussed with some guys before here and there. This is generally their view. "You smile and it makes me feel better". As that's your purpose in life for men. You're just there... to make them feel better. That's your role in existence. They see nothing wrong with what they said. Men in general believe this. Maybe not overtly. But subconsciously. It comes off that way. The replies in this thread show this.
Had a thread about this awhile ago. Went as well as can be expected. It's hard for them to imagine that we're not all pieces of meat here to get their attention and want them.
lmao
On the other side this has happened to me before as well. A guy being a prick coming after me and another guy comes in and tells him to chill out. And i've had 1 who did know me and told them i was cool. Let me go.
I tell males all the time they have no understanding unless they can look outside themselves and see us as people instead of things there for just their benefit.
This bitch here...
Many people say that feminism is an "ugly" woman's issue.......
Don t know if I agree with it....but more often then not......
The lighting and the glasses aren't a good look, but she's not an ugly girl.
What?
So because I dont walk around smiling all the time,
& at things that dont warrant me to smile, I may be miserable?
You display pretty unsound logic! Thanks, but no thanks for your
Most valuable insight.