Fuck it. Don't say shit to em!
This...folks have to stop trying to help these females out here that don t want it...
let them be.....
"Stop telling women to smile" movement
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This...folks have to stop trying to help these females out here that don t want it...
let them be.....
I don't start a movement when it happens to me. This, just like many other things is just to bring awareness. It'd be nice if guys were decent human beings. But the majority of them are not. We deal with it. Her movement isn't going to DO anything. Not on a real scale, but hell if you can get 1 guy to realize that 'hmmm maybe i should take into consideration someone elses feelings'
I call that a win.
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Please explain to me what's so wrong with this?
Please explain to me what's so wrong with this?
so full of self pity, feeling sorry for themselves... women need to understand and accept their role as prey, to male predators.
but seriously in just observing people I noticed that women (particularity pretty women) behave like prey animals in the wild.
how do you think you would feel if you lived in the knowledge that there is someone actively trying to "get" you all the time.
"There can be no pacts between men and lions, wolves and lambs can never be (friends)..."
but seriously in just observing people I noticed that women (particularity pretty women) behave like prey animals in the wild.
how do you think you would feel if you lived in the knowledge that there is someone actively trying to "get" you all the time.
Tryin' to get 'em all da time??! Hell, personally, I don't be even studdin' these hoes a lot of times. I got things of more importance to focus on.
Fixed.
And telling some1 to smile is as considerate as it gets. Being social is not selfish.
Word. But then again, smartphones & social networking sites have retarded folks' capabilities in regards to being social.
most women think I'm a conceited asshole...bc I act like they don't exist until they make it very obvious they're interested.
and if nothing happens, fuck it bc my girl is at home & they shouldn't be tempting me anyway. :smile:
c/s.
I think the attention whoring from fb, Twitter, etc has them all thinking they're the "next big thing." then when reality slaps them, they get mad at the world.
This comment is ironic to me.men are going to be men...
what ever a woman likes or doesn't like, is her problem, not mine.
Can any of you over 35 even imagine this as a subject 10 or 20yrs ago? Now you got these girls being reaffirmed by skinny jean wearing metrosexuals or "men" raised in single parent households by their mothers grandmothers, older sisters and aunts.
A guy saying "good morning beautiful - I'd love to see your smile..." is dehumanizing? so Its better to just say "smile, bitch!" or "good morning cunt" and smack that ass or pinch a bit of boob?
There's a group that says something similar about a different group, and if you read the same comment you made but made by them, you'd flip your shit.
Think about it.
And if you can't figure it out, you basically said 'can you believe women, having the nerve to say what they don't like and what annoys them, I wish it were the old days where they knew their place and shut the fuck up'
Sounds eerily familiar to anothe group that opines for the good ole days when a group they felt superior to would shut the fuck up and know their place.
Thirsty dudes create the illusion that women must make themselves less inviting... Less inviting women creates more thirsty dudes.... And so on, and so on..... This is a vicious cycle, that would only get worse if we continue the path that we are on..
This is nothing more than a case of self hate, where were our internal hate is transferred towards the people that look like us. By looking at our potential loved ones that look like us, as potential enemies, it only speaks in volumes the amount of hate that we have inside towards who we are as a people..
Don't believe me, just look how these same sisters shuck and grin every time they are in the presence of a white man, especially one with money and power..
This is nothing more than a case of self hate, where were our internal hate is transferred towards the people that look like us. By looking at our potential loved ones that look like us, as potential enemies, it only speaks in volumes the amount of hate that we have inside towards who we are as a people..
Don't believe me, just look how these same sisters shuck and grin every time they are in the presence of a white man, especially one with money and power..
Being social is saying good morning, afternoon, evening or some type of small talk not ordering a person to perform an expression
Ordering and flirtatiously suggesting are two different things.
Exaggeration.
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Women are more socialized in the americas towards 1 another and to men than the opposite. And this isn't about being social. And there's many different ways to be considerate of someone. Leaving them in peace is 1.
The middle of this post is truth. The other 2 parts are bullshit.
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so its basically wrong for any man to communicate w/ any woman unless he is spoken to first.
gtfo i will tell as many pretty bitter looking women to smile as i want. its a reminder to wipe that fuckin mean ass mug off her pretty face. fuck.... ur alive, ur walking, breathing, and working...which is more than alot of people can say so if i tell u to smile u better wipe that flat ass look off ur face and show some teeth.
so its basically wrong for any man to communicate w/ any woman unless he is spoken to first.
gtfo i will tell as many pretty bitter looking women to smile as i want. its a reminder to wipe that fuckin mean ass mug off her pretty face. fuck.... ur alive, ur walking, breathing, and working...which is more than alot of people can say so if i tell u to smile u better wipe that flat ass look off ur face and show some teeth.
The parts that you call bullshit, is how the white man pit the black man vs the black woman (at least one of the ways) its just another case of divide and conqueror and in the case of confusion, fear and disrepair we are programmed to look for a savior, and our savior has always been the white man, this is why so important to keep Jesus, Superman and most hero's in the media white... This shit is so subliminal yet it has deep real world implications..
This bitch here... 
Who would have thought that playful banter/introduction into a conversation with a woman- which is an important part of the courting process- would be seen as form of oppression.
As a man, you see a woman you find attractive, put your bid in, if she bites great, if not, on to the next. Hell we're all here cause some man "harassed" some women.
I swear, there are parts of the feminist movement that is ruining women.
The cruel irony is that this rule only applies to the cats that these chicks don't want to be approached by! SUPER NIGGAS NEED NOT ABIDE!!!
"It's not sexual harassment if I WANT TO FUCK YOU."- A chick who approached me on the job...that I fucked.
*two cents*
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Who would have thought that playful banter/introduction into a conversation with a woman- which is an important part of the courting process- would be seen as form of oppression.
As a man, you see a woman you find attractive, put your bid in, if she bites great, if not, on to the next. Hell we're all here cause some man "harassed" some women.
I swear, there are parts of the feminist movement that is ruining women.
The cruel irony is that this rule only applies to the cats that these chicks don't want to be approached by! SUPER NIGGAS NEED NOT ABIDE!!!
"It's not sexual harassment if I WANT TO FUCK YOU."- A chick who approached me on the job...that I fucked.
*two cents*
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she might have a phat ass..
Her nerve is still liked.
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This. I know the sista who got it started. Artist by the name of Tatyana. Real dope sis. Her and her squad are not the man bashing or hating types at all. Just get tired of the street harassment they endure.
I don't understand this approach at all.
I smile at most people I see and typically say hello or ask how their day is. I don't really go around asking women to smile, or anyone for that matter...most of the time, my smile makes them smile back.
Why not just smile at them and hope for the best?
I smile at most people I see and typically say hello or ask how their day is. I don't really go around asking women to smile, or anyone for that matter...most of the time, my smile makes them smile back.
Why not just smile at them and hope for the best?
As far as I've seen it's just a flirty way to grab attention. But the movement" is bigger than the smiling. Hit the link and read some of the posts.
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Soo many mr sensititys...
Talk to your father about the responsibilities of a man... more of us need to be chauvinists - in the true sense of that word (look it up) not the fem slur. Stop the brainwashing and allowing women to lead men around by the collar... females and fags agenda to make us feel guilty because we ar3 MEN and we tend to behave like it.
If you use twitter, the tweeters timeline is @FeministaJones. I don't agree with half the stuff she blogs about, but she has a huge following and always good participation and feedback. Even if I don't agree with something, I can pick up a new perspective or see what the group think is on something as I tend to be out of touch with a lot of foolishness that goes on. She has a large male following as well, and you don't get the hostility toward women that you see around here. I don't participate on twitter as much as I used to. I basically retweet folx now and read other folx timelines.
I didn't join in on the twitter harassment discussion as I really don't have any experiences to add, but the one thing that stood out to me was that even though there was widespread acknowledgement from the menfolx as having witnessed the behavior or having intervened by acting like they knew the woman, NO ONE ADDRESSED THE BEHAVIOR WITH THE GUY. Until men start addressing these men, the behavior is going to continue.
As far as the smile thing, this isn't anything new. I remember years ago someone wrote into Ann Landers or Dear Abby about men walking up asking to smile. Someone had just died or something and she didn't want to smile. I think the one trying to start a movement is overreacting, but like you said, if it causes someone to be a little more considerate, something good comes of it.
Many people say that feminism is an "ugly" woman's issue.......
Don t know if I agree with it....but more often then not......
Yup.. Straight feministic bullshit. She pushing hard on some unnecessary shit like don't speak to me while I'm out. And everybody giving dap and hi fiving.
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Many people say that feminism is an "ugly" woman's issue.......
Don t know if I agree with it....but more often then not......
The lighting and the glasses aren't a good look, but she's not an ugly girl.
damn there's some bitter ass women out there. each is own if they dont wanna smile who cares dont bring that negative shit to other women with positive energy tho. with me when i make eye contact with a female 9 times out ten they smile and speak or vice versa. i know everybody might not be having a great day but it never hurts to smile sometimes.
