Not sure if yall get this a lot but I was wondering so I had to throw it out there. All us men want to know ladies. Let's say you were big and you lost all this weight. Now the guys that you had like that wouldn't give u any attention and/or ignored you are all on you. Would you give them the time or day now considering that you once were attracted to them? Same question as far as you getting a degree and men start flocking on you like rednecks at a nascar meeting. Would you give them the time of day now if they didn't respond to ur subtle ques previously? Explain why to
back then they didnt want me now im hot they all on me
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I always wonder why want people who don't want you? If you're 350lbs and you think someone is attractive but you've NEVER seen them with a big person...why even bother? If you're a 3 why go for a 10? And then in 10 years complain because the 10's didn't want you when you were a 3? 3's should stick with 3's. Well in my view anyway.
you wild. All 3's don't know/think they are 3's, baby. And all 10's ain't what they seem to be.
Sometimes a 3 needs 7 to make 10. Just like some 4.5's need a 5, then they just round up to the nearest whole number, feel me?
Unless you was immobile or it was a health risk why would you want to loose weight as a man? 
Unless you was immobile or it was a health risk why would you want to loose weight as a man?
I'm talking about women losing weight and looking better pumpkin seeds
LoneStar29
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No I wouldn't give them the time of day now if they were punkin me before cuz they dont deserve me at my best if they didn't want me around when I was comin up
Can u blame them for having standards? I mean u might not meet the requirements for a job or school but soon as u do they accept u. They look at u as a high risk when u don't meet the standards. Not like the guy knew u was gonna come up
I wouldnt...It's just like when I was younger, the boys didnt like me because I was dark...Now they think I am the sexiest thing. This arrogant now semi pro(I guess) football player sent me some message talking about could he call me. I said no...He said why? I was like...I am still the same old Onyx...The one you used to crack on back in the day. He was like have seen my pool pics. I was like your gay.......
He said well can I call...I said...Ummm no.
I blacked out...What was this topic about again?
He said well can I call...I said...Ummm no.I blacked out...What was this topic about again?
I wouldnt...It's just like when I was younger, the boys didnt like me because I was dark...Now they think I am the sexiest thing. This arrogant now semi pro(I guess) football player sent me some message talking about could he call me. I said no...He said why? I was like...I am still the same old Onyx...The one you used to crack on back in the day. He was like have seen my pool pics. I was like your gay.......
I blacked out...What was this topic about again?
KraZyyou drinkin? No? Maybe its just the avi
You cant hold it against people that didnt know you before. Now if somebody knew you before then I can understand you not wanting to fuck with them like that.
Its the same for men and women tho, its girls now that skipped over me chasing the wrong dudes and now they look at me, see I am doing alright for myself and aint into no bullshit and they tryin to holla now talking about how good of a man I am. I just laugh it off and keep it moving
Its the same for men and women tho, its girls now that skipped over me chasing the wrong dudes and now they look at me, see I am doing alright for myself and aint into no bullshit and they tryin to holla now talking about how good of a man I am. I just laugh it off and keep it moving
All 3's don't know/think they are 3's, baby. And all 10's ain't what they seem to be.
Sometimes a 3 needs 7 to make 10. Just like some 4.5's need a 5, then they just round up to the nearest whole number, feel me?
A guy friend of my friend was telling her last month how she dissed him by not giving him any "play" when they were in high school. She fired back at him with "what about Montrise? You didn't give her any play?"
My friend was very pretty in high school. Her guyfriend was just well not attractive. Smart, but he wasn't what she wanted. Montrise was the female version of this guyfriend. So why didn't he get with Monstrise? That's my point. I remember High School and i remember how there were lots of ...i don't know what to call them so i'll just give the generic term, "nerds" Maybe they weren't nerds. But lets just say they weren't super popular, super attractive. All that sort of thing. But you never say those "nerds" getting with each other....? Why is that? Why didn't they get with each other? No, they were always pining away for...whoever else. "out of the their league". Not in their "Station".
That's just the reality of it. That's what i mean by the 3's wanting the 10's. Maybe they're not really 3's or 10's. Yes granted. BUT. I think everyone knows what i'm saying here.
I just find it strange that i see this question from males more often than females. Lots of black men lately as well. Saying that "when i was a zero you didn't want me." Of course i didn't want you. Why would i want you and you had nothing to give? Nothing to offer? And for christsakes i was 15 - 18, what do you want from me?
Some kind of deep psychological maturity spurt? You wanted me to see the "inner you"? When i was 17? Seriously? You're holding ME accountable for life decisions at 17?
Of course now my friends guyfriend blames her apparently for him only wanting to be with white girls.
This is what i'm saying as well. I'm supposed to want you when you were a busted up homeless person? I was just supposed to take a chance? And HOPE that maybe 1 day you become.....what? I'm supposed to want you when you had no job? No prospects? No vehicle? But ohhh you made me laugh.....
So i should base the entirety of my decision making process on if you made me laugh? I smiled? You brought me a flower?
Sometimes i think people get so clouded in their romanticism and self esteem issues that they just throw realism out the window. Altogether.
NO NO and HELL NO.
When I was in Jr. High I was extra nerdy, a published writer at 14, book reading bun in my hair, honor student wearing baggy clothes. Needless to say I was the butt of hella jokes. The summer before high school my dad decides I need a makeover, straigtened my hair, new clothes, the works. How bout every cat who dissed me in jr. high was all about me in high school, I just kept it movin lol
I don't understand the concept of chasin after someone who don't want you really for you.
When I was in Jr. High I was extra nerdy, a published writer at 14, book reading bun in my hair, honor student wearing baggy clothes. Needless to say I was the butt of hella jokes. The summer before high school my dad decides I need a makeover, straigtened my hair, new clothes, the works. How bout every cat who dissed me in jr. high was all about me in high school, I just kept it movin lol
I don't understand the concept of chasin after someone who don't want you really for you.
A guy friend of my friend was telling her last month how she dissed him by not giving him any "play" when they were in high school. She fired back at him with "what about Montrise? You didn't give her any play?"
My friend was very pretty in high school. Her guyfriend was just well not attractive. Smart, but he wasn't what she wanted. Montrise was the female version of this guyfriend. So why didn't he get with Monstrise? That's my point. I remember High School and i remember how there were lots of ...i don't know what to call them so i'll just give the generic term, "nerds" Maybe they weren't nerds. But lets just say they weren't super popular, super attractive. All that sort of thing. But you never say those "nerds" getting with each other....? Why is that? Why didn't they get with each other? No, they were always pining away for...whoever else. "out of the their league". Not in their "Station".
That's just the reality of it. That's what i mean by the 3's wanting the 10's. Maybe they're not really 3's or 10's. Yes granted. BUT. I think everyone knows what i'm saying here.
I just find it strange that i see this question from males more often than females. Lots of black men lately as well. Saying that "when i was a zero you didn't want me." Of course i didn't want you. Why would i want you and you had nothing to give? Nothing to offer? And for christsakes i was 15 - 18, what do you want from me?
Some kind of deep psychological maturity spurt? You wanted me to see the "inner you"? When i was 17? Seriously? You're holding ME accountable for life decisions at 17?
Of course now my friends guyfriend blames her apparently for him only wanting to be with white girls.
ahem! *coughs*Hypocrite!*coughs*
First off let me say this. I wasn't speaking about ME. I went to 9th grade and dropped out. So no. Also for the record. I married a nerd. Comic Books, video games, Popular Science and Science digest magazines have plagued my dining room table and sitting rooms for 15 years. Stayed married to him had children with him till he left me. I've even dressed up as his sexy characters for his comic book conventions.
BUT i also stated in that other thread about 'children'. And being held accountable.
I ALSO stated this ....Some kind of deep psychological maturity spurt? You wanted me to see the "inner you"? When i was 17? Seriously? You're holding ME accountable for life decisions at 17? ....
My discussion discourse was about High School. As a grown woman, no. You shouldn't be looking for the same things you were looking for as a child. Thus the POINT of being a child and maturing.
So the hypocrite title is not worn by me sir. lol
Now address my question if you would. Why didn't the 'nerds' Male and female. Congregate with each other? Date each other? They were always alone and uncomfortable. I see it now in my oldest daughters school. Same thing. These kids pine for others that have never shown any interest whatsoever in them. Or their ilk. They have always been subject to ridicule by them even.
So why do it?
BUT i also stated in that other thread about 'children'. And being held accountable.
I ALSO stated this ....Some kind of deep psychological maturity spurt? You wanted me to see the "inner you"? When i was 17? Seriously? You're holding ME accountable for life decisions at 17? ....
My discussion discourse was about High School. As a grown woman, no. You shouldn't be looking for the same things you were looking for as a child. Thus the POINT of being a child and maturing.
So the hypocrite title is not worn by me sir. lol
Now address my question if you would. Why didn't the 'nerds' Male and female. Congregate with each other? Date each other? They were always alone and uncomfortable. I see it now in my oldest daughters school. Same thing. These kids pine for others that have never shown any interest whatsoever in them. Or their ilk. They have always been subject to ridicule by them even.
So why do it?
I don't know. I was alone as a youth because that was all that I knew. Even around family I was the odd one out. Until this day I don't mesh with them.
As far as nerds not liking nerds, I don't think that universally true. People like who they like. For whatever reasons.
A better question, I think, would be why do people go after who they go after?
Complacency? They are comfortable with what they know they can achieve, mediocrisy? Or the contrary, they want what they know they probably won't get?
As far as nerds not liking nerds, I don't think that universally true. People like who they like. For whatever reasons.
A better question, I think, would be why do people go after who they go after?
Complacency? They are comfortable with what they know they can achieve, mediocrisy? Or the contrary, they want what they know they probably won't get?
Maybe not universally true. But, more often than not. This is what you see. Eventually i do believe they smarten up and realize their situation hopefully 1 day.
The reasons people do what they do is so varied it boggles.
The reasons people do what they do is so varied it boggles.
Depends on how bad they treated me, really.
Gorgeous lips, baby!
Unless you was immobile or it was a health risk why would you want to loose weight as a man?
A man's weight can limit his options the same as a woman. Many women are as selective as men when it comes to sizes. Obesity matters to mostly everyone.
i did one better...some of the females that use to diss me when i was in school ended up with my dick on their tongue and me treating them like shit, thinking they were going to gain a buck...
LoneStar29
Banned
Well if he is not willing to build with me then he shouldnt expect to reap any of the rewards of what I have built up now
Men want a woman to ride with them but dont want to ride with their woman?? Makes no sense
But yeah one of them contacted me recently talkin bout he fucked up and shoulda stuck it out with me ... his new girl looked good on paper but didn't hold him down like I did so now he wants to get back with me ... I never laughed so hard in my life
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