Successful, black and lonely

[Rick Ronson]

their are exceptions to the rule, however beauty and brains don't go well together.

Can you tell me with a straight face that Beyonce would have a phd if she didn't have a singing career?

shit homie one of my exes is a BIG TIME lawyer now...like $400k year +

pretty ass green eyes big titties dime great pussy first anal exp

bitch broke my 17 year old heart


pretty women get it in but many are mislead into thinking pretty will get u the world and then some assume this by the many doors that appear to be open to an attractive woman..book smarts aint shit if you out here gaming.

 

[JD Walker]

Ok but what about attractive AND educated women of color who are in University trying to have a good career, cultured, worldly, not the Church type, work out at least 4 times a week, uninhibited in the bed, has intelligent conversation, likes to play video games, watch anime/cartoons, loves jazz music and indie movies, is slightly artsy without being hipster, aren't crazy or sick in the head, don't want children until marriage, etc, the list goes on.

You're talking about needles in a haystack. Those exceptions only prove the rule.

Focus on the haystack instead of a needle most of us won't find.

 

[Chitownheadbusa]

One of the reason why Sista's like that are single and lonely than a MoFo is because, subconsciously, theyre not willing to conform for the sake of the relationship or the Black family. They let the power THAT WAS GIVING TO THEM, NOT FULLY EARNED, take control of their way of thinking.

When it comes to being in a relationship with a Brotha, a lot, but not all of those type of Sista's arent willing to accept the role of the WOMEN. That, along with other emotional issues that they carry along with them play part in their everlasting loneliness.

Society & the messed up mental state of millions of successful & unsuccessful Brotha's also play part in the lack of healthy Black on Black relationships.

Its acutally sad.
But i honestly dont see the BS ending anytime soon.
Subconsciously, mediocre Non-Black or extremely Muttish Black Women are more envied by most successful Brotha's, for others superficial reason's besides the physical attraction, than Successful reg ol' Black Women. And a lot of Sista's, despite what they say, arent willing to change......so it is what it is. I do my part.

 

[Ill Paragraph]

I would have to see what you deem attractive just to even entertain what your saying.

Shit half these knuckle heads think Michelle Obama is attractive.

Peace,

Any college-educated cat on BGOL can attest to the fact that there were PLENTY of attractive chicks who graduated with, ahead and behind him - particularly if he attended a HBCU. But you can keep on believing whatever you want to believe. I know some cats on BGOL love to pigeonhole black women because it allows them to better deal with their own insecurities.

 

[Suavehova]

I'm just saying... I'm college educated... on my way to getting my JD... where is the line? The chicks are just blowing smoke...

 

[DAYNE]

shit homie one of my exes is a BIG TIME lawyer now...like $400k year +

pretty ass green eyes big titties dime great pussy first anal exp

bitch broke my 17 year old heart


pretty women get it in but many are mislead into thinking pretty will get u the world and then some assume this by the many doors that appear to be open to an attractive woman..book smarts aint shit if you out here gaming.

I hear you Rick, however exceptions to the rule don't prove the exceptions it proves the rule

 

[DAYNE]

Peace,

Any college-educated cat on BGOL can attest to the fact that there were PLENTY of attractive chicks who graduated with, ahead and behind him - particularly if he attended a HBCU. But you can keep on believing whatever you want to believe. I know some cats on BGOL love to pigeonhole black women because it allows them to better deal with their own insecurities.

dude nobody said that there weren't any exceptions out there

For every Beyonce with a PHD, JD, there are a 1000 star jones, condi lisa rices out there

 

[LordSinister]

Ok but what about attractive AND educated women of color who are in University trying to have a good career, cultured, worldly, not the Church type, work out at least 4 times a week, uninhibited in the bed, has intelligent conversation, likes to play video games, watch anime/cartoons, loves jazz music and indie movies, is slightly artsy without being hipster, aren't crazy or sick in the head, don't want children until marriage, etc, the list goes on. *coughMEcough*

Where were you when I was in my 20's?

 

[Suavehova]

I don't see none of these women... I'm supposed to be the male they are looking for... Should be easier... maybe cause they are too busy with their winter friend or whatever...

 

[mozartte]

I am not here to bash black women. I graduated from an HBCU and many of the females wanted to fuck the same dudes. Then, it seems they graduate, watch friends get married and walla, 7/8 years have gone by and they are in their 30's. Keep in mind I live in the south where old traditions are still kept. Many of the chicks start hearing their mothers and other female family members remind them how their clock is ticking. Then, the same females get their feelings hurt when they find out they arent as hot as they were. I see it happen too much. The same females get desperate and thats a complete turnoff to a guy.

 

[chitownsfinest]

Shit half these knuckle heads think Michelle Obama is attractive.

For a mid-40s woman, she is! You MUST be young. Stop getting your standard of beauty from music videos...which are usually produced by white men.

colin cowherd: "do you know why there are no pretty, female engineers? it's because pretty girls don't HAVE TO BE engineers!!!"

Again I call bullshit. One of the baddest women I ever dated was an engineer from an ivy league school. Bad body, tig bitties, and cool as shit. If I wasn't in player mode, she might be wifey now.

You're talking about needles in a haystack. Those exceptions only prove the rule.

Focus on the haystack instead of a needle most of us won't find.

dude nobody said that there weren't any exceptions out there

For every Beyonce with a PHD, JD, there are a 1000 star jones, condi lisa rices out there

Seriously, BGOL dudes are more bitter than the sisters out there!

I consider myself just an average-looking dude and I have no problem meeting FINE lawyers, doctors, accountants, teachers, etc. These sistas only respect brothas who have and achieved what they have. Just get your physical, life, and game together, and frequent places where quality sistas are (it AIN'T the niteclubs or stripclubs), and you won't need to go on BGOL for a nigga hen party.

-CTF

 

[water]

[flash]http://www.youtube.com/v/RIHm85PvVJ8&hl[/flash]


We (male/female relationships) need healing but if we don't know that we are sick then how can we begin to treat the symptoms?

 

[DAYNE]

For a mid-40s woman, she is! You MUST be young. Stop getting your standard of beauty from music videos...which are usually produced by white men.



Again I call bullshit. One of the baddest women I ever dated was an engineer from an ivy league school. Bad body, tig bitties, and cool as shit. If I wasn't in player mode, she might be wifey now.





Seriously, BGOL dudes are more bitter than the sisters out there!

I consider myself just an average-looking dude and I have no problem meeting FINE lawyers, doctors, accountants, teachers, etc. These sistas only respect brothas who have and achieved what they have. Just get your physical, life, and game together, and frequent places where quality sistas are (it AIN'T the niteclubs or stripclubs), and you won't need to go on BGOL for a nigga hen party.

-CTF

your a simp ass nigga fucking with boogga wolves

I don't get my standard of beauty from music videos, and by the way the chicks are picked out by the rappers and their entourage

 

[BCAA2009]

This bitch Andrews, along with the rest of the Black bitch populous are just too dumb to get it. NATURAL SELECTION is coming in to play, and these bitches weren't meant to be happy and procrete because of the choices they. So fuck'em, and focus on the women who DO GET IT, like Shanel...

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Women like her are becoming more and more scarce. When a man finds a woman like her, he holds on tight and thanks God for sending her to him. Unfortunately, many women listen to what she says, and sees what she does (the turkey sandwich vid) and label it as "oppression". A few women at my job even said that they would NEVER cook for a man, and that he can "make his own damn meals."

I shook my head. Now they are talking about how they are going to get together and get drunk on Christmas Eve since they have no man in their lives.

Then I realized that these were the same females that after coming in to work, logging into their computer, congregate at the snack machine at 7:16am talking about , "what we eatin for lunch today?"

I'm thinking to myself, "Bitch, you haven't even finished BREAKFAST yet!!"

 

[BCAA2009]

Shit half these knuckle heads think Michelle Obama is attractive.

A married, down to earth, NATURAL black woman, two kids, still is in great shape, supportive of her husband (even before he was POTUS), and is an excellent role model for young black women.


To me, she is 1000x more attractive than most of these photoshopped, weaved down wombturd factories most dudes are willing to cape up for on here.

 

[electrik_relaxation]

^^^^^^ 絶対本当！！聞いてください。

 

[Chiyo]

Ok but what about attractive AND educated women of color who are in University trying to have a good career, cultured, worldly, not the Church type, work out at least 4 times a week, uninhibited in the bed, has intelligent conversation, likes to play video games, watch anime/cartoons, loves jazz music and indie movies, is slightly artsy without being hipster, aren't crazy or sick in the head, don't want children until marriage, etc, the list goes on. *coughMEcough*

These women dont exist

 

[freshnclean]

bullshit, cute girls usually do academically well, they are the ones involved in sports and school activites getting all the scholarships

So thats what they do besides fucking their Prof. for those good grades

I can see right now, we are eventually going to go back to the Conan days where dudes just snatched hoes up. In reality what women want is a powerful man to control them and care for them. However, the feminist mindset tells them not to ever admit to this.

C/S...I always say the feminism movement is like a double-edged sword, because it gave them a voice, but at the same time revolved around an ideology that will break up relationships. Still in all, at the end of the day, no matter how much a woman follows a man's success model, she will never know what its like to be one...


I also find that many women(regardless of their color) are bitter because the man they wanted got away. Usually, when they get with that guy they will submit to him. Im living proof of that, because I've played "the guy that got away" on a few occasions

 

[BCAA2009]

Ok but what about attractive AND educated women of color who are in University trying to have a good career, cultured, worldly, not the Church type, work out at least 4 times a week, uninhibited in the bed, has intelligent conversation, likes to play video games, watch anime/cartoons, loves jazz music and indie movies, is slightly artsy without being hipster, aren't crazy or sick in the head, don't want children until marriage, etc, the list goes on. *coughMEcough*

They exist everywhere online.



Once you log off however, it's like trying to find a tootsie roll in a pile of shit.

 

[chitownsfinest]

your a simp ass nigga fucking with boogga wolves

Nephew if you only knew about the quality I fucks with

Again, pull your skirt down, get that bitch-assness out of your system, and maybe "you too can pull females like me!"

-CTF

 

[Strait_Laced]

looks at thread title

knows that could NEVER apply to a black man

steps

 

[Chiyo]

looks at thread title

knows that could NEVER apply to a black man

steps

 

[Disanddat]

Because "Education is for ugly people".

Pretty women will always have a simp to save them, while ugly women have to save themselves.

,some truth to that but not overwhelmingly though. You are right in the sense of hard advanced degrees where you have to really suffer, over have a sadistic love for the subject , hardly see any dimes doing that.

but MBA , Law degree, med degrees its not uncommon to see some beauties doing those.

 

[Rick Ronson]

if i were still out there i think i may fare pretty well

i know a lotta seemingly good catches but then thats from the outside looking in.

which is how it always ended up for me..they were beautiful outside

always tried to point out my faults and cover theirs

i stayed dumbed down on bitches cause you see more as they tend to open up

you get to see where her head and spirit are if you're observant of that type shit

same as in fighting...see what your opponent has by playing green slip counter...

roll out....sad but i wasnt about to be none of these bitches victim.

 

[freshnclean]

U niggas are pathetic, Why would a nigga like Dayne who is a burger flipper think a broad with a degree and career making good money want's him?

Bottome line niggas fill inefrior with their lack of education, no car, living at home with mom asses, but still wanna be the head of the household.

The sad thing is, If a man made 3 times her salary flipping burgers the women still wouldnt give him the time of day, because most people arent concerned with how much money you make, they are more concerned with the "perception" of how you make it.

 

[Mello Mello]

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It's her self-defense mechanism; she even admits so in the article:


Having gone through undergraduate and law school in Washington DC, I see these type of beautiful, successful yet lonely sistas everywhere. And just like any young brotha in the DMV, I have my share of experiences with these sistas.

A commonality that many of these sistas share is that they let their professional and academic achievements define them as individuals. Just because one graduates from a Top 10 University and a T100 law school does not mean that you are a good person, specifically a good black woman that a black man would want to marry. Being a "Bitch" is a cop out.

I saw that article and thought about posting it here too. Ole girl is delusional. This article would fit well into the steve harvey/rihanna post. These broads dont want boyfriends or husbands. They just like the idea so they can convince themselves there is nothing wrong with them, which in turn, allows for them to write books and make videos about said shit.

CO-SIGN!

I guess she is expecting someone to see through her bitch exterior and see her inner beauty just like in the movies.

I guess the logic is if he's willing to put up with the bitchiness then he must really want to get to know them.

 

[Louis Koo]

[/b]

It's her self-defense mechanism; she even admits so in the article:


Having gone through undergraduate and law school in Washington DC, I see these type of beautiful, successful yet lonely sistas everywhere. And just like any young brotha in the DMV, I have my share of experiences with these sistas.

A commonality that many of these sistas share is that they let their professional and academic achievements define them as individuals. Just because one graduates from a Top 10 University and a T100 law school does not mean that you are a good person, specifically a good black woman that a black man would want to marry. Being a "Bitch" is a cop out.

do u know how fucking dumb one has to be if they are outside top14 or tier 1 ????

 

[BCAA2009]

The sad thing is, If a man made 3 times her salary flipping burgers the women still wouldnt give him the time of day, because most people arent concerned with how much money you make, they are more concerned with the "perception" of how you make it.

Yeah, like how "executive assistant" really means secretary.

Or "custodial engineer" means janitor.

Hell, as long as it's legal and you earn an honest check, it shouldn't matter what a person does for a living. Unfortunately, we live in a society where it's completely ok for a woman to "aim high", and men are looked down upon for at least asking for an equal.

A woman could make subway sandwiches for a living, yet date a lawyer and no one would bat an eye.


Reverse that....let the man make meatball subs all day and the woman a lawyer, people would automatically assume he's mooching off of her.

 

[Louis Koo]

This bitch Andrews, along with the rest of the Black bitch populous are just too dumb to get it. NATURAL SELECTION is coming in to play, and these bitches weren't meant to be happy and procrete because of the choices they. So fuck'em, and focus on the women who DO GET IT, like Shanel...

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are u fucking serious?




the advice in this video is so dumb. how undisciplined do you have to be to not save $20 a week? how dumb is one to freeze a credit card?

only simps would listen to this garbage to "set themselves up financially"

 

[Chiyo]

are u fucking serious?




the advice in this video is so dumb. how undisciplined do you have to be to not save $20 a week? how dumb is one to freeze a credit card?

only simps would listen to this garbage to "set themselves up financially"

 

[Rick Ronson]

^ this stoooopid bitch is in a model home somewhere

prolly just got fucked by a real estate agent like my homie
that shows million dollar homes.

prolly the agreement..the money she fucked for is in that glass

 

[Louis Koo]

i'm shanel cooper. be extraordinary and i'll see you next time. [curtain closes]

 

[Naha-Nago]

The sad thing is, If a man made 3 times her salary flipping burgers the women still wouldnt give him the time of day, because most people arent concerned with how much money you make, they are more concerned with the "perception" of how you make it.

Tell me brotha... I work construction.

I triple what most of these glorified "secretaries with degrees" make.

Lotta money in the dirt... But bitches hate to be dirty...litterally anyways.

*two cents*

 

[Mr. Met]

Oprah has scammed these black women into thinking they don't need a man and now it's coming home to roost.

So when r they getting married again?

 

[freshnclean]

Unfortunately, we live in a society where it's completely ok for a woman to "aim high", and men are looked down upon for at least asking for an equal.

c/s..Whenever a man aims high and looks down on a woman, they run back to the whole "take me as I am" rhetoric...

Reverse that....let the man make meatball subs all day and the woman a lawyer, people would automatically assume he's mooching off of her.

Soon after, all of her friends and family will start to put the bug in her ear to get rid of him, because all he knows how to do is stuff a hoagie...I think alot of people date to get validation from others instead of pursuing true happiness.


This is from another thread, but it pertains

The whole black woman complaining about not being able to find a man is really old now. I'm a believer in "if you want something bad enough you will get it yourself". In other words, instead of trying to stand around looking cute waiting for the dude to approach her, she needs to swallow her pride and approach him. The difference between women that approach men and women that wait to be approached is, women that approach men usually get what they want, and women that wait for men to approach them usually settle for some shit they didnt want.