Sistas A brotha needs some input.

[Bigmario23]

whatever floats your boat. I've dated some very beautful women
and some of them lack substance,were self centered, think there looks
alone defines them. Catch 22 in some scenarios....

BUT DAMN... SHE SHOW LOOK GOOD ON MY ARM

This chick I dated back n college was average and had natural hair
a huge afro. My grandmother was upset with me "you can do better"
"what in the world was that" like all grannys she keeps it real.
it did not help that my grandmother was a beautician and use
to relaxing hair 1st I was like damn at my grandmother disapproval
but continued to date shorty cause we vibed and like the same things.

We men and it's hard but
Like SWV-Use your heart and not your eyes playa .........Chuurch!

[FLASH]http://www.youtube.com/v/IHRc6YCUQBE&rel=1[/FLASH]

 

[tripleds3]

I don't know why handsome black men always date not so cute women outside of their race...

REAL TALK... If I can't look at you or if I have doubts about I man to the point where I have to get others opinions, I can't fuck with it. He has to look good enough to know I will never consider cheating on him. Call me shallow if you want, but looks DO matter.

 

[UnoBetter2]

I met this woman.. Very nice, well educated, successful, owns a home, sex FREAK.

One problem...


She's well... um... how can I put this. kinda ugly.


Give it to me plain... thanks.

Ok, I know you wanted it from a womans point of view but, I just had to throw my two cents in.

Positives.................
She's Nice,
She's Smart and Intelligent,
She has a successfully career,
She's a home owner,
She's a freak in bed, hmmmmmmmm,
And I assume that she's not fat, right?

Negatives.................
Butt Ugly,
Not of African heritage,

The one thing I have learned is that over the years certain things are destine to happen.

1. She may still be a freak but less of that is destine to happen as time goes on. The sex may still be good but believe me after you get married there will be less of that. Not that I'm being negative but, after children arrive and the demands of life began to arise you will have less sex.

2. Shes a woman and eventually she will gain some weight. Maybe not allot but she will gain some weight. Now, not only is she ugly but, she's fuckin less, and fat!

3. You say she's nice but, to be honest once you say the "I do's" she definitely will voice her opinion more because now she has you and doesn't have to put on the happy face just to keep you around. Now, not only is she ugly but, she's fuckin less, and fat and occasionally has a bitchy attitude too!!

4. She will always be intelligent and actually with time will gain more wisdom along with power in her chosen field which translates to more money hopefully. Now, not only is she ugly but, she's fuckin less,fat, occasionally has a bitchy attitude but, bringin home the $$$$$!!

5. I told my sons not to bring home a ugly azz white women! Thats just a personal preference since most good looking white women wouldn't dare date a po azz black man then why should we take the ugly witches off the white boys hands. Let then cultivate their own ugly women. Get a pretty one and piss them off!! Sorry for the rant but I just had to say that. Anyway...........

After thinking about it, I'd keep her UGLY AZZ cause to be honest don't we all get ugly the older we get. She just has a jump start on everybody else. Plus once she starts getting older she might not be too ugly cause she been ugly all along!! Fuck it spend the money have some ugly azz kids, live, and be happy!!!!!

P.S. TELL YO UGLY AZZ KIDS TO STAY AWAY FROM PEOPLE HIT WITH THIS...................

ONE GENERATION OF UGLY CAN BE CORRECTED BUT TWO GENERATIONS OF UGLY MEANS UGLY FOR ETERNITY!!

 

[bajanpimp]

post a pic and i'll give u some input (no porn necessary, fully clothed)

 

[DaleMabry]

I don't know why handsome black men always date not so cute women outside of their race...

REAL TALK... If I can't look at you or if I have doubts about I man to the point where I have to get others opinions, I can't fuck with it. He has to look good enough to know I will never consider cheating on him. Call me shallow if you want, but looks DO matter.

Because the way to seduce a man is through his ego. And a lot of those not-so-cute women are the first ones to do so, while the hot ones of whatever race are still putting his ego through the paces.

Thus the conflict the brother finds himself in: she treats me right, should I just stick with it or reject the bird in hand for the dime in the bush?

 

[Izayoi]

Because the way to seduce a man is through his ego. And a lot of those not-so-cute women are the first ones to do so, while the hot ones of whatever race are still putting his ego through the paces.

Thus the conflict the brother finds himself in: she treats me right, should I just stick with it or reject the bird in hand for the dime in the bush?

Very true. I think people underestimate the impact of making or a man (or a woman) feel good and important. Its like Onxyfemme was talking about in another thread, don't knock a hoodrats hustle Plus at a certain age I think people in general get tired of having to jump through hoops like some dick or pussy is a prize. It's really not, but someone that makes you feel valued and special certainly is much rarer. Nobody ever gets tired of feeling special.

 

[DaleMabry]

You make me feel special Izzy...

 

[BrownTurd]

You just have the curse of the white woman/pale skin. I mean it is the black man's kryptonite.

You may never ever rebound from that.

Good luck.

Brazilian are sistas so he should not feel bad about that.

 

[infamous-online]

I met this woman.. Very nice, well educated, successful, owns a home, sex FREAK.

One problem...


She's well... um... how can I put this. kinda ugly.

We first met in a dark place.. convo was nice... I was a little tipsy.. whe talked on the phone for a while.. went out to small group functions..

To add some color for the fellas to really understand.

THink Blanka from street fighter... I'm not trying to be funny.. but thats what she kinda reminds me of.

Her eyess.. think of the father in the latest adams family movie.. big eyes.. not exactly in a good way.. but.. perhaps in a creepy way.

She may scare young children.. I feel bad even writing this..

I don't want to be shallow & I must admit, I feel slightly embarrased when we are in public.. She's not black.. so I get the HARD looks from the sistas.. 1 she's not black. 2, she may be considered not attractive.

As a GROWN ass man, I know in my head I need to get over this trivial shit. I should not care what people think.. I am considered quite handsome, I'm 6'3" and I work on Wall Street

I am writing this to women because I more often see pretty women with ugly dudes more than I see the other way around.

Give it to me plain... thanks.

First off stop lying, secondly, you're a fucking simp. third you don't work no where near wall street or else you could basically pick and choose your women, so again shut the fuck up with your lying ass, fucking simp!

Fourth, you're not a man, cause men don't settle we get chosen as bun-b would say and lastly, if she's so nice and everything but she's not attractive then why in the fuck you get with her in the first got damn place? fuck the liquor man, just admit it your pulling range ain't too good and that's probably the best you could get.

so grow a set of nuts and be a man, that is if you know how to do so. it's a shame that i'm probably younger than you, having to teach an old dog new tricks.

fucking shame

then niggas be wondering why black women always be saying you need to be a man and leave you softies for the thugs

 

[BrownTurd]

I don't know why handsome black men always date not so cute women outside of their race...

REAL TALK... If I can't look at you or if I have doubts about I man to the point where I have to get others opinions, I can't fuck with it. He has to look good enough to know I will never consider cheating on him. Call me shallow if you want, but looks DO matter.

Most women are selfish. This is why alot of Black women are left single. Black woman don't understand the hoops they make brothas jump through. The major thing with black woman is there selfishnesses. Some are so selfish until they refuse to educate themselves on how to look at the world through a mans eyes. Ladies it is easy to get married and swept off your feet. This is all you have to do.


Be Quiet--Don't nag us about our my problems. If we felt they were a problem we will come to you. Allow us to work our problems out ourselves quietly. We are men so when you communicate you have to be DIRECT & TO THE POINT. Stop talking in puzzles we tune you out in about 5 minutes. Let us watch our sports in piece. Unless you are dying there is nothing to talk about during this time. Ladies it is ONLY FOR TWO HOURS.

You are not the only one who hates their job---When we step in the door or when you call us...We don't want to her you vent for hours about how you don't like so & so at your job or how you don't like your job.... Holding our ear hostage for hours.

Take Turn Paying on Dates---You women fought for equal rights.You make just as much as we do. Why do we have to spend it all on you. Woman you just don't know how much a brotha respects a woman for offering to pay.Most brothas will take care of it anyway but it is the though that counts. YOU WILL WIN MAJOR POINTS.

Ego stroking---Men like to be told nice things also. It will take you along way just by acknowledging the things he does well even if it is a lie...Men stroke yours all the time.

Sex---make sure you are a freak in the bed.

See white women got it down to a science. Why you are saying "Fuck that nigga he needs to do for me" She is saying "Hey baby I got you a warm plate and Madden 08. You work so hard I just want you to relax."

 

[Izayoi]

You make me feel special Izzy...

Your wisdom, your joi de vive, the sexy goatee = very special

 

[DaleMabry]

Brazilian are sistas so he should not feel bad about that.

Some are (if you mean of African ancestry) and some aren't.

I generally feel that Brazil is so mixed up, it's a moot point but there are more Portugese Brazilians and more African ones, for the record.

Your wisdom, your joi de vive, the sexy goatee = very special

 

[BEAR167]

you fucked the wookie??????? the white wookie?????????????

 

[OnSlaught]

Good words above. The bottomline, when you are really feeling someone they are beautiful to you without qualification (she's sweet BUT she looks like uncle fester a little )

Don't miss out on a good woman BUT if its really bothering you then you are not in a place yet where looks don't matter and that's ok. Doesn't make you a bad person. Stringing this lady along however will make you a complete jackass, because there is someone out there that will think she's beautiful inside and out. Please if you care for her do not stand in the way of letting her find that person. It sounds like she deserves it.

...and fuck people hating on her because she's Portuguese. Ninjas need to get a life and stop worrying about who somebody else is falling in love with.

I agree wholeheartedly, but if you're that concerned and self-conscious with the way she looks, sign her up for Extreme Makeover! Just a thought...

 

[DarkCity]

If she wasn't ugly enough to deter you from getting to know her then she can't be too bad for you to stick with her given her positive aspects. You are a shallow ass muthafucka. You are the lucky one in this, remember that.

 

[followup]

If she's that unattractive to a man, do yourself a favor and end it before she gets too attached. Same for women

 

[DeSiRe]

lol@scare small childern

i think u need to slow down cause the worst thing to do is lead her on

personally i dont think its shallow to seek people you are attracted to

im not saying u cant be friends with her....or even have her as a fuck buddy

but as far a relationship...seek what makes u happy

i was with a guy i wasnt very attracted to..he was such a sweetheart...but the flame never sparked

sometimes the flamee does spark in situations like that...but lets be honest it doesnt always happen

like people said...just take it slow

maybe take her to the MAC counter and get a makeover in the meantime

 

[jucurious]

so ummm this thread is old...what's the update?


did you get over yourself? are you feeling her for HER now?

are you still shallow and lustful?

did you the right thing and let her know you weren't feeling her?

 

[Mrfreddygoodbud]

dude is the puddy good, do you feel good inside when you are with her...

then fuck the rest of the shyt..

if you that worried about with people think, then why are you even wasting your time..

If the looks are too much for you to get by, then you better stop the shyt before it gets tooo serious...

and if she fall in love she going to go home whip up some goober dust.. fat and ugly bitchs live by them love potions...

lol

 

[MTL]

Get over yourself.

I was thinking it but you said it....Thanks.