I had to leave the house for a few this morning because I didn't want to argue with her. I have a sunroom that I said she can grow plants in, and I told her just to maintain the room so it's not a mess. I go in there today, and there is trash everywhere, makeup shit laying all over the place, and dirt from the plants spilled on the floor. This is the 5th time I've asked her to keep the room somewhat tidy, and every single time she has an excuse about why it looks the way it does. Today I went in there and took everything on the floor and put it in a giant trashbag because I'm done asking.
How do you talk to your ladies when you've asked them multiple times to do something, and it seems they just don't give a fuck? I want to address this now, and not let it fester and I bring it up a year down the road.
The issue started day one when the decision was made for both of you to live under the same roof.
As a Man, you should have laid down the Law prior to moving in. If she made it clear she ain’t gonna follow your rules, you ain’t living the together.
The same goes before signing your name on the marriage certificate.
You, the Man sets the rules of the relationship and how things are gonna proceed in the marriage.
You, the Man dictates how things are gonna play out in the home.
You, the Man can accept whatever ideas, comments and suggestions the Wife will bring into the relationship. Nothing wrong with you accepting her advice and suggestions.
But, You, the Man makes the final decision on what happens in the end.
The Man is the King of his Castle.
The Man is the Boss in the Home.
What the Man says is Law.
It’s all stated for reference in the Old Testament (Christianity), The Torah (Judaism), the Quran (Islam), the Veda (Hindu) and the Pali Canon (Buddhism) if she has any questions.
