Male vs Female reality

[ANGRY MAN]

Ha. I felt that way too. I just don’t wanna think she’s coming straight at me with him sitting there. And she’s my exes close friend.

Man hold up I just realize who I quoted.. Man you got the C7 Z06... Come on champ you know how that car pull women! The choice if you want to smash her is all on you. I’m at a bar as I type, chick say is that your car? Mines look exactly like this but it’s a Z51

 

[bgbtylvr]

Man hold up I just realize who I quoted.. Man you got the C7 Z06... Come on champ you know how that car pull women! The choice if you want to smash her is all on you. I’m at a bar as I type, chick say is that your car? Mines look exactly like this but it’s a Z51

Correct. And it does pull women but not my exes friend. Lmao. I wanna crack her spine but I fucking know the shit storm to come after. Plus her dude seems cool. I just blew that shit off but she’s asked several times in a row. My homegirl/wingman was like “That pussy is yours!” but I kept thinking it was a setup or the booze and trying not to be too cocky about the shit.

 

[ANGRY MAN]

Correct. And it does pull women but not my exes friend. Lmao. I wanna crack her spine but I fucking know the shit storm to come after. Plus her dude seems cool. I just blew that shit off but she’s asked several times in a row. My homegirl/wingman was like “That pussy is yours!” but I kept thinking it was a setup or the booze and trying not to be too cocky about the shit.

Lmao *Fixed yes it pulls your exes friends as well.. Sound like she been keeping a eye on you while you was dating your ex. Test the water the next time she ask to drive your car. Say I’ll take you on a test drive. Man I done crack my co-workers girlfriend and recorded her on the PDR. Just Incase shit goes sideways.

 

[bgbtylvr]

Lmao *Fixed yes it pulls your exes friends as well.. Sound like she been keeping a eye on you while you was dating your ex. Test the water the next time she ask to drive your car. Say I’ll take you on a test drive. Man I done crack my co-workers girlfriend and recorded her on the PDR. Just Incase shit goes sideways.

Lmao!!!!! Playing with fire. This relates to why I dropped my chick and it was because she was too friendly and would often step out of pocket, and this chick knows that’s why I put my girl down-this same shit. I gotta chalk this one up to the game but it’s extremely tempting. Ex prolly snap and kill all of us.

These hoes ain’t loyal.

 

[dugington]

Bait and switch

I’m at a social event, a chick close to my ex is there. She sees me and comes over to sit and talk. We vibe, laugh and whatnot. She tells me she always viewed her with a side eye. Now I got side eye for her because me and her was never really cool. I lightweight didn’t like her. Some time later her man shows up, I dap him up and chat. A female friend in the room sends me a text from across the room saying ol girl was feeling me. (She doesn’t know the situation so it purely random wing man shit) I text back explained she was wrong and old girl was my ex close friend but she insisted the body language was saying hit this ass. I ignore.

Open bar so we doing it. My friend sends another text “She’s not even talking to her man. Look how she’s facing you!” I peep but figure it’s nothing and just talk shit. I move away for a bit then come back. The chick then goes “He has a really nice car. You should see it. When you gon let me drive that car?” I laugh and chat with her dude. She asks to drive it again. Dude then asks about the car, I tell him, and he goes “Damn! Is it outside?”

Fast forward to next day, I get a text from ol’ girl about last night. Fun, blah blah blah. Sorry about y’all breakup, etc. Tells me her dude wanted to invite me to a black male networking event. I tell her to give him my number. (This is the chick thats friends with my ex, plus dude knows my ex a little.) Dude comes over my crib before the event, has a cigar so we move outside so he can smoke it. He exhales “Bitch kept asking to drive your shit!” Yeah, man. I know. I wasn’t gon let her drive it. She was disrespectful to even ask with you there plus she’s cool with my ex. We discuss her and my ex. Dude tells me she do offbrand shit like that and he ready to cut her off. I don’t say anything direct but I would have dumped her fine ass that night.

Now, next day she texts and asks how the event with dude went. I explain. Now, for me, why are you texting me? I feel like every move she made was foul. On the humble, I would smash hard. And I think my homegirl may be right about her feeling me but I also think (though I don’t care) that she either working for my ex or wants to give me the ass for real. Could be my ego, too.

Bottom line: dudes behavior confirmed he’s tired of her shit, her behavior proved she don’t respect him, and I am grimey for wanting to fuck the shit out of her. Does BGOL think she really wants to drive the car or give me the ass or am I reading too much into it? Too many hoes to go after this one, but she’s texting often when I never spoke to her before.

I believe you, but gotdamn if that shit don't read like some kind of hood novel.

 

[bgbtylvr]

I believe you, but gotdamn if that shit don't read like some kind of hood novel.

That’s what’s fucking me up. Two people close to me said she’s trying to fuck. I didn’t wanna think I was all that but the shit spooked me. Me and her didn’t even really get along or speak. We kinda dealt with each other when present. Out of nowhere she’s just bold with the request. These broads today have no boundaries or respect for their men. I was uncomfortable as fuck. I wondering if she doing it to spite her friend or if she asking the drive the whip because she don’t know another way of throwing the pussy at me. Again, fuck my ex, it’s the potential beef between me and her dude or all of us if that shit were to pop off. Proof females run with chicks who think and act like them. My broad better not ask to drive some dudes whip; especially with me sitting there. She has one of them ugly ass Porsche Boxsters so she actually likes sports cars, so shrugged that shit off as coincidence or me just feeling myself too much that night. Either way, this is how heads get killed over a bitch. Just wanted a BGOL opinion, I ain’t gonna smash.



But I want to.

 

[ANGRY MAN]

Lmao!!!!! Playing with fire. This relates to why I dropped my chick and it was because she was too friendly and would often step out of pocket, and this chick knows that’s why I put my girl down-this same shit. I gotta chalk this one up to the game but it’s extremely tempting. Ex prolly snap and kill all of us.

These hoes ain’t loyal.

Her girlfriend knows all secrets of your ex and probably assuming your ex didn’t deserve a guy like you. That’s why she has no respect for her girlfriend/Or your ex.

 

[dugington]

These broads today have no boundaries or respect for their men.

Nah. You and I both know what's wrong with that situation. It's not a today or yesterday thing. It's just more simple than that....
Women that are with men who they know they can explore the limits of their boundaries... will.
Then, there is the other side.
Men who don't command submission, but DO command the UNDERSTANDING that MY respect is not 2nd to good looks or pussy.
Women know what time it is.

 

[bgbtylvr]

Nah. You and I both know what's wrong with that situation. It's not a today or yesterday thing. It's just more simple than that....
Women that are with men who they know they can explore the limits of their boundaries... will.
Then, there is the other side.
Men who don't command submission, but DO command the UNDERSTANDING that MY respect is not 2nd to good looks or pussy.
Women know what time it is.

Word. She basically pulled his hoe card right in front of me. He allowed that shit to happen. Women will do whatever you allow to get away with, after that, they no longer respect you. She basically tested him or called his bluff that night.

 

[dugington]

Word. She basically pulled his hoe card right in front of me. He allowed that shit to happen. Women will do whatever you allow to get away with, after that, they no longer respect you. She basically tested him or called his bluff that night.

Facts

 

[bgbtylvr]

A coworker’s bitch

We’re on the west coast and, as usual, we attack our meal per diems hard! Someone that lives here suggests a wing spot, which ended up being good ass wangs. We switch to cash and the booze is flowing. We’re at the bar top sitting 4-wide. The chick is dating a coworker but talking a little too much and lightweight salty. Why these dudes bring their women along astounds me. She’s wanting validation and he’s not giving it. Soon she is talking to me a little too much. They’re both white so I can see she likes nonwhite men. She’s telling stories about their travels and launches into how they took naked pictures of her on a beach. I got this bitch showing me the naked pics with him sitting there. She opens her phone and hands it to me and tells me to scroll. Pussy, ass, titties, all of it. I’m waiting for dude to shut it down but he just sits there red as her vodka/cranberry drink. She’s all hands. With each sentence she touched my wrist, elbow, shoulder, and even leans on me when she laughs, “You’re a freaking riot!” I can fuck this bitch before we all fly out Monday. My first thought was cuck shit. Maybe they are into threesomes or are swingers but the way he looked butt hurt, I don’t think so tonight. She didn’t show the bar her pussy she only showed me. And a few lingerie shots to boot. Her back is to him at this point and he’s looking over her shoulder as she shows me naked pics. He goes “Lisa’s crazy like that.” but I could see he was hurt. That bitch don’t respect him and wants to be free. She basically pulled a “Are you going to breakup with me now?”

You men gotta realize that a bitch willing to show pics of herself is a slut. If she’s willing to do anything sexual in public she’s a slut, especially in front of people you or she knows. You don’t bring a bitch with these tendencies on business trip let alone do you even date her. Had he gon to the bathroom or something I could have got her to text me those pics. Hoes mane.

 

[bgbtylvr]

A coworker’s bitch

We’re on the west coast and, as usual, we attack our meal per diems hard! Someone that lives here suggests a wing spot, which ended up being good ass wangs. We switch to cash and the booze is flowing. We’re at the bar top sitting 4-wide. The chick is dating a coworker but talking a little too much and lightweight salty. Why these dudes bring their women along astounds me. She’s wanting validation and he’s not giving it. Soon she is talking to me a little too much. They’re both white so I can see she likes nonwhite men. She’s telling stories about their travels and launches into how they took naked pictures of her on a beach. I got this bitch showing me the naked pics with him sitting there. She opens her phone and hands it to me and tells me to scroll. Pussy, ass, titties, all of it. I’m waiting for dude to shut it down but he just sits there red as her vodka/cranberry drink. She’s all hands. With each sentence she touched my wrist, elbow, shoulder, and even leans on me when she laughs, “You’re a freaking riot!” I can fuck this bitch before we all fly out Monday. My first thought was cuck shit. Maybe they are into threesomes or are swingers but the way he looked butt hurt, I don’t think so tonight. She didn’t show the bar her pussy she only showed me. And a few lingerie shots to boot. Her back is to him at this point and he’s looking over her shoulder as she shows me naked pics. He goes “Lisa’s crazy like that.” but I could see he was hurt. That bitch don’t respect him and wants to be free. She basically pulled a “Are you going to breakup with me now?”

You men gotta realize that a bitch willing to show pics of herself is a slut. If she’s willing to do anything sexual in public she’s a slut, especially in front of people you or she knows. You don’t bring a bitch with these tendencies on business trip let alone do you even date her. Had he gon to the bathroom or something I could have got her to text me those pics. Hoes mane.

This bitch just texted me a thank you message. Got my number from the dude just to
Say thank you? Could have simply to him to tell me. Text came in 1:56am. Why give your bitch my number??? You gotta know to leave some shit alone. Let it hit the floor like a leaf or feather. I don’t know if they are a cuck team or he’s just that dumb. Everyday I get confirmation these hoes ain’t shit.

 

[bgbtylvr]

I just landed at home. Red eye, slept the whole way, which is rare for me. I was with a few coworkers that were left. Many left the day before or tomorrow. As we sat in the platinum lounge I brought up the flight attendants being whores thread idea to the group. Every-single-woman said if they were flight attendants they would have dick all over the world. All of them. Even the prissy mixed girl who is a policeman’s daughter. (She dates white men). She literally says “isn’t that the point?” No woman disagreed with her. Men need to recognize how much that is being exposed. Not changed, exposed. Women have ALWAYS been sluts like this. It will never change. Stop believing that college are the main years they are hoes and that after this right of passage they straighten up. They fight it for year or even a few decades but that itch is always there like sobriety for an addict. The fact that the chick I thought hated me (story on this page) while dating my ex is now talking to me more an more about random shit proves that the bitches you’d never think were sluts or hoes or would never fuck YOU haven’t fucked you yet, and mainly because you haven’t asked her to.

 

[bgbtylvr]

The main reason many women complain of being single is they are completely oblivious to everything around them that doesn’t validate them. Many women are inches or even feet away from love but are so into themselves that they will never notice him—even when he makes it obvious. Women today don’t live in the moment. They’d rather sit and wait for their LIKES to go up than to engage those around them.

 

[BlackGoku]

Reading all this...still goes back to what 50 said on "Ryder Music"

"You hustling backwards if you chasin a bitch, stupid, chase the paper, they come with the shit..."

 

[bgbtylvr]

There comes a point when attention and validation will never be enough. You seek out better or riskier methods of getting your fix. In the process, you lose who you are while confirming to others what you never were or will be. If you can only appreciate how others view you, you’ll know when others value you.

 

[bgbtylvr]

Cute girl. But when you can’t see your own beauty; you need others to confirm it for you. You can’t pass up a chance to be told you look good. She’s probably on a date with a guy who likes her, but needs others in social media to like her more. I work on my nieces and goddaughters religiously. The reality is she either pissed or dropped a deuce, and then realized a photo shoot was in order. I can’t possibly like or love as much as you need to be—not men’s fault.

“Perfect, I can pose right in front the toilets and hand dryers.”

 

[Soul On Ice]

Ha. I felt that way too. I just don’t wanna think she’s coming straight at me with him sitting there. And she’s my exes close friend.

Snoop told us in '93 that Bitches ain't shit brah

 

[bgbtylvr]

Snoop told us in '93 that Bitches ain't shit brah

He also said he was innoncent.....innocent.
Trust, I would fold her cute ass up if I didn’t like her man. Dude was mad cool. Introduced me to some cool people. He’s connected. Not worth it but homey gotta fade ol girl or least make her the side chick and upgrade.

 

[bgbtylvr]

People say when you marry the sex drops off. I’ve never been married nor have I dated a woman who froze me out in the bed. I only know of one man who dealt with it and he got caught cheating so there’s that. Every chick I know gave head faithfully and without issue. So is there really this many women cutting off the sex to men who do right?

 

[yasky777]

Heat in this joint!

 

[bgbtylvr]

You really think she wanted to drive your car huh lmao! She basically ask you out!

So over the weekend she texts me about an event we would both attend. I told her I was planning to go. I keep my texts short because I don’t know who she’s showing them to. Her dude is cool with me so I’m trying not to fuck with her. My ex texts me randomly the same day. I decide I should skip the event because that shit would be a setup.

THEN the chick calls and says she nearby and wants to stop by. I say fuck it, come over. She does, but she had gone home showered and changed into casual clothes. She looked GOOD! My boy was in town at a hotel sleeping off the night before. We got lit! I meet her in the parking garage to escort her up. We walk past my car and she says “I really wanna drive that!” I had the key on me. “Let’s go!” Oh, oh, not now, I mean.... I need to hit a liquor so we get in, drive off, I offer again, and she refuses. Now I’m like, fuck her and get it over with. But the other half was like tell o boy his bitch came over. Conflicted. My boy texts and says he on the way and gets the building before she and I get back. She comes up with me and my boy. She stays til 1am drinking with us. Because her dude is connected in atlanta, I decided not to smash. But she ain’t shit either way.

 

[mailboxpimp]

My chick and i were discussing the rules of what has to change when you get into a serious relationship. Her thing was she has guy friends that, even if we take this further, she wants to still hang out with. I told her it depends on what, where and why. She said a male coworker invited her to an NBA game because he had an extra ticket. She doesn't think there is anything wrong with his invite. I feel that dude knows she has man, and he should have asked a dude or any other single female to go to that game with him, not a female he knows has a dude. She thinks i am overreacting, i told her dude has zero respect for her relationship and he is testing the waters to see what little shit you might do now so he can push the boundaries later on. Once you commit or get married, serious guy friends need to fall back.

She then asks me if her female friend was wrong for inviting a married dude out for a platonic situation. All 3 know each other. The wife wasn't cool with it, but dude went anyway. I feel that is my girls friend really valued their marriage, once she saw the wife didnt want to go and wasn't cool with her man going out with her, she should have taken the invite off the table. I think she said Fuck Yo Couch to their marriage by going with the married dude anywhere after that.

Thoughts?

you sound like an insecure bitch ass niggaah whose never had a platonic relationship with an attractive woman.

Goofy ass b8ggaahz like you always expect a chick to cut all her male friends off just because you are dating her.

I know how this goes because Im the dude who invites ya bitch out to shit because I can & they always wanna go.

insecurity, low self esteem, low self worth, & attempts to control her social circle & friends or friendships.

 

[BrownTurd]

To keep it 100, it really does not matter if your girl has guy friends. If she is going to cheat she will.

Red Flags
Women tend to keep men friends around for validation. It can mean your girl is very insecure and needs validation from other men for her self worth

Having conversation is cool but typically when going out it should be with all parties. Now I am not talking about if you at work and y’all went and got some wing stop. But a planned outting should be with all parties

 

[mailboxpimp]

So over the weekend she texts me about an event we would both attend. I told her I was planning to go. I keep my texts short because I don’t know who she’s showing them to. Her dude is cool with me so I’m trying not to fuck with her. My ex texts me randomly the same day. I decide I should skip the event because that shit would be a setup.

THEN the chick calls and says she nearby and wants to stop by. I say fuck it, come over. She does, but she had gone home showered and changed into casual clothes. She looked GOOD! My boy was in town at a hotel sleeping off the night before. We got lit! I meet her in the parking garage to escort her up. We walk past my car and she says “I really wanna drive that!” I had the key on me. “Let’s go!” Oh, oh, not now, I mean.... I need to hit a liquor so we get in, drive off, I offer again, and she refuses. Now I’m like, fuck her and get it over with. But the other half was like tell o boy his bitch came over. Conflicted. My boy texts and says he on the way and gets the building before she and I get back. She comes up with me and my boy. She stays til 1am drinking with us. Because her dude is connected in atlanta, I decided not to smash. But she ain’t shit either way.

which is why she was with you..... you aint shit..... & she aint shit. 2 aint shit niggaahz trying to be together.

clearly you dnt know how to be ya boys FRIEND.

 

[mailboxpimp]

Never trust a woman with a lot of male friends especially a woman that pretends that those male friends are not lying in wait to fuck. That woman may never cheat physically but she will emotionally and in a women's world that type of cheating is worse.

sounds like insecurity

 

[mailboxpimp]

imma add on to this insight..................

he is right you dont own her. the only person you can control in a relationship is you. HOWEVER, females are competitive by nature and one thing i have learned over the years is to use their hypergamous nature against them. If they have male friends, then you should have females friends. if they can go out with members of the opposite sex on some ol we cool ish, then so should you. Im not saying take advantage of the situation to fuck outside the relationship. im saying that if you know you are a good man and handling business, then no need to worry about the competition. good men are hard to come by these days for women.....if you good to her and she is good with you, then dont worry about the scenario, its on her to make sure she doesnt fuck up a good thing. bc just having female friends around you lets her know that she aint the only one hawking you. females cant go out on a friendly meet and NOT be thinking about what her man is doing right now unless she already has design on other things. if you got females friends, then she knows other women will want what she has and she wont eff it up.

if you ever seen that movie "rising sun" with sean connery and wesly snipes. seans character dropped pimp game in that movie. He was always talking about how he kept the little birds in the cages with the door open. He said always leave the door open for them to leave. they will always come back bc they know that they are free to leave any time. its that reverse psychology that fucks them up. no female is giving up that kind of freedom by fucking it up. plus it frees you of all the stress and worry and lets you get on with whatever you want to do.....care free and stress free.

yup
but you are dealing with a super insecure niggaah with control issues

 

[bgbtylvr]

which is why she was with you..... you aint shit..... & she aint shit. 2 aint shit niggaahz trying to be together.

clearly you dnt know how to be ya boys FRIEND.

Facts. I ain’t shit. And she knows it. I don’t mind grimey shit with strangers. If I just met you and don’t know you man, I’ll shift her damn spleen with pleasure. However, knowing I already went past where I should, the dude was mad cool. I know I fucked up letting this bitch in my place.

 

[mailboxpimp]

Facts. I ain’t shit. And she knows it. I don’t mind grimey shit with strangers. If I just met you and don’t know you man, I’ll shift her damn spleen with pleasure. However, knowing I already went past where I should, the dude was mad cool. I know I fucked up letting this bitch in my place.

well when you know better you do better. ya karma hit different when you know you know better. the universe strikes back when you least expect it too.

 

[mailboxpimp]

sometimes in life you really end up playing ya self cause what you do, how you do it, & why you do it to someone's daughter will be done to your.

 

[Quek9]

sounds like insecurity

your faggoty ass don't know anything about relationships with women. I am the king of my domain.

 

[bgbtylvr]

The game is forever changed. Attention over character. Bitches can’t take the gym or themselves seriously. That’s how fucked up they are. They go to the gym to play. To shoot videos. The one place they need to be serious and remove their hoe masks; they now view that as a playground. I just told my raw vegan, natural herb, herbal tea drinking friend she is single because she’s fat. Because she’s phony and focusing on the wrong shit. 200 lbs but giving me shit for eating meat. Black women will always have the highest ratio of obesity because they can’t take fitness seriously. Hair, makeup, clothes, fad diets and waist trainers when all they gotta do is take going to the gym seriously. Just go. Don’t be on your phone, stop taking pics, do the work. Women of all races are getting fatter while more entitled at the same time. And the worst part is men entertain these knob heads.

Women have completely reshaped what they think is attractive to us when we don’t like half the shit they are doing. Just stop being flabby and fat. That’s the first and most important. Do they? Never.

 

[bgbtylvr]

Stop celebrating the ditzy women. There are spaces men and women don’t belong. Stop placing women in a space not built for them. Not everyone is built for social or economic settings, so why introduce them to it? You can’t take your bitch everywhere you go to social or make moves. I tried to tell females this and they refuse (they get it) to accept it. Men must understand that you are the company you keep and you are settling if you have to keep educating a female on her behavior. I was at a dinner recently where the wife asked my I came alone. She openly asked this. But what heads didn’t peep is she was saying I don’t keep a woman for too long before I move on and I don’t have the patience to build. What she didn’t see what I wasn’t there for her, her husband is my dude. Fuck her. I never step through that door for her. And I smashed a bitch she really likes and can’t see the flaws in the bitch I fucked. She went on to say my standards are too high; which basically meant few women will work to be a good woman so men need to come down to their level. My dude just let me ether her and the other broads at the dinner. My dude hates that she got fat and has addressed it, but he knows the divorce will break him. She’s comfortable and will never work at it until she get a new nigga to live in the crib she would take from him if they divorce. She kept saying elitist shit when it ain’t her money or credit score that got them that penthouse view. He hates that she acts all sophisticated. He’s old school from Louisiana and worked his ass off to get what he got. Humble dude, but his accomplishments feed HER arrogance. I wanted to tell her she’s adjacent to success, not an example of it.

 

[bgbtylvr]

Sexless marriages.

First, I don’t know of any currently. I know of some in the past but I also knew why. Now, is it a male or female issue? Both. It’s both.

Women control sex. Single or married, they run it like a cartel. If a woman is married and not getting enough sex, the kind of sex she wants, when she wants it, you have consider the source. Are men whack in bed? Yes. Many are. Now I know women in this situation who say nothing. I also know women who are up 50 to 70 lbs. who happy about that? I’ve met women with poor hygiene. I know women who won’t tell their men they have poor hygiene or whack skills. Women complain more than they speak on it.

Men need to step their sex game up too. Learn to wash your balls and learn to read her body language. And if your girls isn’t open to talking about it and you aren’t oPen to it either. People don’t communicate their thoughts. They talk around the real issue. We both do it.

Sex is a connection. And two people who fight over money, got too many kids, somebody stay out too late, or is messy; that’s a recipe for disaster. Sex is mental, first. There are a millIon things that go into dislike people or annoyance with a person that directly affects sex, so it’s both. Some need need to help out more around the house, some need to remember birthdays, others need to produce those orgasms if they’re expecting all this sex. Now, eating her pussy doesn’t count. If you can make her cum just from the D, step your shit up. Any dude can do that.

Most women can get on top and cum without you moving a muscle. Aside from that, most can’t do shit else but bend over or lay there hope he figures it out. That’s on her. Can’t expect what you can’t produce.

 

[bgbtylvr]

Women lack the courage they demand from men.

Thanksgiving get together. My second stop, 3 plate. I know 2 people out of 20 or so. Food banged hard. I pretended to watch NFL games with some old heads. Nice vibe. I leave. Yesterday my homegirl (smash friend) tells me “The girl in the black jeans was feeling you.” Nobody knows we smash regularly so ol girl told her without knowing she was fucking me. “She told me to give you her number.” I turn it down. “Give her my number and tell her to call ME!”

Smash don’t want me to connect with her at all, but black jeans ain’t say nothing while I say by her half the night. Snooze you lose. I was there 4 hours or so, and she ain’t have the lips to holla at me? Stop saying y’all single because of men when you can’t even go after what you want. You expect it to come to you. We all know when a chick want you to holla, kiss her or hit, she get mad if you miss enough hints and considers you a simp. I keep a high value mindset so she should have shot her shot. We’ll see if she calls or texts. Bitch, YOU put in some work.