@the OP verbally asaulting the women who he asked for advice from
I mean ... I can see where some of them may have given opinions that even I didn't agree with but the hostility you are showing towards the women is soooooooooooooooooo weak of you
especially since the men whose opinions you disagree with you have still shown respect to
Are you really that mad that none of us commented on your goatee pic
ANYWAYS
As far as your question goes I think the role the step dad plays depends on the role the real father plays ... for a man like you who says he is very much involved in his children's lives I think the step dad should just be there as a positive male role model for the children ... but he should love them as his own if he loves the mom of course meaning if they are in some trouble or need some sort of help and the parents aren't around he should help them out ... but I could never have my son calling another man daddy when his father is right there in his life ... but if the real father is not around at all then I guess I can see where the kids would call the step-dad daddy if he is the only father they have known ... just my 2 cents ... wether it's appreciated or not
And here comes my big fat "I need to go to the gym" sig so if you don't like it keep that to yourself please