If the real father is on the ball, what is the stepdad's role?

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The stepdad's role would be to be on the "ball" for the child too.
I really wish my husband would post
We dont even use the term "step-dad" in my home....Just like when I was growing up, I didnt know my dad wasnt my biological father until I was like 13. And then one of my hating aunts slipped up.

Women dont fuck w/ a man if he wont treat your children as his own

Too many men/women don't understand this.
Sounds like you got a good man!

 

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A father and step father' role is to double up and show that you are BOTH responsible for the child. It's not a game or tug of war.

He/she will then lead by both your examples and be a strong, responsible adult and father to his/her kids.

You don't have to FATHER kids to be an example in there lives.