I need a males perspective

bgol got some weird females on here if it isn't lonestar onyxfemme or when femmenoire was on here all of them are weird. esther you are now on that list.
 
We use to date but it didn't work out. We were still cool and sometimes we would go to the movies and out eat and stuff like that. He always tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me but then he tells me , in front of his 'girl', to never call him again so I say, Okay.....just give me my shit and I'll never talk to you again. Well, he's not responding back to my calls or text messages.

what does he have of yours?

why are all these things an issue now all of a sudden?

it sounds like you dont want your stuff as bad as your making it seem. go to his house and demand your belongings and get on with your life.
 
for what its worth the pussy must be pretty damn good... normally ninjas will have your shit boxed up and on the neighbor's stoop
 
As long as he has something of yours-you have to keep contacting him. It is his way of keeping you in his life.
A guy is holding my stuff hostage. I have asked him several times to return my items but he just wont respond back. Why do guys do this? This is not the only guy that has done this to me. What is the reasoning?
 
what does he have of yours?

why are all these things an issue now all of a sudden?

it sounds like you dont want your stuff as bad as your making it seem. go to his house and demand your belongings and get on with your life.

I'm trying to avoid calling the cops. I don't understand why he's making this so difficult. So, you don't want to have any sort of relationship with me? Okay, fine then give me my stuff so we can both move on. He made that decision-not me.

He has some of my technical learning supplies that costs me over $400.
 
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best thing u can do is write that sheit off and charge it 2 the game. look at it like this, he'll NEVER bother you again. and u found out really cheaply what type of dude he is underneath the smiles and sheit.

doubt u loaned him anything of substantial value so just let that sheit go
 
We use to date but it didn't work out. We were still cool and sometimes we would go to the movies and out eat and stuff like that. He always tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me but then he tells me , in front of his 'girl', to never call him again so I say, Okay.....just give me my shit and I'll never talk to you again. Well, he's not responding back to my calls or text messages.

His girl threw your shit out. He just doesn't know how to tell you.
 
for your sake.....i hope he isn't in the possession of any homegrown material....and God forbid if he knows about BGOL.
 
A guy is holding my stuff hostage. I have asked him several times to return my items but he just wont respond back. Why do guys do this? This is not the only guy that has done this to me. What is the reasoning?

Small claims court.


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As long as he has something of yours-you have to keep contacting him. It is his way of keeping you in his life.
RIGHT,and the chances of you contacting him or him contacting you again is very high.
 
threaten to sue him in small claims court. if you can prove you purchased the items (credit card receipts) then you might have a good case....
 
I'm trying to avoid calling the cops. I don't understand why he's making this so difficult. So, you don't want to have any sort of relationship with me? Okay, fine then give me my stuff so we can both move on. He made that decision-not me.

He has some of my technical learning supplies that costs me over $400.

The part in bold is your real issue. You're trying to understand. Fuck understanding. If you really want your shit then do what you have to do to get it. You're making your life difficult instead of keeping it dead simple.
 
1) Men don't do this act, he is some form of deviant
2) Chalk it up as an investment and burn the bridge. Live your life better
 
Let him keep that shit, and if it's expensive, just start replacing a lil bit at a time, if you must have it, call the police (and I hate to even suggest that)...that's his way of trying to hang on, and he's trying to weaken you.

exactly...charge that shit to the game
 
I'm trying to avoid calling the cops. I don't understand why he's making this so difficult. So, you don't want to have any sort of relationship with me? Okay, fine then give me my stuff so we can both move on. He made that decision-not me.

He has some of my technical learning supplies that costs me over $400.

Ol Boy prolly loaned your stuff out...Thats why I take the 5th when folks want their stuff..


Just knock on his door at 7am or wheneva you take him out of his comfort zone...

Ol girl bout done threw yo tings away..
he bout don't wanna tell u tho..
 
Yes, he got caught with me, not once, not twice but three times. The third time is when he told me to leave him alone so I do what I'm told.

:smh::smh::smh: You are truly stupid! Caught with him three times and he's not the first guy to do this to you. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over again and expecting a different result.
 
A guy is holding my stuff hostage. I have asked him several times to return my items but he just wont respond back. Why do guys do this? This is not the only guy that has done this to me. What is the reasoning?

#1. stop leaving your shit @ a ninjas house!
- why the fuck do ya'll do that?????

#2. for bird ass niggaaz.......... its a way for them to hold onto you....... a reason for you to call them / them to call you! they now the value that you've placed on that particular item.

#3. some niggaaz for real for real be on some extra shit........ its a good way for some one to work you!:smh: I know some chicks that are sick wit it and will fuck you up wit the shit that they do & how they do it!:eek::smh: for some that might be the extream but for others but for a large group of people that type of thing thing is an everyday part of life.

when i roll out ALL my shit go wit me! & unless you my main / only girl..... you cant leave shit @ my house! whatever you leave or " forget" it goes in the trash!:yes::yes: bra's, panties, whatever the fuck!
 
You should just bounce and get more stuff.

I for one Im not with the drama. I do not get why you would go to the movies and hang out with a dude who said he is in love with you and wants to marry you if you not into him like that. If he was a dude who just put it down keep him in that box. If he a dude who a paymaster you gotta expect that.

Did you say you got 'caught' with him three times?

Love cut your loses and just chalk it up to experience and never leave anything of value at anybody house. Unless your name on the deed.


Peace
 
you seem pretty naive/quite possibly ditzy. in that case, i have your stuff and you're more than welcome to come get it, assuming i get dome ONE more time. im gonna have a mask and full body costume on though. PM for details. :hmm:
 
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