Good post. It really is about perspective.In bold is what I consider a higher priority than money for sure. I think it has a lot to do with where you are in life too. If a woman has her own means to support herself, has lived a little, been hurt maybe a lot (like a Mariah)then money is not her lube. If a chick is young, pretty, but broke may be a different situation.
I just want to be held
I'm checking out your other thread now.
I just want to be held
I'm checking out your other thread now.
^^^^ Great Post
In all these situations thrown out people are prioritizing what they want and getting it. Different people, different priorities. I'm sure Russel's money is a HUGE (maybe the biggest) draw to a lot of women, but since I don't know him I won't diminish him by saying he's only an ATM. I'm sure those same tall beautiful women could have their pick of wealthy men, but they choosing Russel. Maybe all that yoga has given him superior penis skills like I suspect Nick Cannon has (..and I'd bet my last 10 cents Nick Cannon has superior penis because Mariah has a shitload of her OWN money
At night (or in the day) when it's just the two of you (or more than two) you are naked and vulnerable and open there has to be SOMETHING that keeps you physically attracted. Unless money is the new lube, looks or some other tangible form of attraction has to matter to some extent.
Russel doesn't do it for me, but like Lone I'm not attracted to old dudes just like Russel is not attracted to short older chicks like me.
We could talk about kundalini over coffee at Starbucks though.
I'm taking a hiatus from y'all...I could have sworn I did this shit before...
I think I'm making a step in the right direction and becoming more mature with my selection of women and they just all seem to end up treating a brotha the same.
Thought I had my shit together but I guess it's not good enough. Goin' back to the drawing board and chillin' the fuck out.
Maybe it's because I'm anosmic and deep-seeded emotions are connected to smells or some shit...
Hit me up on yahoo ladybug....
I am very attracted,call me shallow
I have NO idea. I'm not sure if i've even seen this before. Although i don't get the attraction to skinny guys. Or short guys. Are....alot of guys for that matter. I'm always thinking physically anyway. And then my mind automatically goes too, "well there must be something about his personality she likes".
. Skinny dudes are all engine baby. Energy!
I'm taking a hiatus from y'all...I could have sworn I did this shit before...
I think I'm making a step in the right direction and becoming more mature with my selection of women and they just all seem to end up treating a brotha the same.
Thought I had my shit together but I guess it's not good enough. Goin' back to the drawing board and chillin' the fuck out.
Maybe it's because I'm anosmic and deep-seeded emotions are connected to smells or some shit...
My dharma brother I don't know about you but the times I thought I had my shit together were usually when I was being the most delusional. I'll say from personal experience it's tough being a sex freak and yet wanting/desiring/questing to have an equilibrium that transcends the flesh. It can create a big and painful division between what you say you want and what you end up getting.
There's something called the Maltz hierarchy of sexual interaction and while it's particulars are a bit bizarre and romantic, I try to embrace the idea it proposes that sexual energy is neither negative or positive. It's a ground zero state and how you engage it makes it something more or less beneficial. That helped me a lot because I was I really conflicted- like pathologically conflicted.
Chilling is good. Re-evaluating is good. Liking a certain type of woman or man is neither good nor bad, it just IS. How you engage that person is probably what makes the difference.
You're going to be fine.
Funny you mention smell though since smell directly impacts the limbic system. *scratches head*
She's a work in progress too Ons. Something like that you probably wouldn't know and def can't control. That's probably the hardest part about loving somebody- you can love em but you can't really claim to know them to the core and predict their behavior. Sometimes I look at Mr.Iz likeninja what??? But then I have to step back and realize that it's his life and his journey and I don't get to run that.Sometimes shit is a leap of faith for real.smh
I miss our convos...I learned a lot. I'll definitely contemplate on what you expressed here. It's funny Sean and I were having a discussion about my condition and he asked me if it had an adverse impact on my relationships or personality.
I likes me a streamline man
. He's the smartest insomniac a girl could ever hope to encounter.
Yeah this is pretty much the response most couples get. But would you date a "fat guy". If he was say 6'4 300 pounds of mostly body fat?
fellas she just dropped a dime right here if you payin attention....a mans aggression towards life will reap him rewards....its passion and aggression and that comes from inside....
damn. 1:45am. bored as fuck. lemme read some of this thread. brb
