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How Attracted Are You To A Mans Looks/Body/Physique?

Rossini said:
That most of yall females aint no different from these trifling women in the streets and yall put on a front for bgol.
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I see. I don't see a point of fronting on a message board. But i can't dispute how your view is about it. I don't know the other ladies around here. I only know me.

As a matter of fact i feel a message board is a place where you can actually be your REAL self. I've been seeing alot of things come from you guys i've never seen or heard before. Interesting stuff to say the least.
 
Rossini said:
She was actually saying that he lurks and she was apologizing to him threw her posts, thats why he came out.
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Wow ... I dont know what to say lol ... I never heard anything about any of that before and last I checked melon was still with her man from what I remember in chat but I could be wrong ... wow

As for some women frontin on BGOL, I can almost understand why they wouldnt be 100% honest ... I have been honest in many threads and have gotten e-jumped by a gang of fags after ... it doesn't stop me but I can understand why it might stop some other women
 
TRUTH HERE.....:yes:
Izayoi said:
You're funny. :lol:
...and the really funny thing is if a woman is feeling you she will be sitting right next to your broke, confident ass playing Madden eating Happy Meals. Men complain about women being emotional, but trust yall are lucky! I like what you said about validating yourself though.
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Side note but topic related: I have no idea why it is so hard for our brothas and sistas to believe good things in one another.....
Why do we always want to believe the worst???

I like a man for HOW HE TREATS ME 1st....NEXT is his confidence THIRD his looks....I am not going to sit here and pretend that looks dont play a factor. But I will take a man who is truthful, faithful, loyal and ambitious than a man who is rich and just looks good. I am too old for such foolishness....Mind you I am still grieving the lost of my man, but I still believe in love. And when it comes for me again....I just told someone last night....I want a man to make me feel like this...
 
OnyxFemme said:
TRUTH HERE.....:yes:



Side note but topic related: I have no idea why it is so hard for our brothas and sistas to believe good things in one another.....
Why do we always want to believe the worst???

I like a man for HOW HE TREATS ME 1st....NEXT is his confidence THIRD his looks....I am not going to sit here and pretend that looks dont play a factor. But I will take a man who is truthful, faithful, loyal and ambitious than a man who is rich and just looks good. I am too old for such foolishness....Mind you I am still grieving the lost of my man, but I still believe in love. And when it comes for me again....I just told someone last night....I want a man to make me feel like this...
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:):):D I hope you get it too. As for why do we believe the worst. I think with women it's protective instincts. And with guys....i'm not sure. I would say lack of acceptance of reality. But it could be something else.
 
LoneStar29 said:
Wow ... I dont know what to say lol ... I never heard anything about any of that before and last I checked melon was still with her man from what I remember in chat but I could be wrong ... wow

As for some women frontin on BGOL, I can almost understand why they wouldnt be 100% honest ... I have been honest in many threads and have gotten e-jumped by a gang of fags after ... it doesn't stop me but I can understand why it might stop some other women
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I saw a thread where they were jumping on you. I was on Okayplayer a few years ago things would get to that level. I've never understood how a person could be so........upset at another whom they've never met. You don't like what i have to say, fine. You're not supposed to like everything people say. You're supposed to have a mind of your own. But to say such blatantly disrespectful things to people, especially the males. I saw a post with MissMighty? I believe and those guys were angry at her too. My husband would always tell me to stay away from the main board. Don't go in there reading that stuff. I see why. lol
 
OnyxFemme said:
TRUTH HERE.....:yes:



Side note but topic related: I have no idea why it is so hard for our brothas and sistas to believe good things in one another.....
Why do we always want to believe the worst???

I like a man for HOW HE TREATS ME 1st....NEXT is his confidence THIRD his looks....I am not going to sit here and pretend that looks dont play a factor. But I will take a man who is truthful, faithful, loyal and ambitious than a man who is rich and just looks good. I am too old for such foolishness....Mind you I am still grieving the lost of my man, but I still believe in love. And when it comes for me again....I just told someone last night....I want a man to make me feel like this...
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Legacy_Infinity said:
:):):D I hope you get it too. As for why do we believe the worst. I think with women it's protective instincts. And with guys....i'm not sure. I would say lack of acceptance of reality. But it could be something else.
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So what if you met a man with all of those characteristics, but he was too shy to approach you. Would you let him get away or would you step to him?
 
Legacy_Infinity said:
I saw a thread where they were jumping on you. I was on Okayplayer a few years ago things would get to that level. I've never understood how a person could be so........upset at another whom they've never met. You don't like what i have to say, fine. You're not supposed to like everything people say. You're supposed to have a mind of your own. But to say such blatantly disrespectful things to people, especially the males. I saw a post with MissMighty? I believe and those guys were angry at her too. My husband would always tell me to stay away from the main board. Don't go in there reading that stuff. I see why. lol
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Alot of people dislike Missmighty for things she did in the past.
 
BCAA2009 said:
So what if you met a man with all of those characteristics, but he was too shy to approach you. Would you let him get away or would you step to him?
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I'm comfortable enough now. None of you know me, so.......:lol: I'm pretty much done with males. If there was a guy to come along i feel he'd have to be an exact clone of my husband. Which is seriously doubtful being that they can't clone people. People are telling me, "oh you're just saying that because you're grieving." No im not. I was with him since i was 15. I've been with 2 other men in my whole life. The things i look for that my husband had? Men do not have in this day and age i feel. I have 7 kids. I'm not bringing another male around them that they're not already related too. I think that's disrespectful to them and to my husbands memory.
 
Legacy_Infinity said:
I'm comfortable enough now. None of you know me, so.......:lol: I'm pretty much done with males. If there was a guy to come along i feel he'd have to be an exact clone of my husband. Which is seriously doubtful being that they can't clone people. People are telling me, "oh you're just saying that because you're grieving." No im not. I was with him since i was 15. I've been with 2 other men in my whole life. The things i look for that my husband had? Men do not have in this day and age i feel. I have 7 kids. I'm not bringing another male around them that they're not already related too. I think that's disrespectful to them and to my husbands memory.
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Wow.....



done with males huh? So you're crossing over?
 
BCAA2009 said:
Wow.....



done with males huh? So you're crossing over?
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Not sure how to respond to this. If you're asking am i going to go to women? I've always been with women. Since i was young. Before my husband even. I consider myself bi in only the strictest definition of the word. I found a male sexually attractive, and i find women sexually attractive. I can have sex with both. Women farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr more.
 
Legacy_Infinity said:
Not sure how to respond to this. If you're asking am i going to go to women? I've always been with women. Since i was young. Before my husband even. I consider myself bi in only the strictest definition of the word. I found a male sexually attractive, and i find women sexually attractive. I can have sex with both. Women farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr more.
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So how do you think that will look in the eyes of your children?
 
Honestly if a guy was to shy to approach me, then he would probably get away....I am shy also.
BCAA2009 said:
So what if you met a man with all of those characteristics, but he was too shy to approach you. Would you let him get away or would you step to him?
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I know:D

But I am not the walk up to a guy type of woman. I will do the eye contact thing to see if he will bite. But that is about it.

Maybe if I am out, I will send a drink to a guy or buy him one at the bar. But thats about it....Now once I get to know you...All hats are off. lolol
Those things are a little ways off for me right now though...Maybe..Maybe not...I dont know what is right or wrong at the moment.:dunno:
BCAA2009 said:
You and shy don't go together.

You're so, outspoken, on here....
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LoneStar29 said:
:lol::yes:

Also be careful how much you share cuz 9/10 it WILL get thrown back in your face ... once I let it be known I was a single mom:smh:some of these guys are savages
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So long as i don't reveal my real name and anything else or let anyone know where i live? I'm ok. I've been on other MB's before and had slings and arrows thrown at me. I see these guys here are pretty brutal but of course we all know how things will be from BEHIND the monitor. I remember years ago on Okp these guys would talk BIG BIG stuff on the boards. And challenged each other to a fight. 30 or so people showed up for this fight and the guy who would always pretty much start the issues got his butt handed to him.

And someone filmed it! The drubbing he took was the worst i'd ever witnessed. Threaten me call me names all you want too. Bottomline is you're not going to DO anything to me. None of these jokers know where i live, what i do for a living currently. Where my children are. I've never given that information out on a MB and i never will. lol.

Unless you're an attractive woman to me i'm not meeting up to hang out or kick it either. :lol: I see what they did to you. I consider it childish. But..........boys will be boys.
 
LoneStar29 said:
I dont need to front for no one

I absolutely without a shadow of a doubt would not sleep with that man or even date him for that matter ... I am in no way attracted to older men especially not ones older than my father

And I think you are correct ... alot of these young chicks fuckin him are doin it for the money ... but then again he also has his motives for fucking them which is mostly based on beauty so I guess they're even shallow for shallow
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^^^^ Great Post
In all these situations thrown out people are prioritizing what they want and getting it. Different people, different priorities. I'm sure Russel's money is a HUGE (maybe the biggest) draw to a lot of women, but since I don't know him I won't diminish him by saying he's only an ATM. I'm sure those same tall beautiful women could have their pick of wealthy men, but they choosing Russel. Maybe all that yoga has given him superior penis skills like I suspect Nick Cannon has (..and I'd bet my last 10 cents Nick Cannon has superior penis because Mariah has a shitload of her OWN money :lol:).

At night (or in the day) when it's just the two of you (or more than two) you are naked and vulnerable and open there has to be SOMETHING that keeps you physically attracted. Unless money is the new lube, looks or some other tangible form of attraction has to matter to some extent.

Russel doesn't do it for me, but like Lone I'm not attracted to old dudes just like Russel is not attracted to short older chicks like me.
We could talk about kundalini over coffee at Starbucks though.
 
OnyxFemme said:
I know:D

But I am not the walk up to a guy type of woman. I will do the eye contact thing to see if he will bite. But that is about it.

Maybe if I am out, I will send a drink to a guy or buy him one at the bar. But thats about it....Now once I get to know you...All hats are off. lolol
Those things are a little ways off for me right now though...Maybe..Maybe not...I dont know what is right or wrong at the moment.:dunno:
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Gotcha, so if I'm ever out with my wife and I see you, I'll say..."hey Onyx...I'm BCAA...I saw you looking at me, will you buy me a coke?"

I'm printing this page out as proof that you said it.:D
 
Izayoi said:
^^^^ Great Post
In all these situations thrown out people are prioritizing what they want and getting it. Different people, different priorities. I'm sure Russel's money is a HUGE (maybe the biggest) draw to a lot of women, but since I don't know him I won't diminish him by saying he's only an ATM. I'm sure those same tall beautiful women could have their pick of wealthy men, but they choosing Russel. Maybe all that yoga has given him superior penis skills like I suspect Nick Cannon has (..and I'd bet my last 10 cents Nick Cannon has superior penis because Mariah has a shitload of her OWN money :lol:).

At night (or in the day) when it's just the two of you (or more than two) you are naked and vulnerable and open there has to be SOMETHING that keeps you physically attracted. Unless money is the new lube, looks or some other tangible form of attraction has to matter to some extent.

Russel doesn't do it for me, but like Lone I'm not attracted to old dudes just like Russel is not attracted to short older chicks like me.
We could talk about kundalini over coffee at Starbucks though.
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I find much to agree with in this post. But there's something i have to disagree with. Money really CAN be lube to alot of women. It's all about HOW you think of it. I had said once before security to a woman. To many women, i do want to say ALL but....anyway. Security is that keystone to love in many many cases.

Depending on how that woman SEES security is the great divider i believe. So yeah with me it was my husbands ability to protect me, everything about him said "i'll take care of you. i won't let anything hurt you". He didn't have any money but he did everything he could to make me safe. To care for our family and sacrifice whatever he had for the sake of the family. That's how i viewed that security.

To another woman, Rush very well represents security in the same fashion. He's got money, i'll be taken care of.

Mariah and Nick Cannon. Jay Z and Bey. I see that as something of the same kind of line of thinking, "he'll take care of me. He won't hurt me. He won't allow me to be hurt". Alot of women will say, "he allows me to be me." Another form of security.

I've had dealings with ladies who deal with guys strictly on a monetary basis and it took me awhile to really LOCK that into my head about why they'd even entertain the idea of being with those males. And it's always the same answer, "he'll take care of me". One close friend of mine here recently went through the same thing. And She and her new male have that understanding. He wanted her to stop doing what she was doing. And she said fine, i'll do it. But you have to take care of me. As soon as you stop. I'm gone.

And that was their arrangement.
 
BCAA2009 said:
Went to Rudy's earlier today and got 3 thighs.....I swear they have the greasiest chicken of all time but I can't stop eating it.
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My husband when we'd go there, would make this sandwich. He'd get some ketchup, put the pickles on the bread, get some chicken meat off. Fries and the other slice of bread. And that was his meal. Oh and a grape soda...lmao. The fries to me are just the highlight because you get the grease from the chicken on top of the fries. It's just the BEST. :lol: With the jalapeno and the pickle juice too. Mmmmmmm MMM!
 
No doubt, but you know me...If your wife is cute I will probably be trying to buy her a drink also;)
BCAA2009 said:
Gotcha, so if I'm ever out with my wife and I see you, I'll say..."hey Onyx...I'm BCAA...I saw you looking at me, will you buy me a coke?"

I'm printing this page out as proof that you said it.:D
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Legacy_Infinity said:
My husband when we'd go there, would make this sandwich. He'd get some ketchup, put the pickles on the bread, get some chicken meat off. Fries and the other slice of bread. And that was his meal. Oh and a grape soda...lmao. The fries to me are just the highlight because you get the grease from the chicken on top of the fries. It's just the BEST. :lol: With the jalapeno and the pickle juice too. Mmmmmmm MMM!
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He knew how to eat.........except I would have substituted mayo for the ketchup. Mayo goes on all my sandwiches. My wife can't stand it.
 
Legacy_Infinity said:
I find much to agree with in this post. But there's something i have to disagree with. Money really CAN be lube to alot of women. It's all about HOW you think of it. I had said once before security to a woman. To many women, i do want to say ALL but....anyway. Security is that keystone to love in many many cases.

Depending on how that woman SEES security is the great divider i believe. So yeah with me it was my husbands ability to protect me, everything about him said "i'll take care of you. i won't let anything hurt you". He didn't have any money but he did everything he could to make me safe. To care for our family and sacrifice whatever he had for the sake of the family. That's how i viewed that security.

To another woman, Rush very well represents security in the same fashion. He's got money, i'll be taken care of.

Mariah and Nick Cannon. Jay Z and Bey. I see that as something of the same kind of line of thinking, "he'll take care of me. He won't hurt me. He won't allow me to be hurt". Alot of women will say, "he allows me to be me." Another form of security.

I've had dealings with ladies who deal with guys strictly on a monetary basis and it took me awhile to really LOCK that into my head about why they'd even entertain the idea of being with those males. And it's always the same answer, "he'll take care of me". One close friend of mine here recently went through the same thing. And She and her new male have that understanding. He wanted her to stop doing what she was doing. And she said fine, i'll do it. But you have to take care of me. As soon as you stop. I'm gone.

And that was their arrangement.
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Good post. It really is about perspective. :) In bold is what I consider a higher priority than money for sure. I think it has a lot to do with where you are in life too. If a woman has her own means to support herself, has lived a little, been hurt maybe a lot (like a Mariah)then money is not her lube. If a chick is young, pretty, but broke may be a different situation.
 
OnyxFemme said:
But I am not the walk up to a guy type of woman. I will do the eye contact thing to see if he will bite. But that is about it.
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Same here

I do have a bit of shyness in me as well

BCAA2009 said:
Whassup Lone.


Is it hot up there in T.Dot?
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Sup B?

Yeah its gorgeous out here, I love it!!!

Legacy_Infinity said:
I remember years ago on Okp these guys would talk BIG BIG stuff on the boards. And challenged each other to a fight. 30 or so people showed up for this fight and the guy who would always pretty much start the issues got his butt handed to him.

And someone filmed it!
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:eek::lol::lol::lol::lol:

Izayoi said:
We could talk about kundalini over coffee at Starbucks though.
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LOL older men just do not do it for me at all ... I couldn't even force myself to kiss him:puke: sorry lol
 

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