How Attracted Are You To A Mans Looks/Body/Physique?

[followup]

Most of them think this way about women

and then they wonder why they have a hard time with women it's crazy. ask women a question, they give you an answer, then you don't want to accept it Like obviously you must be broke or super ugly for you to have your feelings hurt...not our fault.

 

[SaKem]

I think you'd be surprised at the number of women who would turn down a multimillionaire based on his looks. Women are just as visual as men. We just have other things that effect our total decision making process.

I know ur just as visual as men. But power trumps looks.
Don't believe me?

 

[Mello Mello]

^^^Power may trump looks but we can all agree, those women aren't with them for their looks. Most men will never have that kind of power. And if those women are with them only because of the money they have and not a real attraction then that would make them gold-diggers.

 

[LoneStar29]

I'm not understanding the sugar water either. That made me tilt my head to the side like a puppy and be like"...........................what?"

That's just our Melon ... you'll get used to it

I know ur just as visual as men. But power trumps looks.
Don't believe me?

Power does trump looks for some women ... not all though

Frankly I would prefer a man with a regular job who had great convo and incredible sex skills over some boring, impotent rich guy

Money is not the beginning and end for me plus alot of those guys are arrognat and unfaithful ... I have too pride to put up with that just for some money

Some girls are fucking the money ... I'd rather fuck the man

The girls you are referring to do exist and there are many many but it's not all of us

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Sugarwater?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I know ur just as visual as men. But power trumps looks.
Don't believe me?

You are attempting to give examples to prove your point when it doesn't really prove your point. Has any of those women come out and said...i'm with him because he's got money/power? If not then you're making your own assumptions based on what you choose to believe about someone elses relationship. I've come to realize in all my years that with guys they like to fit women into cut and dry square boxes. If we don't do this like you expect or wish us to be. Then we just MUST be this.

I'm not what you(figurative) want me to be. I do not respond to things how you wish me to. I do it how i do it. If i'm attracted to you then i'll be attracted to you. If this woman over here wants you for your money then that's what she wants you for. I am not she. she is not i.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

That's just our Melon ... you'll get used to it



Power does trump looks for some women ... not all though

Frankly I would prefer a man with a regular job who had great convo and incredible sex skills over some boring, impotent rich guy

Money is not the beginning and end for me plus alot of those guys are arrognat and unfaithful ... I have too pride to put up with that just for some money

Some girls are fucking the money ... I'd rather fuck the man

The girls you are referring to do exist and there are many many but it's not all of us

They act like for every golddigger chick there's not 10 women caring for a no good slob. They want to point to circumstances where a woman is with a wealthy man and act like that's the NORM.

 

[Rossini]

That's just our Melon ... you'll get used to it



Power does trump looks for some women ... not all though

Frankly I would prefer a man with a regular job who had great convo and incredible sex skills over some boring, impotent rich guy

Money is not the beginning and end for me plus alot of those guys are arrognat and unfaithful ... I have too pride to put up with that just for some money

Some girls are fucking the money ... I'd rather fuck the man

The girls you are referring to do exist and there are many many but it's not all of us

Hell regular niggas are just as unfaithful as rich niggas, only difference is they dont have as many options.

 

[melonpecan]

You are so fuckin random, I love it

I got a homegirl who only likes really husky out of shape guys ... like she for real only dates fat dudes

Melon what sweat you tastin tastes like sugar water? lolmao.

I have a friend she likes hefty guys. I don't knock it. I don't knock people for what they like. I don't fully understand it. She's a lil bitty beanpole. I like big men in the sense of muscular, tall. Someone i know that can protect me.

She gets with big fat guys i'm like they just gonna protect they lunch.

There are some of us out there...

If I can find a pic somewhere on the net I'll post it. But I do have a thing, (eye candy wise), for leanness and muscular build of an east Asian man...and the cheek bones...


*looks around
*whispers
I want to sit them on my shelf like livable action figures

I'm not understanding the sugar water either. That made me tilt my head to the side like a puppy and be like"...........................what?"

at ya'll with the sugar water. Just like ya'll was like what a man eats and drinks affects how his cum taste it can make a difference in their sweat too. I guess if it taste sweet and not salty that mean they got a good diet?

^^^Power may trump looks but we can all agree, those women aren't with them for their looks. Most men will never have that kind of power. And if those women are with them only because of the money they have and not a real attraction then that would make them gold-diggers.

Ey, I can believe every one of those women finding something in those men that is just downright irresistible, not including the money...


...except for Donald Trump. I don't find not one thing on or about him to be sexy, attractive, interesting, NOTHING. I was watching celebrity apprentice and wondered if he fucked for himself. His son look the type to have ED and pay someone to fuck for him while he in the back with the lights off in the chair talking bout some "Yeah...my dick is huge...".

I'd like to think he got it from his daddy.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

There are some of us out there...

If I can find a pic somewhere on the net I'll post it. But I do have a thing, (eye candy wise), for leanness and muscular build of an east Asian man...and the cheek bones...


*looks around
*whispers
I want to sit them on my shelf like livable action figures

The only asian man i've found interesting looking, just his face wise...was the guy who was in Ninja Assasin. He was soooooo cool and kinda cute looking.

at ya'll with the sugar water. Just like ya'll was like what a man eats and drinks affects how his cum taste it can make a difference in their sweat too. I guess if it taste sweet and not salty that mean they got a good diet?

Yeah if you're with a guy and his sweat taste like sugar then he's about to drop dead on ya. lol. He's probably got stage 8 diabetes or something.

Ey, I can believe every one of those women finding something in those men that is just downright irresistible, not including the money...


...except for Donald Trump. I don't find not one thing on or about him to be sexy, attractive, interesting, NOTHING. I was watching celebrity apprentice and wondered if he fucked for himself. His son look the type to have ED and pay someone to fuck for him while he in the back with the lights off in the chair talking bout some "Yeah...my dick is huge...".

I'd like to think he got it from his daddy.

Yeah guys don't want to believe that hell some women CAN actually like you for who you are instead of what you have. Especially with the Bey and Jay thing. She was powerful in her own right. I guess she couldn't have been turned on/liked him by his personality? Impossible huh?

I will go right along with you on the D Trump tho. He kind of frightens me a little bit.

 

[melonpecan]

The only asian man i've found interesting looking, just his face wise...was the guy who was in Ninja Assasin. He was soooooo cool and kinda cute looking.

Rain.

Or Bi.

Don't matter...he still cute

One of his dramas is next on my list to watch

http://wiki.d-addicts.com/Full_House​

Yeah if you're with a guy and his sweat taste like sugar then he's about to drop dead on ya. lol. He's probably got stage 8 diabetes or something.

He cool. I don't think he's diabetic...if he was he should have been to the hospital by now the way he eat sweets. It's just something about him...it's weird...cause the cum taste the same as his sweat.

Yeah guys don't want to believe that hell some women CAN actually like you for who you are instead of what you have. Especially with the Bey and Jay thing. She was powerful in her own right. I guess she couldn't have been turned on/liked him by his personality? Impossible huh?

I will go right along with you on the D Trump tho. He kind of frightens me a little bit.

The only thing about Bouncie and Jay that makes me go "hmm" is the age difference. She almost 30 but he like 40. Other than that whatever floats your boat.

Glad I'm not the only one that thinks that of Donald. He probably is a very caring soul but daggonit if you can't not believe he has an inner sadist.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

This is your man? Who eats all the sweets? And if his cum tastes sweet like that he really is eating too much sugar. Babe sweat isn't supposed to be sweet. It's supposed to be salty. It's diluted urine. Urea. He probably has very high ketone levels too now that i think about it.

The asian guy is nice looking. He's interesting. Asian guys are short. And you can see their veins. I dislike light skinned black men as well. But for some reason ALMOST every woman i've been with has been light or my shade. Light skinned guys just seem so...feminine and punkish to me. Ugh.

About Jay and Bey......i like their age difference. I think a man should be older than a woman.

 

[Izayoi]

^^^Power may trump looks but we can all agree, those women aren't with them for their looks. Most men will never have that kind of power. And if those women are with them only because of the money they have and not a real attraction then that would make them gold-diggers.

Exactly and I thought the question was about REAL attraction.
Come on Donald Trump is just tragic! These generalization are funny though.

...and beauty has power too.

Rain.

Or Bi.

Don't matter...he still cute

I luv him!! I watch a hole in my Ninja Assasin DVD.

About Jay and Bey......i like their age difference. I think a man should be older than a woman.

Not me LI! I likes em young tendoroni style!

 

[melonpecan]

This is your man? Who eats all the sweets? And if his cum tastes sweet like that he really is eating too much sugar. Babe sweat isn't supposed to be sweet. It's supposed to be salty. It's diluted urine. Urea. He probably has very high ketone levels too now that i think about it.

The asian guy is nice looking. He's interesting. Asian guys are short. And you can see their veins. I dislike light skinned black men as well. But for some reason ALMOST every woman i've been with has been light or my shade. Light skinned guys just seem so...feminine and punkish to me. Ugh.

About Jay and Bey......i like their age difference. I think a man should be older than a woman.

I just think of him as...special.



@ the light skinned men. My cousin has a huge fetish for high yellow brothers. It's kinda weird...let me finish watching this show and I'll post some more.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Exactly and I thought the question was about REAL attraction.
Come on Donald Trump is just tragic! These generalization are funny though.

...and beauty has power too.

Good point. Beauty, percieved beauty. Does have power. I was speaking on this to my oldest daughter the other day. A woman who can use this and shed her light just right on a guy will have males dancing like puppets.

I luv him!! I watch a hole in my Ninja Assasin DVD.

lol i see you like those things of asian persuasion. Hey not knocking that. lol I think he's interesting looking. I wouldn't do much with him. Well nothing. But i definitely could tolerate looking at him.

Not me LI! I likes em young tendoroni style!

lmao Girrrrl what a youngin gonna do for you?!?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

@ the light skinned men. My cousin has a huge fetish for high yellow brothers. It's kinda weird...let me finish watching this show and I'll post some more.

My bestfriend told me once i was racist against light skinned men. I don't think i am. I just don't like them. How they look and.....they just look weird. There's a video of some guy on the main board. It's a funny video about what the guy doesnt want in a woman. He doesn't want a woman to read or vote. And there's a light skinned guy in the video. And he's just so GROSS looking to me. JUST EWWWWWWWWW! I don't even understand how them dudes came into style to begin with... . I can't think of 1 who is attractive even moderately.

lol i am prejudiced against them. My current gf liked those light skinned guys and her ex husband was 1. And she told me he hit her once. And my mind immediately went to, "how u let a light skin nigga hit you?" As if in MY mind for some reason they can't even fight or be effectual in any kind of find. I caught myself from saying it like that though.

 

[IntelligentDyme]

^^^Power may trump looks but we can all agree, those women aren't with them for their looks. Most men will never have that kind of power. And if those women are with them only because of the money they have and not a real attraction then that would make them gold-diggers.

I don't think Beyonce or Janet would need to be with another person for their money.. I also think that Jay isn't bad looking...not good looking either...JD-well, IMO none of the cats I've seen Janet with have been uber sexy or handsome...but I do think that when I see beyonce and jay together I don't really feel like there is a huge difference in terms of looks or success, I like them together.

I am attracted to powerful men, successful men, probably because they tend to be more confident and have a commanding presence. I think power gives you confidence and vice versa Hell I remember watching Run's House and thinking I would date Russell Simmons...and I know he is not cute at all...but he is powerful, a hustler, can teach me things, and is a bit cocky. But I would take Darren Sharper or Idris Elba over him any day

 

[Izayoi]

lmao Girrrrl what a youngin gonna do for you?!?

Don't get me started.

 

[Mello Mello]

I don't think Beyonce or Janet would need to be with another person for their money.. I also think that Jay isn't bad looking...not good looking either...JD-well, IMO none of the cats I've seen Janet with have been uber sexy or handsome...but I do think that when I see beyonce and jay together I don't really feel like there is a huge difference in terms of looks or success, I like them together.

I am attracted to powerful men, successful men, probably because they tend to be more confident and have a commanding presence. I think power gives you confidence and vice versa Hell I remember watching Run's House and thinking I would date Russell Simmons...and I know he is not cute at all...but he is powerful, a hustler, can teach me things, and is a bit cocky. But I would take Darren Sharper or Idris Elba over him any day

I never said they were with them for their money. What I'm saying is they didn't just go with them for their looks. But having money does not make one a non-gold-digger.

Also, it sounds like you're going back on your initial post. If a man is powerful then most likely he's rich, which would mean money is a factor and he's not your average 6'4 220. So it sounds like their are some exceptions to the rule now.

 

[IntelligentDyme]

I never said they were with them for their money. What I'm saying is they didn't just go with them for their looks. But having money does not make one a non-gold-digger.

I agree..Having money does not make one a non-gold digger..but also financially successful women tend to want men who are also financially successful....this is typically not the case for men... most which men don't go after an oprah, they go after waitresses, so called models, nannies, etc.

Also, it sounds like you're going back on your initial post. If a man is powerful then most likely he's rich, which would mean money is a factor and he's not your average 6'4 220. So it sounds like their are some exceptions to the rule now.

No I don't think powerful=rich....That is what you said not me... I do not necessarily think that...My S/O is powerful IMO and he is not even a thousand-aire lol....what makes a man powerful to me is his confidence, commanding presence, and hustle... which is what I mentioned when I talked about Russell Simmons...and I think Jay-Z, and JD have those qualities even if they are not lookers...maybe our definitions of powerful are just different...

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

No I don't think powerful=rich....That is what you said not me... I do not necessarily think that...My S/O is powerful IMO and he is not even a thousand-aire lol....what makes a man powerful to me is his confidence, commanding presence, and hustle... which is what I mentioned when I talked about Russell Simmons...and I think Jay-Z, and JD have those qualities even if they are not lookers...maybe our definitions of powerful are just different...

They don't get it. And we can tell'em to the cows come home. But they won't get it. They'll still make up excuses and excuses and keep telling US what we like and what we find attractive. They will just keep making the answer suit their own needs.

My husband was very powerfull. And wasn't a millionaire. When i got with him he was strong already. Driven, willful. Willing to sacrifice. He was strong in mind as well as body. But his mind and his determination to do what he set out to do. Is what was so attractive about him. What attracted women to him. And it's not the money, at all. It's his just sheer, I'm goinna do this. And dare anybody to try to stop me.

My husband,

was

an

ARROGANT

so n so. Just didn't make no SENSE! He had true belief that there was nothing he could NOT do. And while i would tease him and say i hated it about him? I fucking LOVED IT! It was a turn on. When he handled things. And handled people. Thats power. That's control. That's forcing your will on somoene else that makes that male an ALPHA. A leader. That's what women are attracted to when they say power. It isn't money. It's having a big ass dick! And you might not even haaaave one? But you ACT like you do.

I believe the youngsters today call it swag? It's confidence to me. Belief in one's self. And women can sense it. A grown woman can spot it right off the BAT.

 

[IntelligentDyme]

They don't get it. And we can tell'em to the cows come home. But they won't get it. They'll still make up excuses and excuses and keep telling US what we like and what we find attractive. They will just keep making the answer suit their own needs.

My husband was very powerfull. And wasn't a millionaire. When i got with him he was strong already. Driven, willful. Willing to sacrifice. He was strong in mind as well as body. But his mind and his determination to do what he set out to do. Is what was so attractive about him. What attracted women to him. And it's not the money, at all. It's his just sheer, I'm goinna do this. And dare anybody to try to stop me.

My husband,

was

an

ARROGANT

so n so. Just didn't make no SENSE! He had true belief that there was nothing he could NOT do. And while i would tease him and say i hated it about him? I fucking LOVED IT! It was a turn on. When he handled things. And handled people. Thats power. That's control. That's forcing your will on somoene else that makes that male an ALPHA. A leader. That's what women are attracted to when they say power. It isn't money. It's having a big ass dick! And you might not even haaaave one? But you ACT like you do.

I believe the youngsters today call it swag? It's confidence to me. Belief in one's self. And women can sense it. A grown woman can spot it right off the BAT.

whoa baby..that did something to me just reading it lol... Yeah it is that "swag" (i hate the term) but definitely that's it.. I like a man who knows his worth, value, and dares someone to question him or tell him he can't...and then he does... I tell people arrogance is earned...as long as you walk that walk then you can talk that talk..

Maybe jay-z following reasonable doubt circle 1990's wouldn't have bagged "beyonce" circa 2000's...but he would have still had a bad chick..he had that presence about him even then...and truth be told...if beyonce wasn't "beyonce", would she have really been able to bag jay-z? who knows...

 

[LoneStar29]

That Asian guy is very cuuuuute

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

whoa baby..that did something to me just reading it lol... Yeah it is that "swag" (i hate the term) but definitely that's it.. I like a man who knows his worth, value, and dares someone to question him or tell him he can't...and then he does... I tell people arrogance is earned...as long as you walk that walk then you can talk that talk..

Maybe jay-z following reasonable doubt circle 1990's wouldn't have bagged "beyonce" circa 2000's...but he would have still had a bad chick..he had that presence about him even then...and truth be told...if beyonce wasn't "beyonce", would she have really been able to bag jay-z? who knows...

They one's who complain about this seem to be meek weak willed guys who believe that it's not something with THEM. Can't be something in THEM. No it must be because he's got alot of money. Yeah that's it. Can't be a personality trait. Nooooo. That CAN'T be it. Yeah must be that she's a golddigger. and HE has alot of money. I mean look at him he's ugly!

People are so self deceptive sometimes it's just gross.

 

[Rossini]

No I don't think powerful=rich....That is what you said not me... I do not necessarily think that...My S/O is powerful IMO and he is not even a thousand-aire lol....what makes a man powerful to me is his confidence, commanding presence, and hustle... which is what I mentioned when I talked about Russell Simmons...and I think Jay-Z, and JD have those qualities even if they are not lookers...maybe our definitions of powerful are just different...

Hold up, first you said you are attracted to successful men. Success = money

Then you used old ass Russell Simmons as an example.

Now you're saying its not about the money

 

[SamSneed]

i got da shuggawuada



ask lomey

 

[IntelligentDyme]

Hold up, first you said you are attracted to successful men. Success = money

Then you used old ass Russell Simmons as an example.

Now you're saying its not about the money

I mentioned Russell's qualities..never his money...maybe you missed that..

Maybe in your world success=money...not in mine... I know a lot of people who have money and are not successful at life... again..our definitions are different.. I'm successful and good what I do, I'm not a millionaire...

How many times have fellas on this board talked about "successful" black women who can't find a man..why? because they are basing being successful on professional things but are not successful personally. Because you have money doesn't make you successful IMO, it makes you good at what you do...and even that statement is debatable...

 

[Rossini]

I mentioned Russell's qualities..never his money...maybe you missed that..

Maybe in your world success=money...not in mine... I know a lot of people who have money and are not successful at life... again..our definitions are different.. I'm successful and good what I do, I'm not a millionaire...

How many times have fellas on this board talked about "successful" black women who can't find a man..why? because they are basing being successful on professional things but are not successful personally. Because you have money doesn't make you successful IMO, it makes you good at what you do...and even that statement is debatable...

So if Russell wasnt rich and famous but he had "swag" you would still consider dating him

 

[IntelligentDyme]

So if Russell wasnt rich and famous but he had "swag" you would still consider dating him

Uhh yeah... just like I said Jay-Z had swag before he blew up the way he did, I'm sure Russell did too...also I like that Russell is into being healthy and emotionally centered..

I'm not about money, but I definitely won't be with a cat who is broke mentally...meaning no hustle, no confidence, and no intelligence or street smarts.

 

[dHustla]

I mentioned Russell's qualities..never his money...maybe you missed that..

Maybe in your world success=money...not in mine... I know a lot of people who have money and are not successful at life... again..our definitions are different.. I'm successful and good what I do, I'm not a millionaire...

How many times have fellas on this board talked about "successful" black women who can't find a man..why? because they are basing being successful on professional things but are not successful personally. Because you have money doesn't make you successful IMO, it makes you good at what you do...and even that statement is debatable...

Good food for thought.

I find that I'm better at business than I am at relationships of any kind.

 

[IntelligentDyme]

Good food for thought.

I find that I'm better at business than I am at relationships of any kind.

I have been with men who are so good at what they do professionally, but with relationships they really drop the ball, but is was me too.. Sometimes I think we want someone like that, but we fail to realize what it entails in terms of being patient, supportive, and understanding..And sometimes we can be so focused on the next big thing, the next hustle, the next power move, that we don't really enjoy what is right in front of us.. What I have learned is two people who are very driven can be really good together or really bad together lol..but being with someone who has no drive at all is the worst for me, I simply cannot respect it. I think it's all about being balanced, which I guess is true for most things in life, and it's never easy. Good luck to you

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I have been with men who are so good at what they do professionally, but with relationships they really drop the ball, but is was me too.. Sometimes I think we want someone like that, but we fail to realize what it entails in terms of being patient, supportive, and understanding..And sometimes we can be so focused on the next big thing, the next hustle, the next power move, that we don't really enjoy what is right in front of us.. What I have learned is two people who are very driven can be really good together or really bad together lol..but being with someone who has no drive at all is the worst for me, I simply cannot respect it. I think it's all about being balanced, which I guess is true for most things in life, and it's never easy. Good luck to you

In some other thread i was touching on this. About why i don't think wives should work. And how i believe it's really hard for any woman to respect her husband if she's working as well. And i don't think guys fully understand the meaning of this.

Having a man who can take care of you is VITAL. It's...fundamental to women. Hustle and drive and getting out there and getting it? It's all part of that feeling of security. Women first and formost i believe want to be secure. We want to be safe. And when we are secure and safe we can open up like flowers. We WANT to trust and believe and love. And we want to feel that feeling of comfort. And security. That's what males i think just DO NOT GET.

What that hustle and drive and success means to us. It means, at it's most basic primal ebb, that we're safe. We're female. And our male is protecting us.

 

[Rossini]

Uhh yeah... just like I said Jay-Z had swag before he blew up the way he did, I'm sure Russell did too...also I like that Russell is into being healthy and emotionally centered..

I'm not about money, but I definitely won't be with a cat who is broke mentally...meaning no hustle, no confidence, and no intelligence or street smarts.

 

[IntelligentDyme]

Excellent rebuttal....

 

[Rossini]

Excellent rebuttal....

I wasnt even gonna bother to respond, most you females dont even realize its the money that makes the man have swag... especially with a lame like Russell. But think whatever you wanna think.