Sounds like the hoes just don't like you fam. Usually, "Let's smoke weed" gets a positive response. Even if she don't smoke fr
Dating: What are some of your issues and complaints?
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When they don't smoke the attitude is usually "look how cool I am about it." Like I'm supposed to kiss her ass for not pointing the finger at me.
Meanwhile, I don't drink but most of these ladies do. I rarely say a single word about it and they just take that for granted. Like I'm supposed to check them every 5 minutes the way that they do with me.
I don't have time for all that. My attitude is "do you, but I'm keeping my standards."
This must be an in your area thing cause lots of chicks here no djs make money especially depending on establishment you be at or gigs. They also tend to know you have great connections. Broads love free eats and if there’s an open invitation to a cookout, lounge, day party, etc where there’s food they will bring their appetite, than throw in some weed and bing you definitely will have a large demographic of females intrigued by the opportunity. Like I said unless your personality comes off weird, dangerous, or Debbie downer then you will have opportunities. Since you continue to be Mr Debbie downer with making continuous negative excuses I see what’s really keeping the opposite sex away.. it ain’t your activities the females don’t like it’s the Debbie downer mentality you got.. you’ve displayed this various times over the yrs on here.. you may not notice it but I definitely do
Bingoooo
Or it could be that many of those things are done in his house. And if it's a woman that he just met or just started dating, she wants to do things not in his house.
Side note: That nigga said "Read books"!
The crazy thing “read books” has a demographic of chicks that chill at book stores, lay in the grass reading books or conversing about their fave books or certain topics, places where crowds gather around to here people narrate stories( live book readings), dude could literally have a book and there will be chicks at the book store, library going hey what book you reading or I love that book and it will start interest conversations. There’s literally a demographic of chicks he could connect with that are interested in the same genre.. yet he strugglesOr it could be that many of those things are done in his house. And if it's a woman that he just met or just started dating, she wants to do things not in his house.
Side note: That nigga said "Read books"!
Bruh don't do that. There's literally a demographic for everything.
There's a demographic for people that like to eat and play with shit.
There's a demographic for men that like to be beat and dominated, there's a demographic for women that like to be farted on.
The point was in general asking a woman to read will be a turn off to most women.
Unless you're talking a a woman in that demographic.
But we already know this so why...
@godofwine
It's wild you are doing overnights with a random, especially one that you don't like.
@Dannyblueyes
Sounds like you are content with your lifestyle. Props.
IF I were to get back out there, I know I'd switch up the circles I move in. I definitely wouldnt be in bars or nightclubs looking for ass. Have you tried local dj meetup groups? If there are females in there, you already have your foot in the door.
It's wild you are doing overnights with a random, especially one that you don't like.
@Dannyblueyes
Sounds like you are content with your lifestyle. Props.
IF I were to get back out there, I know I'd switch up the circles I move in. I definitely wouldnt be in bars or nightclubs looking for ass. Have you tried local dj meetup groups? If there are females in there, you already have your foot in the door.
She's good people. I think she will be a good friend
She's not a random per se, we've gone out before, but I'm just not feeling it romantically
I'm not dating but just talking in the DM's can be fickled as fuck and as soon as a broad says she's bored in a message directed at you or to you,you're just entertainment to her and you need to get to the point or get the fuck on.
A lot of them don't know shit about shit and can't tell you shit but some bullshit
A lot of them don't know shit about shit and can't tell you shit but some bullshit
First of all, you aint gotta lie to us. That Nina Hartley video is money but you are putting too much on how many nuts you got out of her. If she came 20 times in a few hours, she wouldn't be up at 7am unless she was making you breakfast.Went home with a chick I wasn't expecting to last night- her place. Really wasn't in the mood to smash, plus I hadn't manscaped
She's cool, but bigger than my preference, but she's cool, down to earth, a professional (makes 6 figures) and doesn't have any kids.
She wanted to get it in, so I got my fingers wet, made her cum 20 times and went to sleep (I wanna take this time to thank the Great Nina Hartley for her cunnalingus instructional video. These hands are magic thanks to her, especially when I don't feel like eating)
Anyway, this chick wakes me up at 7AM on a fucking Sunday talking about her internal clock just wakes her up at this time every day, Yada Yada Yada.
So now I'm up. I just went to sleep at 3am!
Then she takes her ass back to sleep, snoring and everything, meanwhile I'm in this strange house on my phone talking to you ninjas.
I like to sleep til at least 10 on weekends. I got no kids, no Real reason to be up since I work Monday through Friday no weekends
I'm not hungry, just bored and no longer sleepy due to this chick waking me up at 7 fucking o'clock in the morning.
I'm gonna need some head when she wakes up, no manscaping be damned.
Anyway. What are some of your complaints? I ain't got nobody to chop it up at 9am but y'all ninjas.
Here's some titties, pussy, and ass for taking the time to hear me bitch
The main lesson out of this was posted in the quote below. Never spend the night at a chick's house if you want to sleep. You should have got the pussy and bounced. Especially if it is a chick you recently met. Not only is it dangerous, but it is an annoyance to you both. Reading your post, it seems like she wanted you to leave but didn't want to ask you to. You spent the night awake next to a snoring fat broad for no reason.
The second bit of game is to not be afraid to demand what you want. You gave this fat broad multiple nuts by eating her pussy and fingering her all night. How does it make sense for you to be bored chatting on BGOL while she is "sleeping" in her bed? Honestly, I would have woke her up with my dick in her mouth and would be noticeably pissed off and left if she did anything less than suck it with maximum effort. Broad is fat, she better not complain about hair on a dick. A lesson within that lesson is that women like and respect for a man to be a tyrant in the bedroom. She can get a nut on demand from a vibrator, but its a different experience for her to be with a dude that is going to take more than she anticipated giving him. As is, you left her house tired with stanky fingers and mustache because you entertained a fat broad until she fell asleep. This was an L. All of this is said with love brother.
I'm married and been out of the dating game for over 7 years, but the biggest annoyance I had when dating was how time consuming it was. I found that online dating offered effortless sex and I didn't spend much money per date (Miniature Golf, walk at the Botanical Gardens, drinks at a bar, or a Ferry ride), but the shit was time consuming. Even when getting to the point where they were just coming to my house it was time consuming and felt like it was hard to get time to myself or invest my time into something or someone else.
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This reads like you need to take the focus off the women and work on yourself. If a woman is into you, she will be into any activity you bring up just to be with you. If a woman isn't into you, then she wont be into any activity you bring up because she is more focused on the activity entertaining her than you.
It's my day off so I've read your post at least a dozen times. I'm definitely a downer, but that's been the case for most of my life and I've still posted numbers in the dozens.
That said, I rarely invite women to my gigs. On any given night there's at least a half dozen females kissing, hugging, and flirting with me in the DJ booth. It's a big part of my job, but a lot of women don't see it that way. Even had to break up a couple fights over it which is bad for business.
I also don't date regulars or staff because that can get messy real quick. They can be friends and many of them are, but that's as far as it goes. Same applies to females in the event industry because that's where I make the most money.
That's why I tend to pursue women who don't go to clubs. The problem there is that many of them consider my lifestyle to be immoral, immature, or just plain undesirable. Far as they are concerned if they haven't already heard of you then you might as well not exist.
Case in point, a few years ago l had a sales call with a potential wedding client and I was positive that she would sign up.
She ended up hiring someone else. I was a bit disappointed so I told my girlfriend at the time. Her reply was "okay can you finally admit that this is just a hobby and go look for a real job now?"
I didn't. Instead I filled that Saturday by signing up another wedding client who paid more money than the first. My girlfriend didn't change her tone one bit. Said it was proof that my income was inconsistent and gave me even more shit for not filling out applications.
Man, I don't know any other legal profession where a man can make $1,500 in a single day and still have women see him as a failure.
For the most part that's exactly what I do. Haven't even asked a woman out in over 6 months. Too busy cashing checks and reading about philosophy.
man...do your thing
if you happy and cant take care of your responsibilities...fuck what a woman thinks
Sounds like that was the particular female who obviously was naive to the whole bizzness.. cause any person with common sense and knowledge knows anything catering to a wedding is money.. photographer, making suits/ dresses, cakes, providing location, wedding singer, dj, transportation, etc. if you in that circuit and this is your clientele than it’s obvious you generating a certain type of income.. it’s obvious that female was naive and couldn’t comprehend certain genres. So it sounds like you had the wrong female in your corner or gave a higher position to a person that obviously didn’t earn it. A female with sense would know you bringing in money , shutdafucup, and be proud that her man is in certain circuits.. if she was a real chick she would always be promoting your services to others cause there’s someone in her circle that’s bound to get married or know someone that is.
I can’t imagine what life would be like for me if wifey and I didn’t make it.
Dating would feel weird as hell.
Dating would feel weird as hell.
for me use to be good pussy/bad pussy...now its eitther she crazy or she aint..i can trade wit some bad pussy for the aint crazy chic..
She knew.
Her main beef was that the wedding season only lasts from the beginning of May to the end of October. After that you have some Christmas parties, NYE, and not much else until the following May.
Because of this I lived below my means. Didn't own a car. Didn't take vacations. Lived in a small house with several roommates in a low income neighborhood. Used a Metro GPS phone. Rarely went out to eat without a combo meal. Kept my debt in check. Worked as a bike courier so that I could turn off the app and play offseason gigs without issues.
All the while my clientele grew and I gradually increased my prices, but to her it looked like I was standing still because nothing really changed. I had a better website, bigger speakers, cooler lights and things like that, but it doesn't mean much to someone who's not in the business.
However, last year I got enough club gigs to stop delivering food. That raised my profile and led to more lucrative wedding gigs. My income shot up and last month me and a friend went half on a four-bedroom house.
Americans love to look successful. I actually want to be successful and any chick who can't handle that can kiss my ass.
I hate when OVERLY aggressive females...
Great luck in your quest.
If you find her attractive plenty other dudes and some women did as well. Way before you.
They didn't sit around playing checkers every night!
I found one and bagged it up and took it home with me.Younger model...low mileage ..no kids..still with the new car smell.
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Can I send you a DM? I need some advice bro.
Yeah, they can sense that weakness. Shit was a depressing read.
Damn, that sounds like someone ready to snip his balls and become a eunuch.
feel free..my nigg
For real! You know how many times I had drill into my wife's head that 2 blinks is the signal for "dine & dash"?! I don't have time to be training new & different chicks.
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I'm keeping mine on the off chance that I can find a woman who can benefit my life. They're not going to stick around unless you can lay the pipe.
Other than that, what's the point?
And my tolerance levels would be real low too. My wife keeps up with my humor and wit, and we have a shitload of inside jokes.
It would take a while for me to get used to.
