LOL, of course black men know what intimacy is. All men do but until that man matures the most important issue to a man is the one staring him in the face at that given moment. Until he is a developed and mature man the most important relationship and/or woman is the one currently in his face. U wonder how someone could cheat on a Halle Berry or a Vanessa Williams? Well the most finest woman, best Puxxy, best opportunity is the one that's currently fronting U.
Now let's not get too down on men cause women don't really know who they are relationship wise until about their mid 30's. Tha's right about the age they've been screwed over enuf to realize that a six pack of abs, a pretty face, a big pay check etc. ain't all it's cracked up to be. Right about mid 30's is when a woman realizes fake hair, fake eyes, fake nails and her fake reality don't change the fact that she still is screwed up to all get out. There's a certain reality that comes with mid 30's. The beauty of it is she starts to know what she'll accept and what she won't. I think that's extremely beautiful in a woman. Mind U, nothing is ever everything or everyone but mid 30's is when it usually starts to kick in. Takes a lil longer for men. Hopefully the man will have gotten all his running out in his younger years and will be a lil tired of the game.