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LoneStar29
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How do men really feel about women who don't mind spending money on a date???
Like I don't mind when a guy treats me but I always feel like when someone does something nice for me that I should return the favour no matter what it is ... but there are men who seemed almost insulted that I pulled my wallett out
How should a woman handle that???
Like I don't mind when a guy treats me but I always feel like when someone does something nice for me that I should return the favour no matter what it is ... but there are men who seemed almost insulted that I pulled my wallett out
How should a woman handle that???
i just spent money on a date.
it was 3v3 bill came out to $44 i put 30 down.
it ain't shit...females should not have to pay IMO.
now movies and shit is another ball game.
it was 3v3 bill came out to $44 i put 30 down.
it ain't shit...females should not have to pay IMO.
now movies and shit is another ball game.
LoneStar29
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So women shouldn't pay for dinner but they should pay for the movies???
How do men really feel about women who don't mind spending money on a date???
Like I don't mind when a guy treats me but I always feel like when someone does something nice for me that I should return the favour no matter what it is ... but there are men who seemed almost insulted that I pulled my wallett out
How should a woman handle that???
Never had this problem but some dudes I conversated with back in the day WANTED a chick to foot the bill once in a while. Something about being equals...
But let me take this from another angle. What say you if the chick pays and the dude doesn't? Or that the dude can't/won't pay for a date period? Why might a dude do this?
(If any of ya'll answers include 'he ain't into you' then I kinda already peeped that.)
Depends.
Is dinner Applebees or that chic 'insert nationality' joint in Midtown? Also, was the movie any good? If it was straight garbage I don't think anyone want's to admit they paid for it...
But that's my gathering...
I think men should pay for pretty much everything, as far as dates go. Although I'm the type to turn down money for everything...If a man doesn't allow me to pay then the least I can do is throw in the tip.
I feel as if I owe a person if I let them spend money on me. My man hates it because he gives me money for rent, bills, shopping, etc...but I usually take half if not less...
I feel as if I owe a person if I let them spend money on me. My man hates it because he gives me money for rent, bills, shopping, etc...but I usually take half if not less...
Always feel him out. In a roundabout way the Guy is feeling you out even before he gets the number, if at all. If you give the impression you want dick he will take that as the main impression and his goal will be to give you what you want
Yes there is a such thing as completely undesirable but it bears on personal preference and how much alcohol. honestly men could want to fuck a trifilin attitude female just to put her ass straight by giving her the D. and then at the same time she could just not do it for him. Im pretty sure you think some men are completely undesirable dont you?
When I've gone on dates or I'm offered money for things I was never one to take it. I'm like that with friends and fam too. As far as hubs goes, he's always giving me the cash for the rent and bs but I either tell him no or just give me enough for the electric or some shit.
If a girl you were cool with or fuckin' told you not to talk to a chick she didnt like...Just because...Would you do it?
Not your woman-just a random ho you you make feel special by gassing her up and fucking her sometime
Hell no. She random. Da fuck I look like doin that. Like someone said earlier, don't treat the jumpoff like wifey.
As an aside, I might not even do that for wifey. Depending on the situation. But what I am willing to do is make sure that wifey is around when I have to interact with the woman she doesn't like. SOME women ( men too ) can get wayyyy too emotional and upset over an imagined slight. I change my life around for b.s.
Shiiiiiit. If its the guys affair then he should do the honorable thing and pay. Now if its the womans affair then she should pay. Now if it is a mutual get together then that should be discussed off the jump
How do men really feel about women who don't mind spending money on a date???
Like I don't mind when a guy treats me but I always feel like when someone does something nice for me that I should return the favour no matter what it is ... but there are men who seemed almost insulted that I pulled my wallett out
How should a woman handle that???
In my perception I think it goes back to what you said earlier about feeling a man out. you can test your theory by trying to pay for something. Now 3, 4 dates in is when I would really test that, just because the initial courting is kind of out of the way a little and then you can start to really see. Now I say three or four dates because that usually means three or four weeks if it makes it that far.
I agree to an extent...Just going by the old fashion rules that the man pays
I'm a fan of going half on stuff though...
I agree to an extent...Just going by the old fashion rules that the man pays
I'm a fan of going half on stuff though...
lol with my present financial situation as well as my womans we live by the going half on w/e. Now if I notice a pattern where I am always paying and she doesnt off at all then Im like WTF. lol but it rarely ever comes to that
I feel you. Even though I believe men should pay, I always offer to...
Sometimes the poor dude be feeling disrespected in a way, like I hurt him or something...I can't help it though. I'm used to providing for myself...
but i will say one thing. If a women decides to do one of those "I can take care of myself" things in front of him that will be the end of that relationship. The reason why is the man wants to feel needed and respected and a statement like that shows neither in his eyes.
ok like i read this post and im still not able to understand what you're trying to say.
UrBoss when u say "dates" without "hubby" are u saying niggus trick off on you?
(clothes shopping monet ect)
(clothes shopping monet ect)
Yea I'm starting to catch on to that now...He told me straight up he don't like it and it's almost as if he's less of a man because he's not providing for me. It's hard though, (for example) recently he gave me dough for everything (rent etc..) and I felt like what do I do now? What good am I? As if I can't take care of myself anymore, even though that's not the case. It's going to take getting used to...
Anyone else not understanding this??
When I say dates I mean like going out on a date (movies, club, dinner...). In the past with an ex or a dude I was talking to/seeing for that time would offer me money for whatever it may be (shopping, bills), and it was refused.
Im pretty sure you can tell when someone is buying the pussy and when someone generally has an interest in your well being.
Most definitely. I think if I was raised different and made some different choices I wouldn't have this problem. At some point I'm really just gonna have to give in because I can't be married and tell my husband no I'll pay the mortgage and utilities on my own...If anything I would do the half and half on it all. Or let him pay the mortgage I'll do the utils
Most definitely. I think if I was raised different and made some different choices I wouldn't have this problem. At some point I'm really just gonna have to give in because I can't be married and tell my husband no I'll pay the mortgage and utilities on my own...If anything I would do the half and half on it all. Or let him pay the mortgage I'll do the utils
sounds like smart thinking to me. Like I told my woman my first marriage (i havnt married again yet) i didnt have a partner. I was not great to her and vice versa. What I need is a partner, when shit goes south and i dont see it in the relationship I would hope my partner would care enough to bring it up and discuss the problem at hand. I didnt have that before so for me it took a bad experience to learn what I really wanted in a relationship and in a marriage.
cumming on my face is too kinky???? WOW. Thats all i wanted...
It was just one particular guy...
Thanks for the answer...I'm gonna think of more questions...
I don't think cumming on your face is too kinky. There's far more kinkier, weird stuff than that. That's fairly tame compared to what you might be asking (did you mention that specific act in the orginal post, cause I think I missed it). By the same token, it's individualistic and maybe it was too kinky for him.
At the same, while I would do if asked, it's not a particular thrill for me.
As an addendum, we don't like to lose what we've already got and will try to hoard it if we can. If you don't stop it with real resolve, then when you say no, we hear yes.
I like your thinking
. Not even just marriage, I think any relationship you need to be each others other half. What one lacks the other brings, you bring each other up, take care of each other. A relationship is a connection between people, not A person.LoneStar29
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To be honest it doesn't matter to me either way ... I wont leave my house unless I have money in my purse and I wont order or ask for anything that I don't have money in my purse for ... if he wants to treat me that is very kind of him but I'm not expecting him to ... and 9/10 I will do something in return wether it be buy dessert or a bottle of wine or something I hate when men see that and try to take advantage of it though ... I guess that is how men feel with gold diggers
Yeah I feel that
First, the word is conversation, not conversated (there is no such verb!). If you use the word conversated, then you deserve to be with a date who can't or won't pay for a date. It simply means the stars have aligned to put you in touch with a person that conversates, as opposed to some dudes I spoke with back in the day. People who conversate typically job, but don't work and have no money.
BTW -- would you like to conversate over dinner with me? And you'll pick up the check, right?
ok i get what you saying now @ UrBoss
and lonestar i pay for Dates but movies....naw. shit is like hanging out.
and lonestar i pay for Dates but movies....naw. shit is like hanging out.
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have a question-Men do you understand that your woman NEEDS intimacy do ya'll know what that is????
Also do you know we dont mind you watchin porn and looking at ass and titties....But dayum dont forget about us!
Maybe we want that same attention too....
Ok but for real my question is about intimacy-do you guys know what that is?
How do men really feel about women who don't mind spending money on a date???
Like I don't mind when a guy treats me but I always feel like when someone does something nice for me that I should return the favour no matter what it is ... but there are men who seemed almost insulted that I pulled my wallett out
How should a woman handle that???
LONE STAR29 START THE YOUTUBE VID AND BEGIN READING BELOW!!
Hey Lone Star29.....I dont have a problem with you pullin yo wallet out!
You can pay for dinner anytime you get ready, I wont stop you!
Hey Loan Star29 can you buy me a plane ticket to where ever your at so we can talk about this face to face!
But anyway will you buy me some new Callaway golf clubs and I want some Titalis golf balls they're expensive but since you wannna spend your money I'm just tryin to help you out.
Oh and about that plane ticket I prefer to fly in the morning when the pilot and crew are fresh and sharp. Hell they might have a hang over but I'm always best when I'm suffering from a bad hangover!!
Hey Lone Star29 will you let me use one of your credit cards, since you got so many you wont miss one will you?
Hey Lone Star29 would it be asking too much if you put me up at a 5 star hotel when I get there cause I dont do low thread count sheets and only 5 star hotels have the right thread count.
Oh hey Lone Star29 since you got sooooooooooooo much $$$$ to spare on a brotha I got this mortguage payment thats due the first of next month. If you want to I'll let you write a check for as many months you can crank out! Go Fo It Girrrl, you the shit!!!
Hey Lone Star29 will you....................?
Hey Lone Star29, one more question.........?
Lone Star, I got this car payment thats due the 15th of every month, I mean if you want too I'll let you pay this months since I'm a couple of days late, hell I'll take care of the late fees myself!!
Sooooooooooo..........if you want to.....Hook a Brotha Uuuup?
Hey Lone Star29.........will you?........can you?......let me!.............I think we should......Hey Lone Star.....!!!!!!
LONE STAR29!!!!
HEY LONE STAR29!!!!!
HEY LOOOOONNE STARRRRRR29!!!!!!!!!!!!
why do women make such poor selections in guys? That's my question.
