Ask a black man a question thread (for the ladies that want to know)

Adam Knows

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seriously ask me.

any question you may have wondered regarding why men do, how, where, when and why or just because. you may like the answer, you may not.

*this should be interesting.........
 
Re: Ask a man thread (for the ladies that want to know)

Oh this is a good idea :lol: :yes:

Ok ok I got one

Why is it that men want to have seen so soon after you meet them but then label you a hoe if you do it???

This guy I met wanted to have sex with me on our first date and after I told him no he said "good cuz then I wouldn't have respected you" ... so then I was like "but if that would make me a hoe and we fuckin' each other that would make you ... ???":confused:
 

Adam Knows

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Re: Ask a man thread (for the ladies that want to know)

Oh this is a good idea :lol: :yes:

Ok ok I got one

Why is it that men want to have seen so soon after you meet them but then label you a hoe if you do it???

This guy I met wanted to have sex with me on our first date and after I told him no he said "good cuz then I wouldn't have respected you" ... so then I was like "but if that would make me a hoe and we fuckin' each other that would make you ... ???":confused:

goes to the "thrill of the chase" no sport in a easy laydown.

Plus, if you give it up on the first date, more then likely you've done so for a multitude of others (the logic we go by) hence being labeled "hoe" or "slut"
 
Re: Ask a man thread (for the ladies that want to know)

goes to the "thrill of the chase" no sport in a easy laydown.

Plus, if you give it up on the first date, more then likely you've done so for a multitude of others (the logic we go by) hence being labeled "hoe" or "slut"

So even though men complain that women play games technically not only are ya'll playing a game but you are forcing us to as well ... sorta ... we gotta time when we give it up so we don't look like a hoe in ya'lls eyes right???
 

Adam Knows

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Re: Ask a man thread (for the ladies that want to know)

So even though men complain that women play games technically not only are ya'll playing a game but you are forcing us to as well ... sorta ... we gotta time when we give it up so we don't look like a hoe in ya'lls eyes right???

well...no.

it's not so much of a game. yes we DO want to have sex, no question. BUT if your willing to give it that easily, then yes we will take it. In the end though most will look upon you as an easy conquest which you've probably done many times with other men. so there goes the respect.
 

onyxfemme

Punk Ass Decepticons!
BGOL Investor
I like this thread and idea!

I hope it stays positive :)
It better stay positive dayum it!!!!

I hope that some of the other fellas chime in and post in response to questions.

I have one:

Why do men tell women what they want to hear when they know they are telling them wrong. I know a dude that gave a sista wrong advice that made her look foolish and stupid and she doesnt even have a clue:dunno:
But now dude is laughing at her behind her back at how gullible she is.....WTF?
 

melonpecan

Rising Star
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*raises hand


If I specifically say I want what you want, and you want "I don't know", what the fuck am I to do? Am I suppose to know what you want? Am I to read your mind? Why all the "I don't know" or "I don't care" when you could just tell me? I mean seriously, If I SPECIFICALLY want to know, for your own benefit, WHY WON'T YOU TELL ME!?!


:angry:


Sorry.

That's my question.
 

SamSneed

Disciple of Zod
BGOL Investor
I like this thread and idea!

I hope it stays positive :)
It better stay positive dayum it!!!!

I hope that some of the other fellas chime in and post in response to questions.

I have one:

Why do men tell women what they want to hear when they know they are telling them wrong. I know a dude that gave a sista wrong advice that made her look foolish and stupid and she doesnt even have a clue:dunno:
But now dude is laughing at her behind her back at how gullible she is.....WTF?

wow of all the shit i've told chics,i haven't done that one.
 

SamSneed

Disciple of Zod
BGOL Investor
Hey Sam's on SOL ... YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY:)
this is my first post here,never cared to look but i saw this thread and well....
Yeah kind of grimy but I was discussing this today at work with the "guys" in question...They didnt like the chick-:smh:

not even to chics i don't like,well i don't hang around long enough for me to not like them.
 

sean69

Star
BGOL Investor
I like this thread and idea!

I hope it stays positive :)
It better stay positive dayum it!!!!

I hope that some of the other fellas chime in and post in response to questions.

I have one:

Why do men tell women what they want to hear when they know they are telling them wrong. I know a dude that gave a sista wrong advice that made her look foolish and stupid and she doesnt even have a clue:dunno:
But now dude is laughing at her behind her back at how gullible she is.....WTF?

Oh. This is easy. I got this one.

Because women can't handle the truth but they can handle what it's not and not that they want not to handle it, it being what not isn't the truth, but what the truth might be and possibly not be depending on the answer of the later.
 

BrownTurd

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BGOL Investor
Re: Ask a man thread (for the ladies that want to know)

Oh this is a good idea :lol: :yes:

Ok ok I got one

Why is it that men want to have seen so soon after you meet them but then label you a hoe if you do it???

This guy I met wanted to have sex with me on our first date and after I told him no he said "good cuz then I wouldn't have respected you" ... so then I was like "but if that would make me a hoe and we fuckin' each other that would make you ... ???":confused:
As men we would prefer to be honest and say we just want sex. But women tend to force us to lie. Even if a woman is thinking about having sex. Most are condition to not be upfront about it because it is not lady like. So indirectly it forces men to lie to set the mode. Cause walking up to a female saying "Hey I want to fuck you" will not get him far.
 

SamSneed

Disciple of Zod
BGOL Investor
Re: Ask a man thread (for the ladies that want to know)

As men we would prefer to be honest and say we just want sex. But women tend to force us to lie. Even if a woman is thinking about having sex. Most are condition to not be upfront about it because it is not lady like. So indirectly it forces men to lie to set the mode. Cause walking up to a female saying "Hey I want to fuck you" will not get him far.

i did it once and it worked,but that was the last time i did it
 

jjUSTAZZ

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Oh. This is easy. I got this one.

Because women can't handle the truth but they can handle what it's not and not that they want not to handle it, it being what not isn't the truth, but what the truth might be and possibly not be depending on the answer of the later.

SEAN you are crazy as hell....:lol::hmm:

As men we would prefer to be honest and say we just want sex. But women tend to force us to lie. Even if a woman is thinking about having sex. Most are condition to not be upfront about it because it is not lady like. So indirectly it forces men to lie to set the mode. Cause walking up to a female saying "Hey I want to fuck you" will not get him far.


You lost me right there....:smh:
 

BrownTurd

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
I like this thread and idea!

I hope it stays positive :)
It better stay positive dayum it!!!!

I hope that some of the other fellas chime in and post in response to questions.

I have one:

Why do men tell women what they want to hear when they know they are telling them wrong. I know a dude that gave a sista wrong advice that made her look foolish and stupid and she doesnt even have a clue:dunno:
But now dude is laughing at her behind her back at how gullible she is.....WTF?
Advice is Logical and woman tend to be more emotional. That is like taking a program that was designed to run on a mac and placing it on a PC. It just will not work. So giving advice which is logical to an emotional person is a waste of time. This is why we lie. We figure most of the time she aint gone listen any way so we let her make a fool of herself
 
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BrownTurd

Rising Star
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SEAN you are crazy as hell....:lol::hmm:




You lost me right there....:smh:
If a man were to be honest and say "Hey jjUSTAZZ I just want to fuck and that is it" 99% of women will turn him down even if she was physically attracted to him and wanted to sleep with him. So the female is indirectly forcing the dude to lie
 
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SWATLANTA

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Swat is in the building, ask away ladies....:cool:
 

BrownTurd

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*raises hand


If I specifically say I want what you want, and you want "I don't know", what the fuck am I to do? Am I suppose to know what you want? Am I to read your mind? Why all the "I don't know" or "I don't care" when you could just tell me? I mean seriously, If I SPECIFICALLY want to know, for your own benefit, WHY WON'T YOU TELL ME!?!


:angry:


Sorry.

That's my question.
This video explains your question

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GuMZ73mT5zM

 

DeSiRe

The Get It Girl
BGOL Investor
should a woman be concerned if a man has more sex toys than she does

why do men cockblock other men even when they arent in a relationship

why do men flaunt their money then get upset when women inquire about it

whats the best way to deal with a man with alot of baggage

whats the differene between swallowing and catching it

is it true most men want a woman like their mother

how important is lingere

girls who like and watch porn...turn on or red flag?

how do u feel about dating outside your socio-economic stadus

why do men say "ayeeeeeeeee where yo man at" as a pickup line

why are guys so obsessed with natural hair on the mainboard

whats the quickest way to find out if a man is being sincere or trying to tell a woman what she wants to hear

thanks for answering :)
 

SWATLANTA

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
should a woman be concerned if a man has more sex toys than she does

There should be a red flag raised, especially if the cat has dildos...and those dildos smell like shit !

why do men cockblock other men even when they arent in a relationship

The hate gene is strong in some cats, they just can't help it...

why do men flaunt their money then get upset when women inquire about it

Depends on what you asked and how you asked it. His "gold-digger" flag may have come up when you inquired. He probably flaunts his money to cover up other inadequacies in his personality (a lot of brothas do this). He wants you to recognize his success without actually addressing it. Sort of how you wear a low cut top to pique a man's interests on a first date, but you would get turned off if he said "Your breasts look lovely tonight, are they real ?"...


whats the best way to deal with a man with alot of baggage

We all carry a little baggage, but it's best not to get caught up with someone who is overwhelmed with baggage...You'll be dealing with their issues the entire relationship which will just become more and more frustrating...


whats the differene between swallowing and catching it

A woman can catch it all in her mouth and spit it in a napkin, back on his penis, the bathroom, or in her girlfriends mouth (in the case of a cumswap session)...swallowing speaks for itself !

is it true most men want a woman like their mother

this depends on the individual...I would go crazy !

how important is lingerie

also depends on the individual, I could care less while another cat could get really turned on by it..

girls who like and watch porn...turn on or red flag?

In my opinion it is a turn on...

how do u feel about dating outside your socio-economic status

I wish I could say that it doesn't matter, but in some cases there could be problems presented...

why do men say "ayeeeeeeeee where yo man at" as a pickup line

You know some really lame cats if that is what they are saying to pick up women...

why are guys so obsessed with natural hair on the mainboard

It says to me that a woman is comfortable with herself. There is something special about a woman who doesn't hide behind layers of make-up and fake hair to project someone that she isn't...

whats the quickest way to find out if a man is being sincere or trying to tell a woman what she wants to hear

If it sounds too good to be true then it probably is, nobody is going to agree with everything you say...



thanks for answering :)

Stay thirsty my friends...
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bigirl

anti- voluntary ignorance
BGOL Investor
OK why y'all seem to be so fucking lazy about sex? You never want to make the first move, never want to be on top, want the woman to do everything(which is a HUGE turnoff BTW)???!!!
 

Andeyhollawho

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
*raises hand


If I specifically say I want what you want, and you want "I don't know", what the fuck am I to do? Am I suppose to know what you want? Am I to read your mind? Why all the "I don't know" or "I don't care" when you could just tell me? I mean seriously, If I SPECIFICALLY want to know, for your own benefit, WHY WON'T YOU TELL ME!?!


:angry:


Sorry.

That's my question.

This one is not as complicated as it is about to sound! :lol:

See men have priorities in life. Let's say this is a question about food just to make it easier. You are on your way home and you say "What do you want me to bring you to eat." Your man responds with "I don't know. Whatever you want is fine." With me...

Ok the man's thought process ended right there! :lol: Especially if you two have been together long enough to establish a pattern of fast food eating. What your man is expecting you to say next is "I had a taste for KFC." to which he would reply "Bring me the usual. No better yet bring me the chicken strip dinner with macaroni and baked beans" Annnnnd back to whatever the hell he was doing case closed.

The way this conversation will go though is...(the male will be highlighted for emphasis on the pain!) :lol:

"I don't know."...
"Well I don't know either that's why I asked you."...
"Well whatever you want baby is fine with me."...
"See we go through this shit every damn time. Why won't you just tell me what the hell you want."...
"Cause I don't know what I want goddamn it. KFC then. Bring me a chicken..."...
"I don't want no damn KFC."...
"Checkers then."...
"Is that all you want to eat is some damn burgers and chicken. Goddamn can we try something else?"...
"Well what the hell you want then. I said I don't care."...
"I guess you don't care about this relationship either now do you?"...
"What the fuck..."...
"Fuck you nigga. You'll eat whatever the hell I bring home."...
Click...
"Didn't I just say that muthafucking shit like ten minutes ago. Man what the fuck?" :angry:

:roflmao:

Get it now...:yes:
 

kjxxxx

Star
Registered
Re: Ask a man thread (for the ladies that want to know)

Oh this is a good idea :lol: :yes:

Ok ok I got one

Why is it that men want to have seen so soon after you meet them but then label you a hoe if you do it???

This guy I met wanted to have sex with me on our first date and after I told him no he said "good cuz then I wouldn't have respected you" ... so then I was like "but if that would make me a hoe and we fuckin' each other that would make you ... ???":confused:

I think guys who think like that is stupid. I am going to assume that before you go on a date with someone you usually talk to them over the phone and you try to learn something about them. Even if you only met them that they and you talked a lot and got to know each other in a way that made you feel close and you slept with them. I still wouldn't call you a hoe. I have slept with all my girlfriends on the first date. I was either the first guy they slept with and or the 2nd or 3rd and they all were boyfriends. So based on dudes definition they would all be hoes. He's an asshole.

If I have been checking you out and I believe you are the girl I want to be with but you've never wanted to go out with me. So you finally went out with me and gave me the booty that night. So you would be a hoe by his definition.

So you go on a cruise and you been checking this guy out on the cruise and you finally got the courage to talk to him on the last day and ended spending the whole day with him and had a mad passionate night. He could think of you as a hoe or someone worth pursuing a relationship with.

It's not all so cut and dry. If you find a guy who will not respect you after he sleeps with you even if it's on the first date then he is a hypocrite and you don't need hypocrites in your life unless you are one. Then perfect match. I might even go out on the limb and say if he feels its ok for him then he might feel the same way about him sleeping with other women when he is with you. He may think you are a nasty hoe for sleeping with someone else and be extremely enraged while totally ignoring the fact that he has been doing it the whole relationship.

So I guess you should ask him if he would sleep with you on the first date or has he ever. And I guess you could ask him how he feels about people who do.
 

SamSneed

Disciple of Zod
BGOL Investor
OK why y'all seem to be so fucking lazy about sex? You never want to make the first move, never want to be on top, want the woman to do everything(which is a HUGE turnoff BTW)???!!!

i like being on top,put them damn legs way back and pound that ass till i get tired,i cant bust while on top :confused:
 
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