If more men learned to delay gratification and realized that they have the power of relationship, I think that would stop the amount of cats going to the end of the earth for some pussy.
Women = Power of pussy
Men = Power of relationship
Even the sluttiest ho wants to be wifed up by some nigga....Its a shame so many cats dont see the picture
if u think being an asshole is gonna get u women u are sadly mistaken
even if u think u found a woman who likes it....why would u want to invite that negative energy in your relationship or life for that matter
i love nice guys...but i dont want a push over
if i sense that if we get mugged u will run away or be unable to protect me im turned off
if i sense that if someone disrespects me while we are out it will be up to me to handle the situation im turned off
if i sense that if we get poor service at a resturant i will have to be the one to ensure we get what we paid for i will be turned off
i am assertive...i get what i want and get shit done...however i do not want to be the dominate one...i do not have a penis
its not about being "nice" its about being able to provide security...women just don't say it and express it correctly...and it doesnt help that many women do not have positive examples of what a man should be
was no different growing up in philly during the crack era. You're 16 years old, doing the right thing, but all the girls your age are fucking with 21 year old hustlers driving acura legends copping reebok classics. Shit sucked indeed. And a lot of them got pregnant by those dudes who of course, subsequently went to prison. Fast fwd 15 years, they're baby father is still in the feds doin a kingpin bid, and they're bitching like they can't find a good man.
With that said, i still don't take that out on every sista. Some dudes on this board paint all black women with the same brush, then get pissed when sistas do the same thing with regards to black men.
c/s.another thing to keep in mind, is that a lot of chicks, especially early 20s, will deal with dudes that claim to be 'nice', but either act like pricks, or dudes that pretend to be 'nice'...but they got hurt by chicks in the past, so they're carrying that bitter shit with them...
So now these chicks see dudes that claim they're nice...but they're bitter ass fuckers that do the same shit that the thug niggas do...so they just might mess with the thug niggas, cuz it's a known quantity..
Because truth be told, there are dudes that claim they are 'nice guys' but they are not, for whatever reason (simps, bitter, etc.) and what dudes need to do, is be yourself, work on yourself, and get your paper up. Chicks respect/dig money and the power, so that's what i'm working out to counteract my niceness (because i am inherently 'nice', i can't turn that shit off..i've tried)..
...Bingo. Reminds me of this debate I had with this broad. She tried to challenge me by saying "What if I dont want a relationship, and I just wanna fuck?..Who got the power then?" I told her she's still in the wrong, because the difference between a man and a woman is, a man can fuck 100 women with no emotional attachments. If a woman fucked 100 men, she would be emotionally attached to at least 1.
They would talk to you all day, but if you wasn't flashing that green the convo wouldn't get you anywhere. Young suburban cats can't feel that.
no, what Im saying is that not all nice guys are being honest with themselves just like these women are not being honest with themselves...I said nice guys get scooped up by smart women and they do, but not all women are smart like that and not all nice guys are truly good dudes...just like these bussas who want men to think they are still of high value,some dudes do shit just to get validated..
It's funny how nobody talking about the mental side in this thread. For every action there is a reaction. Instead of talking about how fuck up a lot of these women are, why don't we get to the root of the problem by asking ourselves, how did this way of thinking start for a lot of these women, why do a high percentage of women think that "nice men" are too weak or not manly enougn, What need to change in order for women to stop chasing low life men and how can us men change for the better, in order for women to do better for themselves? Because lets not act like these women are the only ones with the problem, men also need to do some soul searching....
