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they don't want to hear that, they value that shit with all of their life.... like if that shit is a measure of moral value
Let me see who would touch your statement
looks like you might be right...
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looks like you might be right...
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Manly P. Hall hits the nail on the head...
http://www.disclose.tv/action/viewvideo/11479/Manly_P__Hall___From_Knowledge_to_Wisdom_Pt_2_6/
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http://www.disclose.tv/action/viewvideo/11479/Manly_P__Hall___From_Knowledge_to_Wisdom_Pt_2_6/
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it wouldnt work for women...they cant take rejection like that
their whole persona is based on thinking everyone wants them
as soon as they get rejected a few times they'd be broken as shit.
notice how sad and defeated them bitches look after asking if ud like a lap dance and you tell them no thank you.
they ask like 3 niggas...if aint no one checking for them they start that
"oh these broke ass niggas routine" and niggas steadily getting dances
from other bitches.....shit is crazy to see a bitches form of effort and the
reaction to being told no....bitches hate being told no.
C/S...I remember when I was in college and we were having this discussion. A couple of chicks said they dont holla on the strength of rejection. Like its embedded in our culture for the man to pursue the woman so if they were trying to get at a guy, and he said no thank you, they would think something is wrong with them.
Most times the chicks most likely to pursue are the mediocre to ugly ones. Its the same for both men and women I guess. Thats how we're always fascinated by how an ugly cat can be with a bad ass chick. Same applies for women. If shawti lackin on the looks, she better start speaking up and negotiatin.
do u know how fucking dumb one has to be if they are outside top14 or tier 1 ????
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Not so bruh. There are several specialized law schools that are not top "tier" schools (according to some arbitrary rating by US News) that do quite well for themselves.Howard Law isn't regarded as a top tier law school, but next to Georgetown Law, they graduate the 2nd highest number of Black lawyers in America. The job placement rate for students before graduation is an astonishing percentage. Black law students choose to go to the HU$L's and Texas Southern's of the country to be around other Blacks for support during the tribulations of law school. Nothing dumb about them. Plus, at the end of the day it's all about passing the Bar and getting that payday!! And this lil dumb ninja did both lol
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Rick Ronson
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congrats mane
Ok but what about attractive AND educated women of color who are in University trying to have a good career, LOOKS BEAUTIFUL, cultured, worldly, not the Church type, work out at least 4 times a week, COOKS, uninhibited in the bed, has intelligent conversation, likes to play video games, watch anime/cartoons, loves jazz music and indie movies, is slightly artsy without being hipster, aren't crazy or sick in the head, don't want children until marriage, etc, the list goes on.
Nonexistent.
This thread is full of bitchassness and sorry ass people trying to disperse advice.
sooooo glad i don't have to deal with none of this B/S....
simple solution for a simple problem....
be better then them....
a woman quickly falls into place if she has no upper hand on you...
congrats mane
Thanks bruh!
That's exactly what's going on here! As one bruh said here, a lot of women with education look down on brothas who don't have similar "credentials". But the problem these women are having is that men who do have similar education and professional success aren't trying to get married to some uppity "bitch" that can't cook, clean, isn't fun, isn't submissive (bad word for some sistas) and ultimately doesn't have the criteria that brothas want in a potential wife. And if they do "date down", that upper hand shit gonna get old quick and no man is going to want to be hen-pecked for the rest of his life by some uppity "bitch" who expects him to be a house husband just because he doesn't have a degree or make as much money as her.
Solution: these sistas should work on their other intangibles, namely their personalities. Being a "bitch" is a cop out; an obvious mask to lie to the world that they're OK being single and lonely. I hope all those degrees and job titles can take them out the movies and hold them at night
but you know what, these kats will just continue on and complain instead of doing something about it...
I think it's more of a counterpoint than a complaint...
The only people bitching about being lonely are these "sucessful" (the irony) black women.
If there is a complaint from men it's hearing about how it's OUR fault and they never take into consideration that maybe....maybe...that they may have character flaws that are keeping them lonely.
Cause no "good" man turns down a sure winner.
*two cents*
would mind sharing them with the fam?
We can, but I can say that we're not the ones out at the club dropping it like it's hot all the time or going to all the parties, with everything hanging out looking for someone to "pick us up"
We're at the low-key spots, the bookstore, specialty stores, etc. and the black men are walking around those same stores with Becky...
<Sigh> It's cool, though...me and my black man are going to be ok
Right. And thats what these men don't realize. You get what you go for.We can, but I can say that we're not the ones out at the club dropping it like it's hot all the time or going to all the parties, with everything hanging out looking for someone to "pick us up"
We're at the low-key spots, the bookstore, specialty stores, etc. and the black men are walking around those same stores with Becky...
<Sigh> It's cool, though...me and my black man are going to be ok
And let's not talk about the ones who at like they're scared to date an intlligent black woman. all these ASSumptions that an educated black woman will be arrogant, won't know how to cook, will be ugly... Mentally juvenile men. And yet they think they are the cream of the cropI wonder if she understands shes just a jumpoff to her "winter boo"
I have a cousin who's a helluva lawyer but has a "winter boo" that is a lawyer too, he comes over and beat the skins up and leave. So she asks me why he wont take her anywhere. Maybe cause he's married? duhhhhh
I have a cousin who's a helluva lawyer but has a "winter boo" that is a lawyer too, he comes over and beat the skins up and leave. So she asks me why he wont take her anywhere. Maybe cause he's married? duhhhhh
Very true.
I personally avoid the "I Got My (Liberal Studies) Degree Black Bitch" like the plague. Believe me, I'm much happier. But the shit gets annoying because 1)these bitches NEVER hold themselves accountable for their relationship failures and 2) they constantly try to spin the bullshit in to "oh, he's just intimidated by me, he can't handle me, bla bla bla"
And like I said, MOST these bitches have bullshit degrees. I guarantee you Don that I can roll up in to a NSBE convention, pull ANY random Black bitch aside, and start talkin about writing classes containing callback functions in PHP and she'll get that Slurpee brain freeze. These bitches are nothing but paper champions.
BASICALLY!!! She got what she "wanted". People need to stop playing games
Nope. it's an assumption that you all make to massage your egos. I've seen it hundreds of times. The more degrees a black woman has, the more inferior a lot of black men feel. That's the reality, unfortunately. Real men don't give a fuck about that and will be with a good woman.Preach That is the truth women dont get
Degrees indicate a lot of good things about a person, but that degree is not confirmation.
Beauty is great, damn great... this is true
BUT
If that's all she's got....... and another thing for most of those photoshop chicks dude you quoted mentioned - that will fade.
Exactly.
word.
Would you care to elaborate on that?
I see and interact with these women on a daily basis.
What I hear most often:
"Black men aren't on my level, financially, intellectually, spiritually."
What I see most often:
These women will over-educate themselves and under-socialize themselves. They will place so much emphasis on being fabulous and going fabulous places, with their fabulous friends...but if a man were to be minding his business AND happen to be in the same vicinity as them...they would wait for him to magically be attracted to their shining aura and expect him to drop what he is doing to approach. After all...education and success just oozes from their pores.
It's a never ending cycle. However, chicks like this in the article simply need to learn from those who are actually getting married and living great lives with men. I don't pay attention to any of these silly broads because the two ladies that I give a fuck about are married and happy (Sis and Mom). I know WHY they are married straight from the men who are with them: They make them happy. Both of them have degrees, both of them have done great things with themselves, but they know what it takes to work with a man and have his back. The chick in the article sounds like the everyday career woman who complains about being lonely but would be comparable to the idiot that locks himself in a supermarket and starves to death. No sympathy for anyone that doesn't know how to correct their own behavior in order to achieve results.
What I hear most often:
"Black men aren't on my level, financially, intellectually, spiritually."
What I see most often:
These women will over-educate themselves and under-socialize themselves. They will place so much emphasis on being fabulous and going fabulous places, with their fabulous friends...but if a man were to be minding his business AND happen to be in the same vicinity as them...they would wait for him to magically be attracted to their shining aura and expect him to drop what he is doing to approach. After all...education and success just oozes from their pores.
It's a never ending cycle. However, chicks like this in the article simply need to learn from those who are actually getting married and living great lives with men. I don't pay attention to any of these silly broads because the two ladies that I give a fuck about are married and happy (Sis and Mom). I know WHY they are married straight from the men who are with them: They make them happy. Both of them have degrees, both of them have done great things with themselves, but they know what it takes to work with a man and have his back. The chick in the article sounds like the everyday career woman who complains about being lonely but would be comparable to the idiot that locks himself in a supermarket and starves to death. No sympathy for anyone that doesn't know how to correct their own behavior in order to achieve results.
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