Having been raised by evil step parents I would say the role of step parents is to make a childs life as miserable as possible
Women dont fuck w/ a man if he wont treat your children as his own
stick to the question.some step-parents make better parents IMHO!
well my kids know who their father is.The stepdad's role would be to be on the "ball" for the child too.
I really wish my husband would post
We dont even use the term "step-dad" in my home....Just like when I was growing up, I didnt know my dad wasnt my biological father until I was like 13. And then one of my hating aunts slipped up.
Women dont fuck w/ a man if he wont treat your children as his own
The stepdad's role would be to be on the "ball" for the child too.
I really wish my husband would post
We dont even use the term "step-dad" in my home....Just like when I was growing up, I didnt know my dad wasnt my biological father until I was like 13. And then one of my hating aunts slipped up.
Women dont fuck w/ a man if he wont treat your children as his own
stick to the question.
well my kids know who their father is.
as a father i would have a problem with another man going around acting like my kids are his own. he doesn't need to play father if i'm in my kid's life.
Having been raised by evil step parents I would say the role of step parents is to make a childs life as miserable as possible
You need a hug sis
as a father i would have a problem with another man going around acting like my kids are his own. he doesn't need to play father if i'm in my kid's life.
well my kids know who their father is.
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Damn shame that you feel that way.
That's kinda immature too.
Obviously. kinda hard to forget.
The man that I call my father. Is actually my stepfather. He's been raising me since i was 1 yrs old.
Ain't no arguing that I'am not his child.
I haven't met another man that can match him.
He still doesn't replace my real pops both of them have their own seperate identities.
if you know your pops why the hell you callin another man father?
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Damn shame that you feel that way.
That's kinda immature too.
Obviously. kinda hard to forget.
The man that I call my father. Is actually my stepfather. He's been raising me since i was 1 yrs old.
Ain't no arguing that I'am not his child.
I haven't met another man that can match him.
He still doesn't replace my real pops both of them have their own seperate identities.
they shouldn't be callin another man "DADDY"So do mine...Now what?
if you know your pops why the hell you callin another man father?
well i plan on raising mine as much as possible. no other cat is gonna be able to say he "raised" mine.Because that's the man who raised me.
Do you understand?
they shouldn't be callin another man "DADDY"
and no i don't want anyone ignoring my kids, i just don't want him actin like he's their father. that level of involvement is not necessary as long as i'm breathing and walking.
the women are showin no respect for the biologican fathers of their kids. and they aren't answering the question anyway. i want to know what they feel a stepdad's role is if the real dad is active. do these women want their kids calling another woman "mom"?Why are you asking for answers and yet when they are given you choose to remain closed to them.
well i plan on raising mine as much as possible. no other cat is gonna be able to say he "raised" mine.
the women are showin no respect for the biologican fathers of their kids. and they aren't answering the question anyway. i want to know what they feel a stepdad's role is if the real dad is active. do these women want their kids calling another woman "mom"?
glad you understand me. and i understand you too. the thought of hearing my sons call another man what they call me is vomit-inducing. my boys are with me half the time, so no reason for that.I completely understand where you're coming from.
And I agree.
We got into a debate about this in the chat.
I don't call my stepfather daddy,dad or pops.
I call him by his first name.
He just receives the title of father because he is my father.
I'd call him my father even if my biological pops played an important part in raising me.
That's kinda immature too.
he knew yall would like that. that's why he said it. peep his last response to me.Wow. Wise beyond your years
I completely understand where you're coming from.
And I agree.
We got into a debate about this in the chat.
I don't call my stepfather daddy,dad or pops.
I call him by his first name.
He just receives the title of father because he is my father.
I'd call him my father even if my biological pops played an important part in raising me.
they shouldn't be callin another man "DADDY"
and no i don't want anyone ignoring my kids, i just don't want him actin like he's their father. that level of involvement is not necessary as long as i'm breathing and walking.
he knew yall would like that. that's why he said it. peep his last response to me.
silly girl.
the women are showin no respect for the biologican fathers of their kids. and they aren't answering the question anyway. i want to know what they feel a stepdad's role is if the real dad is active. do these women want their kids calling another woman "mom"?
It's different for everybody.
I don't like calling anyone Dad.
It's crazy becuse that's what naturally comes out when i speak to my biological father.
I cringe everytime I say it.
When I was younger I remember my parents asked me to start calling my stepfather dad.
I wasn't doing that shit.
I love him to death but it just didn't feel right.
But i am adding his last name to my last name.
To show respect.
I had a converstion with my bio' father about it.
He understood what i was saying.
But i couldn't care less about what he thought.
It wasn't about him.
nah ain't have nothing to do with the women.
I'am speakin' from personal experience.
Why wouldn't you want him to treat your kids like they're his own?
The stepdad's role would be to be on the "ball" for the child too.
I really wish my husband would post
We dont even use the term "step-dad" in my home....Just like when I was growing up, I didnt know my dad wasnt my biological father until I was like 13. And then one of my hating aunts slipped up.
Women dont fuck w/ a man if he wont treat your children as his own
say word!
both of my bio's are assholes. one's dead & hopefully @ peace, and the other one is working hard at being the pussy that he is. pops hasn't worked for a living since '88. no SSI. no disability. no income. NO INCOME! WTF!
how the hell do you respect a father like that? oddly, i did for years. oops. fortunately, my nut ass mother remarried when i was 13. that's my dad. i do refer to him as my stepdad, because i can be retardedly honest/anal about certain shit, and i call him by his first name, but that's our relationship.
i love my stepdad. he's 1 of the greatest humans i have ever had the fortune to know.
i don't believe in half siblings either. stupid shit. i don't half love either of my sisters. again, WTF!
i know i ain't a woman, but FI...
the role of any adult in a child's life is to provide them w/the tools to be a positive human and teach them the value of making wise decisions w/their lives.