This is not my month

[KATDADDY]

Got word from family members my farther passaway sunday heart gave out he was 86 years old.. My moms is 84 not taken it so well.. Just dont know how to process this.. I have yet to cry .i dont know i just been going to strip clubs spending money and other thingd to keep me busy..

 

[REDLINE]

Sorry to hear about your Pops, be there for Mom.

 

[Mo-Better]

Well you might consider going over to check on your mom. The loss I'm sure is even greater for her.

There will be plenty of time to cry.

Also you have my condolences.

 

[LSN]

damn man...sorry to hear that

 

[SamSneed]

I heard of ways to grieve but strip club after pops died, damn

Nigga go see your mom and wash the hoe smell off before you go

Sorry for your loss

 

[The Plutonian]

Got word from family members my farther passaway sunday heart gave out he was 86 years old.. My moms is 84 not taken it so well.. Just dont know how to process this.. I have yet to cry .i dont know i just been going to strip clubs spending money and other thingd to keep me busy..

Blessings to you fam and you are in my prayers. Please get some support and bruh it’s ok to cry and mourn. Be safe

 

[the artist]

You have my condolences

 

[easy_b]

Wow

 

[KATDADDY]

Thanks all for the support

 

[Postalone]

Sorry for your loss. At least he passed at home no pain. That's a blessing. No long bout with cancer or ramifications from an operation. Mom needs you now. At her age, without her partner, she may feel no desire to live.

 

[Princenubian]

Got word from family members my farther passaway sunday heart gave out he was 86 years old.. My moms is 84 not taken it so well.. Just dont know how to process this.. I have yet to cry .i dont know i just been going to strip clubs spending money and other thingd to keep me busy..

Don’t mean to sound insensitive and I apologize if it does but......

Having parents who are 86 and 84 is nothing short of a blessing esp. if your black and American.

With all the life altering ills that plague our people, I think a lil perspective is necessary.

I would give up all my possessions to have my Pops, who passed 10 yrs ago @68, have lived to 80.

Death is not always a solemn occasion if u have perspective. Hope this helps.

Carry on.......

 

[tallblacknyc]

My condolences to you... Go be there for mom dukes... She lost her life partner so you should keep her company for the time being

 

[blaze]

Got word from family members my farther passaway sunday heart gave out he was 86 years old.. My moms is 84 not taken it so well.. Just dont know how to process this.. I have yet to cry .i dont know i just been going to strip clubs spending money and other thingd to keep me busy..

Fam, one night a year ago, my mom went out to visit one of her friends that had just lost her husband. When she left she waved goodbye to my dad. When she got home about 2 hours later, he was non responsive. Slumped over the nightstand on his side of the bed. He was gone...and my mom found him. It messed her up bad. He was 71 and she was 70. She has really been struggling to find her new normal. I'm an only child, but she has brothers and sisters who are really standing in the gap for me. All that and I felt that it meant so much when I took time to go hang out with her (we don't live in the same state). She NEEDS you, fam. You need her. You all have had a significant and sudden element snatched from your life and I know you are reeling right now, but you need your family. Be blessed, my man. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other.

 

[Ceenote]

Sorry to hear dat bro..

 

[D24OHA]

Sorry bro

 

[sammyjax]

Just had to decide w my cousin the day before yesterday whether or not to take her mother, my aunt, off of life support. In the same hospital that the three of us were in when I spent my grandfather's last living moments w him a few years ago. Life is fucked up.

My condolences fam. Help moms out.

 

[Bad Andy]

My condolences peace!

 

[godofwine]

Damn man. So sorry to hear my condolences. . A lot of sad stories in here. RIP to all that have been lost

 

[Z MONSTER]

Keep your head up bro. Not trying to be funny but whenever I feel bad, by sidepiece always make things better.

 

[Coldchi]

Sorry hear bout that bro..........i pray that you find comfort and solace

 

[TheyCallMeBe]

Condolences fam

 

[HotNixon36]

RIP, I feel your pain. He lived a full life.

 

[sahusahir]

my condolences. I've lost both my parents, it's tough. don't repress. deal with whatever is preventing you from mourning. go see moms and be with her. let bygones be bygones. love hard. be kind to yourself.

 

[DiGeneral]

Damn Bro, my condolences.

 

[yasky777]

She needs you. Shun not from the struggle for its Gods gift. Be strong and present.

 

[Pu$$yJunky]

I’m praying for u

 

[NightMare Paint]

Stay by your mother's side.

 

[sharkbait28]

Rip to your pops bruh. Stay strong for your mom and make sure you give yourself time to grieve. It'll happen on it's own time, prob during some quiet moment.

Peace

 

[praetor]

My condolences.

In addition to being there for mom, really try to find someone who can be there for YOU (family member, close friend). If you have any siblings, make sure they do their part, don't try to do everything on your own if possible. You won't be much help to mom if you're not dealing with it well either.

One reason why you might have not cried and been going to the strip club is sometimes some losses are so painful that your heart refuses to let you feel anything at all in an attempt to shield you from the pain. This can cause you to seek out forms of pleasure, not only to feel good but to feel something, anything.

Everyone deals with situations like this in their own way. Nothing will make this feel better. Losing an immediate family member is like losing a limb, you never get over it, but with time you learn to adjust. Try to give yourself the time you need.

 

[Cybts1]

Condolences to You and Your Family .

 

[APOPHIS]

Stay strong brotha.

 

[dagoon121]

man listen, i pray my father lives that long

 

[Aww Skeet Skeet!]

My condolences. Be strong for moms.

 

[hefner]

Got word from family members my farther passaway sunday heart gave out he was 86 years old.. My moms is 84 not taken it so well.. Just dont know how to process this.. I have yet to cry .i dont know i just been going to strip clubs spending money and other thingd to keep me busy..

condolences

 

[p5ych3]

Condolences to you and your family.