The Internet is the last place to get advice but B*tch wont leave

[BronxBomber]

FDR 1933 "We have nothing to fear except fear itself".... Not so lucky my brother... lost my Mother right before the pandemic. Lost a few Family members to the pandemic too. So perhaps I'm trying to regroup and not crumble under the weight of it all.

Part of the issue is these women hear different stories and believe it applies to themselves. This is what causes the positional thinking, and also causes women to believe they should continue to live their prior life style after repudiating the men. That is, I don't like you, I just want your money and the lifestyle.

My brother many condolences on the lost of your mother, thats forever changing... if you are close with moms, you lost your most trusted source of truth.

One of the things I learned after my last relationship..... I cant really worry about what everyone else is ingesting. There are women that dont get that narrative. Many of them are not living on social media, reality TV etc.

I have never been married and now after 45 and Ive done ok for myself, Im not going to put myself in a compromising position where I have spent bunch of money and more importantly my time. I do always say dang I should have married XYZ, then I be like nah I would miserable like the majority of my married friends...

Sorry back on topic..... Get your attorney game up, talk to her about an amicable way to end your relationship, if not..... Man throw money at the divorce and bury the ax in here and keep it moving

 

[Entrepronegro]

So why did your father dump your mom?

My mom and dad are still happily married it will be 40 years soon.

 

[Entrepronegro]

Fellas, can you please stop responding to him. Knowledgeable humans and intelligent people don't speak this way.

He's a troll and is simply replying in a slow remedial manner to get your attention and for you to talk to him.

@Entrepronegro don't reply to me, this is in hopes that members wake up and stop being the source of your entertainment.

Shut your bitch ass up you were less lame when you went by Picasso.

 

[Mr.Mojo]

My brother many condolences on the lost of your mother, thats forever changing... if you are close with moms, you lost your most trusted source of truth.

One of the things I learned after my last relationship..... I cant really worry about what everyone else is ingesting. There are women that dont get that narrative. Many of them are not living on social media, reality TV etc.

I have never been married and now after 45 and Ive done ok for myself, Im not going to put myself in a compromising position where I have spent bunch of money and more importantly my time. I do always say dang I should have married XYZ, then I be like nah I would miserable like the majority of my married friends...

Sorry back on topic..... Get your attorney game up, talk to her about an amicable way to end your relationship, if not..... Man throw money at the divorce and bury the ax in here and keep it moving

I've never been married either and no kids, and I damn sure will never marry this crazy bitch I'm laying next to right now! She's another reason I'm tryin to move.

Who loves where they live? City/state..

Born and raised on the southside of Chicago. Love my city! The media hypes all of the bullshit but people here know where niggas tend to act goofy and we move accordingly. The women are amazing. I've visited a lot of dope places but none can touch the food here! (side note... NO ONE that lives...

www.bgol.us

Fucked up thing is we share a pet cat and that's my lil nigga..I swear to God I will never
Co own an animal with a woman ever again.
Can't imagine what some of y'all go through with kids and a bitch y'all can't stand!

 

[Mr.Mojo]

Op already know this but lemme just say it anyway..dependent bitches don't leave nigga!



They never fucking leave!

 

[REDLINE]

Shut your bitch ass up you were less lame when you went by Picasso.

You were born lame and born a bitch and it's something that'll never leave you.

I remember when your username was "TheRemedialFaggitThatDoesNothingButEatDicksAndLookForAndPostNothingButFaggotryBecauseI'mNothingButABitch".

Even back then you were lame and still a bitch.

 

[Mixd]

I've never been thru a divorce.

Only watched many from the outside.

My wife's mom got divorced 5 yrs ago. I drove her to every attorney meeting and sat thru many court hearings of others waiting on hers to be heard.

Coincidentally, her cousin went thru one living in Jersey and I'm close to the hubby. They had bread, she from a settlement and him from having good corp type jobs.
He really regretted divorcing her but happy he says being single. Financially no.

The issue is he is been paying out so much in alimony and child support. I think over 7k a month to her. They had to split properties they owned in businesses and their home along with half his 401k.

She made off and still reaping.

I look at my headache at home and at times for my mental health, just say fuckit, it's cheaper to keep her.

You will more than likely be paying thru the nose.

Nothing you said about finances matters on where it came from, yall been together forever. It's community property and she will reap more than you because you make more than her. She's entitled to it.

Even if she was cheating if that was a factor or not. Judges don't care about anything like that.

My :::two cents:::

And with a name like Bounty, should of done draw the hearse.

 

[GangGangOrca]

It sounds as if she is mostly unhappy with herself. She sounds as if she is putting you down to bring you down to her unhealthy level of where she feels she is.

This here. She tried to call your bluff about being unhappy. When you told her to leave, the narrative switched to "Put me out if I'm so unhappy." Like that don't even make sense lol. If she's as unhappy as it seems, she's gonna keep trying to beat you down until she convinces herself that you ain't shit. And that's when she gets the confidence to leave on her own terms. Better to get it going before that happens.

I watched my uncle go through a divorce and that shit is rough. Especially when it's someone you care about. It's easy for me to say divorce, but you also wanna make sure you're not becoming a victim of the sunk cost fallacy. Better to lose a toe now and move on with your life instead of losing a whole leg to diabetes. You gotta yourself first.

 

[Temujin]

Two pieces of advice.
1. Once you get divorced pussy will be raining upon you. Your problem will be turning hoes down.
2. Negotiate between the two of you avoid the lawyers fees on both sides.

If she is done and you are done you already are in agreement on one thing. From there it's just how much is it worth to you to be done. You will make more money but you will never get back the time and stress of a contested divorce back.

Seriously just ask her how much does she need to roll out. Then negotiate from there. Once you have an agreement put it in writing and file an uncontested divorce. Depending on your state you will have to seperate for a period of time before it becomes final but you can get her out of the house in a couple of weeks if she has a number and you can afford to pay it. Now if she wants to fight because there are emotions involved well you may just have to up the price. Just look at it as stress relief. Peace of mind is priceless.

 

[woodchuck]

You need to get you a good white woman you wouldn't be in this situation now had you married a white woman to begin with. Stay away from these trifling hoes that you will eventually regret getting with.

 

[Goingmark40]

I never seen if you all are fussing and fighting but that you say she got a gut and she say she's not happy and you don't do anything for her. What's causing her to say that? And can that be fixed or is it too far gone? If yall aint fussing, fighting she doesn't know what you doing in the streets she sho ain't gonna want to leave. Too many memories in that house. Lol. Maybe a lot of stuff has compounded and got shit stale? I'd definitely give some space and sleep in separate bedrooms

 

[killagram]

FDR 1933 "We have nothing to fear except fear itself".... Not so lucky my brother... lost my Mother right before the pandemic. Lost a few Family members to the pandemic too. So perhaps I'm trying to regroup and not crumble under the weight of it all.

Part of the issue is these women hear different stories and believe it applies to themselves. This is what causes the positional thinking, and also causes women to believe they should continue to live their prior life style after repudiating the men. That is, I don't like you, I just want your money and the lifestyle.

There's some funny stuff being posted, along with some sage comments and points being made.




Remember, this is BGOL and we all making crazy money and own mansions all over the world. I never said anything about the exact amount of money I make, i.e., I make multiple of what she makes (even before bonus). This doesn't say exactly how much or exactly what I can afford.

Besides, I ain't moving out of MY HOUSE!

brah....just start going home late...and hanging out...it will work itself out....let her live there...and run da a streets.... you at home too much.. brah

 

[killagram]

I never seen if you all are fussing and fighting but that you say she got a gut and she say she's not happy and you don't do anything for her. What's causing her to say that? And can that be fixed or is it too far gone? If yall aint fussing, fighting she doesn't know what you doing in the streets she sho ain't gonna want to leave. Too many memories in that house. Lol. Maybe a lot of stuff has compounded and got shit stale? I'd definitely give some space and sleep in separate bedrooms

dam rippy....go to Cigar Shops...get a Google voice number...and fuck her happiness.... the screets will work it all out for you... brah

 

[Entrepronegro]

You were born lame and born a bitch and it's something that'll never leave you.

I remember when your username was "TheRemedialFaggitThatDoesNothingButEatDicksAndLookForAndPostNothingButFaggotryBecauseI'mNothingButABitch".

Even back then you were lame and still a bitch.

What a lame comeback I knew I was right when I called you lame.

 

[nworba]

The law favors the woman most of the time. Get a lawyer from a firm that helps dads or men.

 

[REDLINE]

What a lame comeback I knew I was right when I called you lame.

I kindly asked you not to respond to my original post because it wasn’t for you, it was for the people who read your posts and respond.

We all need to stop responding to you.

 

[Entrepronegro]

I kindly asked you not to respond to my original post because it wasn’t for you, it was for the people who read your posts and respond.

We all need to stop responding to you.

You can’t make people not respond to me it’s up to them what they wanna do. You are lame and it seem like it’s hard for you to accept it.

 

[REDLINE]

You can’t make people not respond to me it’s up to them what they wanna do. You are lame and it seem like it’s hard for you to accept it.

I read you post.

 

[killagram]

The law favors the woman most of the time. Get a lawyer from a firm that helps dads or men.

Just get a Mayne lawyer...and don't get a bitch.... brah

 

[850credit]

So, she still living with u @Bounty Killah?

 

[Database Error]

They're probably celebrating their anniversary this evening

 

[crazyace718]

Bite the bullet and get a divorce.

 

[850credit]

He been online recently. Guess he don't want to respond

 

[Bounty Killah]

He been online recently. Guess he don't want to respond

She still here!

 

[850credit]

She still here!

She ain't gonna walk without every dime of compensation afforded her.

If it's an untenable situation YOU gonna have to let that house go. You said you make multiple times more than her so it shouldn't take too long to re-up.

Make the call. I hope you find happiness cause I've been there in terms of living in bad situations with women. Only thing was it was never in marriage.

 

[Bounty Killah]

She ain't gonna walk without every dime of compensation afforded her.

If it's an untenable situation YOU gonna have to let that house go. You said you make multiple times more than her so it shouldn't take too long to re-up.

Make the call. I hope you find happiness cause I've been there in terms of living in bad situations with women. Only thing was it was never in marriage.

My call indeed. I'm living my life.

gotta say is that this is a cool community of brothers. Since posting this, ya'll actually had the thought to roll back around to see how I was making out. Duly noted!

 

[TIMEISMONEY]

6 months since last post, how is it bro?

 

[ZuluSam]

brah....just start going home late...and hanging out...it will work itself out....let her live there...and run da a streets.... you at home too much.. brah

dam rippy....go to Cigar Shops...get a Google voice number...and fuck her happiness.... the screets will work it all out for you... brah

I ain't gonna lie. This the best advice in the thread....including the advice I gave. Act like you ain't married, move into the guest room and hit them streets.....shitttt, during the first few years of my marriage, the wife always saying, 'those streets be calling you'.....and i say, 'shole do....be right back'.....i love them streets.

 

[killagram]

I ain't gonna lie. This the best advice in the thread....including the advice I gave. Act like you ain't married, move into the guest room and hit them streets.....shitttt, during the first few years of my marriage, the wife always saying, 'those streets be calling you'.....and i say, 'shole do....be right back'.....i love them streets.

Them screets...show love back..brah

 

[Hey Julian!]

Telling someone leave the house in marriage is pointless. This ain’t the movies. There’s an actual legal process involve. The person that’s actually done with the marriage will make the move first. If OP was serious he would filed for divorce already. Trust me I know.

 

[Bounty Killah]

Telling someone leave the house in marriage is pointless. This ain’t the movies. There’s an actual legal process involve. The person that’s actually done with the marriage will make the move first. If OP was serious he would filed for divorce already. Trust me I know.

6 months since last post, how is it bro?

Everyone's situation is different brah. One size does not fit all, but I get your point.

As for the last 6 months, I'm doing fine.

 

[BlackGoku]

Consider the movie HEAT.

There is nothing on this planet that could keep me with an unhappy woman, especially if the kids are grown, and I have the means to leave. The FUPAR and disrespect? Fuck a house, by another one. If you really want out, talk a lawyer and make it clear you want a full escape. No support or alimony unless she gives up the house and even that needs to be minimal. Now that you want out, no paper trails of discourse. Keep calm, line your ducks up, seriously consider the best deal possible and GFTO. Peace of mind over everything.

Going to bump this up because this is 100% facts. I'm going through this right now my attorney and I got a call with them next week to strongly reiterate my position. There is no mediation. Get it done. I'm paying the mortgage and majority of the bills. Every time I come back to this house, I'm reminded of the stupid mistake I made.

 

[BlackGoku]

@Bounty Killah may brother I hate that you are going through this, but if you have not experienced any family deaths / illness in the last couple of years you are indeed lucky.

Life is short, my personal stance is MY happiness comes first, I cant imagine wasting time with a woman who clearly does not respect what you once had.

Get a plan and execute it. It sounds like some of your position is based off fear, ninja if you dont get with a couple of the attorneys on here give them some bread and let them work on your behalf.

Sometimes brothers just hold the weight of issues because we dont want to fight. Fam put your gloves on, put your balls on the table and get busy.

Love this! Going it along will not let you see the big picture because emotion is involved. It's unfortunate because we HAVE to get an attorney involved for them to realize we are serious.

 

[BlackGoku]

I've never been married either and no kids, and I damn sure will never marry this crazy bitch I'm laying next to right now! She's another reason I'm tryin to move.

Who loves where they live? City/state..

Born and raised on the southside of Chicago. Love my city! The media hypes all of the bullshit but people here know where niggas tend to act goofy and we move accordingly. The women are amazing. I've visited a lot of dope places but none can touch the food here! (side note... NO ONE that lives...

www.bgol.us

Fucked up thing is we share a pet cat and that's my lil nigga..I swear to God I will never
Co own an animal with a woman ever again.
Can't imagine what some of y'all go through with kids and a bitch y'all can't stand!

Cats and loyalty? Doesn't compute...

 

[BlackGoku]

Bite the bullet and get a divorce.

It's amazing how context changes things..while banning words.."bullet" definitely needs to be banned...the word and the member