So Lonestar do you look better than her ? Hate me because U r not in her league !

I live in DC and youd be surprised how my bw date wm in the chocolate city. But no one can truly tell what are the reasons behind it, is it options or choice.

This survey may have some insight and of course some will deny it. I always question the bw loyalty argument just based on the fact of loyalty to me is more than just dating exclusively.

In a relationship you would define loyalty in terms of fidelity but also in terms of having each others back, and speaking highly of each other to family and friends etc.. If my girlfriend never cheats on me but, never takes my side or vouches for me or basically doesn't respect me, She is not totally loyal...well I say that to say this... Bw historically have shit on bm publicly for ages, how much of this loyalty is truly due to circumstances since it seems that generally speaking bw dont respect bm.

Brah its really hard to compare DC to alot of these other cities. We have always been pretty lenient on IR for a while (10+ years) but recently with the influx of white people not from this area is kind of turned into the other cities where ww generally frown upon bm unless your already in there circle is was never like that a couple of years ago. Again this is because they are from other cities.


No I dont feel ww look better than me at all ... if you removed your anus from DJ's dick and read my posts in here you would have seen where I admitted my issue is with bm always favouring ww over me ... I personally dont find white people in general to be attractive ... but I am attracted to bm and it hurts when you are attracted to someone who always favours someone who doesnt look like you

And in terms of me posting here, I wont be for long so you can go ahead and bust a congratulatory nut right in DJ's mouth if youd like :)

LS29 at the end of the day you are on a porn board with bm (won't comment on the other races in here) who have very strong opinionated views on bw. Its like the mix of my friends you got the ones who date sistas, the ones who only date other races and the ones who date em all. Usually the ones who date other races are really more vocal about there disdain for bw due to whateva there previous relationships have been with them. They tend to generally categorize bw into a group just like your doing with bm. Personally i think its stupid start pullin the race card because women are women they all fucking crazy skin tone don't really matter. I think the issue boils down to attitude most ww are passive agressive which plays into the role most bm like if you give them a stern warning or that slap a bitch look they generally just shut the fuck up and keep it movin. Most men want this in a relationship yes we know there are going to be arguments but we usually just want to dead the shit as soon as possible and with ww we can get away with it. BW on the other don't know when to chillax they rather push the line then tow the line. Its okay to push the line a couple of times but all the time is a no-no. BW don't realize when bm are just feed-up and can't take the shit anymore and continue to push the line way beyond whats needed. Playin the role is key we are not saying your inferior than us but we sometimes you need to take the hint and back the fuck off.

Your threads on this board tend you play to into those tendencies i wrote above thats why you are seeing the reaction you are seeing. By the way you good in my book and there are bm out there for you.
 
Lonestar is lightskinned you fucking troll :lol:

That bitch is dark, bad built, and has smokers lips ..I'll AR12 on that hoe (PASS)

(i dont mind a bitch smoking but when your lips are dark, i can only assume that pussy is just as dark:puke::puke::puke::puke:)
 
This shit will hit double digit pages by Monday night. The mod need to lock this thread or just delete it. The chick can't deal with rejection and feel that black men must only dat black women, fuck outta here. Why should I only date black women. I'll date whoever I find physically attractive and with a good personality. The chick got a low self esteem and using white women as the excuse when in reality its just her crazy ass. She the type to fuck up a white chick that's dating a black dude on some " you're stealing our men"


People fail to understand that women can be lame and lack personality when it come to dating. Nowadays all chicks do is lookin pretty and hope for bonuses to come and talk to them instead of learning how to hold a convo instead of just looking pretty and blush when a ninja "spit game".
 
Yes. I love black women. But black women cannot play the IR field like black men who choose to play it can. Should we lie? It may not be fair(remember that life isn't fair), but that is the way it is. The cards need to be on the table. Hell, even though A LOT of black men are taking white scraps, black women aren't even going to get that.

The game is the game. We need to cut the shit. Black women can't say they are so loyal when options dictate how loyal they can be. It's like the saying...."most men are as faithful as their options."
Well Zora Neal Hurston did say that the nigga woman was the mule of the world...:hmm:
As much as it may make you feel good to say black women have no options the truth is there are options,but most black women refuse to take steps to increase those options such as leaving their city, state or even this country...

The only reason I ever say anything like that is because SOME black women don't act like it is a truth and act like they are more loyal to black men when it simply comes down to options. You already know it's the truth. You admit it. So why would you say black women are more loyal......without bringing up OPTIONS. It is better not to open that can of worms.

But if we do open that can of worms, what needs to be said is this: Black women don't have the options. Black men do. Black men should not abandon black women when these options come about.

I speak in general terms of course and of only long lasting relationships.

Black women have tried to compete. They will throw it in a black man's face. :D "All the high-powered white men at work want get with(fuck) me!" And then when the white men just fuck and run, back to black men. No shit. You mean the white man really didn't want to be the father of the first black member of his family? :confused:.....:lol:
It's funny, but it's not. The cards need to be on the table. That's why you just can't state that black women are more loyal......without a Disclaimer.

There is something very interesting going on in this thread, whenever white men are brought up it's always that they are the executive or high-powered as you say. They are described as the upper echelon of our society that couldn't possibly want us bw. So there are no mid level or blue collar white men in your opinions? Do you think of all wm as men of stature and prestige? Dudes ready to call LS29 insecure but there is some subliminal inferiority complex going on and I guess that's why some feel such satisfaction in being able to say I can get a white women. The reality is you feel like the only way you can compete with the wm is by getting his woman.

Whether he prefers them or not, a secure confident black man doesn't consider being able to get women of other races a feather in his cap.

with all that stuff you said why do the white guys always get the cream of the crop when it comes to black chicks then for the most part:confused::confused::confused:

it seems like when a black dude chooses a white chick or the other way around they often settle for less than "perfect" if you will.
:ssshhh:
Too FEMENINE for me and the bitch dont look LIKE SHE CAN GIVE IT TO ME IN THE ASS LIKE I LIKE IT... I pass:yes::yes::yes:

FIXED:hmm:
 
Lonestar's skin complexion is >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>than this girl. Black women>>>>>>>>>>>

:dunno: Don't blame me but I grew up around black women and love them above all else.:yes:

Thank you :)


:lol::lol::lol::lol:

That boy is crazy smfh

LS29 at the end of the day you are on a porn board with bm (won't comment on the other races in here) who have very strong opinionated views on bw. Its like the mix of my friends you got the ones who date sistas, the ones who only date other races and the ones who date em all. Usually the ones who date other races are really more vocal about there disdain for bw due to whateva there previous relationships have been with them. They tend to generally categorize bw into a group just like your doing with bm. Personally i think its stupid start pullin the race card because women are women they all fucking crazy skin tone don't really matter. I think the issue boils down to attitude most ww are passive agressive which plays into the role most bm like if you give them a stern warning or that slap a bitch look they generally just shut the fuck up and keep it movin. Most men want this in a relationship yes we know there are going to be arguments but we usually just want to dead the shit as soon as possible and with ww we can get away with it. BW on the other don't know when to chillax they rather push the line then tow the line. Its okay to push the line a couple of times but all the time is a no-no. BW don't realize when bm are just feed-up and can't take the shit anymore and continue to push the line way beyond whats needed. Playin the role is key we are not saying your inferior than us but we sometimes you need to take the hint and back the fuck off.

Your threads on this board tend you play to into those tendencies i wrote above thats why you are seeing the reaction you are seeing. By the way you good in my book and there are bm out there for you.

I agree with most of your points and overall I get where you are coming from, thanks
 
Too dark for me and the bitch dont look very mixed at all... I pass:yes::yes::yes:

I have been ignoring your comments but you are a dumb fuck too. Ls29 is a good lookin lady, you got just as bad of a problem if you think light skin chicks are the cream of the crop. There are plenty of fine dark skin chicks out there, and many light skin and dark skin chicks that cant hold a candle to Ls, your generalization of women is no better than prejudice, as i said before in another thread you are a fucked up individual, open your eyes bitch woman in general are beautiful no matter what color
 
honestly, you are definitely an attractive woman.
I wouldn't even consider you dark skinned.
you have a beautiful brown complexion like the majority of black people.

the fact that you can't find a good "black man" is because you have a kid or because your personality just sucks...:dunno:

if she acts anything like her online persona, i see why she cant get a nigga :smh:
 
Question, would you care for or try to go after a black woman, who was only into white, latin or Asian men? No, right? For every one black woman who don't like non-black men, there is six that are attracted to black men. So it would make more sense to focus on the six black women that is attracted to black men, then the ones that's not? What I'm basically saying is you will find some black women that will be attracted to you and some just won't. There is nothing you can say or do about it, except focus on the black women that love black men only and the same goes for black women, when dealing with black men. This thread is pointless because the OP and lonestar29 just think differently about what is physical attractiveness, when it comes to black women, compare to non-black women. The people coming in the thread will understand the OP point and others will understand lonestar29. I personally don't understand why people come in a thread knowing what is being posted before entering, by reading the title, then get mad:confused: CAUSE AND EFFECT PEOPLE....carry on.........
 
:confused:

I said I DONT feel ugly compared to other women so what are you talking about :confused::confused:

And yes thats where alot of the cattiness comes from between women ... alot want to be the only or cutest girl in the room and when another walks in who is cute too they start to hate for no reason ... without ever speaking to the other woman she will say things like "I dont like her cuz she thinks she's too nice" <----- thats a dead giveaway

I'm not like that in anyway ... I get along with the majority of women cuz I dont feel insecure around them ... her beauty doesnt take away from mine and vice versa IMO

I dont like when dudes try and convince me I should somehow feel other women are cuter or better than me though ... THAT is what annoys me

I understand.

I made the statement "Do you normally think or feel ugly when someone says someone else is cuter then you?" because of this statement that you made "the point is that I think I am as cute, I dont feel ugly compared to them". It sounded one way. Like if you look at the sentence as a whole, it sounded like you had to go the extra mile and make sure the reader had to know you DONT feel ugly compared to them which is girl talk for I do feel ugly to them but I have to convince myself otherwise by putting it out there. But your explanation clarified it. Glad you are self-confident. Your pics don't show a reason not to be.

There was this article not too long ago about Canadian researchers that found that when women perceived a threat in the form of another woman, they would passively attack them in whispers, when she turned her back or when she was leaving a room. They didn't find the same action in men. They found that the dynamic for men would be more about taking advantage of weakness or positioning themselves for dominance whereas women would respond to other women's perceived sexiness or beauty.
 
Don't care how it's being received...

Global warming isn't well received either...as the polar caps melt.

Proof is in the pudding ladies; which can be summed up in this statement....

White men have had access to black women since they got them off the boat (proof: light skin blacks) yet white man/ black woman relationships are low and much lower than black man/ white woman relationships that go beyond 'a mere night's pleasure in the slave quarters'. WHY IS THAT? It has nothing to do with women cause no woman, wheter she excercises the right or not, wants her options of men limited ESPECIALLY TO MEN AT THE TOP OF THE SOCIAL FOOD CHAIN- WHITE MEN. It's because white men- and other races of men- aren't clocking for black women for the long haul in aggregate. Like Gene Cisco stated earlier your 'loyalty' is as strong as your options and your options- relationship wise- are few.

You girls in your heart of hearts know that. Especially you Lonestar29 thus your frustration...


*two cents*

Global warming is a bitch, ask them poor drowned polar bear cubs..........................:smh::smh::smh:


Back to topic, this is slightly off, many BW are married to white men in NYC and surrounding areas, what is not being factored in is that not many of those white men are attractive or genetic alphas. Many of the Black women I know married to White men are educated (natural hair) females with just down to earth dudes who happen to be white. I also think this "Study" of yours is off in sense that having biracial child is actually SOUGHT nowadays compared to last 20 years so sisters defintiely have options...........(obviously we are not talking how long marriage or relationship last) but they definitely have options.


A black MAN has less options I think in this day and age as opposed to more if he's seeking a WOMAN, I think that is self-explanatory for MEN....all others read the below.

Women across the board have esteem issues are simply follow the flock in this day and age so whatever is considered "IN" is what females are doing.........

Asian women are sought by black dudes for compliance, and exotic looking child -NUMBER ONE combination of races where both parents can be butt-fuck ugly and produce beautiful child on AVERAGE.

Indian women.....rare indeed as they cleave to family culture and not willing to sacrifice that for black man, of course are exceptions but not the norm.

White jewish women fall into same as above....have to go it without family support in most cases so many don't do it unless they've already broke from family like that.

Your basic Becky is what the average hood dude run through and make babies with cause she has no options, once she gains options this situation usually results in hood dude doing time cause he want the broad to stay OPTIONLESS.

Average down to earth white women is a staple for dudes who want some degree of compliance and a possible door-opener.

Let me make something clear that sisters need to understand some black dudes think about....I be as simple as possible.

I think on average (consciously and subconsciously) the Black dude lives with a innate fear of short lifespan just from being BLACK in USA. I think this makes men throw babies into women for the pure selfish desire to continue "himself", I also think that all if not most issues black dudes have stem from choices of "Mother" in their lives and are never addressed because being "the man" is asserted pretty much from adolescent.

There is a despairing "logic" I believe that convinces these type of men that a child of mix race stands a far better chance than an all black child, possible better upbringing, family structure.....will inherit a better life to some degree.

The logic I'm applying here is that these better OPTIONS are higher even with the "father" being a non-factor....jailed, deceased...

It's like a Cuckoo bird syndrome if yall know how the Cuckoo bird procreates.


Forgive my sidetrack.............


Lonestar you are attracted, your broad-brushing sucks big time though.......caging/stifling yourself more than preventing you from being hurt for trying...IMHO.

Fuck what these/us dudes on here think about you...
 
A black MAN has less options I think in this day and age as opposed to more if he's seeking a WOMAN, I think that is self-explanatory for MEN....all others read the below.

I think you might have a point there. I don't necessarily think guys chase women thinking "Damn my babies are going to be exotic if I fuck wit her!" In fact, most guys get shocked with the knowledge of having babies. But what I do know is that the number of good women, whatever the fuck that means is not as high as women think.

There was this thread on bgol that said there were like 3 good men to 100 women. Can you believe that? Not 3 good men to X number of good women, but 3 good men to 100 women as if women dont have to be good. Get the fuck out of here! If you're not what I need, then why should I be what you need?
 
I think you might have a point there. I don't necessarily think guys chase women thinking "Damn my babies are going to be exotic if I fuck wit her!" In fact, most guys get shocked with the knowledge of having babies. But what I do know is that the number of good women, whatever the fuck that means is not as high as women think.

There was this thread on bgol that said there were like 3 good men to 100 women. Can you believe that? Not 3 good men to X number of good women, but 3 good men to 100 women as if women dont have to be good. Get the fuck out of here! If you're not what I need, then why should I be what you need?

It's crazy but it's real.

Most Carribbean male immigrants since late 80's were always going after ASIAN woman here in NYC and NJ, always!!....Not only for citizenship but the complacent nature of these females to tolerate all types of shit that no black woman or white woman for that matter would........especially from a immigrant.

Ask yourself how many of these "Blasian" kids have their "fathers" in their life and the combination hands down is almost ALWAYS Black man and Asian woman.....rarely is it Asian man and black woman.

Just some things I've watched bloom over the past couple decades....Haitian men were big on Japanese women back in 80's but pretended they were Jamaican.

Same mix is huge in Japan as well to this day. Carribean man-Asain woman.
 
The whole premise of this thread is pointless.

You're trying to compare an airbrushed photoshopped photo to a amatuer non-doctored up photo.

:cmonson:
 
It's crazy but it's real.

Most Carribbean male immigrants since late 80's were always going after ASIAN woman here in NYC and NJ, always!!....Not only for citizenship but the complacent nature of these females to tolerate all types of shit that no black woman or white woman for that matter would........especially from a immigrant.

Ask yourself how many of these "Blasian" kids have their "fathers" in their life and the combination hands down is almost ALWAYS Black man and Asian woman.....rarely is it Asian man and black woman.

Just some things I've watched bloom over the past couple decades....Haitian men were big on Japanese women back in 80's but pretended they were Jamaican.

Same mix is huge in Japan as well to this day. Carribean man-Asain woman.

Yeah, but like I said in an earlier post. I think that has more to do with men initiating sexual contact more then women. So black carib men are more likely to chase after women then black carib women chase men in general. Therefore you are not going to see the opposite as much. The question then becomes, why arent asian men flocking to bw or carib bw in these regions at the same numbers?
 
Well Zora Neal Hurston did say that the nigga woman was the mule of the world...:hmm:
As much as it may make you feel good to say black women have no options the truth is there are options,but most black women refuse to take steps to increase those options such as leaving their city, state or even this country...

It makes me feel good? You mean like a black woman saying black women are more loyal? Black women are more loyal because of lack of options. That's it. Plain and simple. Doesn't make me feel good. I have my black queen. Stop taking everything to heart. Whenthegoinggetstough has already admitted this. Simple observation backs it.

Just the fact that black men don't have to leave the fucking city to have options backs this up even further. Simply becoming even moderately successful opens up a black man's IR dating possibilities. Black men learn this shit in high school. Become a good athlete and you have instant IR possibilities. Meanwhile none of the successful white male students are checking for the black girls no matter how hot they are. Not even the fucking geeky white males are checking for black women. I speak in general terms of course.


There is something very interesting going on in this thread, whenever white men are brought up it's always that they are the executive or high-powered as you say. They are described as the upper echelon of our society that couldn't possibly want us bw. So there are no mid level or blue collar white men in your opinions? Do you think of all wm as men of stature and prestige? Dudes ready to call LS29 insecure but there is some subliminal inferiority complex going on and I guess that's why some feel such satisfaction in being able to say I can get a white women. The reality is you feel like the only way you can compete with the wm is by getting his woman.


FIXED:hmm:

Stop taking things to heart and think logically. Do most white men -- of any stature -- want a black child? This is what it comes down to. White men in general are less likely to be open to having a black family. What is so hard to understand about that? :confused: You think some closed-minded plumber is going to be anxious to get a black woman and have black kids?

I don't even fuck with white women. The only reason this can of worms was opened was because Whenthegoinggetstough stated black women are more loyal without stating the limitations that make them more loyal by default.

Fuck. If I say white men have more IR options than black men, does that make me pissed? No. Does it make me feel inferior? No. It is what it is. That's the way the last 500 years has set this world up to be. I can give a fuck if Indian and Asian women are more likely to check for white men. So why do SOME of you black women take the facts about SERIOUS IR relationships to heart? Damn.
 
^^^
Hey CT! And yeah I agree.




I know...that's why I ignore A LOT on here. Pick and choose my battles/comments. But sometimes I can feel the stupidity pouring from my screen, clogging my keys, and spoiling my motherboard. Dan fingertips turn green like some Charlotte Rouse jewelry.

Correct me if I'm wrong but aren't you the poster whose dirty laundry got aired out on here by your baby daddy, with pictures of cum all over your face? Yet you were fronting like you were virtuous and all that?

Please correct me if I'm wrong, but if not, people in glass houses etc. :dunno:
 
with all that stuff you said why do the white guys always get the cream of the crop when it comes to black chicks then for the most part:confused::confused::confused:

it seems like when a black dude chooses a white chick or the other way around they often settle for less than "perfect" if you will.

Yes. From what I see if a white man settles down with a black woman, she is less likely to be "scraps". General terms of course.

These homely white women then think they can get any black man, which can be quite fucking annoying.

This is why black women have been pissed for generations. SOME black men taking "white scraps" when they aren't successful, and when black men become successful SOME take the upgraded white women options that come with that success.

It has been said for years by black women...:angry: "you're going to get money and get you a white women!"

 
Correct me if I'm wrong but aren't you the poster whose dirty laundry got aired out on here by your baby daddy, with pictures of cum all over your face? Yet you were fronting like you were virtuous and all that?

Please correct me if I'm wrong, but if not, people in glass houses etc. :dunno:

Yo Sampson you know you can't leave the thread w/o that post right...... Just making sure you know.
 
Yeah, but like I said in an earlier post. I think that has more to do with men initiating sexual contact more then women. So black carib men are more likely to chase after women then black carib women chase men in general. Therefore you are not going to see the opposite as much. The question then becomes, why arent asian men flocking to bw or carib bw in these regions at the same numbers?

My major point which the black women in this forum should SEE is that you are not being avoided cause BM love other color women, you are being avoided cause those males of weaker minds generally want a woman of weaker minds.

It's a more sinister "option" not a black dudes love white women cause they are better....there is no love involved in majority of these cases, just a personal agenda more easily accomplished with non-black women.'


So Lone shouldn't be offended by a man leaving her for another women cause by RIGHT she should be accepting if the man went to a better loving wholesome situation. If he went to a more advantageous situation then why fret over him in the first place since it doesn't diminish who she is if she was the "good woman" but who wasn't a pushover.

Like I'm confused as to what is the TRUE nature of her gripe if she knows the shallowness of men today is on par with that of women as well. Point being, if a black man shitted on her (truthfully, not perceived) for a "white" woman, is this woman somehow immune to being shitted on as well by same dude?

Is Lonestar the sole recipient of one-way shitty men who all want white women or most do but she just happened to be a stepping stone along the way? If that's what they wanted from jump then either she/him or both of them were in denial or pretending to be unaware of this until shit hit fan.

There has got to be some self-reflection in there somewhere........right....how is this happeneing to same person over and over. How is same person constantly choosing to deal with such type? After say third or fourth time and CLEARLY before giving up the pussy a topic need to be addressed like "Look nigga, if you like white bitches please go do your thing, don't sell me no dreams (although one can't sell what someone isn't BUYING) brother. I'm grown ass woman, whether I like it or not, I can handle the truth, so if that's your preference...carry on"

Lot of things unspoken here.........lots.
 
But your explanation clarified it. Glad you are self-confident. Your pics don't show a reason not to be.

Thanks. I dont even understand how you interpreted it that other way in the first place though LOL I mean what other words could I have used to express that I still feel beautiful no matter what? But anyways yeah I am confident ... I am also not delusional, like I dont think I am the most gorgeous woman alive, but I def dont think I am chopped liver, I think I am cute and put myself together well and I wont let any mothafucka tell me otherwise :dunno: as long as I'm happy with what I see thats all that matters. Sure sometimes I am not pleased that these non black women I feel are mediocre are praised but that is separate from how I feel about myself

There was this article not too long ago about Canadian researchers that found that when women perceived a threat in the form of another woman, they would passively attack them in whispers, when she turned her back or when she was leaving a room. They didn't find the same action in men. They found that the dynamic for men would be more about taking advantage of weakness or positioning themselves for dominance whereas women would respond to other women's perceived sexiness or beauty.

EXACTLY!!! That is what women do, and that is all races of women and ages and social class, the shit doesnt stop after highschool

Its about feeling the most desired by men ... the more pretty girls that are around the lower your chances so some girls just get catty. Personally I think thats lame and thats why women tend to like me alot cuz I dont treat them like we are competing, I dont have frenemies
 
Yes. From what I see if a white man settles down with a black woman, she is less likely to be "scraps". General terms of course.

These homely white women then think they can get any black man, which can be quite fucking annoying.

This is why black women have been pissed for generations. SOME black men taking "white scraps" when they aren't successful, and when black men become successful SOME take the upgraded white women options that come with that success.
It has been said for years by black women...:angry: "you're going to get money and get you a white women!"


:lol:I remember there was a thread about this a year ago and mofos were ready to fight:lol::lol:
 
Correct me if I'm wrong but aren't you the poster whose dirty laundry got aired out on here by your baby daddy, with pictures of cum all over your face? Yet you were fronting like you were virtuous and all that?

Please correct me if I'm wrong, but if not, people in glass houses etc. :dunno:

False, there have never been pics like that or any pics at all of Melon on here ... and she is not acting virtuous, wow smfh just cuz she asks dude to not be so vulgar you gotta be like this??? :confused: :smh:

My major point which the black women in this forum should SEE is that you are not being avoided cause BM love other color women, you are being avoided cause those males of weaker minds generally want a woman of weaker minds.

It's a more sinister "option" not a black dudes love white women cause they are better....there is no love involved in majority of these cases, just a personal agenda more easily accomplished with non-black women.'


So Lone shouldn't be offended by a man leaving her for another women cause by RIGHT she should be accepting if the man went to a better loving wholesome situation. If he went to a more advantageous situation then why fret over him in the first place since it doesn't diminish who she is if she was the "good woman" but who wasn't a pushover.

Like I'm confused as to what is the TRUE nature of her gripe if she knows the shallowness of men today is on par with that of women as well. Point being, if a black man shitted on her (truthfully, not perceived) for a "white" woman, is this woman somehow immune to being shitted on as well by same dude?

Is Lonestar the sole recipient of one-way shitty men who all want white women or most do but she just happened to be a stepping stone along the way? If that's what they wanted from jump then either she/him or both of them were in denial or pretending to be unaware of this until shit hit fan.

There has got to be some self-reflection in there somewhere........right....how is this happeneing to same person over and over. How is same person constantly choosing to deal with such type? After say third or fourth time and CLEARLY before giving up the pussy a topic need to be addressed like "Look nigga, if you like white bitches please go do your thing, don't sell me no dreams (although one can't sell what someone isn't BUYING) brother. I'm grown ass woman, whether I like it or not, I can handle the truth, so if that's your preference...carry on"

Lot of things unspoken here.........lots.

Uuuuuum

hmmmmmmmmm

I dont even know how to reply to this

I have attempted to self reflect, I've even asked a few gentlemen on here for advice (I feel embarrassed asking my male friends in real life) ... I didnt really get anywhere with that ... BUT how horrible could I be if most of my exes try and get back with me at a later date?? If I was so bad they wouldnt do that ... most of them seem like opportunists ... when they are doing really well they want trophies and when they arent they want a ride or die chick. I dont play that game though, I dont take them back, I NEVER do ... I have 2 currently trying to play this game with me, shit is annoying as fuck and frankly it is extremely insulting as well
 
Pathetic ass thread :smh:

Look dude called me out ... I have every right to speak up for myself. He's telling me I dont look as good as so and so and that I'm jealous and shit and I showed and proved that he was wrong on both accounts

so it is what it is ... if someone calls me out, I will address them
 
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