Post for the Men (cheating) your best friend (lady) cheats on you!

[josecuervo01]

So here it goes.. I have known a woman for some time.. we became good friends and we had good times and bad times.. I was their for her when she dated other men etc.. and I dated other women..

So one day I cut her off due to finding a new woman.. this woman I came to like, and hate was my worst nightmare.. long story short.. she was a Malignant, Toxic, Narcissist.. I had to cut ties with her..

So after a few months I decided to go back to my good old friend the woman from the first paragraph... like I said we were friends .. we use to date, she would tell me her problems and I would tell her mines. we would still hoop up even when she was in other relationships because she claimed her BFs cheated on her or treated her like crap.. we went back and forth...

So after going back to her and dating a few months she decides that we should be friends.. and I say no problem.. due to I thinking it was her and her issues and or me.. I felt bad because she started to mock ,belittle, judge me etc.. when we got back togheter and not thinking due to still having issues or trying to get over the (CRAZY NARCISSSIT) thus It did not dawn on me that she had another door open that she had not closed before getting back with me..

So in the mist of being friends.. she had the audacity to flaunt the new guy or so called friend in my face.. not knowing the scheme.. she claims she hated him. did not like, him, was not her kind.. and I telling her to leave the guy alone.. Well it happened she actually dumped me to CHEAT WITH HIM..

She went silent on me for a whole week and I had a feeling something was not right.. Well I had my resources of information tell me the truth, and when I confronted her with the truth she denied everything via Text messages, conversations and or telephone calls..

Even after I had sufficient evidence from my side she still denied it.. and I asking her several times.. and again she denied the truth..

Well its took her over 40 days after the initial CHEATING and or AFFAIR to tell me the truth, and yet she still is only telling me part of the TRUTH.. SO GUYS.. SHE LOVED BOMBED ME.. DURING THE 40 days because she lied to me.. and now Im at a point that I don't even touch her or want to deal with her..

SO MY QUESTION TO THE GUYS on this BOARD IS what to do? WHAT TO DO.. WE were friends for over 5 years on and off and she had the audacity to DUMP ME AND CHEAT ON ME AND STILL TO THIS DAY PLAY THE INNOCENT PERSON.. when I have confirmed all my information to be TRUE..

ITS SAD THAT THAT WOMAN WILL CHEAT ON YOU WITH HER BOYFRIEND, BUT THEN CHEAT ON YOU WITH ANOTHER MAN.. SO I WANT SOME FEEDBACK..

RIGHT now IM JUST PLAYING THE ROLE.... BUT MY HEART IS NOT NO LONGER INVESTED.. and that last relationship with that toxic person came as a revelation that she is also suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorders.. but won't admit to itl.


WHA TO YALL THINK? WHAT SHOUD I DO? THANKS IN ADVANCE>>

 

[Jumbodicc]

You met shorty while she was in the game and you lost her to the game. You could sacc up and get to hitting that pussy or cut that bitch off, your choice. My .02¢

 

[The Jamaican]

Lost me at woman being your best friend.. I don’t believe in that philosophy

 

[Knuckles666]

 

[BGLR1212000]

I didnt read it all, sorry if I'm off subject, but I once had a best friend(female)and we had sex a few times and it was no big deal. She eventually wanted to know why i didnt date her seriously. I told her, I knew all her business and I know she's a cheater. She cheated on all her boyfriends and I knew. So back to you and your thing. You aint know how she got down? If that bitch is a cheater, it dont matter who she with, thats how she going to act with any boyfriend.

 

[0utsyder]

So wait ya'll would cheat on your significant others with each other?!?! Dog, you KNEW the type of person you were getting in a relationship with!

 

[baboss2212]

If she dumped u...and fucked somebody else, while you're broke up. That's not cheating on u

 

[donwuan]

You cut a friend off when you got in a relationship? Now you're hurt? Did you not hurt her? She lied to try not to hurt you. She might be a better friend than you are. I just call it, like I see it.

 

[Day_Carver]

Lost me at woman being your best friend.. I don’t believe in that philosophy

 

[Pack Rat]

She cheated on you and dumped you, and your heart is no longer invested in that relationship?
And you come to a porn board for advice? Welp!

 

[yasky777]

Shit reads hella moist…. She didn’t cheat she found you expendable and likely wasn’t getting wrecked like she needed.

No diss just saying.

 

[creepin]

Buy some Cuervo and get drunk for the weekend! And next weekend find you another lover!

 

[ebone84]

Fuck her when you can buddy........

 

[tallblacknyc]

You trying to give a person a higher position than they deserve.. her qualification was to empty the garbage cans and mopped the floors, you wanted to make her Vice President of the company..clearly she wasn’t supposed to be selected for that position.. as long as you keep her to emptying waste baskets and keeping the floor clean you should be good.. in other words she’s a fuck buddy/ friends with benefits at best anything higher and you’re the dumbass for putting her on that level

 

[DWBass]

Just be friends, bro. Not worth all that stress. I used to run from that kind of shit. Find you a nice, loyal chick.

 

[DJCandle]

Know and understand somebody is regularly serving her up and will continue to and that someone is not you.

She’s a friend. Keep her there. She don’t see you as a love interest as she’s made that abundantly clear.

Charge it to the game and do your own thing and keep it pushing.

 

[comment101]

woman can’t be my “friend”. It’s either I’m fucking or I’m not.

 

[Cross]

Brotha to avoid the drama just walk the fuck away and continue to live your life especially with a woman who knows whats she wants from you we all deserve that.

 

[InTheMind]

Yall was friends with benefits nothing more you don't fall in love or Get jealous of your friends with benefits contestants you play your role and (beat the pussy like it stole your money) when it comes to you looks like the new dude made her toes curl better than you did so she just showing you that you can be replaced cause you was slacking on your pimping in then sheets

 

[dHustla]

Bless his heart

 

[TheAlias]

WTF is all of this foolishness?

We crying over the pussy now?

Okay, a bit of advice since I'm not that cold. NEVER give a chick, especially one you ain't fucking, all of your time. Go ghost for awhile without explanation. Do shit and remain cryptic about the shit. If you give her all of the benefits of a boyfriend without being her boyfriend, she has no reason to give you any more than she does.

I don't know if my advice is useful to you since I really didn't read all that pitiful shit. But if it is.....you're welcome.

Thank you for attending my simp talk

 

[scullydog]

These brothers cold on these black girl online streets. Nonetheless, bro., you can cut her off, or you can string her along. I wouldn't make her a girlfriend anymore and most definitely not a wife. You have already vetted her and you know she will fuck up on you. So, why take the risk? Treat her with a long handle spoon however you do the above, whether you cut her off or string her along for the pussy. Me, I would leave her alone and find a new chick. It wouldn't be hard to find another chick to take care of your needs or to marry. The onus is on you bruh. I hoped this helped.

 

[The Plutonian]

Lost me at woman being your best friend.. I don’t believe in that philosophy

This! Ever! Ain’t no good looking or attractive woman ever going to be my best nothing except fuck buddy! Man you’re inconsistent though in your story. A side piece or FWB can’t ever go any higher in my book. Love? Nah son, that’s where you wrong! Let her be emotional you’re always logical! You say you can let go, show her ass! Go North Pole, Winter Storm cold on her! Cold as a bitch that’s a pretty face with no back cold! No fucking contact for at least 3 months, or more! Who cares what she is doing you get back to your purpose and stacking your roster! Dude, she playing mind games with your ass right now and you need to recognize the trap. If you guys had boundaries and she broke them, tell her have a nice life! Man you asked!

 

[The Plutonian]

These brothers cold on these black girl online streets. Nonetheless, bro., you can cut her off, or you can string her along. I wouldn't make her a girlfriend anymore and most definitely not a wife. You have already vetted her and you know she will fuck up on you. So, why take the risk? Treat her with a long handle spoon however you do the above, whether you cut her off or string her along for the pussy. Me, I would leave her alone and find a new chick. It wouldn't be hard to find another chick to take care of your needs or to marry. The onus is on you bruh. I hoped this helped.

A spoon? How about a sling shot? Feed her crumbs if anything! I need you to crawl!

 

[The Plutonian]

WTF is all of this foolishness?

We crying over the pussy now?

Okay, a bit of advice since I'm not that cold. NEVER give a chick, especially one you ain't fucking, all of your time. Go ghost for awhile without explanation. Do shit and remain cryptic about the shit. If you give her all of the benefits of a boyfriend without being her boyfriend, she has no reason to give you any more than she does.

I don't know if my advice is useful to you since I really didn't read all that pitiful shit. But if it is.....you're welcome.

Thank you for attending my simp talk

THIS!!!

 

[4 Dimensional]

It seems you expected her to change just because y’all changed the title of your relationship with each other. Take people for what they show you, fam. You knew how she was, but you still risked your own well-being on hope. I’m not sure that’s a relationship you would want to salvage unless you desperate for pussy or companionship with this woman.

Otherwise, take the time to work on yourself and reflect on where you went wrong. In these moments, you have to admit you went against your better judgement instead of just accepting what you already knew. She is not responsible for how you feel. That’s on you.

Character building moments. Self aware moments. Take accountability, nigga. She did what she did. But you didn’t do what you was suppose to do to protect yourself.

Now a word from the greatest prophet of all time.




Lastly, I hope you’re not light skin.

 

[jack walsh13]

You an emotional faggot bruh. Fuckin Carl Thomas ass nigga. I feel sorry for your mother.

 

[shinobi]

DON’T run up on shawty and do a Rambo
Whip out the jammy and flat-blast both of them.

 

[kirkout]

I thought y’all was friends, so how did she cheat on you!?! Y’all was friends with benefits, right. Lol. I guess not cause you butt hurt over it.

Side note: You said that she cheated on her last boyfriend with you, right. So, the saying is that the way you get them is the way you lose them. Basically, that means a tiger never changes it’s stripes and if she/he is a cheater and you got them via cheating. Well, she/he will eventually tire of you and cheat on you.

You must be a young’n or something. You should’ve learned this by now.

 

[kirkout]

You know what…on second thought. It sounds like you developed feelings for her and may miss her and her friendship. Just tell the woman how you feel. It sounds like you love her. Go ahead and make her your girl. But remember what I said previously.

You might also be infatuated with her and if so this shit will pass. One.

 

[bigjayler]

 

[xfactor]

Lost me at woman being your best friend.. I don’t believe in that philosophy

Too many woman worshippers AKA simps these days. I would expect a porn board to be the last place for it but it became obvious when posters got upset because “women were being chased off”

 

[xfactor]

which is always wrong because you are blind.

You cut a friend off when you got in a relationship? Now you're hurt? Did you not hurt her? She lied to try not to hurt you. She might be a better friend than you are. I just call it, like I see it.

 

[Texas Catdaddy]

You trying to give a person a higher position than they deserve.. her qualification was to empty the garbage cans and mopped the floors, you wanted to make her Vice President of the company..clearly she wasn’t supposed to be selected for that position.. as long as you keep her to emptying waste baskets and keeping the floor clean you should be good.. in other words she’s a fuck buddy/ friends with benefits at best anything higher and you’re the dumbass for putting her on that level

dayum buddy, insultingly well put .....