Male vs Female reality
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Bih stupid, irrational, & crazy... to say the least.
Another one that you can bet if she is on a dating site for body type, she has "Curvy"
She’s right about all of that. Biggest takeaway men should get is just be honest and brief. No long chats to get her info. Speak and tell her that is why you spoke. Introduce yourself, greeting and ask for her number in under 20 seconds. First date CAN and should be as simple as a movie. You don’t have to talk the entire date just be fun and interesting. Women love to laugh. Can’t stress that enough. Be clever, funny or both. Be in the moment, don’t talk about the future beyond a second date. Sound confident and make bold statements. If the movie, food or drinks suck, THAT is the topic of the date while still on the date!!! You say to her “Why you let me choose this place?” as you smile, bump her with your shoulder or tap her arm. As you’re walking out of a terrible movie you make her the movie director, the main character. “Let’s rewrite this movie because...that-shit-sucked! Lmao” then say “You first. GO!” and if she starts telling how she would done parts differently, you got her. Just let her talk. Even if you got some fly shit to say, let her run her fucking mouth!!! Now you’re a great listener and thus awful movie was a great Segway to amazing conversation. If y’all go for a drink order her a virgin drink, no matter what it is. Even if she wants a beer, you order a stiff drink then say “A virgin Bud Light for the lady”. You have to be in the moment. Pay for the first date. Don’t ask her on another date, tell her she’s going. Say “This was fun. Are you sure you can top this?” Challenger her to another date. Don’t ask. If she orders odd food, goat her into telling why you would like it, NOT why she likes it. Women want to mold men. Appear moldable.
thank God for living in nyc.. Free things to do.. "You ever been to the high line in nyc when it gets dark" nice free 1 mile walk on a converted old train tracks with all sorts of plant life, architecture, views of the city, views of nice buildings, that lead to Hudson yards a multi- billion dollar development for the rich... That's a nice walk for lots of convo.. If you want to bring something to eat you can, if you want to buy something to eat you can, even wait till after that you can... You also got the waterfalls near Lincoln center that you can sit around during the night to chill, relax, convo..there's also a cheap food court near by you can grab something to eat at if you choose to where you can bring it near the waterfalls.. So many spots so lil time
Tons of free stuff here as well. Chicks like grr shit if they’ve been or especially have never been. If it’s new to them they love being put on.
I think just the thought that you and your woman have to debate on something like this you both don't agree on each other terms it's not ready for marriage. I don't let any man into my woman life my wife can't go out with no man she can't talk to no man unless they at work or it's just someone that she happened to see. But in return I make sure I do the same thing that I ask of her.
Agreed! Right, she doesn't deserve to have access & cherry pick. I called it treating me like a disposable convenience. Selfish af.
Typical.
I wouldn't date her.
We're not going to dinner or a movie on the first date. I am not movie and meal guy. We can go for coffee/tea and sit somewhere and get to know each other or go for a walk or some other free stuff. I still believe in chivalry, too. I just have to know that you are worth being chivalrous towards.
You have to be uber fine in order for me to risk taking an L on date one. I have yet to meet that chick, so...PASS.
This all depends on one's intentions. I date with purpose (don't really date per say, but I'm talking to & dealing with different women for the purpose of finding a mate, not to fuck)
I'm not asking for her number immediately, I'm feeling her out. Is she desperate? Is she delusional? Does she know what she wants? Is she realistic about what she wants?
This man gets it.
The second you put less effort in trying to control your spouse and put more effort in being clear about what
YOU want in a relationship- regardless of the person- the simpler all this shit becomes.
Here are my demands...
Here is the door- it is open...
You can walk out anytime...
Just know that if you stay and don't abide by my rules...
You will be escorted out just as easily...
DON'T PLAY.
*two cents*
This is cool post and glad it came back up after originally posted 2018.
I’ve had this discussion with my wife. I basically said the same thing in this post. Bounce Nigga.
We have two sets of twins. There is not anyone female and definitely not male putting in the 365 days a year work and money I am putting in. Period. If you are doing the fucking work you are supposed to be being head of the household there is no fucking discussion. I tell her to free me so I can do whatever the fuck I want to without ever thinking about what she is doing. Two weeks off with out the kids a month and never having to deal with her needs and wants bullshit!
Priceless. She shuts the fuck up!!!
I always charge a bitch to the game and always will. It is a way of life for me.
150% cooperation for me or fuck it!!
That dude will be having back surgery in a month or so trying to prove he is one of the strongest brothaz alive!
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That ninja died after this photo.
It’s murals all over his block.
It (Only Fans) along with many social media outlets have the game all twisted.
Got all these Chicks heads on 1000%
It's INSANE to think that at the beginning of this call, this chick actually said she thinks she deserves better and wants to travel, see the world and date around like she's some model chick fresh outta college with no kids and the whole world in the palm of her hands. Makes less than 50K, 2 kids, 5'3 210 AND STILL MARRIED. Sweet Geezus.
Just crazy af. I sent the same video to my wife and sisters and they have been rolling all morning over this. My baby sister got a friend she has been trying to talk out of thinking about divorce from a dude she has been married to for nearly 12 years because she is tired of being in a rut. She is 41, shawt, chunky, with 3 kids.
Just crazy af. I sent the same video to my wife and sisters and they have been rolling all morning over this. My baby sister got a friend she has been trying to talk out of thinking about divorce from a dude she has been married to for nearly 12 years because she is tired of being in a rut. She is 41, shawt, chunky, with 3 kids.
shit craaaay
This happens because men how little to no standards. A fat, broke bitch with kids knows she has value on the streets. When the worst think they are equal we’ve lost.Just crazy af. I sent the same video to my wife and sisters and they have been rolling all morning over this. My baby sister got a friend she has been trying to talk out of thinking about divorce from a dude she has been married to for nearly 12 years because she is tired of being in a rut. She is 41, shawt, chunky, with 3 kids.
Bring her to Atlanta, she’s fit right in. And her ego will be through the roof! And don’t let her make 40k and have her place. The ONLY reasons she thinking about leaving her man is because she feels she can upgrade. Now, she. A fat, child-ridden woman KNOWS she can leave and be snatched up, that says more about black men than her.5'3 - 210...
In the ATL? Things must have really changed since the early 2000s. That chunky shawt chick would not have stood a chance because the ATL use to be dime city.
It’s still Dime City but the o’beast one run amuck here. Gotta know where to go because in general most are bigguns.
Whew....
I was told that i should get a white girl by a 38 year old woman with a masters degree, no kids and nice crib. I told her she and her friends get overlooked because they are unapproachable and unfiltered. We know each other through friends and I told her I got her number a year ago and never pressed her because she was often stank. Not towards me just seemed stank in social settings. Like she’s better than the men and woman. You can never explain to our women that they have a nasty ass disposition that’s easily fixable.
Have we discussed someone's attitude towards life and and relationships vs their natural disposition this thread. And how much plays into how they play in a role with what we've experienced.
All the women in the above post were written to have nasty dispositions outside of who they liked. Then they became a totally different person. Unless they began to resent them. For example, Toni.
Aside from having beautiful breast, Toni from Girlfriends had the most fleshed out character in those regards. Like the Perfect Cell of affected broads.
All the women in the above post were written to have nasty dispositions outside of who they liked. Then they became a totally different person. Unless they began to resent them. For example, Toni.
Aside from having beautiful breast, Toni from Girlfriends had the most fleshed out character in those regards. Like the Perfect Cell of affected broads.
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