yep.. i likem chocolate....
They like your skin more than they like their own......believe that.
They like your nose and grade of hair better also if its closer to the white mans.
Aint nothing that makes a dark skinned girl more proud than a lightskinned baby with "good hair"
Lets fight about it![]()
You aren't smart enough to think for yourself.![]()
Not a light skin brotha but I LOVE dark skin women. Really dark women too. When I think of the perfect woman, this would be it for me IMHO. But that's just me.
Lets fight about it![]()
You aren't smart enough to think for yourself.![]()
All those icons dont disguise the fact youre a smart dumb nigga.
so you doing the thinking for him?
how you going to tell another man what he likes...
I've been with lightskin to dark skin women...as long as she was black I have no hangups with complexion like some of these simple minded fools... & I believe they are a few bruhs who feel the same
so you doing the thinking for him?
how you going to tell another man what he likes...
I've been with lightskin to dark skin women...as long as she was black I have no hangups with complexion like some of these simple minded fools... & I believe they are a few bruhs who feel the same
Bro you sound like you are stuck in 30s.
I'm not telling what he likes, I'm telling him he has a preference, assuming his brain is functioning, which is obviously is because he has the ability to sign onto bgol and profess his ignorance.
possibly heavier on ego than psychology skills.Actually I'm pretty smart. I'm not the smartest guy in the world maybe, but I'm pretty sharp. I tend to see things most people can't see. Just like how you can't understand how every human who is mentally stable (no cognitive illnesses) has a preference. I think the dumb ****** here is you.![]()
I'm not telling what he likes, I'm telling him he has a preference, assuming his brain is functioning, which is obviously is because he has the ability to sign onto bgol and profess his ignorance.
possibly heavier on ego than psychology skills.
not a jab per se, but do you honestly not leave room in your assessment for yourself to be wrong? what if people's 'preference' stops at height, weight, body type?
he who thinks he knows everything knows nothing at all .
that's really the point right there though, isn't it?
you tellin people you know them better than they know themselves. if that don't sound retarded to you, i guess there no helpin shit in here.
are you a psychologist?
I guess I do know some people better than they know themselves, in particular areas. Most people aren't even smart enough to learn about themselves thoroughly. This is a fact. Even very smart people can have trouble with self discovery, that's why there is a market in psychology and other mental health professions. Being that seeking mental help in times of need and confusion is frowned on in the black community, there are a considerable amount of empty and self-perplexed individuals in our community.
Actually I'm pretty smart. I'm not the smartest guy in the world maybe, but I'm pretty sharp. I tend to see things most people can't see. Just like how you can't understand how every human who is mentally stable (no cognitive illnesses) has a preference. I think the dumb ****** here is you.![]()
possibly heavier on ego than psychology skills.
not a jab per se, but do you honestly not leave room in your assessment for yourself to be wrong? what if people's 'preference' stops at height, weight, body type?
he who thinks he knows everything knows nothing at all.
I have always been drawn to this color on a woman, I was crazy attracted to her cause of her skin and contrasting white teeth....would have gone all in if I had my mind right at the time.
I didn't.
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do you hold degrees in either of these? or psychology?If history and sociology proved your theory even remotely true I'd buy it. Unfortunately other preferences are taken into account.
You remind me of my cousin, know it all ex con. With a 5th grade education but got his ged in prison and thinks he knows everything. In reality you both are borderline retarded niggas.
do you hold degrees in either of these? or psychology?
what are you supporting these statements with, since you're pseudo-citing?
Sakem no hate but you need to come off your high horse sometime bruh
I have always been drawn to this color on a woman, I was crazy attracted to her cause of her skin and contrasting white teeth....would have gone all in if I had my mind right at the time.
I didn't.
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C'mon ya'll ATTACK MEEEEEEEE!!![]()
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so that's a no, likely x3. gotcha.Nah psychology is too easy of a degree.My cousin is doing that bullshit. Only the weak minded need a book to explain to them something as simple as psychology. Generally the stronger people of the human race tend to make observations that the weak and dimwitted have trouble dealing with.
I go through different fazes of what I'm atractted to. Generally speaking I have been attracted to all sisters, most of my ex's were dark skin or in-between, my past 3 girls 2 were about the same complexion that I am one was lighter... shit ultimately is irrelevant logically speaking, but preference is mostly an emotional thing or str8 up brainwashing. Honestly I often wonder if BGOL has had a negative impact on me subconciously, because of the way brothers perpetually exalt light skin women en masse. My preference nowadays has changed to mostly light. I sometimes ask my self am I cooning or color struck :![]()
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I seem to be drawn more to women around the same complexion that I am over the past few years (like Esperanza Spaulding). I don't know if this healthy or not, and it has somewhat weighed heavily on my mind, but I think there's a double standard placed on light skin brothers. It fosters that looming sense/fear of being called or feeling like a coon or a colorist for having preference for ones female reflection. I do know that I wished more dark skin brothers would appreciate darker skin women as their refection. Not one of my married homies that are heavily melinated are married to darkskin women.
I'll go out on a limb here and say, there are more light skin brothers dating all shades vs darkskin brothers. I understand why this happens, because of the immense psycological pressure placed upon black people as a whole by this racist system, I believe it can be exceptionally heavy on those blessed with more melanin. Shamefully I've even noticed that my tolerance level seems to be higher dealing with lightskin women's bullshit vs darskin, and thats fucked up on my part.
Honestly This is a issue that has gone on way to long and I'm man enough to admit to the possibility that I am brainwashed as well, despite how so called CONSCIOUS I think I am.
I heard that this prefrence shit has a lot to do with the complexion of ones mother, but I don't know If it's true or not...![]()
you going hard for a thread about preferences in complexion
and get off your high horse for once....Oh I forgot you the rich dude who posts on BGOL![]()
People who say that "I date everything light and dark and every race" stuff tend to prefer lighter skinned women in general. It's basically a sneaky nice way of saying it