Karrine "Superhead" Steffans Question...
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Bruh she was molested. Most females that are molested usually either become very promiscuous or totally shut down. When one becomes promiscuous, the worst thing a man can do to her is call her all kinds of derogatory sexual slurs like "slut" and "whore". When a woman behaves this way, the best thing to do is to be even more respectful towards her and that way it can help her heal and come out of that pain.
be MORE RESPECTFUL?
before i unload PLEASE tell me you're joking, playing an internet character or are another poster fucking around under an alias.
nobody in 2012 on BGOL can be THIS DAMN simptastic.
You trying to bring her outta lurker status here ain't you?
It's fucked up what happened to Superhead but I'm not going to give her a pass for what she did in her adult life. She revelled in the spotlight as the ultimate sperm sucking slut to the stars. As an adult, she could have seeked out help to come to grips with her past, furthermore she could have changed when she had her child and become a role model mother. I'm sure at least one person in her lifetime offered her genuine help (even if it was a simp). You keep on bringing up respect all women no matter what but I learned very early in life, you will tread dangerous waters with that approach. Some women are just a lost cause no matter how fine, treat them accordingly.
It's not about being a simp, it's about brothers getting back to respecting and treating our women like the goddesses they are. That Suga Free "I'll pimp that bitch" shit that the older generation tried to pass down to us is wack juice and really that shit died out in the 90's. I used to think that shit was cool back then too, but then I and many others like myself have matured. This is a new day bruh, we off that other shit, and we're getting back putting women on a pedestal where they deserve to be. Besides, all that pimp a bitch shit ain't nothing but a mans own insecurity anyway.
My wifes moms was molested and she spent her entire adult years being hooked on heroine. It's real easy for someone on the outside looking in to just say "you're and adult, get over it". But if you've never been through that shit you're really in no position to say that to a person. Everyone has their own timeline for when they are ready to heal from their past. My wifes mom just got clean a few years ago after spending 30 something years being on that shit. A womans pain ain't nothing to take lightly bruh.
And if a woman is too far gone, you don't have to deal with her, true, but you don't have to be disrespectful towards her either. Maintain your poise, hope that she gets better, and keep it moving. No need for calling out sluts and whores and shit. What good does that do anyone?
Bruh, I think your overlooking my point. I'm not saying that I'm blatantly going out in public to disrespect any women that dresses scantily clad or acts whorish. I will be on high alert and peep whatever game they try to run with a magnified eye. It's not just women, I treat all people accordingly. The irony of this is that I work in a field where I help women such as we described with the whorish pasts and drug addiction. I go above and beyond to assist those who really want the help and is seeking change. The respect is given on both ends..
Yeah it's all good, you just accused me of caping for saying a gentleman should never address a woman with disrespect no matter how promiscuous she is. So I wanted to elaborate on my position. Glad we're basically on the same page though as far as treating women with the utmost respect, even while they're trying to deal with their childhood trauma during their adult years. (Aren't we all though? I know I am).
would love to lick between her knees
If you have skill to get you through life, you can't hate a person for using it.
SUPERHEAD GOT SKILLZ
SUPERHEAD GOT SKILLZ
fan of those skills
yep she has that , " im gonna rock your world with confidence look"
Why? Because the exploitation is so blatant?
This is what 3 Times fails to acknowledge! He is exactly the type of guy she would run roughshod over! She would save her worst hatred and vitriol for the man who tried to "understand" her and sympathized with her past.
That fat Samoan-looking dude with the braids. Forget his name. For a while, people were saying it was Irv Gotti in that vid!
Fuck this slore and every other like them. She had her five minutes of fame sucking dick. She wasn't a victim she chose to suck dick for a living. She would rather die than just be an everyday person. Real men have to stand and say this is not a women. Young girls have to see that this is not what real men want or need. The shit she is pushing is, be like me, have fame and fortune. Poison for a young girl. The structure of the black family is crumbling because the black women consistently fails to be a lady. Stop birthing our future through a cum dumpster. If you were her child and another child said your momma sucked dick for a living how would you feel. That has to be damaging for a child. And don't give me that playa shit because you playas know if someone said anything about your moms you would get upset. Like the other gentlemen say I'll have to pass also.
this is so spectacularly saturated with the purest simptitude that i'm almost impressed that anyone could express this in words.
its like the Mona Lisa of simplistic thinking and blind optimism.
dude, some people are evil plain and simple, and many of those evil people have ovaries.
superhead is not the result of molestation. she is not the result of the bad things that happened to her in life. she is the result of a series of choices that resulted in her being a opportunist who has exploited her body, her career whoring, and even her son to make a dollar.
none of that behavior deserves respect. you called her a "bad bitch" as if that's something GOOD.
this is the kind of person you CANNOT have any type of relationship with, because she will attempt to control every aspect of it, and if you have any SELF respect you wont be any woman's slave.
you are so full of empathy that you're setting yourself up for exploitation, and a "bad bitch" like her would suck you dry then throw you away like a used tampon.
but you'd probably like the abuse.
as for the greater issue of pimpin' women, there would be no pimps if there were no whores. whores are born, not made.
Fuck this slore and every other like them. She had her five minutes of fame sucking dick. She wasn't a victim she chose to suck dick for a living. She would rather die than just be an everyday person. Real men have to stand and say this is not a women. Young girls have to see that this is not what real men want or need. The shit she is pushing is, be like me, have fame and fortune. Poison for a young girl. The structure of the black family is crumbling because the black women consistently fails to be a lady. Stop birthing our future through a cum dumpster. If you were her child and another child said your momma sucked dick for a living how would you feel. That has to be damaging for a child. And don't give me that playa shit because you playas know if someone said anything about your moms you would get upset. Like the other gentlemen say I'll have to pass also.
Even a lurker had to come out to criticize Superhead! Few women provoke such visceral reactions in men as she does!
Allen is that you
I honestly believe this chick suffers from mental illness, definitely borderline personality disorders
Allen is that you
I honestly believe this chick suffers from mental illness, definitely borderline personality disorders
I loved Allen. lol Don't bring him into this. "Your language is offensive!" rofllmao Allen kills me. This dude is odd. I never thought i'd see this kind of speech on bgol. Never. I'm shocked. He's on the right track. But...
Expressing it here was odd.
that nigga aint on shit but his period.
It's awkward because she isn't into it and she isn't interested in faking it either. It's disgusting because syphilis spreading Marcus doesn't give a fuck and the whole scene plays out like an adult molestation. (But that's just me, I'm different when it comes to porn, I've always been a bit finicky when it came to certain types of pornography).
As far as being "roughshod over", do not confuse being a sucka with being a gentleman. A gentleman is a man of strength who also has compassion but doesn't kiss ass because that would be a sign of weakness. That pimping bitches shit (not accusing anybody of that here, just an example) is fake masculinity masking the weak insecure little boy inside. I know a bunch of dudes that are hard on females and they are nothing more that little bitches that act tough. Even the older ones in the 40's and 50's that still act like that.
Me personally, I get nothing but the most high respect from all females in my life, whether be co-workers, homegirls, family members, my homies girlfriends/wives and of course my own wife. So this projection that any female including Karrine Steffans would walk all over me is simply not realistic.
Women of all kinds appreciate guys like myself. Real shit.
And, that's a bad thing?
Well we'll just have to fundamentally disagree on a few things. Like 1, I don't think anyone is born "evil", I believe that people are conditioned from childhood, due to a number of unfortunate circumstances (like sexual abuse), to do evil things.
Have you ever been molested as a child? If not, you are in no position to criticize anyone's behavior and how they choose to deal with that pain in their life. Those "series of choices" you referred to are directly connected to a persons upbringing. I made a bunch of stupid choices when I was younger, even though I didn't realize at the time, it wasn't until I got older that I realized I was trying to cope with the pain of my pops (among other things).
Here's a Jay-Z lyric from the song December 4th:
"Now all the teachers couldn't reach me
And my momma couldn't beat me
Hard enough to match the pain of my pop not seeing me"
Jay admitted that this childhood pain lead to him as an adult becoming cold-hearted and standoffish. We still see that with him til this day that he has a hard time letting people in his circle.
We've all suffered from some sort of childhood trauma so who are anyone of us to judge someone else's journey as far as how they are dealing with their own childhood trauma in their own way?
In general. Yeah. Women do like guys who are respectful. There's a general view of these types of males in this country, on this board, because of a persons sexual past, behavior that makes them lower than pond bacteria. That in and of itself is a whole nother bag of mind fuckery there. But in general people don't like to be treated without respect because of some crap they did before. Her issue is not realizing that the real world doesn't work on those rules. Just like she's got issues, the guys she's dealing with are going to have issues. The guys in these posts have issues.
And most of them aren't going to be favorable to her. But hi5 on being a gentleman in this day and age and knowing what it means. They're a very endangered species.
first of all she sucked dick like it contained the fountain of youth on those flicks. you're either lying to play a part or too stupid to know some women use sex for control, and that is what you witnessed. she told dude to shut up and fuck her. if that looked like a molestation you dont know what molestation is.
secondly, you aren't a gentleman and you have no concept of the meaning of the word. a gentleman recognizes a woman of ill repute and avoids her, he doesnt make excuses for her bad behavior. a gentleman is aware of the term gentlewoman, and doesn't elevate a woman who makes herself of low rank and value to such levels.
a whore is a whore, treating a whore like a lady wont make her a lady.
but it does make YOU a stupid asshole who is about to be taken for all he's worth.
your getting the highest respect from women is bullshit too, cause it's a woman's nature to test you, and "respect" aint the way to present your boundaries.
fuck out of here with this bullshit.
You're trying to speak human knowledge to people who lack the capacity to understand it. But good show.
i didnt say she was born evil, but she IS evil now, and must take responsibility for her bullshit. she doesnt get a pass cause of hard knocks.
i've spoken about MY molestation on this forum a FEW times. i have friends who were molested and NONE of us turned out like this broad. i have a childhood friend who was raped BY A MAN as a child, and i think he's one of the BEST people i've ever met.
i was trained to COUNSEL people who were abused.
you dont have the slightest clue as to what you're talking about. you are on some incredibly uneducated, untested, untried FANTASY shit right now.
as some know, Jay Z can kiss my ass, i never liked his music and dont see him as talented, besides he isnt an expert on the subject. citing him as a source of information only goes to prove that you are completely unqualified to speak on this issue authoritatively.
no one is judging her journey, but i WILL IDENTIFY what she is. IDENTIFICATION and JUDGEMENT are two different things.
while only God can judge, i certainly can call a spade a spade, or a toxic person a SUPERHEAD.
You're trying to speak human knowledge to people who lack the capacity to understand it. But good show.
you're trying to be a troll around people who expose trolls. but keep it up.
you're trying to be a troll around people who expose trolls. but keep it up.
Right, of course. lol "I don't like what you're saying, you must be a troll." I'll keep up everything i can. Get over yourself man. The guy chooses not to treat women like shit because of what they've done, who they are, whatever. That goes against bgol doctrine. I applaud him for his belief. That's a rare thing to treat people respectfully as humans.
it ain't about treating women like shit.
he's advocating treating a woman like a queen WHO ISN'T OF QUEEN'S QUALITY OR CHARACTER.
this guy said: WE NEED TO PUT WOMEN ON A PEDESTAL.
that is crazy talk.
i pamper my wife and daughter like no man ever has before or ever will again, but my wife brought exemplary quality to the table. and when she gets out of pocket i check that shit. because she is of good quality she cooperates.
superhead? again, why she is superhead is of no consequence. that she is a lying, evil, vindictive, nuclear wasteland of a human being IS of all the consequence in the world.
you cant treat her well and realistically expect her to reciprocate. she CANT because she never developed the tools to do so. all she can do is destroy the lives she comes into contact with as she REFUSES true help (ie the bitch needs psychiatric treatment).
you might love the fantasy world you live in, but for the rest of us who have to deal with reality AND PEOPLE LIKE HER, i'm personally offended that such bad advise is ever put into words.
my COUSIN is a superhead. kidnapped and molested by her own father, married and divorced by 22, turned stripper, con artist, identity thief and whore by 27.
two of my uncles and i rode to her rescue from 1997 to 2000 and in that 3 year span she fucked all three of us over reputation wise, financially and professionally.
so don't give me that shit, i been there and done that.
y'all talking theory while i'm talking LIFE.
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