I'm noticing there is a growing movement to define masculinity by women

At least you broke one stereotype that all crazy chicks have good pussy. Unless your shit is da bomb like powdered milk or tang, just add water.

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Your hared of me and of bw as a whole is what is making you say that shit about my pussy

this is why I am not taking it seriously

Your opinion on my vagina means nothing, you need to understand this
 
Lone

There is a massive drive towards role reversal.

men are being pushed to be more feminine

women are being pushed to be more masculine

Us in the middle are tired of the fuckery and it is people like me who write articles like your example.

I love women, not women acting as men

Similarly I am a man and will act as a man.

But this shit where you have women who had no father in their lives telling men how they should act.

Then the gay women telling men how to be a man.

The world is upside down

:smh:

:smh::smh::smh:
 
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Your hared of me and of bw as a whole is what is making you say that shit about my pussy

this is why I am not taking it seriously

Your opinion on my vagina means nothing, you need to understand this

No, we just can't stand your dumb ass..not all black women are Looney tunes like you, stop trying to victimize yourself with using that "black women are hated" bullshit, that's tired.

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No, we just can't stand your dumb ass..not all black women are Looney tunes like you, stop trying to victimize yourself with using that "black women are hated" bullshit, that's tired.

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I stand by my post

you are hateful coons

and my pussy is beautiful

now what?
 
I would like to share some thoughts about leadership.


I believe leadership has no gender.


Definition:
Leadership has been described as "a process of social influence in which one person can enlist the aid and support of others in the accomplishment of a common task

Studies of leadership have produced theories involving traits, situational interaction, function, behavior, power, vision and values, charisma, and intelligence, among others.

That said, I do believe that both men and women should lead in relationships based on the particular goal, i.e. "in the accomplishment of a common task"




The problem with modern society is that you have individuals with NO GOALS.


A man without goals trying to control his women but not on the way to anywhere.

A woman without goals trying to possess a man but not on the way to anywhere.

The process of self-discovery, sense of purpose is lacking badly.


When a man discovers who he is and his relationship to the world, he is on a mission.

That discovery comes about by learning where you came from, where you are now and the context of now and then coming up with a framework on where you want to be in the future.

Without the past, you have no context for the present.

Black feminist don't have knowledge of the past so the context under which they operate is not real.

It's like the mixed kid who grew up sheltered from racism and it's context by white parents and then goes to school to only discover he is black.

Same with some of us.

We internalized the messaging in the society, put ourselves as the recipient and live out a value system that has no context for us as a people.

An example is education.
We go to school and become educated without context.
The context is generational wealth building yet we find ourselves living our entire lives without trying to change that context by molding the next generation towards wealth building tools such as business ownership, real estate, stock trading.
We think that because we have a certificate from an institute that networking has little value to our lives. Why join an association in our industry? Why go to conferences and trade shows? Why not work and go home to 4 hours of entertainment instead of 2 hrs a week networking?



So now we are a people need to pre-screen who walks into our lives to determine their purpose.

Negative people are not builders regardless of gender


So men have their roles that they take the lead on

So do women, they have their roles to take the lead on

Both need to exhibit and practice leadership for healthy relationships.

And these leadership socialization takes place by men passing on values, traditions to boys, not women and gay men.


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Your hared of me and of bw as a whole is what is making you say that shit about my pussy

this is why I am not taking it seriously

Your opinion on my vagina means nothing, you need to understand this

You love throwing around words like hatred, cooning, faggot, etc.

I don't hate you or your dusty ass pussy. It is more pity with a slight hint of bemusement.

You are lost and you won't find what you are looking for here. That pain you have will be passed on to another generation until you let that shit go.
 
I stand by my post

you are hateful coons

and my pussy is beautiful

now what?



u really need to leave canada, maybe move somewhere that weeds legal an it hardly ever snows
meet some black guys that aint dumb enough to live in canada, like 2 one 3 an them other niggas that fall in love wit chics
spend some time not angry an then come an look at all ur 2013 post


but u'll ignore my post along wit any of the other good advice u've received on here an go lookin for another thread to troll:smh:
 
No, we just can't stand your dumb ass..not all black women are Looney tunes like you, stop trying to victimize yourself with using that "black women are hated" bullshit, that's tired.

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u really need to leave canada, maybe move somewhere that weeds legal an it hardly ever snows
meet some black guys that aint dumb enough to live in canada, like 2 one 3 an them other niggas that fall in love wit chics
spend some time not angry an then come an look at all ur 2013 post


but u'll ignore my post along wit any of the other good advice u've received on here an go lookin for another thread to troll:smh:

It's like you guys know he's trolling.. But you feed anyway. SmH..
 
Wait. How did a thread about *some* women trying to define masculinity turn into a thread about how beautiful Lones pumpum is? :confused:

Do not take this as a diss Lone it is not I just came back into read and was like WHOA :eek:
 
I think this brother is spot on. I think the part that we are leaving out is that men defined femininity and masculinity. We defined femininity by who we would court and marry. We defined masculinity by who we would allow to date our daughters. A women had no say in the matter.

I agree with what you say here. This is what happened.

But some women aren't cut out to be ruled by men in this way. I don't know any woman who wants to unman a man. Far as i've seen women just don't want to be beaten to pulps and treated poorly. There are plenty of women who'd be enslaved to men... and have no problem with it if he just didn't treat her poorly.



man that was considered a poor mate for his daughter would be quickly sent packing. Men became better providers and protectors to gain access quality women. They new their would be a stern judgmental father figure as the gatekeeper.


What feminism has introduced is the choice for women. And with their choices women are starting to define masculinity. Women want to be in control so they are choosing weaker willed men. The can fuck who they want just because they want. A nigga can get it, regardless of his strength of character.

What this brings about is men no longer held to the fathers strong scene of masculinity to date women. He just has to dress well, be cute to that particular woman and have charisma (swag), none of these characteristics are related to being a father or provider.

I don't want to harp on women being emotional decision makers or their whimsical nature. The statistics bare out the truth. The numbers of children being born out of wedlock is skyrocketing and marriage rates are sinking. I think a lot of this is because men don't want to deal with the post feminist woman long term.[/QUOTE]

Everything you speak of here is a consequence to the actions of men. I don't disagree with alot of it. But feminism/Womanism. Women speaking out. Is just a reaction to how we've been treated.

If there wasn't mistreatment(and it's still happening) Then this wouldn't be an issue. If there was a sense of real community to where if a guy had a bad way about him, the other men in the "village" put a stop to him or helped him. Then he wouldn't be mistreating his woman.

You don't treat us like we're human beings, you're going to get blowback. You're going to get a fight.

My husband was catered too in an exemplary fashion. But he didn't treat people like they were beneath him. And he didn't treat women like they were a side thought. He viewed us all as part of machine and 1 part couldn't work without the others. So every part was important. You can't run the machine

You treat people like they're not important ... You treat people in a bad way, What do you THINK is going to happen?
 
Boy y'all putting it down up in here. Dropping some deep gems that stay with you after you leave this thread and leave the computer.

Society is just plain ole becoming feminized by gays and feminists. Plain and simple. Sports, cartoons, marriage, the military, the family. And of course it's worse with black people because of a multitude of issues that we are already dealing with post slavery and post Jim Crow.

That's why I have always put way more emphasis on male leadership and defining real masculinity. Clearly defined real masculinity.

In these modern times expect push back and criticism for that from a politically correct feminized society. Homosexuality is just another extension of that same feminization.

It begins with the male. I repeat it begins with male leadership and manhood or clearly defined masculinity. On a cultural or societal scale without that clearly defined masculine leadership the rest of it just slides down hill.

So why the repeated focus on male leadership or masculinity? Very simple and this stuff is ancient and spans across cultures and has for thousands of years.

Male leadership is the bedrock cornerstone foundation of the family unit. Period. The feminine role is a supporting role. Period. Men don't have to teach femininity to women or daughters. The man's leadership sets the role and foundation for the daughter to model in the form of support not leadership. She will then know what to expect from men when she gets older.

Young boys of course need that model to emulate and imitate when it's their turn. And that's it. It's been done that way for centuries. Without male leadership and I mean proper firm but loving male leadership the whole thing gets skewed. With black folks it can also become matriarchal. Functional maybe for awhile but that skews the whole model.

That's why I don't jump on the bandwagon of bashing hoodrats and blaming hoodrats for everything. Without male leadership everything else becomes skewed and the vicious cycle repeats itself generation after generation for young boys and young girls.

It's also why I have little patience or tolerance for trifling no good negroes. They are supposed to be the leaders but instead are deep off into a lot of nonsense and are stuck repeating the same cycle. Like bills was saying if we can catch a few at a young enough age through mentoring or parenting or whatever we can possibly put a dent in that cycle.

Don't listen to the politically correct rantings and ravings and accusations of gay or feminized apologists. They cannot and will not define or promote genuine masculinity so don't expect them to.

Excellent thread. Great comments and insights.

Same to you. If there wasn't mistreatment and dehumanization of the female, you wouldn't get the pushback you do. A man showed me that you didn't have to beat me for me to respect him. He didn't have to dog me to make me see him as a man. He didn't have to be violent.

Men in this family aren't violent. And yet they're respected. They don't beat on women or mistreat the families and yet they're respected.

That's not a woman defining anything for you. It's a woman telling you what was told to her by other men.
 
Wait. How did a thread about *some* women trying to define masculinity turn into a thread about how beautiful Lones pumpum is? :confused:

Do not take this as a diss Lone it is not I just came back into read and was like WHOA :eek:

One of these guys throws a passive aggressive feminine shot at lone and tries to find a way to insult her. And she goes back at them. It's bandwagoning/childhood bullying/bitchyman ism's. Same ole same ole i've noticed.
 
Feminist want power....they cannot gain power through physical prowess...where men naturally are more oowerful......so they demonize physical maleness by calling it bullshit like hypermasculinity....etc
 
Bitch..don't you have a job or something? You got a kid, right? No priorities, mental shipwreck havin ass clown. Be patrolling the forum like you in Al Sharpton picket march..no one gives a fuck about you and your screwball opinions..it's the same recycled bullshit from you..why these cats give ears to you is beyond me.

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it's her j.o.b. to generate hits to the board.

paychex from HNIC cash on-time.

That shit is stinging huh. :lol::lol::lol:

And I know who you are, extra dry pussy and all. Your shit looks like the vagina of a 70 year old left under a radio active heat lamp. Better yet your shit looks like pussy jerky, lol.

:lol::lol::lol::lol:

Naw, you ain't pressing me..I'm sitting here..in MY private office cutting end of year bonuses for MY staff with MY money while fucking around with MY Xbox enjoying the last days of a blessed year..you wished I was pressed about you. You..however, are a mentally disturbed female who gets get kicks off of trolling a male porn board. Apples to oranges.

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job function: troll hard and generate hits to the board for advertising $$$.

same shit over & over & over.

won't petition HNIC to fix the board to her liking... but will ice skate uphill on this bitch, one argument at a time.

:smh::smh::smh:
 
One of these guys throws a passive aggressive feminine shot at lone and tries to find a way to insult her. And she goes back at them. It's bandwagoning/childhood bullying/bitchyman ism's. Same ole same ole i've noticed.

Lones's pimp at large is on the clock as well.

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One of these guys throws a passive aggressive feminine shot at lone and tries to find a way to insult her. And she goes back at them. It's bandwagoning/childhood bullying/bitchyman ism's. Same ole same ole i've noticed.



Didn't you throw a passive aggressive shot at me in this very thread too?


1 rule for you, another for everyone else


:rolleyes:
 
Didn't you throw a passive aggressive shot at me in this very thread too?


1 rule for you, another for everyone else


:rolleyes:

Yep. Probably. I'm a woman though. Being passive aggressive against you is my way. It's feminine to do. Men? Everything i've heard from decent men say that's not a manly thing to do.

Men are supposed to confront things directly right? Or am i trying to redefine masculinity even though MEN say that same thing?

:rolleyes: gtfoh. And YOU of all people lmaooo wow.
 
Yep. Probably. I'm a woman though. Being passive aggressive against you is my way. It's feminine to do. Men? Everything i've heard from decent men say that's not a manly thing to do.

Men are supposed to confront things directly right? Or am i trying to redefine masculinity even though MEN say that same thing?

:rolleyes: gtfoh. And YOU of all people lmaooo wow.



As I said 1 rule for you and another rule for everyone else.

You could do what the fuck you want but when you condemn other people for doing what you do then that makes you a hypocrite.

MEN say that homosexuality is anti-family too

Why don't you stop trying to recruit Lone and stop licking pussy on the whole?

No real WOMAN has sexual relations with another woman.

No real woman enables stripping and prostitution.

No real women pimp out other women.

This we all know so come down from that fucking pedal stool (sp. bgol)

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As I said 1 rule for you and another rule for everyone else.

You could do what the fuck you want but when you condemn other people for doing what you do then that makes you a hypocrite.

MEN say that homosexuality is anti-family too

Why don't you stop trying to recruit Lone and stop licking pussy on the whole?

No real WOMAN has sexual relations with another woman.

No real woman enables stripping and prostitution.

No real women pimp out other women.

This we all know so come down from that fucking pedal stool (sp. bgol)

:smh:

You sad sacks need to make a decision on what you're going to do. You're either going to complain about people telling you how to be men... which you have a problem with...

Or you're going to be a hypocrite and try to tell women what women do. lol

No man can tell me CRAP about what a woman is.

Either there's going to be 2 different rules for the sexes or there's going to be quality.

You squirrely feminine hygien product. Stick with 1. And stfu. Trying to make up rules as you run along and can't even stick to those just makes you look confused.

And pussy tastes WONDERFUL! To bad you don't know this. :smh:
 
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Men I implore you to be active in your children lives. It's more important now than ever. I recently saw a showing Cartoon Network called Uncle Grandpa. That shit is now banned in my home. It's some wild karamo rainbow coalition fuckery.

Many things on TV since the late 80s-early 90s I would ban. Full House is a prime example.
 
As I said 1 rule for you and another rule for everyone else.

You could do what the fuck you want but when you condemn other people for doing what you do then that makes you a hypocrite.

MEN say that homosexuality is anti-family too

Why don't you stop trying to recruit Lone and stop licking pussy on the whole?

No real WOMAN has sexual relations with another woman.

No real woman enables stripping and prostitution.

No real women pimp out other women.

This we all know so come down from that fucking pedal stool (sp. bgol)

:smh:


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And to hell with the gay agenda's cartoons. They want boys to aspire to be women instead of Superman, Batman or Wolverine now?

You had me except for this: My cartoon avatar is a mere joke as is the board. I wouldn't any son of mine aspiring to be a cartoon character. Only the best person he can be and more. And he can be a man by his standards, not even by my judgment.
 
these types seem to believe gender (roles) is simply a social construct (that benefits males) and needs to be torn down completely :smh:
 
these types seem to believe gender (roles) is simply a social construct (that benefits males) and needs to be torn down completely :smh:



concur only to the point where they want to hold men 100% to their traditional roles but let go of theirs


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Did I post in here already? :confused:

Anyway, each man should set out to define manhood on his own terms instead of trying to live up to someone else's. Have his own set of standards and discipline on how he should behave or think or what he is involved in at each stage in life.

Women will have to choose which type of manhood best suits them.

Some types of manhood will be more popular than others. But men shouldn't change or alter their belief of manhood to try and get more pussy that would mean you are letting women define manhood for you by what they like.

As it is now you see the black gangsta persona image as a popular type of manhood among black males and more men aspire to have that same edge to get pussy. That shit got our community in a rut because a lot of these men are pussy beggars and will do anything if it will get them more pussy. They let women define and control them this way.

There is such a thick social and emotional stigma to live up to everyone else's form of manhood by many young black men I see that they go through an arrested development clashing between what they want to be and what everyone else wants them to be.

Also, manhood can defined by common shared experience.




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