Dating today vs back when.

[bgbtylvr]

Whatever your age or generation, what are some aspects of dating that have changed your perception or desire to do so? I go betweeen single and smashing whatever I want, to being on lock for a year or two.

As a single man i loved the random smash but hated the work of juggling em, and kicking me out when I done. I went from ass at all costs to no matter how fine they are they can’t sleep over. As an older dude i like commitment but don’t want the headache and monotony of it.

The finer the women are the more insecure they are. That’s always been the case. The average chicks were always the coolest and easiest to rock with. That shit will never change. Now I got a fine chick with a great job and she’s just not as cool as she was. Key is find that one. More fun test driving em. Either way, I was just chatting with some dudes who had mad opinions-funny to outright wrong.

 

[Dr. Truth]

Main Woman or Wife

Bench players who know their roles


The end

 

[Mt. Yukon]

Back when, it was harder to get a stable, but also easier maintain it once you got it. Now, you can get a team of them. But because it's easier to to met people. You're also more likely to be on her team of ninjas too. Now a days if you find one you really like, best to keep her ass around. With social media it's always the thought that a bigger, better, more wealthy version is just a DM away. Glad I got out of the game when I did.

 

[mrdiego2020]

i would do anything to have a relationship like i had back in the day.(1990-2001) you just cant trust these chicks like you could back then.every girl have a phone in her hand and a mirror in the other hand.social media mesed life up so bad.that's why i would never become a facebook member i don't do the social lifestyle.this is enough for me lol.

 

[BaseballKid]

Back when, it was harder to get a stable, but also easier maintain it once you got it. Now, you can get a team of them. But because it's easier to to met people. You're also more likely to be on her team of ninjas too. Now a days if you find one you really like, best to keep her ass around. With social media it's always the thought that a bigger, better, more wealthy version is just a DM away. Glad I got out of the game when I did.

Yes indeed Fam. Social Media changed the game for good.

 

[the_male_feminist]

Yes indeed Fam. Social Media changed the game for good.

But before social media you had those dating phone lines

 

[34real]

The internet has changed things to the point where talking to a broad is done through messages,text or some coded images online...how can you trust that,how can you trust you're talking to who they claim to be?

These females and males live dual lives,the one they want you to believe and reality.....fuck all of that I'm not playing detective .

The internet has given us a wider net to caste to catch em but most of em are guppies,trout,and or sick....it's a waste of time.

 

[the_male_feminist]

Before you had to write down her number. Or memorize it.

You dated people within 5 mile radius of you if you was in a small city.

Didnt have to wait 12 hours for a reply back to a text message. You could only talk to each other when yall both was at yall house at the same time cuz was no cell phones. So you had to kinda know when they was free.

Hoes were shamed for wearing fast clothes.

Wasnt as much narcissism.

 

[Jumbodicc]

I'm in my 30's and I refuse to believe there is any period better than the present for a single man. If you're a single brother with a little bit of decency pussy will fall in your lap. There's a proliferation of bitch niggas, bum niggas, corny niggas and mixture of all 3 running rampant out here. All you need to be is cool on the smallest of levels and you can have 2 maybe 3 generations of women willing to get on board with your agenda. I'm not even going to begin talking how chicks just be accepting anything these days...

 

[the_male_feminist]

The internet has changed things to the point where talking to a broad is done through messages,text or some coded images online...how can you trust that,how can you trust you're talking to who they claim to be?

These females and males live dual lives,the one they want you to believe and reality.....fuck all of that I'm not playing detective .

The internet has given us a wider net to caste to catch em but most of em are guppies,trout,and or sick....it's a waste of time.

Dating on the internet is a waste of time. I still prefer to meet a woman in a casual encounter. You have to set your profile up a certain way take pics a certain way and pose a certain way to get replies.

 

[the_male_feminist]

I'm in my 30's and I refuse to believe there is any period better than the present for a single man. If you're a single brother with a little bit of decency pussy will fall in your lap. There's a proliferation of bitch niggas, bum niggas, corny niggas and mixture of all 3 running rampant out here. All you need to be is cool on the smallest of levels and you can have 2 maybe 3 generations of women willing to get on board with your agenda. I'm not even going to begin talking how chicks just be accepting anything these days...

These are the ones women have and allways will love. If you wanna quality woman they still hard to find unless you willing to date or fuck a woman that already has a man.

But todays women......they dont even post their boyfriends pics on their facebook cuz it is they way of telling the world im available.

 

[cold-n-cocky]

Can’t take a lot of these chicks out now without them spending 80% of the time on their phone.

They like to check in and post pics everywhere they go which messes up the game if someone trying to do some sneak shit.

To the above; collateral damage of being unknowingly posted on a social media site without prior knowledge WHILE YOU ARE STILL IN THE SPOT.

5s who think they are 10s because there’s an Instagram 5 with 20k followers so they think that means you should treat them like dimes.

On the positive:

Steaming and Netflix; easier to watch stuff at the crib vs going out; saving money and increasing chances to get the ass while the iron is hot.

Early review of Social media friends lists can prevent you from getting caught up (ie, your sidepiece is friends with your cousins girl, etc).

 

[the_male_feminist]

Also this "fuck em then i get some money" culture. Hoes hoeing at a all time rate now demanding money

 

[the_male_feminist]

Also one thing that changed the game forever was super head. She was a pioneer. Her affect in the music business trickled down to the avg hood bitch.

Text messages, women saving them and black mailing men that they gonna tell their wives now is a lot easier than just leaving ya panties under the bed.

Superhead showed the entire world that despite as much free pussy you think these top celebs have access to they still willing to pay for flights and all that shit pay ya mortgage and all that.

Where as there were video girls that would fuck and suck just to be in a rap video cuz they knew it was a opportunity to go further "vida guerra and melissa fords"....now the video girl has evolved into the modern day instathot and wants to be flown out and now demands to be spoiled taking selfies of themselves in bed with said celeb.

Now there are no more video girls......shit bobby shmurda song hot nigga the video has 40 niggas in the video and not 1 video girl.

Rap videos now have more men in them then women.

How did that change the game on the local level?

Well superhead also showed the world that if you be a hoe and claim being a hoe you still can find a simp later on in life to marry you. She gave hoes life again that they can own it. She was a pioneer of the women sexual liberation movement

 

[Entrepronegro]

I'm in my 30's and I refuse to believe there is any period better than the present for a single man. If you're a single brother with a little bit of decency pussy will fall in your lap. There's a proliferation of bitch niggas, bum niggas, corny niggas and mixture of all 3 running rampant out here. All you need to be is cool on the smallest of levels and you can have 2 maybe 3 generations of women willing to get on board with your agenda. I'm not even going to begin talking how chicks just be accepting anything these days...

Co-fuckin sign.

 

[Entrepronegro]

Can’t take a lot of these chicks out now without them spending 80% of the time on their phone.

They like to check in and post pics everywhere they go which messes up the game if someone trying to do some sneak shit.

To the above; collateral damage of being unknowingly posted on a social media site without prior knowledge WHILE YOU ARE STILL IN THE SPOT.

5s who think they are 10s because there’s an Instagram 5 with 20k followers so they think that means you should treat them like dimes.

On the positive:

Steaming and Netflix; easier to watch stuff at the crib vs going out; saving money and increasing chances to get the ass while the iron is hot.

Early review of Social media friends lists can prevent you from getting caught up (ie, your sidepiece is friends with your cousins girl, etc).

Tell them to cut their phones off when they are with you.

That would end the issue about the phone.

My girlfriend turns hers off when she is with me.

She respects me like that.

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

The ADD / ADHD society we're living in these days. Too much stimuli. Too many choices. People craving the quick fix or something better or more exciting. With a smorgazzbord of options, is anyone really happy? They might say they are ...

 

[PliggaNease]

I've been out of the game since 2006. Not sure I would want to deal with the shit going on today.

 

[bgbtylvr]

Can’t take a lot of these chicks out now without them spending 80% of the time on their phone.

They like to check in and post pics everywhere they go which messes up the game if someone trying to do some sneak shit.

To the above; collateral damage of being unknowingly posted on a social media site without prior knowledge WHILE YOU ARE STILL IN THE SPOT.

5s who think they are 10s because there’s an Instagram 5 with 20k followers so they think that means you should treat them like dimes.

On the positive:

Steaming and Netflix; easier to watch stuff at the crib vs going out; saving money and increasing chances to get the ass while the iron is hot.

Early review of Social media friends lists can prevent you from getting caught up (ie, your sidepiece is friends with your cousins girl, etc).

Preach. Fat hoes acting like dimes has the whole game fucked up.

Hoes always on their phones.
Every bitch think she’s a web model. Hoes got like 5 poses they all do.

 

[cold-n-cocky]

Another: 50/50 shot that whoever you are dating nowadays has some homegrown SOMEWHERE out there. When you’re out with her and mad cats giving her that “I’ve seen you somewhere look”, you will have questions that you might find in the BGOL homegrown section or on pornhub.

 

[zuluking]

online dating is a womens buffet in the sense that their hold the cards. To attract you have to create an online persona that's captivating and sometimes larger than life. If you got a good instagram/ snapchat account and a good social cycle network , easy pickings. Dating apps hit and miss, women get hundreds of messages on them , that it has become a ego boost for them and the average ones think they are dimes because of the age of thirst. The good ones get wifed up quick , like many have said if you find a good one keep her.


My question for bgol is when you have a good one , how do you combat the urge to chase or have side fun ?

 

[cold-n-cocky]

online dating is a womens buffet in the sense that their hold the cards. To attract you have to create an online persona that's captivating and sometimes larger than life. If you got a good instagram/ snapchat account and a good social cycle network , easy pickings. Dating apps hit and miss, women get hundreds of messages on them , that it has become a ego boost for them and the average ones think they are dimes because of the age of thirst. The good ones get wifed up quick , like many have said if you find a good one keep her.


My question for bgol is when you have a good one , how do you combat the urge to chase or have side fun ?

Play this:

 

[tallblacknyc]

I'm in my 30's and I refuse to believe there is any period better than the present for a single man. If you're a single brother with a little bit of decency pussy will fall in your lap. There's a proliferation of bitch niggas, bum niggas, corny niggas and mixture of all 3 running rampant out here. All you need to be is cool on the smallest of levels and you can have 2 maybe 3 generations of women willing to get on board with your agenda. I'm not even going to begin talking how chicks just be accepting anything these days...

Bingoooo..5 star post...thread

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

Another: 50/50 shot that whoever you are dating nowadays has some homegrown SOMEWHERE out there. When you’re out with her and mad cats giving her that “I’ve seen you somewhere look”, you will have questions that you might find in the BGOL homegrown section or on pornhub.

 

[Naha-Nago]

No longer in the game but have a fantastic view from the bench.

- If you are a man between 30-55 and if you have your shit halfway together financially/business wise, in shape [for your age], wash your ass, and can string a paragraph worth of coherent sentences together you can have your pick of women. Literally. It is THAT EASY TO GET/HAVE A WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE.

- The older a man gets, the desire to not be bothered with nonsense will become more important than the desire for new pussy. Problem being that new pussy has a woman attached which is prone to bring her own nonsense. [You] still want pussy, just not willing to tolerate nonsense to get it.

- The game is BRUTAL for woman nowadays. BRUTAL. All that 'boss life' shit on social media is a facade. These chicks were sold a bad set of goods called "grrrl power" and they are doing their best to repackage it into something valuable. I won't go into detail but it's very troubling on a societal level if whole generations of women can get all the dick they want but not be able to keep the man attached. They are no longer selling what men are buying and as it has been stated early 'her pussy ain't enough'. That puts women in a serious trick bag. DON'T LET THESE BROADS SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS FOOL YOU. THEY AINT LIVING THEIR BEST LIVES. IF SO, MY FIRST POINT WOULD NOT BE A POINT OR SO ON POINT.

Lot of these broads hurting for real.

*two cents*

 

[ANGRY MAN]

Yup the girl mother would answer the phone, and you had to Hello Ms.Jackson may I speak to Tiffany. Friday and Saturday night would be the shit. Because you actually had to hunt for women by going out. Don’t forget that see if your girl got a friend for my boy. The excitement was in the chase.

Now man... you can sit at home and swipe left or right for women. About the phone women was always known for being on the phone (house phone) talking.

Now you give them FB/IG/Twitter it’s a wrap! I always like to see pictures of fine women...but damn do you have to post 500 pictures of yourself in different outfits just for some likes and comments you don’t reply to.

Lmao at 12 hrs later reply to a text, if a chick text me 12 hours later I’ll text back 24 hours later.

Before you had to write down her number. Or memorize it.

You dated people within 5 mile radius of you if you was in a small city.

Didnt have to wait 12 hours for a reply back to a text message. You could only talk to each other when yall both was at yall house at the same time cuz was no cell phones. So you had to kinda know when they was free.

Hoes were shamed for wearing fast clothes.

Wasnt as much narcissism.

 

[the_male_feminist]

No longer in the game but have a fantastic view from the bench.

- If you are a man between 30-55 and if you have your shit halfway together financially/business wise, in shape [for your age], wash your ass, and can string a paragraph worth of coherent sentences together you can have your pick of women. Literally. It is THAT easy TO GET HAVE A WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE.

- The older a man gets, the desire to not be bothered with nonsense will become more important than the desire for new pussy. Problem being that new pussy has a woman attached which is prone to bring her own nonsense. [You] still want pussy, just not willing to tolerate nonsense to get it.

- The game is BRUTAL for woman nowadays. BRUTAL. All that 'boss life' shit on social media is a facade. These chicks were sold a bad set of goods called "grrrl power" and they are doing their best to repackage it into something valuable. I won't go into detail but it's very troubling on a societal level if whole generations of women can get all the dick they want but not be able to keep the man attached. They are no longer selling what men are buying and as I stated early 'her pussy ain't enough'. That puts women in a serious trick bag. DON'T LET THESE BROADS SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS FOOL YOU. THEY AINT LIVING THEIR BEST LIVES. IF SO, MY FIRST POINT WOULD NOT BE A POINT OR SO ON POINT.

*two cents*

These career independent women arent happy at all. There are a lot of women now days in management positions. So a lot of women working under another woman.

Which means flirting with the boss or sucking his dick for a raise or even promotion or other benefits is not gonna work at all.

Then you have the women in positions of power that show males favoritism now women now playing chess by befriending that male is shown favoritism hoping that they can become friends with the boss because they have mutual friends.

All that sisterhood is out the window.

Then the women that be friends and one turns on the other.....

I can go on and on....

 

[Naha-Nago]

I can go on and on....

*two cents*

 

[Naha-Nago]

Then you have the women in positions of power that show males favoritism now women now playing chess by befriending that male is shown favoritism hoping that they can become friends with the boss because they have mutual friends.

That's a keen observation because I know several women in upper managerial positions and the discriminate against women because

"Them lazy bitches don't want to work?!? Just gossip and look cute!"

I was like...'yeah'.

*two cents*

 

[Bad Andy]

The truth is it was better back in the day than now. Back in the day you had to hunt a chick down, 2 or 3 dates before you could smash. You had to kick game and create a persona for a chic to find you interesting. You had to have game and chicks had real jobs and good credit.

Nowadays with social media you can create a persona on the internet, think out your game via text message. We had to have a sharp tongue talking to a chick on the phone and say all the right things. I got homies that sit around texting girls and they ask what should I text her now. Most of these IG chicks are living hand to mouth and got nothing going for them besides 300k followers and nowhere to lay there head @ night.

 

[2 ONE 3]

Before social media was the best for sure

 

[bgbtylvr]

online dating is a womens buffet in the sense that their hold the cards. To attract you have to create an online persona that's captivating and sometimes larger than life. If you got a good instagram/ snapchat account and a good social cycle network , easy pickings. Dating apps hit and miss, women get hundreds of messages on them , that it has become a ego boost for them and the average ones think they are dimes because of the age of thirst. The good ones get wifed up quick , like many have said if you find a good one keep her.


My question for bgol is when you have a good one , how do you combat the urge to chase or have side fun ?

I have a good one. I fight that shit periodically when I’m mad at her ass. She checked all the boxes but mentally that motherfucker has issues. I’ve dumped chicks for less, but i try to think about how down she is for me and for her people. She’s petty as fuck because that’s just what most women are, but the other broads u knew were more fun, adventurous but lacking in critical areas. My girl has her Masters and is on her shit, but her fucking ego is Godzilla-like. I just tell myself it comes with it, like some shitty habit I have that annoys her.

 

[bgbtylvr]

These career independent women arent happy at all. There are a lot of women now days in management positions. So a lot of women working under another woman.

Which means flirting with the boss or sucking his dick for a raise or even promotion or other benefits is not gonna work at all.

Then you have the women in positions of power that show males favoritism now women now playing chess by befriending that male is shown favoritism hoping that they can become friends with the boss because they have mutual friends.

All that sisterhood is out the window.

Then the women that be friends and one turns on the other.....

I can go on and on....

This is all fact. My lady is corporate. Two degrees. Her boss is a woman and she hates her. Women like this achieved their way out of Being catered to. Dudes make them spend because they have the bread, so they resent those men and befriend them, hence the “Most of my friends are guys! I don’t get along with women” billshit they all say. These the bitches who need constant validation from men because women at their level aren’t impressed by them. With all male friends you the accolades and the lust-a double whammy. Bitches like this are on a dick carousel. They all have catchy phrases for why they are single when deep down it’s them.

Most of the successful women I know and run with my chick (which are few) are unhappy. These women got the house, cars and the money and men STILL leave em. Men with less than them bounce for an average female because these women (mine included) lack empathy and humility.

 

[Naha-Nago]

This is all fact. My lady is corporate. Two degrees. Her boss is a woman and she hates her. Women like this achieved their way out of Being catered to. Dudes make them spend because they have the bread, so they resent those men and befriend them, hence the “Most of my friends are guys! I don’t get along with women” billshit they all say. These the bitches who need constant validation from men because women at their level aren’t impressed. With all male friends you the accolades and the lust-a double whammy. Bitches like this are on a dick carousel. They all have catchy phrases for why they are single when deep down it’s them.

Most of the successful women I know and run with my chick (which are few) are unhappy. These women got the house, cars and the money and men STILL leave em. Men with less than them bounce for an average female because these women (mine included) lack empathy and humility.

Women been sold a bad bill of goods.

50 years of feminist indoctrination has generations of women- one more worse than the previous- no longer selling what men are buying.

Oh...they giving up the mouth, pussy, and ass no doubt. But the fair exchange for pussy is dick and more men are holding them to that. "Pussy is not all I want, UNLESS THAT'S ALL YOU GOT."

A lot of these chicks aren't any deeper than their throat skills as it relates to keeping/maintaining a man's interest. We know it and treat them accordingly, they know it and go "boss bitch/life" as a coping mechanim and as of past 5 years or so (thank you social media *shrugs*) they know that we know that.

They just aren't long term relationship material. They haven't been taught. Them McMansions and 1000 thread count sheets get COLD at night.

*two cents*

 

[8/11Streetz]

Social media fucked up everything.


The end.