I've recreationally fucked hundreds of women and yet have one child. The difference is I filter out my women, making sure we are both on the same page while being 100% honest about my intentions. So having recreational sex isn't the problem here, the actual problem is the lying and selfish motherfuckers, who sometimes conflate having sex with an admission of them actually wanting to be the father of their children.
Because any bedroom stuntman or stuntwoman out there should understand that if they don't know what their intentions for them wanting to have sex with them are, the defunct assumption should always be, they are doing it recreationally not to sign up for being a parent. Now you can go on saying who's right and who's wrong, but the bottom line is those who fail to get this simple concept, statistically speaking, will have a harder life, will have a greater chance of children who are drawn into crime, early death and jail, and if you are the type of woman that is OK with your child growing up under these conditions, just as long as the father of your child life is also destroyed, well then you are the last person in this world to be having children.
So folks we must learn to elevate our minds past of the what is right argument and instead focus on doing what's right for our children, but this type of thinking takes critical thinking applied, something that many of us struggle with.
