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Tried to ask this question earlier, but I didn't know that all my grammar had to be correct for a porn board.

Women in their 30’s that have been on there own for a while but want to be in a relationship seem to not be able to understand that they cannot do and have everything there way once there in one. What say you?
 
tameytam said:
Tried to ask this question earlier, but I didn't know that all my grammar had to be correct for a porn board.

Women in their 30’s that have been on there own for a while but want to be in a relationship seem to not be able to understand that they cannot do and have everything there way once there in one. What say you?
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Its a porn board... and to save this thread, you MINUS WHALE post some porn!:angry:
 
tameytam said:
Tried to ask this question earlier, but I didn't know that all my grammar had to be correct for a porn board.

Women in their 30’s that have been on there own for a while but want to be in a relationship seem to not be able to understand that they cannot do and have everything there way once there in one. What say you?
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Naw man...the grammar in your other post made your topic flat-out unreadable.

It was like you were writing in "tongues" or some shit.



Anyway....

The same applies to men in their 30s who have been on their own for a while.

Relationships are about comprise.

If there is no compromising then the relationship will not last.
 
Some of these women live in a world of denial. They truly believe that they are different and are not like any other woman. In conversations with them you will hear them talk down on other women saying they have lower standards and date thugs ect. Essentially what they are saying is these other women are hoes. This is where the denial kicks in. They believe that having a career, education, and a certain lifestyle makes them different. So they date lawyers, ballers, and high profile men. Just like the woman who his getting passed around by thugs...this high profile woman in her 30's is getting passed around by the lawyers, ballers, and high profile men. Not realizing they are in the same exact situation of the female they looked and talked down on...they are just a high profile naive hoe to these men.

Then they fantasize about this wonderful man who does not exist and in all of their fantasies they are always on the receiving end and not giving. Now they want men to jump through hoops to save them. But unknowing to them men ask themselves that one question. "Why should I jump through hoops when you were passed around just like the girl with out an education was that you talked down on"
 
aaaaahhhh ssssssooooooooooooooo
you are having women problems?

when you meet a women that you have thoughts of her possibly being a future wife candidate you must tell her the following things.

1) Your budget is tight and you make just enough to pay your bills, take care of your children if any and put away for retirement. This will allow you to determine if she wants you or what you can do for her in the future.
2) You are willing to give your heart, body & soul to the right women only if she can do the same everyday, 24/7/365. This will determine if she can keep her emotions in check around you.
3) Anything that deals with my money( existing bank account, 401k,457k, pension, cd) will be decided on by me and only me. If i die my family will handle it. This is how it will be until i am in a successful 3 year marraige. It is in my will and will remain in power until i decide otherwise. This will reveal to you if she respects what is your outright before her time.
4) Anything partnerships/cosigning dealing with real estate will only take place after i am satisfied that i will not get really screwed. We all get screwed at some point. This will allow you to set her on the proper path to being upfront.
5) I want sex as much as possibly and will not tolerate pussy portioning. If it happens then i will re evalueate my relationship and terminate it. Just for the look on her face.
6) You are responsible for your kids not me.
7) I expect you to continue supporting yourself in the way you have before you met me.
8) Swallowing is a neccessay and has to be told to you upfront. If you don't know how I will teach you.
9) I only deal in logic, no hearsay or gossip is tolerated.
10) if you treat me right i will return the same.
 
A man barely making ends meat cannot control a woman unless they have a really strong bond (kids together, high school love, first guy to beat the pussy, saved her from a bullet... whatever).

Career oriented women are better known as sluts due to them constantly being passed around by different men. If she puts her career over her relationship, her man won't stick around.

We men know who's real and who's full of it, technically speaking, feminism has destroyed a good part of relationships so we listen with our ears before we speak.

Honestly unless you making major due, your girl calls the shots in a relationship unless you have a bond with her from years back.

30 years old are either desperate or stubborn, both aren't a good look, no matter how old the man, most dudes just can't take a woman who's demanding and independent or who just seems in a rush seriously.

Men with money pass them around just like the local thugs at the gangsta clubs, no different, it's just a different image their portraying.

Seeing a single 30 year old woman, I automatically lose respect for her, I can tell her story without even talking to her.
 
MY X IS HAVING THIS PROBLEM RIGHT NOW........ SHE HAS DARK SKIN WHICH PRESENTS A PROBLEM FOR HER IN HER HEAD....... SHE CLAIMS THAT INDEPENDENT SHIT ... BEEN ON IT FOR A WHILE.... AND I MUST ADMIT THAT I OFTEN ASKED MYSELF IF SHE WAS SO INDEPENDENT WHAT WOULD BE HER NEED TO HAVE A MAN COMMITTED TO HER.... WHAT WOULD BE THE POINT..... SHE OWNS HER OWN HOME & HAS A GOOD JOB.... SHE HAS HAD POSITIONS WHERE SHE WAS THE ONLY BLACK PERSON OR MORE INCLINED TO BE INCHARGE OF GROUPS OF PEOPLE ESPECIALLY WHITE MEN ( BLACK MEN IN HER FIELD ARE ALWAYS UNDER HER TO SOME EXTNT THUS TREAT HER A LIL FUNNY. AS A RESULT SHE HAS HAD DIFFICULTIES TRANSITIONING FROM HER ROLE @ WORK TO HER ROLE IN A RELATIONSHIP...... ONE DAY NOT TOO LONG AGO SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE STILL WANTED THE WHITE PICKET FENCE & THE WHOLE 9... I WAS LIKE:smh::smh::hmm: THAT SHIT IS A DREAM..... & SHE HAD TO AGREE BUT STILL WANTED IT... WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER ESPECIALLY WHEN I BASICALLY MOVED IN W HER SHE NEVER DID WHAT I WAS RAISED TO EXPECT A WOMAN TO DO THAT HAD A MAN LIVING WITH HER OR EVEN A SOLID RELATIONSHIP..... SHE'D RATHER EAT OUT THAN COOK.... 1 MORNING HER PARENTS WERE VISITING @ SHE GOT UP TO MAKE BREAKFAST FOR ME....... SHE NEVER EVER DID THAT B4:smh::hmm: I TOLD HER PARENTS SHE WAS FULL OF SHIT........

GRANTED WE WERE TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 7-8YRS IT WASNT ALL BAD... NO KIDS:dance:, BUT THE SHIT THAT BEGAN TO MATTER THE MOST TO ME FOR A LONG RELATIONSHIP LIKE MARRIAGE WASNT THERE FOR ME WE WERE / ARE JUST 2 DIFFERENT PEOPLE SHE MIGHT BE GREAT FOR SOMEONE ELSE... I DONT KNOW..... FOR WOMEN IN THEIR MID TO LATE 30'S HAVE BABYITIS, THEY ALL SEEM TO HAVE AN INCREASE IN PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH THE VAGINA... WHICH PERPETUATES THE BABY SHIT, THEIR BODIES ( IF THEY DONT WK OUT) ARE ON THE DOWN SWING, THEIR COMP IS A 18 - 27 YR OLD PERKY TITTAY FLAT STOMACH CHICK WIT THE TIME & ENERGY TO FUCK & SUCK YOU LIKE YOU WANT ALL DAY & NIGHT - THE DRAMA:yes:... SHE WILL BE 40 IN MARCH.... I TOLD HER IM NOT FUCKING WIT WOMEN OVER 30 & WE ALMOST THE SAME AGE... BECAUSE OF ALL OF THE PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH THEM:lol::lol: I TOLD HER ALL OF THIS... MANY OF HER FRIENDS HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM... BUT THE BIGGEST 1 FOR THEM TOO IS THE DL GAY MAN... ESPECIALLY IN ATL....THAT WHERE WE @......:lol:

I TOLD HER SHES GONNA HAVE TO READJUST HER LIST CAUSE MOST MEN HERE IN THE ATL DONT & WONT ENTERTAIN THAT BULLSHIT YOU TALKIN ABOUT... WHY WOULD THEY OR SHOULD THEY?????
 
mailboxpimp said:
MY X IS HAVING THIS PROBLEM RIGHT NOW........ SHE HAS DARK SKIN WHICH PRESENTS A PROBLEM FOR HER IN HER HEAD....... SHE CLAIMS THAT INDEPENDENT SHIT ... BEEN ON IT FOR A WHILE.... AND I MUST ADMIT THAT I OFTEN ASKED MYSELF IF SHE WAS SO INDEPENDENT WHAT WOULD BE HER NEED TO HAVE A MAN COMMITTED TO HER.... WHAT WOULD BE THE POINT..... SHE OWNS HER OWN HOME & HAS A GOOD JOB.... SHE HAS HAD POSITIONS WHERE SHE WAS THE ONLY BLACK PERSON OR MORE INCLINED TO BE INCHARGE OF GROUPS OF PEOPLE ESPECIALLY WHITE MEN ( BLACK MEN IN HER FIELD ARE ALWAYS UNDER HER TO SOME EXTNT THUS TREAT HER A LIL FUNNY. AS A RESULT SHE HAS HAD DIFFICULTIES TRANSITIONING FROM HER ROLE @ WORK TO HER ROLE IN A RELATIONSHIP...... ONE DAY NOT TOO LONG AGO SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE STILL WANTED THE WHITE PICKET FENCE & THE WHOLE 9... I WAS LIKE:smh::smh::hmm: THAT SHIT IS A DREAM..... & SHE HAD TO AGREE BUT STILL WANTED IT... WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER ESPECIALLY WHEN I BASICALLY MOVED IN W HER SHE NEVER DID WHAT I WAS RAISED TO EXPECT A WOMAN TO DO THAT HAD A MAN LIVING WITH HER OR EVEN A SOLID RELATIONSHIP..... SHE'D RATHER EAT OUT THAN COOK.... 1 MORNING HER PARENTS WERE VISITING @ SHE GOT UP TO MAKE BREAKFAST FOR ME....... SHE NEVER EVER DID THAT B4:smh::hmm: I TOLD HER PARENTS SHE WAS FULL OF SHIT........

GRANTED WE WERE TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 7-8YRS IT WASNT ALL BAD... NO KIDS:dance:, BUT THE SHIT THAT BEGAN TO MATTER THE MOST TO ME FOR A LONG RELATIONSHIP LIKE MARRIAGE WASNT THERE FOR ME WE WERE / ARE JUST 2 DIFFERENT PEOPLE SHE MIGHT BE GREAT FOR SOMEONE ELSE... I DONT KNOW..... FOR WOMEN IN THEIR MID TO LATE 30'S HAVE BABYITIS, THEY ALL SEEM TO HAVE AN INCREASE IN PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH THE VAGINA... WHICH PERPETUATES THE BABY SHIT, THEIR BODIES ( IF THEY DONT WK OUT) ARE ON THE DOWN SWING, THEIR COMP IS A 18 - 27 YR OLD PERKY TITTAY FLAT STOMACH CHICK WIT THE TIME & ENERGY TO FUCK & SUCK YOU LIKE YOU WANT ALL DAY & NIGHT - THE DRAMA:yes:... SHE WILL BE 40 IN MARCH.... I TOLD HER IM NOT FUCKING WIT WOMEN OVER 30 & WE ALMOST THE SAME AGE... BECAUSE OF ALL OF THE PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH THEM:lol::lol: I TOLD HER ALL OF THIS... MANY OF HER FRIENDS HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM... BUT THE BIGGEST 1 FOR THEM TOO IS THE DL GAY MAN... ESPECIALLY IN ATL....THAT WHERE WE @......:lol:

I TOLD HER SHES GONNA HAVE TO READJUST HER LIST CAUSE MOST MEN HERE IN THE ATL DONT & WONT ENTERTAIN THAT BULLSHIT YOU TALKIN ABOUT... WHY WOULD THEY OR SHOULD THEY?????
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The talk is real in this post.:yes:
 
BrownTurd said:
Some of these women live in a world of denial. They truly believe that they are different and are not like any other woman. In conversations with them you will hear them talk down on other women saying they have lower standards and date thugs ect. Essentially what they are saying is these other women are hoes. This is where the denial kicks in. They believe that having a career, education, and a certain lifestyle makes them different. So they date lawyers, ballers, and high profile men. Just like the woman who his getting passed around by thugs...this high profile woman in her 30's is getting passed around by the lawyers, ballers, and high profile men. Not realizing they are in the same exact situation of the female they looked and talked down on...they are just a high profile naive hoe to these men.

Then they fantasize about this wonderful man who does not exist and in all of their fantasies they are always on the receiving end and not giving. Now they want men to jump through hoops to save them. But unknowing to them men ask themselves that one question. "Why should I jump through hoops when you were passed around just like the girl with out an education was that you talked down on"
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:yes::yes::yes:
 
mailboxpimp said:
MY X IS HAVING THIS PROBLEM RIGHT NOW........ SHE HAS DARK SKIN WHICH PRESENTS A PROBLEM FOR HER IN HER HEAD....... SHE CLAIMS THAT INDEPENDENT SHIT ... BEEN ON IT FOR A WHILE.... AND I MUST ADMIT THAT I OFTEN ASKED MYSELF IF SHE WAS SO INDEPENDENT WHAT WOULD BE HER NEED TO HAVE A MAN COMMITTED TO HER.... WHAT WOULD BE THE POINT..... SHE OWNS HER OWN HOME & HAS A GOOD JOB.... SHE HAS HAD POSITIONS WHERE SHE WAS THE ONLY BLACK PERSON OR MORE INCLINED TO BE INCHARGE OF GROUPS OF PEOPLE ESPECIALLY WHITE MEN ( BLACK MEN IN HER FIELD ARE ALWAYS UNDER HER TO SOME EXTNT THUS TREAT HER A LIL FUNNY. AS A RESULT SHE HAS HAD DIFFICULTIES TRANSITIONING FROM HER ROLE @ WORK TO HER ROLE IN A RELATIONSHIP...... ONE DAY NOT TOO LONG AGO SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE STILL WANTED THE WHITE PICKET FENCE & THE WHOLE 9... I WAS LIKE:smh::smh::hmm: THAT SHIT IS A DREAM..... & SHE HAD TO AGREE BUT STILL WANTED IT... WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER ESPECIALLY WHEN I BASICALLY MOVED IN W HER SHE NEVER DID WHAT I WAS RAISED TO EXPECT A WOMAN TO DO THAT HAD A MAN LIVING WITH HER OR EVEN A SOLID RELATIONSHIP..... SHE'D RATHER EAT OUT THAN COOK.... 1 MORNING HER PARENTS WERE VISITING @ SHE GOT UP TO MAKE BREAKFAST FOR ME....... SHE NEVER EVER DID THAT B4:smh::hmm: I TOLD HER PARENTS SHE WAS FULL OF SHIT........

GRANTED WE WERE TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 7-8YRS IT WASNT ALL BAD... NO KIDS:dance:, BUT THE SHIT THAT BEGAN TO MATTER THE MOST TO ME FOR A LONG RELATIONSHIP LIKE MARRIAGE WASNT THERE FOR ME WE WERE / ARE JUST 2 DIFFERENT PEOPLE SHE MIGHT BE GREAT FOR SOMEONE ELSE... I DONT KNOW..... FOR WOMEN IN THEIR MID TO LATE 30'S HAVE BABYITIS, THEY ALL SEEM TO HAVE AN INCREASE IN PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH THE VAGINA... WHICH PERPETUATES THE BABY SHIT, THEIR BODIES ( IF THEY DONT WK OUT) ARE ON THE DOWN SWING, THEIR COMP IS A 18 - 27 YR OLD PERKY TITTAY FLAT STOMACH CHICK WIT THE TIME & ENERGY TO FUCK & SUCK YOU LIKE YOU WANT ALL DAY & NIGHT - THE DRAMA:yes:... SHE WILL BE 40 IN MARCH.... I TOLD HER IM NOT FUCKING WIT WOMEN OVER 30 & WE ALMOST THE SAME AGE... BECAUSE OF ALL OF THE PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH THEM:lol::lol: I TOLD HER ALL OF THIS... MANY OF HER FRIENDS HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM... BUT THE BIGGEST 1 FOR THEM TOO IS THE DL GAY MAN... ESPECIALLY IN ATL....THAT WHERE WE @......:lol:

I TOLD HER SHES GONNA HAVE TO READJUST HER LIST CAUSE MOST MEN HERE IN THE ATL DONT & WONT ENTERTAIN THAT BULLSHIT YOU TALKIN ABOUT... WHY WOULD THEY OR SHOULD THEY?????
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You can't spell for shit:smh: ,but good points
 
PART OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOUR YOUNG IS GROWING... & SOMETIMES GROWING WITH THE PERSON YOUR WITH MEANS REALIZING THAT THEY ARE OT WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF A MARRIAGE.....FRIENDSHIPS SHOULD FACILITATE RELATIONSHIPS.... RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD NOT FACILITATE FRIENDSHIPS...... THE LIKELIHOOD OF THEM LASTING LONG IS BETTER IF YOU START OUT AS TRUE FRIENDS..... MOST WOMEN DONT KNOW HOW TO BE FRIENDS WITH A MAN.... SOME MEN DONT KNOW HOW TO BE FRIENDS WITH WOMEN.... & WOMEN OFTEN POSSES THE MOST CRAZY VIEW & EXPECTATIONS FOR A RELATIONSHIP & THE MAN THAT THEY ARE WITH.........:yes::hmm:
 
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Female denial is rampant. If they won't listen to criticism, but are quick to dish it, their lives will never improve.
 
mailboxpimp said:
MY X IS HAVING THIS PROBLEM RIGHT NOW........ SHE HAS DARK SKIN WHICH PRESENTS A PROBLEM FOR HER IN HER HEAD....... SHE CLAIMS THAT INDEPENDENT SHIT ... BEEN ON IT FOR A WHILE.... AND I MUST ADMIT THAT I OFTEN ASKED MYSELF IF SHE WAS SO INDEPENDENT WHAT WOULD BE HER NEED TO HAVE A MAN COMMITTED TO HER.... WHAT WOULD BE THE POINT..... SHE OWNS HER OWN HOME & HAS A GOOD JOB.... SHE HAS HAD POSITIONS WHERE SHE WAS THE ONLY BLACK PERSON OR MORE INCLINED TO BE INCHARGE OF GROUPS OF PEOPLE ESPECIALLY WHITE MEN ( BLACK MEN IN HER FIELD ARE ALWAYS UNDER HER TO SOME EXTNT THUS TREAT HER A LIL FUNNY. AS A RESULT SHE HAS HAD DIFFICULTIES TRANSITIONING FROM HER ROLE @ WORK TO HER ROLE IN A RELATIONSHIP...... ONE DAY NOT TOO LONG AGO SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE STILL WANTED THE WHITE PICKET FENCE & THE WHOLE 9... I WAS LIKE:smh::smh::hmm: THAT SHIT IS A DREAM..... & SHE HAD TO AGREE BUT STILL WANTED IT... WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER ESPECIALLY WHEN I BASICALLY MOVED IN W HER SHE NEVER DID WHAT I WAS RAISED TO EXPECT A WOMAN TO DO THAT HAD A MAN LIVING WITH HER OR EVEN A SOLID RELATIONSHIP..... SHE'D RATHER EAT OUT THAN COOK.... 1 MORNING HER PARENTS WERE VISITING @ SHE GOT UP TO MAKE BREAKFAST FOR ME....... SHE NEVER EVER DID THAT B4:smh::hmm: I TOLD HER PARENTS SHE WAS FULL OF SHIT........

GRANTED WE WERE TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 7-8YRS IT WASNT ALL BAD... NO KIDS:dance:, BUT THE SHIT THAT BEGAN TO MATTER THE MOST TO ME FOR A LONG RELATIONSHIP LIKE MARRIAGE WASNT THERE FOR ME WE WERE / ARE JUST 2 DIFFERENT PEOPLE SHE MIGHT BE GREAT FOR SOMEONE ELSE... I DONT KNOW..... FOR WOMEN IN THEIR MID TO LATE 30'S HAVE BABYITIS, THEY ALL SEEM TO HAVE AN INCREASE IN PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH THE VAGINA... WHICH PERPETUATES THE BABY SHIT, THEIR BODIES ( IF THEY DONT WK OUT) ARE ON THE DOWN SWING, THEIR COMP IS A 18 - 27 YR OLD PERKY TITTAY FLAT STOMACH CHICK WIT THE TIME & ENERGY TO FUCK & SUCK YOU LIKE YOU WANT ALL DAY & NIGHT - THE DRAMA:yes:... SHE WILL BE 40 IN MARCH.... I TOLD HER IM NOT FUCKING WIT WOMEN OVER 30 & WE ALMOST THE SAME AGE... BECAUSE OF ALL OF THE PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH THEM:lol::lol: I TOLD HER ALL OF THIS... MANY OF HER FRIENDS HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM... BUT THE BIGGEST 1 FOR THEM TOO IS THE DL GAY MAN... ESPECIALLY IN ATL....THAT WHERE WE @......:lol:

I TOLD HER SHES GONNA HAVE TO READJUST HER LIST CAUSE MOST MEN HERE IN THE ATL DONT & WONT ENTERTAIN THAT BULLSHIT YOU TALKIN ABOUT... WHY WOULD THEY OR SHOULD THEY?????
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Nigga, real talk... I was reading this shit, and u sounded EXACTLY like me!!!!(scary)... I'm in ATL, and I went through SAME shit with ex-fiancé ... She was one of them fine degreed up sistas, wit no kids who couldn't and wouldn't cook (always wanted to eat out)....now I tried to holla at one of my neighbors who just moved in... Fine as shit, no kids( the same m o)..a lot of these hoes think they are still 23 24 yr old dimes, but bitch u 37... Yea u USED to b a cheerleader for Washington redskins in mid to late 90's, bitch that was then... Now u a ol' hoe telling high school football stories lol... U are the 40 yr old jumpoff!!! Lol....and they're having a hard time accepting their role in their relationship/life fuck ups
 
tameytam said:
Tried to ask this question earlier, but I didn't know that all my grammar had to be correct for a porn board.

Women in their 30’s that have been on there own for a while but want to be in a relationship seem to not be able to understand that they cannot do and have everything there way once there in one. What say you?
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Peace,

tameytam said:
Tried to ask this question earlier, but I didn't know that all my grammar had to be correct for a porn board.

Women in their 30’s that have been on there own for a while but want to be in a relationship seem to not be able to understand that they cannot do and have everything there way once there in one. What say you?
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Women in their 30s (no need for an apostrophe) who (not "that") have been on their (not "there")...


























:lol: just fucking with you. The real deal about relationships (and a point that very few folks seem to be able to acknowledge) is that making a relationship work requires sacrifice from both parties.
 
nycmicrowaive said:
i fill you
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:lol::lol::lol::lol:

tameytam said:
Tried to ask this question earlier, but I didn't know that all my grammar had to be correct for a porn board.

Women in their 30’s that have been on there own for a while but want to be in a relationship seem to not be able to understand that they cannot do and have everything there way once there in one. What say you?
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Young Bruh. there is a cat on here named PhillyPhilly... he regularly posts little items about writing, grammar, education, etc... He has been a valuable resource for me and a lot of cats on this board... you should check him out: http://www.bgol.us/board/search.php?searchid=13528414


You should also check this post by Ming Fei Hong:
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=513701

Some valuable info there as well. That post finally taught me the difference between effect and affect...
 
mailboxpimp said:
MY X IS HAVING THIS PROBLEM RIGHT NOW........ SHE HAS DARK SKIN WHICH PRESENTS A PROBLEM FOR HER IN HER HEAD....... SHE CLAIMS THAT INDEPENDENT SHIT ... BEEN ON IT FOR A WHILE.... AND I MUST ADMIT THAT I OFTEN ASKED MYSELF IF SHE WAS SO INDEPENDENT WHAT WOULD BE HER NEED TO HAVE A MAN COMMITTED TO HER.... WHAT WOULD BE THE POINT..... SHE OWNS HER OWN HOME & HAS A GOOD JOB.... SHE HAS HAD POSITIONS WHERE SHE WAS THE ONLY BLACK PERSON OR MORE INCLINED TO BE INCHARGE OF GROUPS OF PEOPLE ESPECIALLY WHITE MEN ( BLACK MEN IN HER FIELD ARE ALWAYS UNDER HER TO SOME EXTNT THUS TREAT HER A LIL FUNNY. AS A RESULT SHE HAS HAD DIFFICULTIES TRANSITIONING FROM HER ROLE @ WORK TO HER ROLE IN A RELATIONSHIP...... ONE DAY NOT TOO LONG AGO SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE STILL WANTED THE WHITE PICKET FENCE & THE WHOLE 9... I WAS LIKE:smh::smh::hmm: THAT SHIT IS A DREAM..... & SHE HAD TO AGREE BUT STILL WANTED IT... WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER ESPECIALLY WHEN I BASICALLY MOVED IN W HER SHE NEVER DID WHAT I WAS RAISED TO EXPECT A WOMAN TO DO THAT HAD A MAN LIVING WITH HER OR EVEN A SOLID RELATIONSHIP..... SHE'D RATHER EAT OUT THAN COOK.... 1 MORNING HER PARENTS WERE VISITING @ SHE GOT UP TO MAKE BREAKFAST FOR ME....... SHE NEVER EVER DID THAT B4:smh::hmm: I TOLD HER PARENTS SHE WAS FULL OF SHIT........

GRANTED WE WERE TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 7-8YRS IT WASNT ALL BAD... NO KIDS:dance:, BUT THE SHIT THAT BEGAN TO MATTER THE MOST TO ME FOR A LONG RELATIONSHIP LIKE MARRIAGE WASNT THERE FOR ME WE WERE / ARE JUST 2 DIFFERENT PEOPLE SHE MIGHT BE GREAT FOR SOMEONE ELSE... I DONT KNOW..... FOR WOMEN IN THEIR MID TO LATE 30'S HAVE BABYITIS, THEY ALL SEEM TO HAVE AN INCREASE IN PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH THE VAGINA... WHICH PERPETUATES THE BABY SHIT, THEIR BODIES ( IF THEY DONT WK OUT) ARE ON THE DOWN SWING, THEIR COMP IS A 18 - 27 YR OLD PERKY TITTAY FLAT STOMACH CHICK WIT THE TIME & ENERGY TO FUCK & SUCK YOU LIKE YOU WANT ALL DAY & NIGHT - THE DRAMA:yes:... SHE WILL BE 40 IN MARCH.... I TOLD HER IM NOT FUCKING WIT WOMEN OVER 30 & WE ALMOST THE SAME AGE... BECAUSE OF ALL OF THE PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH THEM:lol::lol: I TOLD HER ALL OF THIS... MANY OF HER FRIENDS HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM... BUT THE BIGGEST 1 FOR THEM TOO IS THE DL GAY MAN... ESPECIALLY IN ATL....THAT WHERE WE @......:lol:

I TOLD HER SHES GONNA HAVE TO READJUST HER LIST CAUSE MOST MEN HERE IN THE ATL DONT & WONT ENTERTAIN THAT BULLSHIT YOU TALKIN ABOUT... WHY WOULD THEY OR SHOULD THEY?????
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damn u just described so many females in the A...They think a career and or masters degree makes then good catches...fuck that.. bitch can you cook..fuck suck and nurture and give SPACE.....all the other shyt is irrevelant.
 
RAULDK said:
aaaaahhhh ssssssooooooooooooooo
you are having women problems?

when you meet a women that you have thoughts of her possibly being a future wife candidate you must tell her the following things.

1) Your budget is tight and you make just enough to pay your bills, take care of your children if any and put away for retirement. This will allow you to determine if she wants you or what you can do for her in the future.
2) You are willing to give your heart, body & soul to the right women only if she can do the same everyday, 24/7/365. This will determine if she can keep her emotions in check around you.
3) Anything that deals with my money( existing bank account, 401k,457k, pension, cd) will be decided on by me and only me. If i die my family will handle it. This is how it will be until i am in a successful 3 year marraige. It is in my will and will remain in power until i decide otherwise. This will reveal to you if she respects what is your outright before her time.
4) Anything partnerships/cosigning dealing with real estate will only take place after i am satisfied that i will not get really screwed. We all get screwed at some point. This will allow you to set her on the proper path to being upfront.
5) I want sex as much as possibly and will not tolerate pussy portioning. If it happens then i will re evalueate my relationship and terminate it. Just for the look on her face.
6) You are responsible for your kids not me.
7) I expect you to continue supporting yourself in the way you have before you met me.
8) Swallowing is a neccessay and has to be told to you upfront. If you don't know how I will teach you.
9) I only deal in logic, no hearsay or gossip is tolerated.
10) if you treat me right i will return the same.
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nice well put.
 
Im in possibly the biggest emotional slump of my life.........

























































and yall are KILLING me with these grammar corrections!!! :lol:
 

You can look at it like sports

Women in their 30's still think they have the value of a number one draft pick who is in their prime. When they were in their prime and got drafted they were selfish and held out because they were like I don't want to play on that team(average good guy)even though their skill set would have matched perfectly with this team(good guy). Instead they decided to force a trade and sign on draft day to play for the glamorous team(bad guy/playa)in which their skill set was a terrible match. They end up on a team with bad chemistry and complain why they are not winning(married). They end up getting traded to another team with the same results. Now when you look back at their 13 year career. She was a parade All American number one draft pick who never won anything(married) been traded to 8 different teams(Passed around by niggas) and injuries that hold her back(kids)While the second draft pick took the opportunity to play with the first team(good guy) and won multiple titles(married with a great husband/family)

Now they are in their 30's and still trying to reup that number one draft pick money. Teams(niggas) laugh at her silly ass offers..and offer her the vet minimum(Jump Off)
 
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BrownTurd said:
Some of these women live in a world of denial. They truly believe that they are different and are not like any other woman. In conversations with them you will hear them talk down on other women saying they have lower standards and date thugs ect. Essentially what they are saying is these other women are hoes. This is where the denial kicks in. They believe that having a career, education, and a certain lifestyle makes them different. So they date lawyers, ballers, and high profile men. Just like the woman who his getting passed around by thugs...this high profile woman in her 30's is getting passed around by the lawyers, ballers, and high profile men. Not realizing they are in the same exact situation of the female they looked and talked down on...they are just a high profile naive hoe to these men.

Then they fantasize about this wonderful man who does not exist and in all of their fantasies they are always on the receiving end and not giving. Now they want men to jump through hoops to save them. But unknowing to them men ask themselves that one question. "Why should I jump through hoops when you were passed around just like the girl with out an education was that you talked down on"
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This...

RAULDK said:
aaaaahhhh ssssssooooooooooooooo
you are having women problems?

when you meet a women that you have thoughts of her possibly being a future wife candidate you must tell her the following things.

1) Your budget is tight and you make just enough to pay your bills, take care of your children if any and put away for retirement. This will allow you to determine if she wants you or what you can do for her in the future.
2) You are willing to give your heart, body & soul to the right women only if she can do the same everyday, 24/7/365. This will determine if she can keep her emotions in check around you.
3) Anything that deals with my money( existing bank account, 401k,457k, pension, cd) will be decided on by me and only me. If i die my family will handle it. This is how it will be until i am in a successful 3 year marraige. It is in my will and will remain in power until i decide otherwise. This will reveal to you if she respects what is your outright before her time.
4) Anything partnerships/cosigning dealing with real estate will only take place after i am satisfied that i will not get really screwed. We all get screwed at some point. This will allow you to set her on the proper path to being upfront.
5) I want sex as much as possibly and will not tolerate pussy portioning. If it happens then i will re evalueate my relationship and terminate it. Just for the look on her face.
6) You are responsible for your kids not me.
7) I expect you to continue supporting yourself in the way you have before you met me.
8) Swallowing is a neccessay and has to be told to you upfront. If you don't know how I will teach you.
9) I only deal in logic, no hearsay or gossip is tolerated.
10) if you treat me right i will return the same.
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Sweet Chocolate S. Flex said:
A man barely making ends meat cannot control a woman unless they have a really strong bond (kids together, high school love, first guy to beat the pussy, saved her from a bullet... whatever).

Career oriented women are better known as sluts due to them constantly being passed around by different men. If she puts her career over her relationship, her man won't stick around.

We men know who's real and who's full of it, technically speaking, feminism has destroyed a good part of relationships so we listen with our ears before we speak.

Honestly unless you making major due, your girl calls the shots in a relationship unless you have a bond with her from years back.

30 years old are either desperate or stubborn, both aren't a good look, no matter how old the man, most dudes just can't take a woman who's demanding and independent or who just seems in a rush seriously.

Men with money pass them around just like the local thugs at the gangsta clubs, no different, it's just a different image their portraying.

Seeing a single 30 year old woman, I automatically lose respect for her, I can tell her story without even talking to her.
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mailboxpimp said:
MY X IS HAVING THIS PROBLEM RIGHT NOW........ SHE HAS DARK SKIN WHICH PRESENTS A PROBLEM FOR HER IN HER HEAD....... SHE CLAIMS THAT INDEPENDENT SHIT ... BEEN ON IT FOR A WHILE.... AND I MUST ADMIT THAT I OFTEN ASKED MYSELF IF SHE WAS SO INDEPENDENT WHAT WOULD BE HER NEED TO HAVE A MAN COMMITTED TO HER.... WHAT WOULD BE THE POINT..... SHE OWNS HER OWN HOME & HAS A GOOD JOB.... SHE HAS HAD POSITIONS WHERE SHE WAS THE ONLY BLACK PERSON OR MORE INCLINED TO BE INCHARGE OF GROUPS OF PEOPLE ESPECIALLY WHITE MEN ( BLACK MEN IN HER FIELD ARE ALWAYS UNDER HER TO SOME EXTNT THUS TREAT HER A LIL FUNNY. AS A RESULT SHE HAS HAD DIFFICULTIES TRANSITIONING FROM HER ROLE @ WORK TO HER ROLE IN A RELATIONSHIP...... ONE DAY NOT TOO LONG AGO SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE STILL WANTED THE WHITE PICKET FENCE & THE WHOLE 9... I WAS LIKE:smh::smh::hmm: THAT SHIT IS A DREAM..... & SHE HAD TO AGREE BUT STILL WANTED IT... WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER ESPECIALLY WHEN I BASICALLY MOVED IN W HER SHE NEVER DID WHAT I WAS RAISED TO EXPECT A WOMAN TO DO THAT HAD A MAN LIVING WITH HER OR EVEN A SOLID RELATIONSHIP..... SHE'D RATHER EAT OUT THAN COOK.... 1 MORNING HER PARENTS WERE VISITING @ SHE GOT UP TO MAKE BREAKFAST FOR ME....... SHE NEVER EVER DID THAT B4:smh::hmm: I TOLD HER PARENTS SHE WAS FULL OF SHIT........

GRANTED WE WERE TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 7-8YRS IT WASNT ALL BAD... NO KIDS:dance:, BUT THE SHIT THAT BEGAN TO MATTER THE MOST TO ME FOR A LONG RELATIONSHIP LIKE MARRIAGE WASNT THERE FOR ME WE WERE / ARE JUST 2 DIFFERENT PEOPLE SHE MIGHT BE GREAT FOR SOMEONE ELSE... I DONT KNOW..... FOR WOMEN IN THEIR MID TO LATE 30'S HAVE BABYITIS, THEY ALL SEEM TO HAVE AN INCREASE IN PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH THE VAGINA... WHICH PERPETUATES THE BABY SHIT, THEIR BODIES ( IF THEY DONT WK OUT) ARE ON THE DOWN SWING, THEIR COMP IS A 18 - 27 YR OLD PERKY TITTAY FLAT STOMACH CHICK WIT THE TIME & ENERGY TO FUCK & SUCK YOU LIKE YOU WANT ALL DAY & NIGHT - THE DRAMA:yes:... SHE WILL BE 40 IN MARCH.... I TOLD HER IM NOT FUCKING WIT WOMEN OVER 30 & WE ALMOST THE SAME AGE... BECAUSE OF ALL OF THE PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH THEM:lol::lol: I TOLD HER ALL OF THIS... MANY OF HER FRIENDS HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM... BUT THE BIGGEST 1 FOR THEM TOO IS THE DL GAY MAN... ESPECIALLY IN ATL....THAT WHERE WE @......:lol:

I TOLD HER SHES GONNA HAVE TO READJUST HER LIST CAUSE MOST MEN HERE IN THE ATL DONT & WONT ENTERTAIN THAT BULLSHIT YOU TALKIN ABOUT... WHY WOULD THEY OR SHOULD THEY?????
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Definitely This...

BrownTurd said:

You can look at it like sports

Women in their 30's still think the have the value of a number one draft pick who is in their prime. When they were in their prime and got drafted they were selfish and held out because they were like I don't want to play on that team(average good guy)even though their skill set would have matched perfectly with this team(good guy). Instead they decided to force a trade and sign on draft day to play for the glamorous team(bad guy/playa)in which their skill set was a terrible match. They end up on a team with bad chemistry and complain why they are not winning(married). They end up getting traded to another team with the same results. Now when you look back at their 13 year career. She was a parade All American number one draft pick who never won anything(married) been traded to 8 different teams(Passed around by niggas) and injuries that hold her back(kids)While the second draft pick took the opportunity to play with the first team(good guy) and won multiple titles(married with a great husband/family)

Now they are in their 30's and still trying to reup that number one draft pick money. Teams(niggas) laugh at her silly ass offers..and offer her the vet minimum(Jump Off)
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is the truth.:hmm:


*two cents*
 
BrownTurd said:

You can look at it like sports

Women in their 30's still think the have the value of a number one draft pick who is in their prime. When they were in their prime and got drafted they were selfish and held out because they were like I don't want to play on that team(average good guy)even though their skill set would have matched perfectly with this team(good guy). Instead they decided to force a trade and sign on draft day to play for the glamorous team(bad guy/playa)in which their skill set was a terrible match. They end up on a team with bad chemistry and complain why they are not winning(married). They end up getting traded to another team with the same results. Now when you look back at their 13 year career. She was a parade All American number one draft pick who never won anything(married) been traded to 8 different teams(Passed around by niggas) and injuries that hold her back(kids)While the second draft pick took the opportunity to play with the first team(good guy) and won multiple titles(married with a great husband/family)

Now they are in their 30's and still trying to reup that number one draft pick money. Teams(niggas) laugh at her silly ass offers..and offer her the vet minimum(Jump Off)
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NIGGA.... U have literally broke down the city of ATLANTA... Niggas n barbershop laughn they ass off lol
 
Bigskinn2 said:
Nigga, real talk... I was reading this shit, and u sounded EXACTLY like me!!!!(scary)... I'm in ATL, and I went through SAME shit with ex-fiancé ... She was one of them fine degreed up sistas, wit no kids who couldn't and wouldn't cook (always wanted to eat out)....now I tried to holla at one of my neighbors who just moved in... Fine as shit, no kids( the same m o)..a lot of these hoes think they are still 23 24 yr old dimes, but bitch u 37... Yea u USED to b a cheerleader for Washington redskins in mid to late 90's, bitch that was then... Now u a ol' hoe telling high school football stories lol... U are the 40 yr old jumpoff!!! Lol....and they're having a hard time accepting their role in their relationship/life fuck ups
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:lol::lol::lol:

she has turned into the super social butterfly....... trying to meet differnt people & men....its not going too good for her...:smh: she went to a hot spot last week & complained about the lack of men @ the venue..... the joint across the street from the aquarium...whatever big event they had that no men showed up too..:lol::lol::lol: i told her being cool wit dudes that just want to fuck aint gonna work out...... she was like:(.... tried to give her some tips to help her out but she never responded to my offer so i let it go.....:lol::lol:
she's slowly turning int the old bitch in the club..........:lol::lol: 40 but dont look it.....:smh:
 
tameytam said:
Tried to ask this question earlier, but I didn't know that all my grammar had to be correct for a porn board.

Women in their 30’s that have been on there(their) own for a while but want to be in a relationship seem to not be able to understand that they cannot do and have everything there(their) way once there (they're) in one. What say you?
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Damn son. :smh:
 
mailboxpimp said:
MY X IS HAVING THIS PROBLEM RIGHT NOW........ SHE HAS DARK SKIN WHICH PRESENTS A PROBLEM FOR HER IN HER HEAD....... SHE CLAIMS THAT INDEPENDENT SHIT ... BEEN ON IT FOR A WHILE.... AND I MUST ADMIT THAT I OFTEN ASKED MYSELF IF SHE WAS SO INDEPENDENT WHAT WOULD BE HER NEED TO HAVE A MAN COMMITTED TO HER.... WHAT WOULD BE THE POINT..... SHE OWNS HER OWN HOME & HAS A GOOD JOB.... SHE HAS HAD POSITIONS WHERE SHE WAS THE ONLY BLACK PERSON OR MORE INCLINED TO BE INCHARGE OF GROUPS OF PEOPLE ESPECIALLY WHITE MEN ( BLACK MEN IN HER FIELD ARE ALWAYS UNDER HER TO SOME EXTNT THUS TREAT HER A LIL FUNNY. AS A RESULT SHE HAS HAD DIFFICULTIES TRANSITIONING FROM HER ROLE @ WORK TO HER ROLE IN A RELATIONSHIP...... ONE DAY NOT TOO LONG AGO SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE STILL WANTED THE WHITE PICKET FENCE & THE WHOLE 9... I WAS LIKE:smh::smh::hmm: THAT SHIT IS A DREAM..... & SHE HAD TO AGREE BUT STILL WANTED IT... WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER ESPECIALLY WHEN I BASICALLY MOVED IN W HER SHE NEVER DID WHAT I WAS RAISED TO EXPECT A WOMAN TO DO THAT HAD A MAN LIVING WITH HER OR EVEN A SOLID RELATIONSHIP..... SHE'D RATHER EAT OUT THAN COOK.... 1 MORNING HER PARENTS WERE VISITING @ SHE GOT UP TO MAKE BREAKFAST FOR ME....... SHE NEVER EVER DID THAT B4:smh::hmm: I TOLD HER PARENTS SHE WAS FULL OF SHIT........

GRANTED WE WERE TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 7-8YRS IT WASNT ALL BAD... NO KIDS:dance:, BUT THE SHIT THAT BEGAN TO MATTER THE MOST TO ME FOR A LONG RELATIONSHIP LIKE MARRIAGE WASNT THERE FOR ME WE WERE / ARE JUST 2 DIFFERENT PEOPLE SHE MIGHT BE GREAT FOR SOMEONE ELSE... I DONT KNOW..... FOR WOMEN IN THEIR MID TO LATE 30'S HAVE BABYITIS, THEY ALL SEEM TO HAVE AN INCREASE IN PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH THE VAGINA... WHICH PERPETUATES THE BABY SHIT, THEIR BODIES ( IF THEY DONT WK OUT) ARE ON THE DOWN SWING, THEIR COMP IS A 18 - 27 YR OLD PERKY TITTAY FLAT STOMACH CHICK WIT THE TIME & ENERGY TO FUCK & SUCK YOU LIKE YOU WANT ALL DAY & NIGHT - THE DRAMA:yes:... SHE WILL BE 40 IN MARCH.... I TOLD HER IM NOT FUCKING WIT WOMEN OVER 30 & WE ALMOST THE SAME AGE... BECAUSE OF ALL OF THE PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH THEM:lol::lol: I TOLD HER ALL OF THIS... MANY OF HER FRIENDS HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM... BUT THE BIGGEST 1 FOR THEM TOO IS THE DL GAY MAN... ESPECIALLY IN ATL....THAT WHERE WE @......:lol:

I TOLD HER SHES GONNA HAVE TO READJUST HER LIST CAUSE MOST MEN HERE IN THE ATL DONT & WONT ENTERTAIN THAT BULLSHIT YOU TALKIN ABOUT... WHY WOULD THEY OR SHOULD THEY?????
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Sounds like that Amorosa woman on TV1
 

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