Black Women Submit To Black Men!!!
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LoneStar29
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how can you be cursing someone for misspelling and misspell in the midst of your cursing? not a good look
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DigitalAngel2007
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If I were to leave my way of thinking to my "culture" I'd be in control but also by myself. I've chosen to make my own way by engaging in a little give and take.
If I were to leave my way of thinking to my "culture" I'd be in control but also by myself. I've chosen to make my own way by engaging in a little give and take.
Thats what a relationship is about. Give and take, working together to make it work.
how can you be cursing someone for misspelling and misspell in the midst of your cursing? not a good look
No no, you took it wrong. I was thanking you for correcting me by offering healthy culinary advice.
Only in your dreams.
Everyone has lost focus on the topic. The point of this thread is to create a cohesive black family unit. As i've stated previously ( without a logical argument as to why i'm wrong)the black woman needs to submit to the black man WITHIN THE HOME if she wants to keep that man.
No one is tryna hear you! We don't need you here with your nonsense, trying to promote what ever the hell it is you do, in order to have a conversation. Thank you but go away.
Lonestar, Leroy, Carolina aka Flash, and everyone else plz continue....
The real question should be, WHY would a sane, thoughtful, confident black woman want to KEEP A MAN who would expect her to SUBMIT. Your own logic is ass-backwards. It's like the plantation owner saying that there'll be no problems as long as y'all slaves let him be in charge.
Any woman who finds comfort in a man who sees himself as SUPERIOR to her, is asking for trouble. Only WEAK men need to come into a relationship with these types of dumbass RULES, which give him UNEARNED power over his "partner." He's there to SHARE his life with her, not to RULE over her. Only insecure men need to believe that they DESERVE this sort of POWER over women.
Damn man......
LoneStar29
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I find it funny that lonestar in other threads says that a man should never hit a woman and all that, BUT then turns around and says that she wouldn't submit either
You can't be the man and the woman
You can't be the man and the woman
LoneStar29
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I find it funny that lonestar in other threads says that a man should never hit a woman and all that, BUT then turns around and says that she wouldn't submit either
You can't be the man and the woman
Just keeping it real. Can't be the sweet little lamb when it is convenient
LoneStar29
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Honestly I'm a loss for words that is why I laughed ... I don't think men should hit women(but I guess it's reasonable in extreme situations) and I believe a relationship should be 50/50 with noone being in more control than another ... what is wrong with that ... they are just my views
And I've never claimed to be a sweet little lambI mean ... we're on a porn board for fucks sake
Honestly I'm a loss for words that is why I laughed ... I don't think men should hit women(but I guess it's reasonable in extreme situations) and I believe a relationship should be 50/50 with noone being in more control than another ... what is wrong with that ... they are just my views
What i am saying is that you seem like the type to want equal say/rights, but still want to retain women priviledges such as getting treated to dinner, doors opened for you, etc
LoneStar29
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Naw I never said that ... I don't mind paying my way through dinner ... or paying for him ... or he pays one time and I pay another ... ... he can hold the door for me ... I'll massage his sore back before he goes to bed ... he can buy me a gift ... and I'll cook him a meal ... I said 50/50 dawg ... what didn't you get about that ... that covers every part of the relationship ... don't think you know the whole me cuz you read 2 of my posts ... I'm much more complicated than that
*comes in....reads.....laughs.....walks out......
glad i don't have to put up with this in my home....
glad i don't have to put up with this in my home....
Here's the problem, the word submit. If you are going to submit, submit to the right person. Believe it or not, men submit in a way when we decide to commit to a marriage. Think about it, we leave all that "bgol smash or pass" pussy to the other man, for one "lucky" woman. To submit, you have to first have a commitment that you feel is worth its while. Basically, both parties are agreeing to submit their selfish needs for a greater cause...Love.
So when a woman says "im not going to submit to anyone", she is saying "I'm not in love with anyone yet".
Exactly. People see the word submit as a negative thing. It's not slavery or allowing someone else to control you. It's trusting that the person has your best interest at heart, and doing what they need you to do. Men submit and women submit in any successful relationship/marriage. I see myself as very independent and a go-getter, but in my relationship I don't have to prove it or throw it in my man's face. He wouldn't be with me if he didn't like that about me
Well said.
C'mon, now. You know the original poster wasn't talking about BOTH partners "submitting" to each other. He was talking about how a MAN should be allowed to hold a relationship HOSTAGE unless his partner bows to his God-given male authority.
Geez.
I am so tired of all this white/latina/thai/native american/easter island indeginous women don't act like this bullshit. There will ALWAYS be someone in every race that acts in that way! The reason you don't see this is because you are conciously or subconciously looking for women who are opposite from those you are used to dealing with. Hence, since you associate this independent spirit with Black women, you're going to not bother even getting to know women of other races or backgrounds that even exhibit that trait in the least.
there is bad in every nationality or race but we are focusing on the black waoman,and other races of women dont take pride in going at it alone you may be tired but it is only the truth!!!!
indepedence~1.The state or quality of being free from subjection or from the influence, control, or guidance of individuals, things, or situations
2.the lack of a relationship between two variables; when no relationship is observed, the variables are said to be independent
3.Separation of responsibilities which ensures the accomplishment of objective evaluation
4.An attribute of an effective Neutral. Independence refers to the absence of any objective link (personal or business relationship) between a Neutral and any of the disputants
2.the lack of a relationship between two variables; when no relationship is observed, the variables are said to be independent
3.Separation of responsibilities which ensures the accomplishment of objective evaluation
4.An attribute of an effective Neutral. Independence refers to the absence of any objective link (personal or business relationship) between a Neutral and any of the disputants
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No one is tryna hear you! We don't need you here with your nonsense, trying to promote what ever the hell it is you do, in order to have a conversation. Thank you but go away.
Lonestar, Leroy, Carolina aka Flash, and everyone else plz continue....
lol im not carolina boi
LoneStar29
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You're wife is Asian right???
I'm not EVEN going to touch this one ... way too easyWell the way you put it sounds alot better than how "ace sippin' cognac" over there described it ... I think when I realy like a man ... alot ... I just naturally go into "take care of him" mode without him having to say anything ... it's the whole notion that I HAVE TO DO THAT cuz he's a man and I'm a woman which is bugging me ... I chose him at the same time he chose me ... so I want him to appreciate and respect my love rather than act like that is what I was supposed to do cuz he's the man or some bullshit like that
I must say actinass ... you do have a way with words
And the "Flasher" aka carolina little boi
I'm not even gonna touch on that shit you just posted ... them words bigger than you can spell I know you cut and pasted that shit
And the "Flasher" aka carolina little boi
I was thinking the same thing but didn't even bother replying.
And the "Flasher" aka carolina little boiI'm not even gonna touch on that shit you just posted ... them words bigger than you can spell I know you cut and pasted that shit
cuase you know it to be the truth. they may be be words you say i cant spell but they are also words that describe your so called independence!
cuase you know it to be the truth. they may be be words you say i cant spell but they are also words that describe your so called independence!
LoneStar29
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Well, I was raised to be submissive to my husband. I guess you can say the women in our family were conditioned to be that way. I believe that the man is the head of the household. In addition he is to be the chief provider, also he has to be a man who fears God.
Alot of men want their wives to be submissive but don't wanna do their part. As strong and independent as I am.... I have a very old school way of thinking. I believe the womans place is in the kitchen, of the house her husband is paying for. *shrugs* Men pay the cost to be the boss.
just my 2 cents...
And a good 2 cents it was.
Did you know that black females were losing their homes at 3 times the rate of females of all other ethnicities and 2 times the rate of black men?....There's consequences for this said independence. If a man is taking care of his responsibilities and he is spiritually grounded....you've got you a good man. I can't stand no..."I can do everything by myself woman". So don't open doors, don't send flowers, don't take you to dinner, don't buy gifts, don't do anything...just be there with a hard dick....American sista's are really stupid if they think they can demasculinize a man and still get a man. Then again, maybe that's why half these sista's are dating black men in prison or who have been in prision or lickin' pussy's on the slide...you my sista, have the right idea.
If a nigga wanna man up for you...let him man up....but you as a sista let him know ain't no bitch slippin' here...you gonna man up, man up 100% of the time not 75%...now that's how it's done.
Ok, what I'm about to say doesn't have anything to do with me being a Black woman:
Women of all races enjoy not depending on anyone else for what they have. Men of all races enjoy not depending on anyone else for what they have.
This is why we all, well most of us anyway, move out of parent's houses, get our own cars, work our own jobs. It is very childish of anyone to believe that just because a woman is White or any other nationality she would prefer to have her well-being in the hands of someone outside of herself. When you are not in control of your own destiny, it can be taken from you in an instant.
The pride doesn't come from going at it alone, the pride comes from knowing you won't shrivel up and die if you have to go at it alone. Everyone should feel pride in the fact that they are a self sufficient human being.
I don't believe any woman on this board has said in the long run, I'd rather be alone than with a man. But if you expect me to believe that I'm going to allow someone, anyone, to make uncontested decisions on what's best for me and mine or else I'm going to be alone, when I've been doing the same thing for myself since I was old enough to know what a decision was, I can't get with that. Sorry.