Transgenders in society: What’s your take?

DJCandle

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I know most folks probably don’t wanna talk about, nor care to talk about this, but I’m starting to see this more and more and in my personal life via friends and family, so I’m sure others are too, so to address the elephant in the room, what are your thoughts on transgenders in todays society?

Do they bother you, do you care, do you take issue with their agenda, or are you fine with it and you don’t take issue at all?

Do you have any personal experience with them?

Are there any in your family or friends circle? Coworkers perhaps?

What does our future hold with this rapidly rising community who claim to have been here since the beginning of time?


I’ve done my due diligence and my stance is this:

I don’t care if they exist.

You can play dress up all day long and wear whatever tf you wanna wear and that’s cool. Long as you stay in your lane and leave me alone, I have no issue with you. My biggest issue is the delusion. The delusion that you couldn’t accept what you were born as and had to change it, plus you went as far as to completely change the English language to suit your agenda and force yourselves upon the world for acceptance, particularly with children. Plus the fact if you say anything contrary to their point, you’re canceled or a transphobe. Those things are a struggle for adults to deal with, let alone kids.

For me, fighting nature is a losing battle but we do it every single day so it’s a quandary. But I still feel that a biological man is a man, and biological woman is a woman. Full stop. Don’t call yourself a “woman” if you were born a man and vice versa.

There’s something about this that always feel wrong to me but that’s just my personal take.

Discuss.
 
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Stay out the bathrooms with young children and especially my daughters and sons
I had one call HIMSELF going in the women's bathroom right after my daughter I yanked the FUCK outta him and mall security saw it. The mall cop was trying explain to HIM why I hemmed it up against the wall. I wasn't trying hear none of that bs about rights
 
Do you have any personal experience with them?

Are there any in your family or friends circle? Coworkers perhaps?
No real experience around them even though I knew of two,one a popular hairdresser and the other a hell of a person that turned into a hell of a street person(Omar from the wire).

None of my family members that I know of cause motherfuckers be so hush hush so you never know.
 
I always say "do what you want, just don't involve me" and I'm good.

While I don't get it, I also don't get niggas that spend all their energy hating them. Some shit ain't for us to understand. Worry about shit you can change and who gives a fuck about the rest.
 
Stay out the bathrooms with young children and especially my daughters and sons
I had one call HIMSELF going in the women's bathroom right after my daughter I yanked the FUCK outta him and mall security saw it. The mall cop was trying explain to HIM why I hemmed it up against the wall. I wasn't trying hear none of that bs about rights
This is it man. A whole ass grown man, dressed as a woman wanting to be inna woman’s bathroom then wanna play victim??

Nah bruh.
 
Depends on if it's a man or woman, I'll play along with a woman wanting to be a man but I'm not playing along with some dude wanting me to call him "MA'AM"..I got a female cousin that lives as a man, we say him/he etc...and even PRETEND to talk to her as if she is a dude, now I also have a gay male cousin and if he said he wanted to us to start seeing him as a woman I don't think I could do that shit, dude come to Thanksgiving dinner with a dress on and there's gonna be some laughing
 
I don't care what them wierdos do as long as they keep me and mines out of their delusional fuck shit. Don't try to teach my kids that bull and don't expect me to agree with how you "feel".
The imposition and entitlement is CRRAAAZZZYY.

Many of em really talk like entitled rich kids as if their opinion is the only ones that matter
 
Hey an adult should be able to do, whatever the fuck

an adult wants to do...If they want to think being sexually

confused is normal, sheeeet have at it, just dont try to convince

ME of the delusion.

I dont have a problem at all with whatever an adult wants

to do with their life, my issue is and has always been,

Just LEAVE the CHILDREN out of the mess!!

Let the children BE CHILDREN.. without the unneeded sexual

confusion being thrown at them..
 
Depends on if it's a man or woman, I'll play along with a woman wanting to be a man but I'm not playing along with some dude wanting me to call him "MA'AM"..I got a female cousin that lives as a man, we say him/he etc...and even PRETEND to talk to her as if she is a dude, now I also have a gay male cousin and if he said he wanted to us to start seeing him as a woman I don't think I could do that shit, dude come to Thanksgiving dinner with a dress on and there's gonna be some laughing
Funny how we’re more inclined to let women be men, but not the other way round.

Our niece graduated from beauty school a while back and had a whole grown ass 22 year old trans woman standing next to her at 6’2, next to these little 5’2 girls in heels. I knew off rip something wasn’t right

:smh:
 
No real experience around them even though I knew of two,one a popular hairdresser and the other a hell of a person that turned into a hell of a street person(Omar from the wire).

None of my family members that I know of cause motherfuckers be so hush hush so you never know.
Some of these trans folks really take it all the way to where you can’t tell. I mean I can see a man through a woman anyday of the week, but I also see how dudes like Malik Yoba or Mister Cee get caught in the trap. They still gay tho no matter how much they deny deny deny.
 
I always say "do what you want, just don't involve me" and I'm good.

While I don't get it, I also don't get niggas that spend all their energy hating them. Some shit ain't for us to understand. Worry about shit you can change and who gives a fuck about the rest.
I used to think this way to but when you have kids, it’s different cause that shit does affect them, which in turn makes it your problem to deal with how you see fit.

Lotta these young boys come home wanting to paint they nails and wear dresses cause it’s accepted at school and on social media.
 
I don't think there is a way of not being around them anymore. And I'm not trying to be offensive when I say them. I just feel like as most have said, do your thing, but be respectful that everyone isn't comfortable in the same company.

I'm not bothered anymore by what we deem as normal in society, because we're living in changing times. I have 3 open gay family members and as of right now they still dress and act like the gender they were born as, if they are flamboyant, they aren't around us, but again we know they are gay.
 
I don't think there is a way of not being around them anymore. And I'm not trying to be offensive when I say them. I just feel like as most have said, do your thing, but be respectful that everyone isn't comfortable in the same company.

I'm not bothered anymore by what we deem as normal in society, because we're living in changing times. I have 3 open gay family members and as of right now they still dress and act like the gender they were born as, if they are flamboyant, they aren't around us, but again we know they are gay.
Gay has become normalized in that way too. I don’t think most people blink at gay people depending on where youre from. NYC and DC are their hubs for example. San Fran as well.

I feel like how gay people were considered taboo in the 70’s & 80’s is what trans people are now..

In 30 years time, they might be normalized also which many of us will still be alive for smh
 
I know most folks probably don’t wanna talk about, nor care to talk about this, but I’m starting to see this more and more and in my personal life via friends and family, so I’m sure others are too, so to address the elephant in the room, what are your thoughts on transgenders in todays society?

Do they bother you, do you care, do you take issue with their agenda, or are you fine with it and you don’t take issue at all?

Do you have any personal experience with them?

Are there any in your family or friends circle? Coworkers perhaps?

What does our future hold with this rapidly rising community who claim to have been here since the beginning of time?


I’ve done my due diligence and my stance is this:

I don’t care if they exist.

You can play dress up all day long and wear whatever tf you wanna wear and that’s cool. Long as you stay in your lane and leave me alone, I have no issue with you. My biggest issue is the delusion. The delusion that you couldn’t accept what you were born as and had to change it, plus you went as far as to completely change the English language to suit your agenda and force yourselves upon the world for acceptance, particularly with children. Plus the fact if you say anything contrary to their point, you’re canceled or a transphobe. Those things are a struggle for adults to deal with, let alone kids.

For me, fighting nature is a losing battle but we do it every single day so it’s a quandary. But I still feel that a biological man is a man, and biological woman is a woman. Full stop. Don’t call yourself a “woman” if you were born a man and vice versa.

There’s something about this that always feel wrong to me but that’s just my personal take.

Discuss.

I really don't care what they do.

My only gripe is it's just misogyny dressed up as equality.

So white men not only own everything as it is, but now they can own womanhood too?

And it's funny how gender is fluid now but race in America is still the same.

Funny how that works, huh.
 
I know most folks probably don’t wanna talk about, nor care to talk about this, but I’m starting to see this more and more and in my personal life via friends and family, so I’m sure others are too, so to address the elephant in the room, what are your thoughts on transgenders in todays society?

Do they bother you, do you care, do you take issue with their agenda, or are you fine with it and you don’t take issue at all?

Do you have any personal experience with them?

Are there any in your family or friends circle? Coworkers perhaps?

What does our future hold with this rapidly rising community who claim to have been here since the beginning of time?


I’ve done my due diligence and my stance is this:

I don’t care if they exist.

You can play dress up all day long and wear whatever tf you wanna wear and that’s cool. Long as you stay in your lane and leave me alone, I have no issue with you. My biggest issue is the delusion. The delusion that you couldn’t accept what you were born as and had to change it, plus you went as far as to completely change the English language to suit your agenda and force yourselves upon the world for acceptance, particularly with children. Plus the fact if you say anything contrary to their point, you’re canceled or a transphobe. Those things are a struggle for adults to deal with, let alone kids.

For me, fighting nature is a losing battle but we do it every single day so it’s a quandary. But I still feel that a biological man is a man, and biological woman is a woman. Full stop. Don’t call yourself a “woman” if you were born a man and vice versa.

There’s something about this that always feel wrong to me but that’s just my personal take.

Discuss.

How much and what "Due diligence" did you do?



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Gay has become normalized in that way too. I don’t think most people blink at gay people depending on where youre from. NYC and DC are their hubs for example. San Fran as well.

I feel like how gay people were considered taboo in the 70’s & 80’s is what trans people are now..

In 30 years time, they might be normalized also which many of us will still be alive for smh

In 30 yrs it'll be the norm along with robot gfs/bfs and trans animal binary gendered.

Smh
 
Some of these trans folks really take it all the way to where you can’t tell. I mean I can see a man through a woman anyday of the week, but I also see how dudes like Malik Yoba or Mister Cee get caught in the trap. They still gay tho no matter how much they deny deny deny.

Nah them niggas know wassup from jump. They like they niggas to dress up and roleplay as "ladies".
 
How much and what "Due diligence" did you do?



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Lol I’m talkin bout their new language and terminology like calling us regular people “cisgender” and the redefinition of gender itself.

Their argument is that sex and gender aren’t the same thing and that even tho your sex is biologically determined in the womb at say 3 or 4 months, your “gender” which takes place in the brain, now doesn’t begin to decide what it sides with until later on in the birthing process. The sex you were given has nothing to do with what you feel according to them, and strangely enough many prominent outlets like the American Medical Association, WHO, and countless others agree with this take.

They take this argument deep into abyss of conception citing SRY genes that don’t form tested, and intersex (hermathodites) people, all feel differently than what these genes deciphered.

That’s not even scratching the surface but I got the gist of what they’re trying to shape the future as.
 
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