Stolenyall young cats better learn that Being the man 24/7 comes
at a cost you may not be able to pay when the cameras are off.
Stolenyall young cats better learn that Being the man 24/7 comes
at a cost you may not be able to pay when the cameras are off.
WrongIf it's outside this list, she's planning to leave you at some point, getting dug out by someone else, and will lose respect for you.
1) immediate death of someone close
2) something involving your children and having pride, fear, or anger
3) intense physical pain, gunshot don't count, has to be something internal that is eating at you
bruh, that's manufactured tears. this isnt the OJays. you cried cause you got caught. ten seconds earlier, you were enjoying yourself in them cakes. she knows you didn't mean that shit. Also, you are leveraging another woman against her so the competition instinct kicks in. You better always make her think you have someone else ready to sub.Wrong
I cheated and got caught in a very bad way
She cried so hard I held her and we cried together. I apologized while crying.
What psychological study is this based on?Imo this isn't just about black men. It's all men. All women lose respect for man that is crying outside of a few circumstances. It's instinctual. They won't admit it.
This isn't about race.
What psychological study is this based on?
Bro I cried when Chadwick Boseman died. He was such a positive black influence, and to see him power through cancer treatments to make Black Panther was truly inspirational. That video of him talking about visiting the kids with cancer and how excited they were to see the movie gets me every time.I've cried over family's death but so I would rather a man cry instead of keeping it balled in and niggas have a breakdown where shit can go left or their ass will be in the crazy house....so cry,cry til you can't cry anymore,you're human first and a man second so cry.
Too tough men are just a fuse that's waiting to be lit.....
It's 2022, we have to start thinking differently.
Someone already wrote the dissertation above.
Yeah, we all know black men get the worst of everything. With that said it's never been accepted for men of any race/culture to cry.
This goes back hundreds of not thousands of years even before the concept of race.
Why?It's 2022, we have to start thinking differently.
Things change, people change, so society changes. Even if you have to do things just with your fam, make dinners or game night a safe environment so people feel comfortable sharing what's going on with them.Why?
Things change, people change, so society changes. Even if you have to do things just with your fam, make dinners or game night a safe environment so people feel comfortable sharing what's going on with them.
What is that based on? What studies can I look at?Shit is biological. Women biologically see a crying man as weak and unable to protect them. It's hard wired. It is not changing.
What is that based on? What studies can I look at?
This type of toxic masculinity is bred into us as black men. Trying to address, or even fucking talk about it, it is met with anger and more toxicity.Reading these posts tells me there are a lot of mofokrs not only unsure of their manhood and unsure what a man is.
Y'all mofokrs have no clue at all and spend too much time worrying what other mofokrs think about you.
What is crying?
Yep. Some days I almost wish folks would just be honest about it.^^^^^
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This just continues the narrative of straight black men as animals without emotions
Its dehumanizing
Every one ELSE is allowed to not only have feelings emotions
But show them and express without judgement.
but we are supposed to whipped beasts of burden to be put down when we don't act "right".
sounds like you need to be in a women's weekly gossip circle that partake in Lifetime movie reviewsI've cried over family's death but so I would rather a man cry instead of keeping it balled in and niggas have a breakdown where shit can go left or their ass will be in the crazy house....so cry,cry til you can't cry anymore,you're human first and a man second so cry.
Too tough men are just a fuse that's waiting to be lit.....
im assuming he's fine with women becoming more like men so he wants men to become more like womenWhy?
I am and your old lady isn't happy with your tough guy antics ....sounds like you need to be a women's weekly gossip circle
I am and your old lady isn't happy with your tough guy antics ....
This type of toxic masculinity is bred into us as black men. Trying to address, or even fucking talk about it, it is met with anger and more toxicity.