I'm talking to a Haitian 25 y/o in Miami, she moved from Haiti when she was 15. Completely different experience from dealing with an American chick.
There's not enough eligible black males to fit the needs of black women.
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Yet, we have managed to excel & outpace despite the stereotypes & narratives that we're despots. You're proving him right.Kevin is being incredibly disingenuous here. The incarceration rate didn't level off after the crack epidemic. We also had the crime bill, stop & frisk, and an unending war on drugs.
If you look at the incarceration rate, it damn near mirrors the black women never married chart. White women never had to deal with this.
We're not the problem, at least not completely.
It’s true what she is saying. Now arguably you can make a great case or discussion about why black men have fallen behind because of white supremacy. But overall she is stating facts
is this some sort og blame black women bullshit??? ijs
lest not pretend the govt doesnt have a hand in this.....the info is WELL documented.
No not a blame game.
I agree cannot ignore Govt hand in all this with Redlining, School to prison pipe line, harsher judicial judgements, etc....
lotta dudes try to act like none of that shit is a contributing factor.
He need to post fucking obesity rates for Black women. Like someone said earlier in this thread negroes gas these big bitches heads up and they think that shit is acceptable being fat. Like that post where the guy is squatting that fat bitch( dude has a six pack and fucking with a fat bitch). Now this bitch will go around thinking hey I'm good. When I go to the gym I don't even look at black women because even if they do look good they're on some fuck shit.
And broads who are overweight making six figures will need that money to pay for those necessary prescriptions and that extra healthcare.
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That’s the move right there bro. Good job on that. It’s the American mindset that’s damaging . But, even the foreign women can be an issue if they are from a big city or capital city back home.
Yea, she's a breath of fresh air. Easy to talk to, honest & straightforward way of communicating. Only thing is she's pushing the "marriage" agenda and at 40, I've seen enough to know that the institution of marriage in this country doesn't benefit me.
I'm trying to tell her we can have the same relationship & family without that piece of paper, I don't need "social recognition" or my relationship to be validated by a govt agency. She says for her it's about security, I tell her I understand, but I don't think she understands that for me its also about security.
Lol she won’t understand. Marriage is a big deal to some. I would play the long game if I were you
Nonsense. Free her up for a man who will give her what she wants. Never talk a marriage-minded woman out of whet she wants simply because you won’t give it to her. She’s not the problem here; your mindset is. If she agrees with your proposal but take blow jobs off the table, then what? Don’t “enjoy it while it lasts” let her go if you cannot see yourself married to her.
Exactly that’s why I promote interracial relationships.
Agreed!
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To paraphrase my drill sgt when I was going through basic training first day he told them "for you fat boys in here you got such and such weeks of basic training to lose weight, "I'm not graduating no fat boy". I refuse to fuck a fat chic.
The broad in this video points out using Stacy Abrams. Stacy Abrams is competitive when it comes to education attaining her college and law degree but is lax when it comes to her weight and appearance. The same could be said for a majority of Black women.
The broad in this video points out using Stacy Abrams. Stacy Abrams is competitive when it comes to education attaining her college and law degree but is lax when it comes to her weight and appearance. The same could be said for a majority of Black women.
Black men are twice as likely to marry outside of the race as Black women. The gap grows as Black men get more educated.
Black women are being numerically penalized for being more race loyal.
There are other factors at play as well but this shit doesn't help.
I'm not talking her out of anything. I want a family & marriage, just my idea of marriage looks different. I don’t want to include the govt in my relationship or family.
Since the beginning of time, before any organized religion or organized govt, man & woman have been getting together and making it work, even when we were still living as hunter-gatherers .. there was black man, black woman, and black babies.
I get that women want security, but they don't get that ain't no security out here. The best security is understanding that there is none besides working hard and making good decisions (like who you choose to be with). Choosing to be with me is her security.
I'm self made, haven't had a job in 20 years, I paid my own tuition out of pocket, ain't nobody gave me shit, I ain't never had a safety net, I hustled my way out the hood, picture me dealing with a woman that don't think I'ma do right by her and wanting contingencies that threaten to divide my estate, everything I've worked for my whole life. Nigga, I used to sleep on the street.
It's insulting for a woman to tell me she wants our relationship to be validated by an outside entity just in case it doesn't go as she would like so she can run to the principals office & tell.
I'm not dealing with entitlement.
She gets what I give her! If that ain't enough, then go find a lesser nigga.
These stats actually show race loyalty of black men. It shows you that black men overwhelmingly marry black women. Stats can be manipulated since there are 18% who doesn't.Black men are twice as likely to marry outside of the race as Black women. The gap grows as Black men get more educated.
Black women are being numerically penalized for being more race loyal.
There are other factors at play as well but this shit doesn't help.
But break that down, it's a huge percentage of those marriages to black latinos who are just considered Hispanic for the census and therefore it's considered an intermarriage. Every brother here knows several brothers married to Latinos who are not remotely white.
Intermarriage is only a problem for the Asian who pay the ultimate pricee for attempting to be the model minority at the expense of their race. And finally would these career black women be race loyal like us if they were actually desired?
Black men as a whole are definitely racially loyal. That categorization of Black Hispanics also means that if a Black Hispanic person marries a non-Hispanic White, it's not counted as a Black person marrying out either.
Less than a quarter of black newlyweds married someone categorized as Hispanic, and Pew Research stated that only 4% of black newlyweds also identified as Hispanic going by the Census data.
I imagine most people would rather marry out than be alone. Interracial marriage is only one variable in the equation.
Funny! 5 years ago a single childless mid 40s black overweight chick at my job during happy hour told me I have nothing to offer a woman unless I'm rich. How can you be in the position you're in and give dating advice? Better yet, how can you tell a ninja with an active dating life he has nothing to offer a woman?
I've dated women taller than me, some making more money than me and etc. If chicks already see my physical, financial and career history but still decide to go on a date then I have no problem.
This issue is Black women put these ridiculous unwritten dating rules that just end up screwing themselves up and they live by it just shooting themselves in the foot. 6ft+, 6 figure job, in shape, a beard and etc. Even having good money and a career (stability) dosen't make someone undateable or the type to marry.
I've dated women taller than me, some making more money than me and etc. If chicks already see my physical, financial and career history but still decide to go on a date then I have no problem.
This issue is Black women put these ridiculous unwritten dating rules that just end up screwing themselves up and they live by it just shooting themselves in the foot. 6ft+, 6 figure job, in shape, a beard and etc. Even having good money and a career (stability) dosen't make someone undateable or the type to marry.
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why are they holdin they hoodies?
Like some dudes say men have to earn their value. If you're not lucky enough to have been born with one of the three 6's you have to over compensate in the areas you are lacking (height, d!ck size, or money)
The real question right here
Most of these new females consider themselves "Queen Bee's" but fail to realize that in nature there are no "King Bee's" only drones. All drones do is fuck and leave/die. They don't protect or provide, they exist only to reproduce. This is why all these broads live like a hive and all the males they produce are fucking drones.
My pops and men like me are silverbacks. We run the house, protect and provide, but also show care and love to our kids. These queen bee broads want a Silverback, but they are not equipped in any way or means to deal with one. By nature they are incompatible.
The best they can get is a Grizzly bear, and after he smashes the hive and takes all the honeycomb, they say "all bears aint shit!"
That mindset of women are in a world of their own creation that is simply not compatible with a positive proud male figure.
Post of the year!!
Noted. I’ll put it in the running
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