Tell her to get a sugar daddy and keep it pushing
There's not enough eligible black males to fit the needs of black women.
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Isn't Cynthia G that bitch with no hair and had a baby with a loser who already had multiple kids by multiple women?
They will 100% say that but think about what they are really saying: The man who makes way more is always too "controlling" while the man who makes the same or less and wants to go half is never "successful" enough. It is just hoe psychobabble designed to ensure that they are always, somehow the real victim in every circumstance. The cycle will continue until they are 45-50+ and find a cac or man of "god".
This is reason #657 you know these hoes are lying about all of this shit. 
Eligibility is a subjective term.
Having a high salary deems eligible for some women.
Having a low salary, while being tall with a 6 pack may deem eligible for other woman
A man that has neither, but goes to church every sunday is considered eligible for another group women
etc, etc, etc
The woman speaking in the video is just a tool spewing the mainstream narrative to later justify her decision in choosing a cac, while promoting the erasure of Black men (miscegenation)
Having a high salary deems eligible for some women.
Having a low salary, while being tall with a 6 pack may deem eligible for other woman
A man that has neither, but goes to church every sunday is considered eligible for another group women
etc, etc, etc
The woman speaking in the video is just a tool spewing the mainstream narrative to later justify her decision in choosing a cac, while promoting the erasure of Black men (miscegenation)
Man I'm to the point where I don't even want to be bothered with women beyond sex and the way things are they almost aren't worth the trouble for that.
Strange times we live in.
Strange times we live in.
I've been at this point for several years that's why I can't imagine getting married in 2022 or beyond lol.
She wants to run him. In fact, she is running him. That's why she doesn't have the man that will be her equal. She don't want equal, she wants to dominant.
You don't have to be the bread winner to run your house hold. Play your role. If my wife was better with the money, then that's her job. I am still the quarterback.
But she is 19.
Does that change your perspective at all?
Im curious of your opinion because we see it often in grown women.
Agreed, there are plenty of men that are police, firefighters, military, etc that are out earned by their wives but are still the head of the household.
Old hoes either end up by themselves or they cater to a young cat. Young cat ain't in it for marriage.They will 100% say that but think about what they are really saying: The man who makes way more is always too "controlling" while the man who makes the same or less and wants to go half is never "successful" enough. It is just hoe psychobabble designed to ensure that they are always, somehow the real victim in every circumstance. The cycle will continue until they are 45-50+ and find a cac or man of "god".
Bruh, the domination start early. My little cousin run the hell out of one of my uncles and she is 7 years old. Age is just a number. Women will run you into the ground if you let them and will be mad at you for allowing them to do it. When I was teaching at university, one of my female students told me something that stuck with me until this day. She told me that every woman is crazy, but she has to find the man that will deal with her crazy. I was struck by this analysis and I disagreed with her at the time. But, the older I get, the more I realize she was spot on. I guess what I just said fits with the current narrative. Women will try your ass, but you just have to stand your ground and not cave in. Bruh, this is being a man.
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Right, my daughter tried me regularly until she realized that I’m not a total push over with her.
But I see where you are coming from. It’s interesting to see. I guess when I reflect when I was 18/19, then I was easily taken advantage of by women. Especially pretty women.
Most got pregnant before they had the status, dough or ego. My ex was pregnant at 19, went on to get her Masters and makes crazy bread but goes through men like socks. They can’t take the ego. I couldn’t. Talked to her kids dad once and was cool. Said it was puppy love, basically. Knew her before the big head. The rest of these types got pregnant by mistake by a side dude/boy toy-that’s typically when you hear em say they don’t really press the dad for any money or to raise the kids. The rest run men off by never being satisfied or overbearing, and worse—so driven to succeed that being feminine or having sex doesn’t matter to them. Dated a woman who was in a sorority, volunteered at the church, was connected to other organizations and was always tired, pulled in multiple directions. She was rarely emotionally available—even during sex. She kept a calendar at all times because she had so many appointments AFTER work. She was the chapter that vetted new soros, setup events, cleaned up after, booked venues, made calls, etc. If she was doing 10 things she wasn’t happy. These are the ones who tell you you’re asking them to stop being (tears) who they are. I.e, no time for a relationship.
What's do you do at this point man? I think a lot of those MGTOW guys are extreme. But they make a lot of good points. I don't hate women I don't even dislike them...it's more just not wanting to exert the effort to be bothered
Dude, I just added to the post above. Being a man is standing your ground and being principled. It ain't how much money you make. It is doing what you need to do. That older woman I mentioned in one of my post above loved the hell out of me. One of the years we dated she made way into six figures. The woman still took my advice and I help guided her on some major shit. When you are a man it don't matter your money, your strength will come through.
Sadly I came to this realization lol.
It happened BEFORE they earned real money.
Majority of these women were single moms for years before the cash started coming in. Hell it's their motivation
I said more or less the same thing to answer him
A TEST: is when a woman says or does something, specifically to evoke a reaction out of a man, whether verbal or action based. It is a SUB-CONSCIOUS mechanism that a woman uses to find out about what kind of man she is dealing with. It is the predictor and basis for all sexual attraction and love she will have for a man. Every test is designed to make her feel special (your lover) when a man passes it, or makes her feel un-special (thus turns her into your mother) if you fail it.
At least, that is how I see it.
During the process of my development, I went searching for one or two unifying themes to apply as a rule when I attempted to analyze relationships between men and women.
I came up with the following:
The Frank B Kermit theory:
1-Everything out of her mouth is a test (even when it is not, treat it as so anyways) 2-A woman can only fit into 1 OF 2 roles in any mans life. Mother or Lover. 3-She constantly tests you to see what role she should follow 4-Within each test is an emotional need being communicated 5-If you address the emotional need, you pass the test, she feels attracted to you, she gets to be your lover and you have sex 6-If you do not address the emotional need, you fail the test, she loses attraction to you, she is forced to assume the role of your mother and you do not get sex
and the final part to this:
7-A women always tests because her instinct to mother is stronger than her instincts for sex
I have identified 10 emotional-need categories, but for the purposes of this book, I will only list the category names here, and not a lengthy description of each.
The 10 Emotional Needs of a Woman
1-The protection of her most valuable asset: Her Reputation
2-Women want to FEEEEL a range of emotions. Do not try to make her happy, give her a full range from fury to ecstasy. This is a.k.a. her Drama Cookie
3-Cater to the little girl in her. Know the difference when to ignore her ramblings and when she needs you to give her a hug. Sometimes she just needs to be reassured like a little kid
4-Be dominant and take responsibility for leading the relationship. This includes making all the decisions, and taking 100% responsibility for the sex in the relationship. It all has to be the mans fault
5-She fears abandonment. This is part biological programming, as in the event she is left with a child, she needs to be sure that she will not be abandoned, and left alone to care for it. This covers her emotional need to feel secure.
6-Trust. The key here is if she can trust you to be honest with her; even if you know she will not like what you have to say. In a womans reality, she is used to people lying to her ALL THE TIME because of the way she looks, or they simply want something from her. If you are willing to piss her off with your honesty, you have demonstrated that she can trust you.
7-Her physical safety. A man must demonstrate that he is capable of protecting her physically from the threats of the outside world. This is to make her feel safe.
8-Women need to know you can handle her TRUE sexuality. She will only be as wonton with you as you demonstrate that you can handle it. She needs to explore her sexuality and let it be free with you as a Natural Woman
9-Prove that you have high quality sperm by showing other girls want to have sex (procreate) with you, and/or you are a good catch and he kids with you will also be a good catch enough to also attract a mate.
10-Prove that you are not a homosexual. She knows every homosexual male friend she has that is not out of the closet yet. Could you be one too?
Regardless of what she tests you with, if you can spot one of these ten emotional needs in-between her words and you address that need by your communication and actions, you will pass the test, and she will by default feel attraction for you, and desire to be your lover.
I think what happens in most relationships is that a man attracts a woman as his lover, and over time, she becomes more like his mother to him, thus sacrificing her attraction to him. In my unscientific-based opinion, that is when the relationship starts to die.
That is my theory anyways. So far, it has worked for me
I honestly know nothing about the mgtow guys. I will say I just be trying to fuck chicks and I don't mind tricking to keep it strictly that way.
A TEST: is when a woman says or does something, specifically to evoke a reaction out of a man, whether verbal or action based. It is a SUB-CONSCIOUS mechanism that a woman uses to find out about what kind of man she is dealing with. It is the predictor and basis for all sexual attraction and love she will have for a man. Every test is designed to make her feel special (your lover) when a man passes it, or makes her feel un-special (thus turns her into your mother) if you fail it.
At least, that is how I see it.
During the process of my development, I went searching for one or two unifying themes to apply as a rule when I attempted to analyze relationships between men and women.
I came up with the following:
The Frank B Kermit theory:
1-Everything out of her mouth is a test (even when it is not, treat it as so anyways) 2-A woman can only fit into 1 OF 2 roles in any mans life. Mother or Lover. 3-She constantly tests you to see what role she should follow 4-Within each test is an emotional need being communicated 5-If you address the emotional need, you pass the test, she feels attracted to you, she gets to be your lover and you have sex 6-If you do not address the emotional need, you fail the test, she loses attraction to you, she is forced to assume the role of your mother and you do not get sex
and the final part to this:
7-A women always tests because her instinct to mother is stronger than her instincts for sex
I have identified 10 emotional-need categories, but for the purposes of this book, I will only list the category names here, and not a lengthy description of each.
The 10 Emotional Needs of a Woman
1-The protection of her most valuable asset: Her Reputation
2-Women want to FEEEEL a range of emotions. Do not try to make her happy, give her a full range from fury to ecstasy. This is a.k.a. her Drama Cookie
3-Cater to the little girl in her. Know the difference when to ignore her ramblings and when she needs you to give her a hug. Sometimes she just needs to be reassured like a little kid
4-Be dominant and take responsibility for leading the relationship. This includes making all the decisions, and taking 100% responsibility for the sex in the relationship. It all has to be the mans fault
5-She fears abandonment. This is part biological programming, as in the event she is left with a child, she needs to be sure that she will not be abandoned, and left alone to care for it. This covers her emotional need to feel secure.
6-Trust. The key here is if she can trust you to be honest with her; even if you know she will not like what you have to say. In a womans reality, she is used to people lying to her ALL THE TIME because of the way she looks, or they simply want something from her. If you are willing to piss her off with your honesty, you have demonstrated that she can trust you.
7-Her physical safety. A man must demonstrate that he is capable of protecting her physically from the threats of the outside world. This is to make her feel safe.
8-Women need to know you can handle her TRUE sexuality. She will only be as wonton with you as you demonstrate that you can handle it. She needs to explore her sexuality and let it be free with you as a Natural Woman
9-Prove that you have high quality sperm by showing other girls want to have sex (procreate) with you, and/or you are a good catch and he kids with you will also be a good catch enough to also attract a mate.
10-Prove that you are not a homosexual. She knows every homosexual male friend she has that is not out of the closet yet. Could you be one too?
Regardless of what she tests you with, if you can spot one of these ten emotional needs in-between her words and you address that need by your communication and actions, you will pass the test, and she will by default feel attraction for you, and desire to be your lover.
I think what happens in most relationships is that a man attracts a woman as his lover, and over time, she becomes more like his mother to him, thus sacrificing her attraction to him. In my unscientific-based opinion, that is when the relationship starts to die.
That is my theory anyways. So far, it has worked for me
Bad advice, you enable her toxic bullshit by playing into these games. Better advice would be to nip this type of behavior
I know, it sounds toxic but....
Yeah. Lot of truth in it, toxic or not. The drama cookie shit is dead on. They fall in love with the guy they don’t understand. Hence the “I don’t know what I ever saw in him” shit they say. They stayed to see if it was something wrong with themselves or him. Be nothing but nice and they walk you like a dog.
She's also young, early 20s are thottin years especially in College. She's going to get ran through by athletes or the dudes she feels as the young says has "swag" . As she nears 30 and unmarried she's going to think back to her college years and the squares she bypassedNONE!
She said she will be really upset with him if he doesn’t graduate college. She going to feel like she wasted her time pushing him.
Then I said, y’all need to have a real serious conversation then.
The Godfather coming in with the STATS!
She’s married to a Brotha. I looked on her IG page because I thought she was married to a cac too.
I think you guys need to leave the country and start traveling, and start talking to some foreign women
Kevin is being incredibly disingenuous here. The incarceration rate didn't level off after the crack epidemic. We also had the crime bill, stop & frisk, and an unending war on drugs.
If you look at the incarceration rate, it damn near mirrors the black women never married chart. White women never had to deal with this.
I've been there for over a couple years. Liabilities, I tell ya, all of em.. Liabilities.
You know it's bad when you don't even want the pussy.
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