There's not enough eligible black males to fit the needs of black women.
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I'm so glad I don't have to deal with this bullshit
.... on the flip side I know many brothers who can say the same, in fact most black men do want relationships with black women but rather than looking for financial status and educational level we are more interesting in a woman's pride, dignity and attitude... having a degree and financial security does not automatically make a women a prime choice to be wifey material.
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Here we go again with the same type thread just with diff people.. at the end of the day none of these people are god or the spokesperson for the entire sex… broads gonna marry nigs whether their money low or whether their money high or with or without college education…money and degree isn’t the only thing that will get rings on fingers or make people completely compatible.. it’s like saying if you don’t shoot 40 percent or higher at the three point line you can’t be a hall of famer or all time great.. than wilt, Kareem, magic etc look at you like oh really
It isn't the numbers. Black women are starting too late.
18-25 is your window. They're sitting next to their "husbands" in class.
But young women don't want college men.
How many girls in school are dating the neighborhood knucklehead all the
while the guy next to them in Psychology is trying to get their attention?
Master's degree? 150k? That's a grown ass woman.
What were they doing in their twenties? Fucking everything in sight.
Oh, now you want to settle down? Also social media has messed
everything up. Pussy is just a swipe away. Marriage? Settle down?
18-25 is your window. They're sitting next to their "husbands" in class.
But young women don't want college men.
How many girls in school are dating the neighborhood knucklehead all the
while the guy next to them in Psychology is trying to get their attention?
Master's degree? 150k? That's a grown ass woman.
What were they doing in their twenties? Fucking everything in sight.
Oh, now you want to settle down? Also social media has messed
everything up. Pussy is just a swipe away. Marriage? Settle down?
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And another thing.
If you put Marriage as a course in college then they would be.
You can't leave women to their own vices. That's why they fail.
"Women are running circles around men."
You're just filling a quota. Minority and Woman.
If you put Marriage as a course in college then they would be.
You can't leave women to their own vices. That's why they fail.
"Women are running circles around men."
You're just filling a quota. Minority and Woman.
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What women don’t understand is what they think makes them wifey material almost never matters to men. Men can wife a chick working at McDonalds. Women look for men based on status and finance. That’s not the same for men because we aren’t wired to look for security and protection.
I just laugh when I read a chick’s dating profile and she talking about having her own money, place and career status. Cool I got all that too. But, can you cook, fuck, support your man and not nag a dude to death? I’ll take a McDonald’s chick that do all that verses a chick with her nose up in the air cause she got a degree.
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Yawl niggas be lying mane
White women go to college to find a Husband, Black Women go to college to get degrees! That's why the largest debtor class in AmeriKKKa is the Black Woman with student loans! White women really aren't in competition with White Men despite what you might hear and think. White people find every reason to come together and stick together. It's a major proponent of Eurocentricity the value system that rules AmeriKKKan thought and function! A Black woman that thinks like this one will never be satisfied with a Black Man no matter what!
lol,
I just know too many sisters are following
a narrative that works against the traditional
family structure.. and its ok till its not..
Men figured it out and are starting to realize
the game is in their favor, and marriage and children
right away are NOT part of that game..
Plus nowadays woman by the time their forty explored
their options way too much.... nobody wants to buy
a used car, for new car money,
its just stupid economics!!!!
I just know too many sisters are following
a narrative that works against the traditional
family structure.. and its ok till its not..
Men figured it out and are starting to realize
the game is in their favor, and marriage and children
right away are NOT part of that game..
Plus nowadays woman by the time their forty explored
their options way too much.... nobody wants to buy
a used car, for new car money,
its just stupid economics!!!!
i did not watch the video. As I’ve said, ninjas live and die by tropes. Black folks make shit happen, don’t subscribe to bullshit narratives. So if any woman ever says “there are no good men” or “men are intimidated by strong women” she’s an idiot. The only reason ANY woman can’t get a man is she is ugly inside and out.
I came to say that Monica is engaged to C-Murder and Rhi- Rhi is pregnant by ASAP pookie. Carry on…
Yep, our fault...as usual.
All these other races do the same thing, but they find love no problem. White women starting businesses, getting degrees, they don't seem to have this problem or even make it a problem. Hell, they marry men that end up being stay at home dads.
For decades we had to get with women that made less than us and been okay with it. The minute women get on the other side of that all of a sudden we ain't shyt. Fcuk that I have a job, I keep a job and I excel at my job.
All these other races do the same thing, but they find love no problem. White women starting businesses, getting degrees, they don't seem to have this problem or even make it a problem. Hell, they marry men that end up being stay at home dads.
For decades we had to get with women that made less than us and been okay with it. The minute women get on the other side of that all of a sudden we ain't shyt. Fcuk that I have a job, I keep a job and I excel at my job.
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Black women have bought into feminism from white women and they believe their own hype about their education, degrees, businesses, etc.
Cynthia G is a perfect example of a feminist. Why don’t they just marry white men or non black men cause that’s what they really want. But, are black women really loyal to BM or want BM or is it that they don’t have any choice?
If other dudes were checking for BW I think BW would be down. I could remember how difficult it was to talk to BW back in the day. They made it hard for you to talk to them but no others.
Cynthia G is a perfect example of a feminist. Why don’t they just marry white men or non black men cause that’s what they really want. But, are black women really loyal to BM or want BM or is it that they don’t have any choice?
If other dudes were checking for BW I think BW would be down. I could remember how difficult it was to talk to BW back in the day. They made it hard for you to talk to them but no others.
**Correction**
There are not enough Black men willing to cater and bend to the unrealistic expectations, attitudes, and egos of delusional Black women who ignorantly measure their self-worth and relationship value in relation to a man's qualifier for them.
Bitch, we don't care about your Ph.D. in hoodrat communications, Masters in Government Servitude, or 500K IG simp following.
There are not enough Black men willing to cater and bend to the unrealistic expectations, attitudes, and egos of delusional Black women who ignorantly measure their self-worth and relationship value in relation to a man's qualifier for them.
Bitch, we don't care about your Ph.D. in hoodrat communications, Masters in Government Servitude, or 500K IG simp following.
Bullshit, according to the actual numbers 51% of black men, of dating age, are single with no kids, and 61% are middle income. So the problem is not the lack of men, the problem is that these men are not interested in marrying today's type of black women while these women feel they deserve men way out of their pay grade!
Everything boils down to the decisions people make in life this goes for both male and female, some are good some are bad and some are just ugly. You can't go whining and crying about the decisions you made yourself in life and blame someone else for it. I've seen men trying to turn hoes into a housewife and seen women try to turn thugs into the man of their dreams and 9 times out of 10 shit goes side wayz and that's were all the problems in most cases starts, next thing you know people become stalkers or on social media blaming others for their own bad life decisions.
I know it hurts us to hear, but the numbers don't lie.
Black women are the more educated now and are probably 10x more likely than a white woman to have to take a loan out for education so it makes sense that they have more student loan debt. I also don’t think that black women are in competition with black men.
In general people don't realize how fleeting life is. 20 years can go by like nothing and many are still in the same place mentally.
That's the issue. Physically people are adults but mentally they want to live as 20 year olds. And it's always the other person's fault. No....you're responsible for your own happiness.
That's the issue. Physically people are adults but mentally they want to live as 20 year olds. And it's always the other person's fault. No....you're responsible for your own happiness.
There's a war going on black men and women . And white folk are sitting back patiently plotting ok how yo furter divide
Absolute bullshit.
How many people make 150k??? Let alone black women? Those women are in the top one percent of earners for black women.
Black women's median salary is ~42k/yr, that's less than every group (male or female) except Hispanic women. How is that running circles around anyone?
How many people make 150k??? Let alone black women? Those women are in the top one percent of earners for black women.
Black women's median salary is ~42k/yr, that's less than every group (male or female) except Hispanic women. How is that running circles around anyone?
the weaves, wigs, lashes, body shapers, excessive makeup, & children by other men make women undesirable.
The real problem is that these women have been sold a lie that more money equates to more happiness, and when these types of women sacrifice so much to get the money they always wanted, they quickly realize they are not as happy as they should be, especially when they see white women their age married and looking so happy. So instead of looking back at the path they chose to get to where they are, they do what they have been conditioned to do, that is blame the black man for their woos. When in reality, there are plenty of high value single black men out there, but just like these women have preferences on how much they want their man to make, these men have preferences on how they want their women to look and act, and sorry those broads do not make the cut!
There’s a lot of black women making that. My last 3 chicks makes 150k or more. I live in a high rise where many of the women make at least 100k. They’re everywhere. I’m friends with many 6-figure women, the problem is thinking they are dating down if the man is even 10k under what they make.
Second, none of the black women j mentioned are in shape. My girl is lucky genetically. My girl does NOTHING fitness related but she’s 39, makes 120k, and as I said, lucky. I know a woman who big at a major bank, owns 3 homes free and clear, has a masters and cute as fuck…220 lbs minimum. She had a list of shit she won’t accept from men. She’s fat and alpha so she’s going to have to accept a playa or bitch boy she can talk down to. White chick I know is an anesthesiologist at Emory in atlanta; married a geeky Asian guy and then live WELL!!!!! She dwarfs his income but they are happy. She chose joy. My homebody is paid; his wife went from 140 to well over 200 lbs in about 10 years. She doesn’t care. she’s the sweetest woman but
He’s salty. Cheats with a white chick at his job. Not prettier, just not fat.These black women KNOW why we aren’t checking for them for marriage. The biggest problem is (say it all the time) black men have low standards despite this gripe. Y’all still fuck and impregnate these fat, tattooed, hair hat having ass women with bad attitudes. Y’all still dick em down. Why should they change? I’ve never seen so many fat women in my life—all of em getting dick when they want it. And it’s not (NOT) busted ass dudes!!! Y’all think broke ass pookies are fucking these barn sized bitches and it’s not. So these bitches feel that if they fucked a dude after the club and he comes over once or twice a week to smash that she’s cute enough to get him. HE is the problem now, not her! Raise your fucking standards and starve the broads out!!! No more “what that mouth do?” No more “Shiiiiid, winter is comin!” Standards and these hoes have no choice but to change. A 5’3” 200 lbs bitch that spends $200 a month on her hair should NOT have any dude that doesn’t look exactly like her in her DM’s or bed.
Majority of households with black children are ran by SINGLE black women, no man in the house. If black women are doing so well, why is the state of the black community so jacked up? Philly(my home town), Chicago, NY, Atlanta, Cleveland....
If they have all these businesses why are they not employing their black children or the black children of their fellow single black women?
All of Olivia's talking points as it relates to black women's success are in a masculine frame. Nothing feminine which is a critical component to being a female.
She out here hustling products and courses to these black women making some paper. She not truly interested in fostering strong black relationships.
If they have all these businesses why are they not employing their black children or the black children of their fellow single black women?
All of Olivia's talking points as it relates to black women's success are in a masculine frame. Nothing feminine which is a critical component to being a female.
She out here hustling products and courses to these black women making some paper. She not truly interested in fostering strong black relationships.
Been around the world and I have dealt with all kinds of women. Black women are the worst and they bought into these white liberal feminist lies about independence and why you don't need a man. Only to be 40+, lonely and bitter.
Other Groups likes Whites, Asians and Latinos understand the importance of being subservient and building a family with there male counterpart.
All of this. So many women waste so much time dating and fucking knucklehead thugs because they got a big dick or can fuck or they're popular or got swag
Many of these women end up having kids with these assholes knuckleheads. If they end up in this category than their fucked up in the game. Nobody wants a woman with a bunch of kids. Women need to learn men do not want to take care of or even see someone else's kids
If the women are lucky and able to escape having kids by the asshole knuckleheads, now they want a rich dude. They don't want a brother who's trying to get his, who's going to work everyday, who's paying his bills and everything
They think they're too good for the Working Man a. The problem is a lot of those Rich guys are players. So he's played in the pussy for a while then he leaves her.
Now she's fucked complaining that where are the good men. As someone said earlier, the good man was sitting next to you in Psychology while you were trying to get with the drug dealer or the hood dude.
I'm going to close with this, the biggest reason that women are so fucked up in the game is the rise of the single black mother.
There was no man, at least no good men around these women growing up. Same problem with the men. There were not any good men around these boys growing up.
How are the girls supposed to grow up to know who to date when their mother never gave them an example? How are these boys supposed to grow up and know who to emulate if their mother never gave them an example or their father was no example?
We've all been to the zoo and know what a lion looks like. But for someone who doesn't know what a lion looks like, ask them to act like a lion. They got no idea.
That's what the boys born from 1975 - present have to deal with because most Black women from that period are/were single mothers, and the sons and daughters of those women repeated the cycle
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Black men are sold the bill of goods that being a thug gets you the women. Well, this may be true when you are younger and living with your moms. That scrip flips around the age of 27 when these guys go from getting all the premo-pussy to barely able to get any. Around this age, many of these guys wind up with at least two kids and many end up with some kind of criminal record. Also around this time, they get kicked out of their mom's apartment to fend for themselves. So almost overnight they go from top choice to top scrub. So these guys often are forced to go into survival mode where they become prone to criminal activity, fucking dusty bitches and/or shacking up with fat bitches with kids just for shelter. This is where you see so many former players shacked up with fat chicks with kids Of course this is not absolute but everyone in the hood knows a few guys who life fit this to a tee so its a problem that we rather sweep under the rug than actually deal with by talking about it.
There’s a lot of black women making that. My last 3 chicks makes 150k or more. I live in a high rise where many of the women make at least 100k. They’re everywhere. I’m friends with many 6-figure women, the problem is thinking they are dating down if the man is even 10k under what they make.
Second, none of the black women j mentioned are in shape. My girl is lucky genetically. My girl does NOTHING fitness related but she’s 39, makes 120k, and as I said, lucky. I know a woman who big at a major bank, owns 3 homes free and clear, has a masters and cute as fuck…220 lbs minimum. She had a list of shit she won’t accept from men. She’s fat and alpha so she’s going to have to accept a playa or bitch boy she can talk down to. White chick I know is an anesthesiologist at Emory in atlanta; married a geeky Asian guy and then live WELL!!!!! She dwarfs his income but they are happy. She chose joy. My homebody is paid; his wife went from 140 to well over 200 lbs in about 10 years. She doesn’t care. she’s the sweetest woman but
These black women KNOW why we aren’t checking for them for marriage. The biggest problem is (say it all the time) black men have low standards despite this gripe. Y’all still fuck and impregnate these fat, tattooed, hair hat having ass women with bad attitudes. Y’all still dick em down. Why should they change? I’ve never seen so many fat women in my life—all of em getting dick when they want it. And it’s not (NOT) busted ass dudes!!! Y’all think broke ass pookies are fucking these barn sized bitches and it’s not. So these bitches feel that if they fucked a dude after the club and he comes over once or twice a week to smash that she’s cute enough to get him. HE is the problem now, not her! Raise your fucking standards and starve the broads out!!! No more “what that mouth do?” No more “Shiiiiid, winter is comin!” Standards and these hoes have no choice but to change. A 5’3” 200 lbs bitch that spends $200 a month on her hair should NOT have any dude that doesn’t look exactly like her in her DM’s or bed.
There are ~23 Million black women in America, one percent of that (230k) is a lot in terms of absolute number, but it's still not close to representing the group as a whole. She was asked about the challenges that black women face when becoming a wife. 99% of black women aren't in the situation she's talking about, so income for most of them shouldn't be an issue when it comes to finding a husband.
Plus, however many black women are making 150k, there will be a larger number of black men making that, so I'm not sure where she's getting the running circles around men from.
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