I applaud his success. He took something and made it more palatable for men and women. I hope he hits 2 million subs. He deserves it. What I will say is I’ve never dated women who give me as many issues at the women on his show. I know those women exist but only through other accounts. Ive never met or overhead a woman say a man must pay all the bills or anything like that. The only issue I had was too many women are fat, and I had an ex get fat on me but that’s not why I dumped her. I had one that wore a bonnet but not out the house; just have that shit on when I came over. I addressed it and it stopped, but I realized if I gotta tell you….
The most common issue is the nasty ass attitudes. That’s the one that’ll destroy black women. I get nasty attitudes from cashiers and the like, but rarely from a girlfriend. Since I’ve started immediately pointing it out, my lady agrees is worse than she imagined. And that’s because black women typically don’t get it from them like we do. I told her you don’t open doors, or are alone on elevators or in awkward situations where you are unsure if you should speak. Men are. My lady will “Hey girl!” any woman. And it’s always met with equal energy, so she foolishly said “every woman I speak to speaks back”. Duh! They don’t hate YOU. Women don’t think it’s a problem unless we point it out while out with them. Resting bitch face is a clear sign to give a woman zero time. No matter how fine or bad you wanna smash, don’t entertain them at all.
My deal breaker is excessive male friends, which Kevin hasn’t covered to my knowledge. I dropped one for that and will never allow that again. As I say here all the time, once she has weave, nails and tats, you’re rummaging through the garbage at this point. No reason think a woman with that many flaws is redeemable. The women on his show are often inarticulate, ghetto or arrogant, and that often comes with weave, lashes, twerking or attitude. I don’t care how fine or big her ass is, if she’s a ratchet, you’ll know off rip. The issue always will be letting those women do whatever they want but for men have some damn standards and avoid them. You know a bad bitch from a lady, so stop dealing with em, period. They won’t get right until we get standards.
