I'm 36 years old and in all my life i've never once rolled my neck. Mr. D that's not answering the question. It's a deflection. Give me a logical conclusion. Say 3 months. Say 2 years. Trying to lob the ball back at me isn't "logical" it's just trying to pin it back. If you don't know, say you don't know. Say there's no definitive time. And i say if there's no definitive time length then that just doesn't make sense. This anger at black women. And haveing black women being called disloyal and things like that. When there's no real basis for what she's supposed to do in that time.
And then you say, oh well it's your fault you chose badly. That's a cop out answer i feel. I feel it's a cop out because it's a punishment then. So women who wind up with these men after all this time get branded with another discouraging label because she left the guy who wasn't pulling his share as disloyal.
You get with this person, they don't do what they were supposed to do, and then you leave, and you get called disloyal. That's not logical to me.
And then you say, oh well it's your fault you chose badly. That's a cop out answer i feel. I feel it's a cop out because it's a punishment then. So women who wind up with these men after all this time get branded with another discouraging label because she left the guy who wasn't pulling his share as disloyal.
You get with this person, they don't do what they were supposed to do, and then you leave, and you get called disloyal. That's not logical to me.