I know, I know.... not this again. But while looking for notorious "black marriage negotiations" video I found this and it struck a chord with me. There are a lot of valid and well spoken points made in this video by the sisters as well as the brothers.
This is not a black woman bashing thread. I hope to hear from the usuals, followup, sean69, upgrade dave, onyx, Legacy_Infinity, MelonPecan, Iz, ChiCutie, CTs Finest, lady scorpio, Sexy scorpio, BCAA2009, doggish_098, , and last, but not least mailboxpimp. *yeah, I did a rollcall *
What the brother @ 6:03 really rings true with me. I've never seen a model of a relationship, marriage or otherwise, outside of the Huxtables.
The sister immediately following him, @ 6:25 is preaching that gospel.
We, as a people, don't usually seek that genuine love for one another. We get caught up in the appearance & allure of what the relationship looks like, to us and others, instead of what the relationship feels like. I tell my young patnas all the time, "image is nothing, thirst is everything", in reference to their drive. We cannot constantly seek out the superficial and expect to end up with substance.
This is not a black woman bashing thread. I hope to hear from the usuals, followup, sean69, upgrade dave, onyx, Legacy_Infinity, MelonPecan, Iz, ChiCutie, CTs Finest, lady scorpio, Sexy scorpio, BCAA2009, doggish_098, , and last, but not least mailboxpimp. *yeah, I did a rollcall *
What the brother @ 6:03 really rings true with me. I've never seen a model of a relationship, marriage or otherwise, outside of the Huxtables.
The sister immediately following him, @ 6:25 is preaching that gospel.
We, as a people, don't usually seek that genuine love for one another. We get caught up in the appearance & allure of what the relationship looks like, to us and others, instead of what the relationship feels like. I tell my young patnas all the time, "image is nothing, thirst is everything", in reference to their drive. We cannot constantly seek out the superficial and expect to end up with substance.