YOU Ever BUSTED One of Your Chicks CREEPING,,,

[Crown&Coke]

because all that does is give them a reason to hide more, or force an arguement or confrontation, these are areas they excel in(this is my opinion), i like giving them enough rope to hang themselves. another thing i learned hard, there's such a thing as talking too much where it concerns conversing with bitches.

I have learned that if a woman is gonna cheat, she is gonna cheat. You can give a woman everything she SAY she want in a man and she could still cheat on you. I aint sayin I think all woman cheat, but I dont put it past any woman.​

 

[destrehan]

check this recording i did from a chic i know, i asked her why a woman cheats her answer i think was truthful
yall niggaz dont clown my southern drawl

http://www.zshare.net/audio/16204688514016a2/

had 2 cut it off when her truck got too loud

somebody embed this shit

187 with my nuts in they mouth, my moms always asks me when im gettin married, NEVER

"you put EARL in this caw?"

 

[destrehan]

because all that does is give them a reason to hide more, or force an arguement or confrontation, these are areas they excel in(this is my opinion), i like giving them enough rope to hang themselves. another thing i learned hard, there's such a thing as talking too much where it concerns conversing with bitches.

oh fa sho, but i still like to put them off balance by lettin them know off top i DO NOT TRUST YOU BITCH.

most of the time it makes them put more effort into proving their loyalty

 

[water]

oh fa sho, but i still like to put them off balance by lettin them know off top i DO NOT TRUST YOU BITCH.

most of the time it makes them put more effort into proving their loyalty

Brother you are young.

You are not listening to the advice this man is giving you.

Do NOT let her know you are on alert.... she will go further underground with her shit.

Talk less.

Listen more.


Good luck.

 

[destrehan]

Brother you are young.

You are not listening to the advice this man is giving you.

Do NOT let her know you are on alert.... she will go further underground with her shit.

Talk less.

Listen more.


Good luck.

man get the FUCK outta my face with that young bullshit. i'm 27 and i have had enough experience with my method to know what i'm talking about. the other aspects of my personality make what i tell them work.

 

[jwilliam85]

There you have it, my philosophy exactly. I learned a long time ago bitches will lie at the drop of a hat about ANYTHING, as long as it suits their emotional needs. They know nothing, absolutely fucking nothing about where to draw the line. They are slaves to their emotions and if you don't accept that early in life you're fucked and doomed to become a simp.

As for when she goes "baby you trust me don't you?", and I look at her with conviction and say "yes babes I do", the part i don't vocalize is "as long as I can see you".

You can make the playing field as level and as fair as you want in a relationship, bitches will find a way to outsmart or manipulate you, then find a way to make it your fault. I've seen to many brothers take the fall for shit they never saw coming, this nigga ain't travelling that road anytime soon.

Most niggas and myself included are slaves to our dicks, I might hit off 10 chicks on the side and she my hit off one of her ex's. Whats the difference we both weren't thinking with our right minds, she was letting her emotions guide her and I was guided by my dick. This is the same dynamic that keeps the world populated. But aint no pussy in the world good enough for me to just chill with for the rest of my life without sampling something else and I'm pretty sure the same goes for females.

With that said you can almost go into any relationship and already know whats going to happen whether it is seen or not. The best thing for us brothers to do is ALWAYS STAY IN DEMAND. And what I mean is always take care of your shit and make sure your shit is put together. Always keep up your hygiene,appearance,fitness,wardrobe, and PAPER. Women are impressed by shiny things its that simple, so always stay on your shit. Always keep female friends just to let her know that someone is always in the wing waiting, bring out her natural instinct for competition.

Getting married shouldn't be the finish line it should be the starting line when it comes to you having game. Just make her feel like you dissing all the other females to be with her. The fear of loss should be your biggest bargaining chip. And with all that said this still doesn't guarantee she might not suck another nigga dick. The only real way to make sure a bitch don't fuck up is to throw a burka on that bitch and threaten to stone the bitch to death if she fuck up. The niggas in the Middle East learned this thousands of years ago so if you can't stand for a bitch to cheat take your ass over there or just man up.

 

[water]

check this recording i did from a chic i know, i asked her why a woman cheats her answer i think was truthful
yall niggaz dont clown my southern drawl

http://www.zshare.net/audio/16204688514016a2/

had 2 cut it off when her truck got too loud

somebody embed this shit

187 with my nuts in they mouth, my moms always asks me when im gettin married, NEVER

What is wrong with black men?

Why are we not marrying these family-oriented women at a large rate?

 

[sirwoodz]

check this recording i did from a chic i know, i asked her why a woman cheats her answer i think was truthful
yall niggaz dont clown my southern drawl

http://www.zshare.net/audio/16204688514016a2/

had 2 cut it off when her truck got too loud

somebody embed this shit

187 with my nuts in they mouth, my moms always asks me when im gettin married, NEVER

- damn bruh, you messing with married chicks!?!? WHERE THEM WOLVES AT!!...further proof that these educated and sophisticated black women lust after these unpolished hood niggas, but i've seen it the other way around too first hand so...but got damn bruh, I'm from the south and I've never heard anybody say EARL for OIL...

 

[Rossini]

Most niggas and myself included are slaves to our dicks, I might hit off 10 chicks on the side and she my hit off one of her ex's. Whats the difference we both weren't thinking with our right minds, she was letting her emotions guide her and I was guided by my dick. This is the same dynamic that keeps the world populated. But aint no pussy in the world good enough for me to just chill with for the rest of my life without sampling something else and I'm pretty sure the same goes for females.

With that said you can almost go into any relationship and already know whats going to happen whether it is seen or not. The best thing for us brothers to do is ALWAYS STAY IN DEMAND. And what I mean is always take care of your shit and make sure your shit is put together. Always keep up your hygiene,appearance,fitness,wardrobe, and PAPER. Women are impressed by shiny things its that simple, so always stay on your shit. Always keep female friends just to let her know that someone is always in the wing waiting, bring out her natural instinct for competition.

Getting married shouldn't be the finish line it should be the starting line when it comes to you having game. Just make her feel like you dissing all the other females to be with her. The fear of loss should be your biggest bargaining chip. And with all that said this still doesn't guarantee she might not suck another nigga dick.

 

[dadamaja]

- damn bruh, you messing with married chicks!?!? WHERE THEM WOLVES AT!!...further proof that these educated and sophisticated black women lust after these unpolished hood niggas, but i've seen it the other way around too first hand so...but got damn bruh, I'm from the south and I've never heard anybody say EARL for OIL...

no homie she was married twice and divorced twice, and im not messin around with her, just a coworker

you see she corrected me ha, women always tryin 2 do that shit too

 

[BrownTurd]

my partner has a fucked up story,,, he met this girl who claimed to be a virgin ,,, got her name tattooed across his stomach in big letters, had 2 kids with her, gave her allowance, married her,,, the whole 9

right when he bought them a NEW crib (within 3 years of meeting her),,, she started taking classes at a community college,,, she lied about how many classes she was taking (so she would have some free days out of the house),,, he went on the computer one day and found some homegrown of his wife & a dude from her job (damn!),,, also found some emails that proved she was getting dicked down for months,,,

she was only taking 3 hours of college courses, but claimed to be taking 12 hours,,, homie seperated from her about 4 months, then took her back,,, they are still married,,, just shows the shit can still go down no matter how good you treat them,,, i don't think his story is over,,, she's one of those quite, sneaky chicks

Come on Gamboy...Stop fuckin your boy girl

 

[gaklid]

I've caught mine cheating on food when she was supposed to be on a diet.

I know I'ma hella late but

 

[Knasty]

Bumpskie bump!

 

[Studio718]

lol

chick is over on SOL
asking for dick pics,
she dont feel sorry about nothing.

Nahhhhhh come on man!!!!!
That;s just foul.

 

[Prolific_Omega]

what exactly did she say to try to flip it on you cuz? how is that possible? these horrible stories you niggas have, i have never seen no parts of that shit and i been with a lot of women man. with all the dirt i've done though, i'm sure i'm covered though. no bitch has ever outdirted me to my knowledge.

Well in my case when i confronted her, she said i had no right to be up in her stuff that i was invading her privacy,she even had the nerve to say i was "betraying her trust", I look at her like u can't be serious and that is when i left. I mean after all the lying a woman will still sit up there and try to save face they won't humble themselves to their action meanwhile men are made to face their mistakes head on and usually with alot of trials and tribulations so yeah that's how she flipped it.

 

[DAYNE]

i remember a couple years ago my supervisor at the time used to tell me, "you cant trust em"... he went through it with his own girl of 7 years. he told me don't even get involved like that. lose those feelings. i was in my own world at the time and was thinking, "my girl wouldn't do that to me"...i treated her right like i was supposed to, and she treated me right. then he showed me first hand how you cant trust em. there was this white chick. she worked in the main office which was a couple yards away. everyone in the building knew she was getting married. then one day she walks by our room and my supervisor is like let me see your tattoo.... she pauses for a minute, then she flips up her blouse from the back and walks off really fast. 3 days later he told me again, "see....i told you you cant trust these women". i knew right then that he had fucked her. from then on he stayed fucking her. she drove him home every day after that... probably to the telly first.

my supervisor ended up moving to an apt complex and guess who she had moving his stuff to his new apartment? her husband..... she told her husband that he was a friend from work.


every now and then i get mad at myself because i didn't listen to my supervisor. he put me on to a lot of shit. i was only 19 at the time and totally in the dark. everything he said to me came true... that is all i need to know from now on. and his is NOT the only example. trust that. i went through something myself. not a fun thing to go through.


Grimey....that's all i gotta say....lol.

damn...

 

[BGLR1212000]

man get the FUCK outta my face with that young bullshit. i'm 27 and i have had enough experience with my method to know what i'm talking about. the other aspects of my personality make what i tell them work.

I feel you on that. You let a girl know off top that you don't trust bitches and for some reason they stay loyal. It's when you like "Baby, I trust you so much, etc", and that's when they go crazy. That has been my experience, so game recognize game, playa.

 

[LUCKY3600]

Notice the dude never came back? I guess the fool took her back....

 

[water]

I feel you on that. You let a girl know off top that you don't trust bitches and for some reason they stay loyal. It's when you like "Baby, I trust you so much, etc", and that's when they go crazy. That has been my experience, so game recognize game, playa.

So you are saying if your girl told you that she doesn't trust you that you would not be extra careful with all these side chicks?

Are you telling me that by her saying that would make you NOT cheat?

Then why do you feel it is different for her?

If she has the propensity to cheat, she will cheat...... but this time she will be extra careful because you already gave her the headsup........

You will live and learn.

 

[jwilliam85]

So you are saying if your girl told you that she doesn't trust you that you would not be extra careful with all these side chicks?

Are you telling me that by her saying that would make you NOT cheat?

Then why do you feel it is different for her?

If she has the propensity to cheat, she will cheat...... but this time she will be extra careful because you already gave her the headsup........

You will live and learn.

Thats the desired effect and every woman has the propensity to cheat.

 

[water]

Thats the desired effect and every woman has the propensity to cheat.

Well I guess what the eyes don't see the heart don't feel, right?




The only problem is the HIV rate amongst blacks......

 

[CarryOn]

I feel you on that. You let a girl know off top that you don't trust bitches and for some reason they stay loyal. It's when you like "Baby, I trust you so much, etc", and that's when they go crazy. That has been my experience, so game recognize game, playa.

shes not being loyal, just more careful.

 

[destrehan]

shes not being loyal, just more careful.

you clowns have no experience. when i tell a broad i don't trust her off top, that lets her know that i will shitcan the relationship at the drop of a hat. i'm not gonna whine, fuss, snoop, or any of that shit. if you are a man of real worth, she will be afraid to lose you.


"being more careful" also means not fuckin around and losin a good thing. there are some faithful women out there regardless of how man stories you cats have.

 

[CarryOn]

you clowns have no experience. when i tell a broad i don't trust her off top, that lets her know that i will shitcan the relationship at the drop of a hat. i'm not gonna whine, fuss, snoop, or any of that shit. if you are a man of real worth, she will be afraid to lose you.


"being more careful" also means not fuckin around and losin a good thing. there are some faithful women out there regardless of how man stories you cats have.

how you got time for a broad when you spend your days stalkin your brother



im just fuckin with you, hope yall patch shit up.

 

[magnetic god]

you clowns have no experience..

..I'm curious, would you call these men clowns to their faces, had this discussion been in person?

 

[destrehan]

..I'm curious, would you call these men clowns to their faces, had this discussion been in person?

probably not in this conversation but i have no problem callin niggas names face to face.

 

[conpermiso]

I have learned that if a woman is gonna cheat, she is gonna cheat. You can give a woman everything she SAY she want in a man and she could still cheat on you. I aint sayin I think all woman cheat, but I dont put it past any woman.​

so basically, you're saying that women are JUST as scandalous as dudes. That's real talk.

Its a lot of lames in this thread...mad cuz they "girl" was fuckin Jody even though they had 2/3/10 chicks on the side. if you don't respect her, why the HELL would you expect her to respect you? c'mon, man. for every dude that installed a keylogger, there's a chick with a network of girlfriends - one of whom saw your car posted outside some female's crib at 3pm when you was sposed to be home "sick".

Difference between chicks and dudes (from what i can tell in this thread) is that after she found out you cheated on her, she kept letting you take care of her bills/kids/car/house.


Why you mad, doggie?

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Difference between chicks and dudes (from what i can tell in this thread) is that after she found out you cheated on her, she kept letting you take care of her bills/kids/car/house.


Why you mad, doggie?

wouldn't you? you're leasing two pussiez that's never going to be yours.

 

[VI786273fu]

long story, but gotta get it off my chest

I had been tellin' my wife at the time that I knew somethin' was goin on... but she insisted on being caught instead of being honest. She claimed that she was out bowling with co-workers twice a week, but it was too obvious cuz whenever we'd go bowling with friends her back would always hurt the next day. Whenever she'd go 'bowling' with co-workers she'd come home like she'd been at the damn spa, all refreshed. Anyway, I sat at home ere’ night for weeks knowing that she was doin’ something but I just couldn’t prove it. I looked at her and honestly asked her if there was something wrong and she lied. I promised her that I would file for divorce if I ever discovered infidelity. Then she had the nerve to try and say that I should pray about my insecurities. I then decided that enough was enough.

I installed a caller ID box in the basement on a phone jack... then each night when I got home I would compare the numbers called on the cordless phones in the bedroom and living room to the box in the basement that she didn't know about... of course I was quickly able to figure out which number she was deleting... instead of confronting her, I just called my connects at Cellular One and ran a trace on the number... had dudes name, address, DOB, SS# and ere'thing... I drove past his crib one night that she was supposedly 'working late' and her car was there in his driveway. The car I had bought for her. I was really boiling at that point. Little did they know that I was sitting there with my loaded 9mm in lap. I had already figured out what I was gonna do. I was gonna kill her. I didn't give a damn who caught it... but SHE was the main one who was gonna get it... if dude had been there to walk her outside or something, I woulda got him too, but he wasn't my target...

I called both my moms and pops separately and told them what I was about to do. I don't know why I called my parents, I guess it was the pain eating me up inside and out of respect for them, I wanted to let them know that I was at rock bottom and that I appreciated all their love and support since birth. Kind of like a "I know you've done all you can for me and this is not your fault" type of closing. Of course they pleaded with me to calm down, drive from the scene and not resort to the violent act I had promised. I then powered off my cell phone off and sat with my finger on the trigger. I remember the day like it was yesterday... July 26, 1999. I waited and waited and waited. I must've sat there for close to 3 hours but her and dude never emerged. There's no way they could've known I was there cuz I had borrowed my buddy's SUV and was sitting on a side street about 4 houses down from dude's house.

After contemplating my options and knowing full well that after gunning them both down, I'd either go to prison or be killed in a shootout with police while on the run, I decided against it and drove home. I think what hit me in the heart was knowing that our 2 kids would've be left without their parents. I kept seeing my 5 yr old daughter's face and hearing her say "Why did you do that to mommy?" It wouldn't have been fair for me to leave them alone in this world with in-laws or someone other than one of us caring for them. I think that was God looking down on me. Honestly, I had no conscience about shooting either one of them, had I seen them. Wouldn't ya know who came home 20 minutes after I got home. It was hard to look at her that night, but I sucked it up and showed no emotions at all in front of her and played it cool.

Imagine bustin' ya azz to provide for your family and then find out that your wife is runnin' around with another dude. Not just a one time deal, but an ongoing affair. We had been together for 7 years and her tryst with dude was at least a few months. All cuz I was in last semester at Howard U. tryna make the situation betta for my family (her + 2 kids). Her older son was not my biological, but I treated him as blood and as my own child. No, I wasn't bringing in the $$$ I had the previous 5 years working FT, but I was back at Howard tryna finish up my BA. Sad part is that she was the one who inspired me to go back to Howard and finish up my degree. Yeah, I was not home as I would've liked to have been... but I was in school FT, working PT and doing an internship. Wasn't like I was out partying. I actually talked to the guy she was having the relations with. I called him the very next day on his cell and said these exact words "So... you're f**king my wife?". He then responded... "Oh,, this must be (my govt name)". Talk about me being shook, the cat knew of me and my name. Dude and I talked for like 20 minutes. He said that she told him that she was divorced. Told him that she was still in the house for the sake of the kids and that we slept in separate bedrooms. It was a tense convo, but one that enlightened us both. He confirmed a lot of things that I had suspicions about, like 'business trips', 'late hours', new tires on her car and extra money she had received. That cat was straight up being played by her but dude straight up wanted to marry her. I couldn't help but laugh at that notion.

The single most important thing that I learned from my divorce (okay okay, I learned this in my Anger Management class when I was going through the divorce) was that you can only control yourself. You do not control what any other person does. If your wife/partner wants to walk outta the door what are you gonna do… physically stop them??? That works on occasions (temporarily), but in the long run someone will end up in jail and 90% of the time it’s the man. For the most part, you just have to use good ole common sense in making decisions on the type of person that you decide to be involved with. People sometimes snicker when I admit to going to Anger Management. But those classes every Monday for 6 mos, probably saved my life. Everyday, I re-considered my thoughts of killing her. Seriously. I needed a place to relax and let my thoughts go. In that class I was in the fellowship of other brothas who were going through similar circumstances and we kinda leaned on each other and became friends.

I never asked my ex-wife why. It didn't matter to me. She betrayed me. After giving her numerous chances to come clean, she refused. I honestly was prepared to try and work things out, even if she had admitted cheating. it woulda hurt, but I would've tried. Til this day, she never admitted to what she did. Wasn't an issue for me about why anyway. I believe in the sacredness of vows, but when one person refuses to admit their wrong, you can't move forward no matter how much you love them. In that case, you must go on with your life. I was criticized by the 'God fearing' members (grandparents, uncles aunts, etc) of my family who didn't believe in divorce, but I shook them off with one question. "Would you rather I sit in a corner, cry my eyes out and contemplate murder or suicide or do what's right for me, file divorce, move on with life and eventually find someone who'll not only love and respect me, but someone who deserves my love and respect?" Room kinda went silent after that.

Fortunately, I'm here to talk about it, which let's you that I wised up and drove from away from the house that night cuz I realized that my life wasn't worth losing cuz ONE woman who betrayed me... but being on the other end of a cheating spouse hurts like hell and can drive folks to kill... trust me... I'm not a hood type cat who grew up on corners or nothin'... but I was a hurt husband who owned a gun. I advise my fellow brothas not to deal with married women. Don't look at a man's stature and assume he won't do something should he find out. A heart hurt will resort to anything when broken. The puzzy aint worth losing your life. That's from both perspectives... from the boyfriend/husband aspect and the playas who love to deal with married sistahs.

Is all I can say

 

[Web_Guru]

i remember a couple years ago my supervisor at the time used to tell me, "you cant trust em"... he went through it with his own girl of 7 years. he told me don't even get involved like that. lose those feelings. i was in my own world at the time and was thinking, "my girl wouldn't do that to me"...i treated her right like i was supposed to, and she treated me right. then he showed me first hand how you cant trust em. there was this white chick. she worked in the main office which was a couple yards away. everyone in the building knew she was getting married. then one day she walks by our room and my supervisor is like let me see your tattoo.... she pauses for a minute, then she flips up her blouse from the back and walks off really fast. 3 days later he told me again, "see....i told you you cant trust these women". i knew right then that he had fucked her. from then on he stayed fucking her. she drove him home every day after that... probably to the telly first.

my supervisor ended up moving to an apt complex and guess who she had moving his stuff to his new apartment? her husband..... she told her husband that he was a friend from work.


every now and then i get mad at myself because i didn't listen to my supervisor. he put me on to a lot of shit. i was only 19 at the time and totally in the dark. everything he said to me came true... that is all i need to know from now on. and his is NOT the only example. trust that. i went through something myself. not a fun thing to go through.


Grimey....that's all i gotta say....lol.

 

[gameboy]

Come on Gamboy...Stop fuckin your boy girl

naw bra,,, i don't roll like that anymore,,, but it's funny that you should mention that, because i do have a feeling she would easily give it up if i entertained the thought,,, i would never do that though

 

[sherminator]

1. Why does EVERY WOMAN use the "we only kissed" line.
Every man has heard that line at some point in his ilfe.
And whenever a woman says it, it means she kissed, fucked and sucked the dude's dick...period.

2. You already said she was sending naked pics to MULTIPLE dudes on Craigslist. So you think she only fucked one guy??

Her story is typical, Like I said earlier WOMEN HAVE NO BOUNDARIES.
There are rules to this shit, but women dont give fuck, they just run with their emotions.

This bitch had tha nerve to have a baby and soon after she stayin out all night not coming home, and then texting another dude about how YOU GONNA BABYSIT WHILE SHE OUT SUCKING DICK.

Dude, you love that hoe. And I'm purposely using the word HOE because that's what she is. You gotta wake up, dawg. You fucked up by having a baby by a hoe.
But life aint over, get your shit together, and move the fuck on.

Your hoe is running game on you right now...sob stories, depression, she'll be a better person, she'll never do it again, blah, blah, blah.

Bruh, she crossed lines, not just normal shit but she had no respect for you or your baby. She was out in the streets discussing her family bizness. And now everybody knows her as a hoe.

Now she sad and hurt cuz you done cut her off. If you go back to that hoe, she won and she knows she can treat you like pure shit, and you'll still take her back.

If you marry that chick, you will be the guy everybody says they DONT want to be.....the ninja that tried to turn a hoe into a housewife.

I feel you on all you said but its hard to just cut off the woman who had your seed and you married and loved and i don't fault him for not wanting to work it out so that his daughter does not end up in the middle of some ignorant adult things and have a some what stable two parent home

 

[Baldhead_Digital]

WOW....this thread really turned into some kind of session for a lot of dudes...

I'm glad I've never had theses kinds of issues. I wonder how many times I've been the "other man" though..

 

[gameboy]

WOW....this thread really turned into some kind of session for a lot of dudes...

I'm glad I've never had theses kinds of issues. I wonder how many times I've been the "other man" though..

if you've had 3 or more girlfiends during your life,,, you've most likely had these kinds of issues (whether you knew it or not),,, as i said before, ignorance is bliss

i've been the "dude on the side" so many times, that i know the signs, without even having to do much investigating,,, these days i don't investigate at all because i'm not looking for a wife

 

[water]

WOW....this thread really turned into some kind of session for a lot of dudes...

I'm glad I've never had theses kinds of issues. I wonder how many times I've been the "other man" though..

if you've had 3 or more girlfiends during your life,,, you've most likely had these kinds of issues (whether you knew it or not),,, as i said before, ignorance is bliss

i've been the "dude on the side" so many times, that i know the signs, without even having to do much investigating,,, these days i don't investigate at all because i'm not looking for a wife