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Why is this shit 13 pages? What I miss and who wrote that long ass book up above?
We had been kickin it since march. This past week I noticed she was actin funny, keepin the conversation short, saying she would call back and would not call back, etc. This was new behaviour.
Called her saturday and she was bullshitin me on the phone. Same shit.
Called her at 9 that night....no answer. Sunday after church I decided to drop by. En route to her house, I called....again no answer. I pulled up and noticed the grill was going...she comes outside to tend to the grill but didn't see me until I got all the way up on her. She looked like she was about to have a damn heart attack...then a whole new person came out of her.
Her: Uh...I got company, you can't come over here!
Me: What?
Her: You heard me! Bye!
Me: (Keepin cool) Who's over here?
Her: My friend.
Me: Who is he?
Her: None of your business.
Me: Well at least give me an explanation.
Her: I don't have to tell you anything.../Walks in the house and slams door.
After that I bounced. Haven't heard from her. That was some cold blooded shit mayne.![]()
Ok I gotta story too....damn after readin' some of this shit, now I know why I'm the way I am with women.
Married this chick, high school sweetheart, good girl, I thought....she was real passive, kinda quiet, but turns out she was just sneaky with hers. In a million years I never would have figured out she was a $2 ho, I don't know if it was denial or if I was just in love with the chick or wanted to believe her.
Anyways, after we get married, I go on tour in the Army, They cut me orders to IRAQ, we're writining each other everyday once the mail starts flowin' and like somebody else said, "Everything started to slow down"..."My Pimp senses go off-flashin' a ho alert alarm". Since I'm 10,000 miles away, I can't prove a damn thing, so I'm stuck with speculating. Letters trickle in from here, used to be 3-4 a week, now it's 1 every 3-4 weeks. I beg her for some pictures of my daugter for 3 months, she finally sends them, but no letter, no how you doin' nothin'...this is my wife now.
So we got 1 call a week using the MARS system and I decide to call my sister, she's always good for spreading news.
Me: He sis, how are things back home
sis: fine, how you hoildin' up
Me: I'm cool can't wait to come home though
sis: I hate to be the one to tell you this but XXXXXX is pregnant by XXXXX
Me: Huh
sis: Yea, your wife is pregnant by another man.
Damn, talk about devastated, and I was 10,000 miles away, wasn' shit I could do about it. about a month later I got mail from her, Divorce papers in the mail....WOW!!!! one of the lowest points in my life only because I had put so much trust in her. Learned to never trust a bitch ever again and with good reason, I've never dated or married one who hasn't cheated...EVER...Well One to my knowledge
I gotta another one that's just as bad, but I don't feel like typin' it cause it was just Trifling.
I really didn't wanna do this but this brother here is making me come out of lurker mode for this one. Take a look at what you just wrote brother... if you don't get it lemme spell it out for you:
Not only did your slut cheat, but she went bareback, and to top it off came home to you trying to fuck!!!
- This broad tried to bring you AIDS
- This broad tried to kill herself and take you with her
- This broad tried to leave your kid parentless
Yet you're still debating being with her?
It sucks that you had all that happen to you, and I'm sorry to add insult to injury.... but you kinda deserve it for being this damn stupid - just look at how you're acting right now. She took advantage of your inner bitch. She put a bullet in the revolver, put that shit in your mouth, and pulled the trigger more than a few times
Get a clue man, get a fucking spinal cord, attach some vertebrates to that shit, man up and bounce with the kid. Stay with her and 10yrs from now you will be either dead or in jail, guaranteed.
And please please please save ALL THAT MUMBO JUMBO SHIT for the judge next time. Learn how to summarize and string together some complete logical sentences. We aint interested in your damn life biographies. Now before I go back to lurk mode lemme say this last thing
Have fun fucking your melonpecan whore cuz we know you aint going howhere...
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fast forward a few months the bitch got chromes disease....
Dumb ass nigga its crohn's disease.![]()
my point blank reply is>>
bullshit!through the tough times you should have dug in wih your man, the one who is sacrificing
daily for his family! all the so called heart felt shit you typed is only more fodder for him to read, playing with his head so he won't continue his top secret plans to dismount your "sorry after the fact" ass! how can a bitch ever expect forgiveness or future respect after you had your face fucked relentlessly, visualizing spit splashing out your oral cause dirk diggler is stylin out in your mouth, discharging pre-cum he whole time, while your man is taking care of home??
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just fucking brutal!
unless your dude loves the mental torture of seeing you daily and being reminded of gagfactor scenes with a nigga who bragging bout your throat to the homies and laughing at you both, melonpecan, ya'll are done.
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i gotta keep it trill with you
bro get away from melonpecan, go through your month of mourning like man and look how hapy you'll be without those thoughts in your face daily.
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you rationale is off. most of the guys in here were cheating anyway, so their feelings are moot. you get what you put in.
The setup: I was living together with my girl, we were about a year into out relationship. We didnt have many problems just the usual stuff. Throughout our relationship her ex used to call her, he used to play in NFL but had not been playing for a year. That didn't bother me because I had no reason not to trust her.
Fast Forward: Me and my girl get into a major argument New Years Eve. Since the fight, things haven't been the same. So one week she tells me that she's going to see her god son over the weekend and that she'll be back Tuesday. This was strange because her god son only lived 3 hours away. But I didnt say shit, she left that Saturday morning. Sunday night I get a funny feeling about shit and decide to check the browser history..... I see that she checked in for a flight but I could tell where to, but I saw weather forecast for Houston ( Her ex had recently signed with the Texans ) and I put 2 and 2 together. At this point I was sick.... I didnt know whether to call her or just wait it out until she got home. I decided to call but she didnt answer... I left a VM saying "Hope you're enjoying yourself, and that I would like for her to bring me Houston Teaxans shot glass". She didnt return my call until the next morning and I could tell she was sick. I stayed calm and told her we would talk about when she got home.
Game Over: She flew in Tuesday night. I was beyond mad. But I wanted to hear what she had to say. She admitted about going to Houston to see her ex. I asked if she fucked him and she said no..... She thought she was in the clear but I asked her if she sucked his dick then there was silence...... she said that she got drunk and gave him head, you want to talk about a nigga being tight!!!! At that point I had to "G-check" myself. Keep in mind we were still living together and had 6 months left on the lease. From that point forward my sole objective was to break this bitch completely down mentally and make her pay for what she did. By the end of the lease she was ready to kill herself....
Co-sign Bitches are sick wit it. I had my ex introduce to the nigga she was fucking, and we became friends and shit. Dude, actually felt sorry for me and told me he been fucking my so called girlfriend. So we plotted against the bitch. I taped her sucking me up and dude taped her too and posted in email on facebook lol, and I sent my dvd to her parents house, and boy oh boy was she upset, when moms called with the news, that she watched it. Bitch guess who got the last laugh lol.
Til this day, I don't trust no female. One bitch can fuck it up for all.
Its funny reading this thread with ya'll crying about ONE girl meanwhile ya'll BEEN played countless heffas throughout your lives
Its called karma ... get the fuck over it
Condensed for time..
Freshman year of college
Fuckin wit this bitch, who had a man out of town but I caught feelings for the hoe..
About 5 months into the fucking we start dating (She left ole dude)..
After 3 months of dating I'm about to head to my yearly retreat to Daytona for BCR.
The night before, I stop by the house - no answer (she didnt have a car so I wasnt sho what was up and in 98 a cell phone was still semi-luxury)
So I go back to my crib call the chick a few times no answer. Then I get the roomate on the phone, she soudning all shook and shit like she dont know what to say.. Im like, yo where is XXX she like, oh she chillin with ole boy (some football nigga) Im like OK tell her to get at me.. (she actually put her on the phone but she was in the shower gigglin and shit)
3 hours go by nothing, at like 1am I roll by, this nigga call parked out front! Im like, well maybe they talking about something serious (*denial*)
I go back home, my people hyped about BCR in the morning, but Im all fucked up cuz this bitch aint called me (never mind dude car out front)
A nigga didnt get no sleep that night, I roll back by the crib at like 730am and what do you know, this nigga car still out front and I still aint heard shit (*denial still*)
Long story short, the chick never even denied that dude was there but I just took it like a simp, while I was in Daytona and shouldve been fuckin wit hoes I was calling this bitch! We (well my simp ass) mended the relationship but I got the last laugh. We prolly talked for another year but during that time I was on fuck a hoe type shit (she destroyed me,as she was the first chick to ever play me to the left) and our "relationship" ended wit that hoe taking about a 10 mile walk home on a cold rainy night after I kicked her out my house - classic! Never spoke to her again.
long story, but gotta get it off my chest
I had been tellin' my wife at the time that I knew somethin' was goin on... but she insisted on being caught instead of being honest. She claimed that she was out bowling with co-workers twice a week, but it was too obvious cuz whenever we'd go bowling with friends her back would always hurt the next day. Whenever she'd go 'bowling' with co-workers she'd come home like she'd been at the damn spa, all refreshed. Anyway, I sat at home ere’ night for weeks knowing that she was doin’ something but I just couldn’t prove it. I looked at her and honestly asked her if there was something wrong and she lied. I promised her that I would file for divorce if I ever discovered infidelity. Then she had the nerve to try and say that I should pray about my insecurities. I then decided that enough was enough.
I installed a caller ID box in the basement on a phone jack... then each night when I got home I would compare the numbers called on the cordless phones in the bedroom and living room to the box in the basement that she didn't know about... of course I was quickly able to figure out which number she was deleting... instead of confronting her, I just called my connects at Cellular One and ran a trace on the number... had dudes name, address, DOB, SS# and ere'thing... I drove past his crib one night that she was supposedly 'working late' and her car was there in his driveway. The car I had bought for her. I was really boiling at that point. Little did they know that I was sitting there with my loaded 9mm in lap. I had already figured out what I was gonna do. I was gonna kill her. I didn't give a damn who caught it... but SHE was the main one who was gonna get it... if dude had been there to walk her outside or something, I woulda got him too, but he wasn't my target...
I called both my moms and pops separately and told them what I was about to do. I don't know why I called my parents, I guess it was the pain eating me up inside and out of respect for them, I wanted to let them know that I was at rock bottom and that I appreciated all their love and support since birth. Kind of like a "I know you've done all you can for me and this is not your fault" type of closing. Of course they pleaded with me to calm down, drive from the scene and not resort to the violent act I had promised. I then powered off my cell phone off and sat with my finger on the trigger. I remember the day like it was yesterday... July 26, 1999. I waited and waited and waited. I must've sat there for close to 3 hours but her and dude never emerged. There's no way they could've known I was there cuz I had borrowed my buddy's SUV and was sitting on a side street about 4 houses down from dude's house.
After contemplating my options and knowing full well that after gunning them both down, I'd either go to prison or be killed in a shootout with police while on the run, I decided against it and drove home. I think what hit me in the heart was knowing that our 2 kids would've be left without their parents. I kept seeing my 5 yr old daughter's face and hearing her say "Why did you do that to mommy?" It wouldn't have been fair for me to leave them alone in this world with in-laws or someone other than one of us caring for them. I think that was God looking down on me. Honestly, I had no conscience about shooting either one of them, had I seen them. Wouldn't ya know who came home 20 minutes after I got home. It was hard to look at her that night, but I sucked it up and showed no emotions at all in front of her and played it cool.
Imagine bustin' ya azz to provide for your family and then find out that your wife is runnin' around with another dude. Not just a one time deal, but an ongoing affair. We had been together for 7 years and her tryst with dude was at least a few months. All cuz I was in last semester at Howard U. tryna make the situation betta for my family (her + 2 kids). Her older son was not my biological, but I treated him as blood and as my own child. No, I wasn't bringing in the $$$ I had the previous 5 years working FT, but I was back at Howard tryna finish up my BA. Sad part is that she was the one who inspired me to go back to Howard and finish up my degree. Yeah, I was not home as I would've liked to have been... but I was in school FT, working PT and doing an internship. Wasn't like I was out partying. I actually talked to the guy she was having the relations with. I called him the very next day on his cell and said these exact words "So... you're f**king my wife?". He then responded... "Oh,, this must be (my govt name)". Talk about me being shook, the cat knew of me and my name. Dude and I talked for like 20 minutes. He said that she told him that she was divorced. Told him that she was still in the house for the sake of the kids and that we slept in separate bedrooms. It was a tense convo, but one that enlightened us both. He confirmed a lot of things that I had suspicions about, like 'business trips', 'late hours', new tires on her car and extra money she had received. That cat was straight up being played by her but dude straight up wanted to marry her. I couldn't help but laugh at that notion.
The single most important thing that I learned from my divorce (okay okay, I learned this in my Anger Management class when I was going through the divorce) was that you can only control yourself. You do not control what any other person does. If your wife/partner wants to walk outta the door what are you gonna do… physically stop them??? That works on occasions (temporarily), but in the long run someone will end up in jail and 90% of the time it’s the man. For the most part, you just have to use good ole common sense in making decisions on the type of person that you decide to be involved with. People sometimes snicker when I admit to going to Anger Management. But those classes every Monday for 6 mos, probably saved my life. Everyday, I re-considered my thoughts of killing her. Seriously. I needed a place to relax and let my thoughts go. In that class I was in the fellowship of other brothas who were going through similar circumstances and we kinda leaned on each other and became friends.
I never asked my ex-wife why. It didn't matter to me. She betrayed me. After giving her numerous chances to come clean, she refused. I honestly was prepared to try and work things out, even if she had admitted cheating. it woulda hurt, but I would've tried. Til this day, she never admitted to what she did. Wasn't an issue for me about why anyway. I believe in the sacredness of vows, but when one person refuses to admit their wrong, you can't move forward no matter how much you love them. In that case, you must go on with your life. I was criticized by the 'God fearing' members (grandparents, uncles aunts, etc) of my family who didn't believe in divorce, but I shook them off with one question. "Would you rather I sit in a corner, cry my eyes out and contemplate murder or suicide or do what's right for me, file divorce, move on with life and eventually find someone who'll not only love and respect me, but someone who deserves my love and respect?" Room kinda went silent after that.
Fortunately, I'm here to talk about it, which let's you that I wised up and drove from away from the house that night cuz I realized that my life wasn't worth losing cuz ONE woman who betrayed me... but being on the other end of a cheating spouse hurts like hell and can drive folks to kill... trust me... I'm not a hood type cat who grew up on corners or nothin'... but I was a hurt husband who owned a gun. I advise my fellow brothas not to deal with married women. Don't look at a man's stature and assume he won't do something should he find out. A heart hurt will resort to anything when broken. The puzzy aint worth losing your life. That's from both perspectives... from the boyfriend/husband aspect and the playas who love to deal with married sistahs.
Damn man... we at least you got your degree and move on with your life.... Karma is a bitch... and your ex has a date with her.@ the moms hooking them up....
at the dude going to court with her...
long story, but gotta get it off my chest
I had been tellin' my wife at the time that I knew somethin' was goin on... but she insisted on being caught instead of being honest. She claimed that she was out bowling with co-workers twice a week, but it was too obvious cuz whenever we'd go bowling with friends her back would always hurt the next day. Whenever she'd go 'bowling' with co-workers she'd come home like she'd been at the damn spa, all refreshed. Anyway, I sat at home ere’ night for weeks knowing that she was doin’ something but I just couldn’t prove it. I looked at her and honestly asked her if there was something wrong and she lied. I promised her that I would file for divorce if I ever discovered infidelity. Then she had the nerve to try and say that I should pray about my insecurities. I then decided that enough was enough.
I installed a caller ID box in the basement on a phone jack... then each night when I got home I would compare the numbers called on the cordless phones in the bedroom and living room to the box in the basement that she didn't know about... of course I was quickly able to figure out which number she was deleting... instead of confronting her, I just called my connects at Cellular One and ran a trace on the number... had dudes name, address, DOB, SS# and ere'thing... I drove past his crib one night that she was supposedly 'working late' and her car was there in his driveway. The car I had bought for her. I was really boiling at that point. Little did they know that I was sitting there with my loaded 9mm in lap. I had already figured out what I was gonna do. I was gonna kill her. I didn't give a damn who caught it... but SHE was the main one who was gonna get it... if dude had been there to walk her outside or something, I woulda got him too, but he wasn't my target...
I called both my moms and pops separately and told them what I was about to do. I don't know why I called my parents, I guess it was the pain eating me up inside and out of respect for them, I wanted to let them know that I was at rock bottom and that I appreciated all their love and support since birth. Kind of like a "I know you've done all you can for me and this is not your fault" type of closing. Of course they pleaded with me to calm down, drive from the scene and not resort to the violent act I had promised. I then powered off my cell phone off and sat with my finger on the trigger. I remember the day like it was yesterday... July 26, 1999. I waited and waited and waited. I must've sat there for close to 3 hours but her and dude never emerged. There's no way they could've known I was there cuz I had borrowed my buddy's SUV and was sitting on a side street about 4 houses down from dude's house.
After contemplating my options and knowing full well that after gunning them both down, I'd either go to prison or be killed in a shootout with police while on the run, I decided against it and drove home. I think what hit me in the heart was knowing that our 2 kids would've be left without their parents. I kept seeing my 5 yr old daughter's face and hearing her say "Why did you do that to mommy?" It wouldn't have been fair for me to leave them alone in this world with in-laws or someone other than one of us caring for them. I think that was God looking down on me. Honestly, I had no conscience about shooting either one of them, had I seen them. Wouldn't ya know who came home 20 minutes after I got home. It was hard to look at her that night, but I sucked it up and showed no emotions at all in front of her and played it cool.
Imagine bustin' ya azz to provide for your family and then find out that your wife is runnin' around with another dude. Not just a one time deal, but an ongoing affair. We had been together for 7 years and her tryst with dude was at least a few months. All cuz I was in last semester at Howard U. tryna make the situation betta for my family (her + 2 kids). Her older son was not my biological, but I treated him as blood and as my own child. No, I wasn't bringing in the $$$ I had the previous 5 years working FT, but I was back at Howard tryna finish up my BA. Sad part is that she was the one who inspired me to go back to Howard and finish up my degree. Yeah, I was not home as I would've liked to have been... but I was in school FT, working PT and doing an internship. Wasn't like I was out partying. I actually talked to the guy she was having the relations with. I called him the very next day on his cell and said these exact words "So... you're f**king my wife?". He then responded... "Oh,, this must be (my govt name)". Talk about me being shook, the cat knew of me and my name. Dude and I talked for like 20 minutes. He said that she told him that she was divorced. Told him that she was still in the house for the sake of the kids and that we slept in separate bedrooms. It was a tense convo, but one that enlightened us both. He confirmed a lot of things that I had suspicions about, like 'business trips', 'late hours', new tires on her car and extra money she had received. That cat was straight up being played by her but dude straight up wanted to marry her. I couldn't help but laugh at that notion.
The single most important thing that I learned from my divorce (okay okay, I learned this in my Anger Management class when I was going through the divorce) was that you can only control yourself. You do not control what any other person does. If your wife/partner wants to walk outta the door what are you gonna do… physically stop them??? That works on occasions (temporarily), but in the long run someone will end up in jail and 90% of the time it’s the man. For the most part, you just have to use good ole common sense in making decisions on the type of person that you decide to be involved with. People sometimes snicker when I admit to going to Anger Management. But those classes every Monday for 6 mos, probably saved my life. Everyday, I re-considered my thoughts of killing her. Seriously. I needed a place to relax and let my thoughts go. In that class I was in the fellowship of other brothas who were going through similar circumstances and we kinda leaned on each other and became friends.
I never asked my ex-wife why. It didn't matter to me. She betrayed me. After giving her numerous chances to come clean, she refused. I honestly was prepared to try and work things out, even if she had admitted cheating. it woulda hurt, but I would've tried. Til this day, she never admitted to what she did. Wasn't an issue for me about why anyway. I believe in the sacredness of vows, but when one person refuses to admit their wrong, you can't move forward no matter how much you love them. In that case, you must go on with your life. I was criticized by the 'God fearing' members (grandparents, uncles aunts, etc) of my family who didn't believe in divorce, but I shook them off with one question. "Would you rather I sit in a corner, cry my eyes out and contemplate murder or suicide or do what's right for me, file divorce, move on with life and eventually find someone who'll not only love and respect me, but someone who deserves my love and respect?" Room kinda went silent after that.
Fortunately, I'm here to talk about it, which let's you that I wised up and drove from away from the house that night cuz I realized that my life wasn't worth losing cuz ONE woman who betrayed me... but being on the other end of a cheating spouse hurts like hell and can drive folks to kill... trust me... I'm not a hood type cat who grew up on corners or nothin'... but I was a hurt husband who owned a gun. I advise my fellow brothas not to deal with married women. Don't look at a man's stature and assume he won't do something should he find out. A heart hurt will resort to anything when broken. The puzzy aint worth losing your life. That's from both perspectives... from the boyfriend/husband aspect and the playas who love to deal with married sistahs.
lmao@AALLLL THE "this 1 chick fucked me over so fuck ALL women"
rofllmaoooo Funniest shit i've ever heard in life man. I don't know WHEN i'm gonna stop laughing honestly
These be the SAME dudes who tell women to get over it. And then act like they're innocent and shit.
Mello of all fucking people!? NIGGA!? You need to shut the ENTIIIIIIIIIIIIRE FUCK UP. lmaoooo
You and your African tea cup poodle are definitely up in your feelings also. Mad and disappointed at every black man living because of rejection and one or two abandoning you with the gift of life to mold... Alone.I know what you put here. lol the only 1's in they feelings here are u dudes rofl
about 2 years ago i was messing with this chick who was on some "i can only be with one man", "you should marry me" type bullshit,,, she used to want to see me every night,,, but this one night, she calls me around 10:30pm saying she wouldn't be over because she was going over her girlfriends crib,,,
so i called up another chick to bone,,, on the way over the other chicks crib, i passed by the 1st girls house (because her excuse sounded like bullshit),,, saw a strange car in front of her crib,,, went up to the house and heard her fucking through her open upstairs window
threw some shit at her window to mess up her groove with dude,,, then went over the other chicks crib,,, wasn't a big deal that she was seeing other dudes,,, but don't voluntarily bullshit my about me being the only man in your life,,, she left million messages, but i never saw her again
I know what you put here. lol the only 1's in they feelings here are u dudes rofl
You and your African tea cup poodle are definitely up in your feelings also. Mad and disappointed at every black man living because of rejection and one or two abandoning you with the gift of life to mold... Alone.
Damn Melon reminds me of this chick that I know. She had real strict parents all the way to highschool. Sexually repressed. When they finaly let the cat out the bag so to speak....man she went full retard as far as fucking goes. Swinger parties...bdsm...i mean straight raunchy shit...cheating on a good dude, but he deserved it he was to soft for her. Jus got in tuned wit her recently....lets say the buck didnt stop here![]()
Melopecon smutted her self out cause she had pint up feelings of her dude calling her fat..its always the dirtiest hoes who play the "educated sista" role.
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