only thing sucks about being a bachelor is when you get old. i'm 27 now and it's all good but i think about when i'm 47. am i still gonna have the vigor for this shit that i do now?
YOU Ever BUSTED One of Your Chicks CREEPING,,,
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But yet men shoulder disproportionally the blame for single parent households.............
In the country I was raised, it is a source of shame for a woman to be a single parent, as a result most women don't fuck up like this.....
Instead here it is a source of shame to men, so women don't give a fuck, black or white or whatever color.........
Real talk.
hold up niggas, hold up. i need to get something confirmed here. this cat youkaidragon, is he speaking about that bitch melonpecan? if he is, the mere fact that she jumps on here first says tons about the type of person she is.
hold up niggas, hold up. i need to get something confirmed here. this cat youkaidragon, is he speaking about that bitch melonpecan? if he is, the mere fact that she jumps on here first says tons about the type of person she is.
lol
chick is over on SOL
asking for dick pics,
she dont feel sorry about nothing.
Don't worry youkaidragon no matter what these niggas talkin bout if you like it then I love it, meaning if you really want to be wit her do you. I know its hard to shake your babymama, every nigga thats commenting has a chick that they probaly would allow back in their life given the right circumstances. It's just life we all want what we can't have and we all don't realize what we do have. Trying to put logic to emotions is fruitless at this stage in your life, the way I learned about females is through experience and maturing. I had a lot of niggas kicking shit in my ear just like these niggas is doing about females but it went over my head because I didn't have enough experience and I wasn't mature enough.
Sure you can get yourself together find someone better and just move on but most of the time life don't work like that playa. What you have is an emotional connection to this female and a baby by her. I'm sure if you moved on you'll still be thinking about the "good ole days" from time to time. Maybe your emotional attachment will diminish after a few years or maybe it never will, nobody has the answers to these trick questions. Theres really no right or wrong answer when dealing with your emotions, there maybe somethings that maybe morally wrong or morally right but what about sufficing your emotional wants. Are you suppose to surppress your wants for morals? I don't know thats on you.
This is why you have men and women who may have a partner that is doing everything they thought they wanted in a partner and still are not satisfied. The real question is can you ever really be satisfied, to me the answer is no. To me the pursuit of happiness is more emotionally gratifying then actually getting what you wanted. After you have the perfect partner now what? Thats lifes enigma, many will try and figure it out but many will just be frustrated. We as men have a winners and losers mentality when it comes to relationships, we think either we are winning or losing. You might be winning today and be losing tomorrow, your not forever going to win and not forever going to lose with anybody.
So don't worry too much because soon you will be dead and all this shit will be amusing to watch from heaven, everybody thinking they know something they have no clue about.
[FLASH]http://www.youtube.com/watch/v/X--QWXGjXfg[/FLASH]
[FLASH]http://www.youtube.com/watch/v/5GX-rJo86CU[/FLASH]
Sure you can get yourself together find someone better and just move on but most of the time life don't work like that playa. What you have is an emotional connection to this female and a baby by her. I'm sure if you moved on you'll still be thinking about the "good ole days" from time to time. Maybe your emotional attachment will diminish after a few years or maybe it never will, nobody has the answers to these trick questions. Theres really no right or wrong answer when dealing with your emotions, there maybe somethings that maybe morally wrong or morally right but what about sufficing your emotional wants. Are you suppose to surppress your wants for morals? I don't know thats on you.
This is why you have men and women who may have a partner that is doing everything they thought they wanted in a partner and still are not satisfied. The real question is can you ever really be satisfied, to me the answer is no. To me the pursuit of happiness is more emotionally gratifying then actually getting what you wanted. After you have the perfect partner now what? Thats lifes enigma, many will try and figure it out but many will just be frustrated. We as men have a winners and losers mentality when it comes to relationships, we think either we are winning or losing. You might be winning today and be losing tomorrow, your not forever going to win and not forever going to lose with anybody.
So don't worry too much because soon you will be dead and all this shit will be amusing to watch from heaven, everybody thinking they know something they have no clue about.
[FLASH]http://www.youtube.com/watch/v/X--QWXGjXfg[/FLASH]
[FLASH]http://www.youtube.com/watch/v/5GX-rJo86CU[/FLASH]
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True, i'm the same age and I got my fam asking me about settling down but I just can't. My uncle got divorced in his 40's and then lived the rest of his life as a bachelor...he was always with a woman that held him down.
I'm a really loyal person, I would prolly kill someone if they betrayed me like that...so i think id rather be the bachelor at 45 than the depressed husband raising children that aren't his.
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Yea, in the black community baby daddy/mama is like a badge of honor...that type of mentality is killing the black family.
With that said though, men are nto stepping up, you have a kid, u take care of it, i don't care if you hate the child's mother.
that's the shit that kills me,,, every chick i meet, i tell them that it's cool if they want to see other people,,, lets just establish that from the beginning that we will see other people,,, All of them always say "no, i don't roll like that. i only want to be with you",,,
then a few months down the line, you find out she's still fucking an ex (which would've been absolutely fine if she could've been real about it from the beginning),,, then the excuses they give are priceless,,, they usually find a way to try and turn the problem on you,,, "i wouldn't have done it if you blah blah blah"
,,, at that point i just cut them off completely,,, i honestly don't mind if a chick is seeing other people,,, it's not the fact that she is fucking someone else, it's the bullshit behind it,,, i don't tolerate lies, when there was no reason for you to lie in the first place,,, if she can't be real about that, she's gonna bullshit you about a lot of other shit down the line
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bruh, you just kicked some real shit.
btw, it's funny you picked that T.I. song, because everytime I hear, "Freak Though"
I think of this chick I used to kickit with.
I used that track as her ringtone for whenever she called.
She was beautiful, educated, ambitious, took great care of herself,
would cook for me, the whole 9
but it was one thing...she was a freak...she had a man.
my partner has a fucked up story,,, he met this girl who claimed to be a virgin ,,, got her name tattooed across his stomach in big letters, had 2 kids with her, gave her allowance, married her,,, the whole 9
right when he bought them a NEW crib (within 3 years of meeting her),,, she started taking classes at a community college,,, she lied about how many classes she was taking (so she would have some free days out of the house),,, he went on the computer one day and found some homegrown of his wife & a dude from her job (damn!),,, also found some emails that proved she was getting dicked down for months,,,
she was only taking 3 hours of college courses, but claimed to be taking 12 hours,,, homie seperated from her about 4 months, then took her back,,, they are still married,,, just shows the shit can still go down no matter how good you treat them,,, i don't think his story is over,,, she's one of those quite, sneaky chicks
,,, got her name tattooed across his stomach in big letters, had 2 kids with her, gave her allowance, married her,,, the whole 9right when he bought them a NEW crib (within 3 years of meeting her),,, she started taking classes at a community college,,, she lied about how many classes she was taking (so she would have some free days out of the house),,, he went on the computer one day and found some homegrown of his wife & a dude from her job (damn!
),,, also found some emails that proved she was getting dicked down for months,,,she was only taking 3 hours of college courses, but claimed to be taking 12 hours,,, homie seperated from her about 4 months, then took her back,,, they are still married,,, just shows the shit can still go down no matter how good you treat them,,, i don't think his story is over,,, she's one of those quite, sneaky chicks
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bitches aint SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!my partner has a fucked up story,,, he met this girl who claimed to be a virgin
right when he bought them a NEW crib (within 3 years of meeting her),,, she started taking slasses at a community college,,, she lied about how many classes she was taking (so she would have some free days out of the house),,, he went on the computer one day and found some homegrown of his wife & a dude from her job (damn!
she was only taking 3 hours of college courses, but claimed to be taking 12 hours,,, homie seperated from her about 4 months, then took her back,,, they are still married,,, just shows the shit can still go down no matter how good you treat them,,, i don't think his story is over,,, she's one of those quit, sneaky chicks
part of it is his fault though,,, because she runs his ass,,, bitches can smell weakness, & he doesn't have a backbone when it comes to her,,, and he blows all his money on her,,, he has to sneak and smoke cigaretts in his own house, or he will get in trouble,,, dumb shit like that,,,
but yeah, that was scandalous as fuck of her,,, he was suicidal,,, imagine thinking you are the only kat to hit it,,, then find some homegrown of your wife on the fucking comeputer,,,
This thread hits it right on the head. My girl was cheating with some dude outta state. Found out about it cuz she introduced this guy as a friend. upon speaking to said friend, i find he knows all sorts of shit about me when i called her on it she said they were just cool and i believed her cuz she really didn't have many friends. I figured what's the harm right? so she goes back to her country to visit and while she is gone she ask me for some things to take back to her family I give it to her. while she gone she barely calls me (maybe twice in 2 weeks) when she gets back i noticed she has new news about this guy so i decided to investigate. since i had her key, i went to her house one night while she was there and she was on the computer and looked startled. I played it off went and took a shower when she went to bed, I saw in her phone that she has i love you to that guys number and i was enraged but of course i needed more proof. I found my way into her email and found out that while she was gone away she had been talking to the dude almost everyday, and the most fucked up thing, she had already started telling everyone she wasn't with me anymore and that dat guy was her boyfriend. I woke her up confronted her about it and she try to flip the shit so i gave her her keys and left. Sad part is the stuff that she said she was giving to her family, my shit she gave to him aint that some shit women are fucked up. couple months down the line she tried to come back on some lets be friends shit women have no shame. I keep it moving lesson learned if u feel it in your gut chances are u are right. don't be surprised by what u find.
there it goes,,, that "flip the script" bullshit,,,
long story short,,, this chick is was seeing said she sent me some freakyy pics to my phone,,, i said i didn't get them,,, she gives me permission to look through her phone & find them (to prove me wrong),,,
i'm was honestly only looking for the pics, when i stumble upon a text sent to another dude,,, "hello my mandigo warrior,,, are you up yet?,,, can't wait for you to stab me with your african love sword,,, blah blah blah"
i was like "wtf is this?",,, i was gonna let her slide with it, since i had a chick on the side also,,, but when she started blaming me for the shit, and raising her voice, when i confronted her about, i went ahead and cut her rope,,, how the fuck could she possibly blame that on me,,, woman are a trip
what exactly did she say to try to flip it on you cuz? how is that possible? these horrible stories you niggas have, i have never seen no parts of that shit and i been with a lot of women man. with all the dirt i've done though, i'm sure i'm covered though. no bitch has ever outdirted me to my knowledge.there it goes,,, that "flip the script" bullshit,,,
long story short,,, this chick is was seeing said she sent me some freakyy pics to my phone,,, i said i didn't get them,,, she gives me permission to look through her phone & find them (to prove me wrong),,,
i'm was honestly only looking for the pics, when i stumble upon a text sent to another dude,,, "hello my mandigo warrior,,, are you up yet?,,, can't wait for you to stab me with your african love sword,,, blah blah blah"
i was like "wtf is this?",,, i was gonna let her slide with it, since i had a chick on the side also,,, but when she started blaming me for the shit, and raising her voice, when i confronted her about, i went ahead and cut her rope,,, how the fuck could she possibly blame that on me,,, woman are a trip
Most american men are weak, soon to be mini van driving, giving up their money, having her run the house stead of you type muthafuckas.
WOMEN HATE WEAKNESS AND WILL ABUSE IT. Its a muthafucka in a stick hut in the amazon jungle with 4 bitches and no problems cause he runs his little piece of the world with fucking balls.
All these zombies out here. They dead already, then they wonder why their wife or GF they did everything for is taking it up the ass from rocco the loud mouth asshole type she always says she hated while she has their ass miss the big game to go shop for curtains and shit.
man i swear 2 jesus i dont truss these hoes, chick im fuckin with now had a relationship on me when she use 2 travel 2 detroit on business trips 3 yrs ago after katrina and i just found this shit out 2mths ago i could have killed that bitch knowin i was down here grindin after the storm takin care of shit, while she doin whatever, and she says shes sorry and blah blah and i shouldnt b that mad cause it was 2 1/2yrs ago and the nigga is doin a 15yr bid. i suppose 2 forgive her fuck that, i been with this bitch goin on 8 yrs for nuttin, if she wanted another dick she could have got it and left it alone, she was writin a nigga a letter on a pc we both use and i found out everything.we still together though, for me only convenience 4 right now fuck them hoes,i built me a team of 7 women up and i dont care if she find out, AND I WONT LIE IF SHE ASKS ME IF SOMETHIN IS GOIN ON, fuck them hoes
i could have killed that bitch knowin i was down here grindin after the storm takin care of shit, while she doin whatever, and she says shes sorry and blah blah and i shouldnt b that mad cause it was 2 1/2yrs ago and the nigga is doin a 15yr bid. i suppose 2 forgive her fuck that, i been with this bitch goin on 8 yrs for nuttin, if she wanted another dick she could have got it and left it alone, she was writin a nigga a letter on a pc we both use and i found out everything.we still together though, for me only convenience 4 right now fuck them hoes,i built me a team of 7 women up and i dont care if she find out, AND I WONT LIE IF SHE ASKS ME IF SOMETHIN IS GOIN ON, fuck them hoes*SALUTE*man i swear 2 jesus i dont truss these hoes, chick im fuckin with now had a relationship on me when she use 2 travel 2 detroit on business trips 3 yrs ago after katrina and i just found this shit out 2mths ago
man i swear 2 jesus i dont truss these hoes, chick im fuckin with now had a relationship on me when she use 2 travel 2 detroit on business trips 3 yrs ago after katrina and i just found this shit out 2mths ago
Man what convenience?
Kick the chick out, she wont respect you.
money.
Most american men are weak, soon to be mini van driving, giving up their money, having her run the house stead of you type muthafuckas.
WOMEN HATE WEAKNESS AND WILL ABUSE IT. Its a muthafucka in a stick hut in the amazon jungle with 4 bitches and no problems cause he runs his little piece of the world with fucking balls.
All these zombies out here. They dead already, then they wonder why their wife or GF they did everything for is taking it up the ass from rocco the loud mouth asshole type she always says she hated while she has their ass miss the big game to go shop for curtains and shit.
QFT
and u know this man, im stackin my chips
I really didn't wanna do this but this brother here is making me come out of lurker mode for this one. Take a look at what you just wrote brother... if you don't get it lemme spell it out for you:
Not only did your slut cheat, but she went bareback, and to top it off came home to you trying to fuck!!!
- This broad tried to bring you AIDS
- This broad tried to kill herself and take you with her
- This broad tried to leave your kid parentless
Yet you're still debating being with her?
It sucks that you had all that happen to you, and I'm sorry to add insult to injury.... but you kinda deserve it for being this damn stupid - just look at how you're acting right now. She took advantage of your inner bitch. She put a bullet in the revolver, put that shit in your mouth, and pulled the trigger more than a few times
Get a clue man, get a fucking spinal cord, attach some vertebrates to that shit, man up and bounce with the kid. Stay with her and 10yrs from now you will be either dead or in jail, guaranteed.
And please please please save ALL THAT MUMBO JUMBO SHIT for the judge next time. Learn how to summarize and string together some complete logical sentences. We aint interested in your damn life biographies. Now before I go back to lurk mode lemme say this last thing
Have fun fucking your melonpecan whore cuz we know you aint going howhere...
she was another one who was on some "i can only be with one man" bullshit,,, so when i confronted her about the text,,, she went into defense mode, because she was shocked that she was busted,,,
so she went into some bullshit about how i wan't supposed to look at any other text, and i was going through her personal shit (which didn't make any sense)
as i've been saying,,, when you have options, most of this petty shit doesn't even phase you,,, just fire her, and promote your 2nd string
Word up.
that shit is unbelievable that a bitch can try to blame you for finding out!! if she fuckin YOU AND another nigga while lying to YOU how the fuck is that just HER personal shit???she was another one who was on some "i can only be with one man" bullshit,,, so when i confronted her about the text,,, she went into defense mode, because she was shocked that she was busted,,,
so she went into some bullshit about how i wan't supposed to look at any other text, and i was going through her personal shit (which didn't make any sense)
as i've been saying,,, when you have options, most of this petty shit doesn't even phase you,,, just fire her, and promote your 2nd string
i tell yall niggas, if i ever make a thread talkin bout i'm gettin married i want yall to clown me to DEATH.
Some women wont take responsibilty for their actions and always try to deflect the blame. I had a girl cheat on me once and then when I wasnt tryin to talk to her anymore, she said I should cut her some slack and not be too mad cuz at least she admitted it.
There you have it, my philosophy exactly. I learned a long time ago bitches will lie at the drop of a hat about ANYTHING, as long as it suits their emotional needs. They know nothing, absolutely fucking nothing about where to draw the line. They are slaves to their emotions and if you don't accept that early in life you're fucked and doomed to become a simp.
As for when she goes "baby you trust me don't you?", and I look at her with conviction and say "yes babes I do", the part i don't vocalize is "as long as I can see you".
You can make the playing field as level and as fair as you want in a relationship, bitches will find a way to outsmart or manipulate you, then find a way to make it your fault. I've seen to many brothers take the fall for shit they never saw coming, this nigga ain't travelling that road anytime soon.
WHY?
why don't you vocalize the second part? i make it a point to let women know i don't trust them.why what?
check this recording i did from a chic i know, i asked her why a woman cheats her answer i think was truthful
yall niggaz dont clown my southern drawl
http://www.zshare.net/audio/16204688514016a2/
had 2 cut it off when her truck got too loud
somebody embed this shit
187 with my nuts in they mouth, my moms always asks me when im gettin married, NEVER
her answer i think was truthfulyall niggaz dont clown my southern drawl
http://www.zshare.net/audio/16204688514016a2/
had 2 cut it off when her truck got too loud
somebody embed this shit
187 with my nuts in they mouth, my moms always asks me when im gettin married, NEVER
because all that does is give them a reason to hide more, or force an arguement or confrontation, these are areas they excel in(this is my opinion), i like giving them enough rope to hang themselves. another thing i learned hard, there's such a thing as talking too much where it concerns conversing with bitches.
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