Women who withhold sex.

[bigirl]

If I am not in the mood I am just not in the mood. A man needs to be able to respect that. Sex will not be good if I am not in the mood. Sometimes I am not in the mood because I am deeply involved in personal projects and don't wish to be distracted. If the man did or said some fucked up shit then it is very difficult to be in the mood until he makes it right. This is not "witholding pussy". I hate it when you guys count pussy. Nothing will put me not in the mood faster than that.

BTW: there is no way you guys can guarantee that we are thinking about you while we are fucking you neither.

 

[lilsexii]

Don't be so cynical! Everyone you meet isn't going to be your prince/princess...you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet him/her. But when you do, it's worth it.

Whether you're in a committed relationship or just meeting someone, anybody who uses sex as a weapon or expects sex to be used as a weapon or a commodity is a game player. It makes sex a game of power and control. That's not just not me.

I'm sometimes not in the mood - if i'm exhausted, incredibly busy or ill - but withholding just for the hell of it is crazy...

 

[DarkOne]

If I am not in the mood I am just not in the mood. A man needs to be able to respect that. Sex will not be good if I am not in the mood. Sometimes I am not in the mood because I am deeply involved in personal projects and don't wish to be distracted. If the man did or said some fucked up shit then it is very difficult to be in the mood until he makes it right. This is not "witholding pussy". I hate it when you guys count pussy. Nothing will put me not in the mood faster than that.

Of course that is not withholding pussy , nobody said that was .

 

[bigirl]

Of course that is not withholding pussy , nobody said that was .

I dunno about that. Alot of you seem to think we should just always be ready to fuck on demand regardless of what we are doing or how we feel.

 

[black again]

Femm, I'm totally at a loss for words..and that ain't easy for me. I kinda feel sorry for ya. Where/ how do you find pleasure in life? I don't mean this in a sexual way, at all. But if there's no significiant other, no kids, no sex...what puts a smile on your face? I always thought you were a pretty cool lady, but you don't seem happy. Sorry, to pry. I'm sure this ain't my biz.

 

[femmenoire]

Femm, I'm totally at a loss for words..and that ain't easy for me. I kinda feel sorry for ya. Where/ how do you find pleasure in life? I don't mean this in a sexual way, at all. But if there's no significiant other, no kids, no sex...what puts a smile on your face? I always thought you were a pretty cool lady, but you don't seem happy. Sorry, to pry. I'm sure this ain't my biz.

I take joy in my friends, family, my job and the activities I participate in.

 

[DarkOne]

I dunno about that. Alot of you seem to think we should just always be ready to fuck on demand regardless of what we are doing or how we feel.

Well not me. To me withholding pussy means , a woman refusing to have sex for no apparent reasons. Not being in the mood isnt withholding pussy. Not being in the mood for months is worrying .And could be seen as withholding pussy.

 

[bigirl]

Well not me. To me withholding pussy means , a woman refusing to have sex for no apparent reasons. Not being in the mood isnt withholding pussy. Not being in the mood for months is worrying .And could be seen as withholding pussy.

Months ?!!!
To me that means I am not into you anymore. Period.

 

[DarkOne]

Months ?!!!
To me that means I am not into you anymore. Period.

Oh well ..C'est la vie.
.

 

[thoughtone]

I personally think women should boycott sex with men altogether.


Just stop fucking them.


If I could put a spell on the women of the world, I'd do that.

Misery loves company.

 

[femmenoire]

Misery loves company.

As usual a man's ego can't bear the thought that a woman could be happy without his dumb ass.

 

[Free_Lance_Pimp]

Is this the primary tool women use to manipulate and control men? My patience level and tolerance for this behavior has reached ZERO!

There are too many women out there to be waiting around for her to give you some ass.

GeT U HOT was in one thred talking about make him "earn" you.....how about some of yall chicks earning some dick for a change!!

Thats what I am talkin about. they want it just as bad as we do.

Digtalangel talking about she withheld from her man and watch him go jack off damn thats cold bloooded!

Jack off my ass, if she dont jack and suck me off, someone else will. Actin like she got all the controll. She can controll her toy.

like Snoop said you not giving me none.
I'm giving you some

She getting what she want,I get what I want. She better act right.

 

[thoughtone]

As usual a man's ego can't bear the thought that a woman could be happy without his dumb ass.

There sure seems to be a lot of happy women out there. It shows.

 

[kjxxxx]

Not at all. But it seems to me that whenever women have sex with men their lives are complicated by those men....even so called "good men".

If that's the source of the problem, get rid of the source and you get rid of the problem.

Interesting. I hear even lesbians say they love women just can't stand the drama that they come with.

I say go back to cave man days (to take the simple minded, sarcastic approach like you femme). Knock em over the head and take the pussy. That would leave only them with the headache. ok people I am not serious here.

 

[yallfakin]

THAT'S A STUPID MOVE ON A WOMANS PART,ALLOWING A MAN TO
MASTURBATE INSTEAD OF MAKING LOVE TO HIM. FIRST WHEN HE DOES
YOU CAN'T GUARANTEE THAT HE IS THINKING OF OF YOU WHEN HE DOES.

GOD FORBID HE GETS TIRED OF IT AND LOOKS FOR THE REAL THING.
NOW HE HAS ANOTHER WOMAN OR WOMEN IN MIND AND HE AINT LOOKIN'
FOR YOU!

EVERY DAY, EVERY WHERE, ALL THE DAY/NIGHT LONG HIS EYE IS
PEEPIN' ALL THESE BEAUTIFUL ASSES AND SOONER OR LATER SOMEWHERE,
SOMEHOW HE'S GONNA HIT AND ALLLLSHITSON! NOW THE WHOLE GAME
CHANGES AND HE NO LONGER CARES IF YOU PUT OUT OR NOT. HIS MIND AND
DICK ARE SOMEWHERE ELSE!!

BUT YOU SHOWED HIM DIDNTCHA!!!! YOU RUNNIN' SHIT AINTCHA? NOW YOU JACKIN' OFF AINTCHA?

Preach,

 

[kjxxxx]

There sure seems to be a lot of happy women out there. It shows.

wow. That lesbian bullshit always forget the other side. Gay men feel the same way about women so I hope the womnen don't get all happy and walking around with a superiority complex.

 

[femmenoire]

wow. That lesbian bullshit always forget the other side. Gay men feel the same way about women so I hope the womnen don't get all happy and walking around with a superiority complex.

The problem with that is that they also are needy. So it can't work in their favor as long as they feel they need to have someone, anyone, in their lives romantically.

 

[Black Limey]

Can't stand women who tease

I dumped my ex gf for this.

I think this is a major factor for infidelity. I got what my gf would not give me in 8 months in under one week from another chick

Too many women out there to not get your stuff wet

Simple supply and demand

PS: I once chased a chick on and off for about a year. The moment I busted, I was out the door. She is still wondering why

Somebody embed this Eddie Murphy


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhZ_Xecac7w

 

[Jam_Jam]

Is this the primary tool women use to manipulate
and control men? My patience level and tolerance
for this behavior has reached ZERO!

jam jam I not even going to go there. She just has alot of game.
from what I've read a total cool and calculated operator.

I don't consider myself a cool and calculated operator, and I don't believe that men see me that way either. If they did, they wouldn't keep calling. The thing is, I have been lied to by men and they have tried to run a lot of game. I have just learned to play the game better than a lot of them. I have taken everything they have taught me and perfected it. Do I take advantage of them? Hell no. But I do I know what to say to them in order to get what I want. Hell yes. Most men are very manipulative. They tell women what they think we want to hear. They will take advantage of women in every possible way, and many of them have. What do you expect? This is my pussy, and I reserve the right to withhold it whenever, wherever, and however I deem necessary.

 

[femmenoire]

This is my pussy, and I reserve the right to withhold it whenever, wherever, and however I deem necessary.

*applause*

 

[Bigmario23]

Somebody embed this Eddie Murphy


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhZ_Xecac7w[/QUOTE]

[FLASH]http://www.youtube.com/watch/v/zhZ_Xecac7w[/FLASH]

Dawg this just came on TV like 2 days ago lol
man I forgot how good this was.

 

[sexylegz33]

Exactly!

Shit, you can't garuntee that when you are fucking ya man he's thinking of you.. That's doesn't have anything to do with whether you have sex with him or not.

Why does a woman have to be withholding sex? Why can't she just not be ready to share herself with him sexually. It does take time for a woman to become comfortable enough with a man to want to give herself to him (well some women anyway!). Maybe if the man was genuinely concerned about the woman and not just getting his dick wet, these are things he would undestand...

 

[Bigmario23]

if your broad won't fuck you then break up with her because she is fucking somebody else.

Actually this is just something I started dealing with re-entering
the dating scene. I dealt with the rationing/witholding thing even with my past relationship. My ex-broad would be like "take the dog out to pee before we begin"WTF....talk about a mood buster.


And for the record I'm not even judging all the sisters on here.
because for the most part most of yall cool with me
But every now in then I get in rant mode.

 

[Bigmario23]

This is my pussy, and I reserve the right to withhold it whenever, wherever, and however I deem necessary.

By any means necessary.
Ok JAM JAM X

 

[thoughtone]

Can't stand women who tease

I dumped my ex gf for this.

I think this is a major factor for infidelity. I got what my gf would not give me in 8 months in under one week from another chick

Too many women out there to not get your stuff wet

Simple supply and demand

PS: I once chased a chick on and off for about a year. The moment I busted, I was out the door. She is still wondering why

Somebody embed this Eddie Murphy


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhZ_Xecac7w

If a female has gone cold on you and won’t tell you why, you would be fool to stick around. The game playing get’s old real quick. I played the game for a couple of months and then told her to get out. Shit, it was my place. After a couple of weeks she started calling and all of a sudden decided to become talkative. Yea right!

 

[Cleopatra_J]

So a woman might not be ready to share herself with a man. That is perfectly fine for a woman to do that. But also don't expect the man to share himself. A mans wallet is all that he has. That is the most important item a man can posses. Based on what is in his wallet will be how he is judged in the world and society has a whole. When a man spends his money you are taking a part away from him. Women are quick to take away but when it comes to them it is different. A womans pussy and a mans wallet are equal value.

Are you serious??? I don't believe that, but if you feel that you need to spend money to get pussy... do you playa.

I know a man who says that women have to "earn" his sex... he feels that he brings an intellectual quality to the table, so she needs to bring good conversation or something... your pussy/dick has whatever value you give it. If you choose to give it away all willy-nilly, that's on you... but if you cherish it... you not gonna just give it away, just like you not going to give your hard earned cash away to just anyone...

Women who "ration" pussy to their men are wrong.. that means that they think they control the relationship with sex.. and in reality, NO ONE is in control of a relationship... But that's what they've been taught, and thats what they see on tv.. so they think its how it should be...



@ Da Don's comment about the dining room with no furniture... that broad needed a job!!! A lay-a-way plan on something...

 

[DarkCity]

Are you serious??? I don't believe that, but if you feel that you need to spend money to get pussy... do you playa.

I know a man who says that women have to "earn" his sex... he feels that he brings an intellectual quality to the table, so she needs to bring good conversation or something... your pussy/dick has whatever value you give it. If you choose to give it away all willy-nilly, that's on you... but if you cherish it... you not gonna just give it away, just like you not going to give your hard earned cash away to just anyone...

Women who "ration" pussy to their men are wrong.. that means that they think they control the relationship with sex.. and in reality, NO ONE is in control of a relationship... But that's what they've been taught, and thats what they see on tv.. so they think its how it should be...



@ Da Don's comment about the dining room with no furniture... that broad needed a job!!! A lay-a-way plan on something...

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[GET YOU HOT]

I personally think women should boycott sex with men altogether.


Just stop fucking them.


If I could put a spell on the women of the world, I'd do that.[/QUOTE]

Femme, you off the chain...!!!

 

[mcguyver]

I personally think women should boycott sex with men altogether.


Just stop fucking them.


If I could put a spell on the women of the world, I'd do that.[/QUOTE]

Femme, you off the chain...!!!

WTF!!! You know you won't let this happen.

 

[GET YOU HOT]

When you take things out of context, they take on a whole other form, including the link, would be fair and better explain my answer as to why, you should NOT have SEX, on your mind within 5minutes, of meeting someone.

Quite simply, it sounds like a hoe venture and if you can decide that quickly you should quit your day job and get paid to fuck...

Voice in your head callin' "Make that money, don't let it make you!"...


P.S. multi talented woman and me and my man have a even exchange, lovemaking and satisfaction is not even a factor...

I had to go back and read to see clearly what you meant by witholding.
That's kind of a strange concept to me for "disciplinary" reasons
I'm not trying to discipline no grown ass ninja- if I'm mad at you , I'm just mad at you not trying to make it into a punishment deal. Rationing- lol! Like its war time and shit.

I can understand just not being in the mood though. It happens.

If I even tried to ration my coco, to my man, it would be a wrap, don't get it twisted...

 

[DragonXJC]

If they withhold it, big deal, more pussy out there to be holding. She aint stopping me with those kid games.

 

[GET YOU HOT]

WTF!!! You know you won't let this happen.

I love men too much, soooo, NOPE, but it's still funny...!

We have all had times when things, we have tried to influence or control, backfire on us. Looking back, now, all I can say is...

"If there is no wind row..."

 

[bgque12]

The dumbest thing a woman can do is withhold the pussy for disciplinary reasons. Some woman don't and will not believe what I am about to say next. Woman don't give pussy the power Men do. Men make the pussy as powerful as we want it to be.

If you believe that pussy controls a man then you are naive and probably have been played your entire life. You are actually doing most men a favor by withholding the pussy. That allows for him to go after other pussy safely without getting caught. Yes we will whine and cry in your face like a baby but that is all apart of the game. We want to make it seem like we can't live without it from you....But bitch I was tired of fucking you anyways.

Holding the pussy hostage is pointless because a man is going to do what he wants regardless. There are plenty....I mean plenty of woman who will be more then willing to take your place. If man has a good job, adv looks, and intelligence and most importantly confidant, then he can almost fuck any woman

What the fuck is wrong with you bamas!!!!!!!!!! You're givin' up all our secrets to these broads, man! Chill!!!!!!!!

 

[blkdontrmp]

Sex is an activity that brings pleasure to two people. Women ration the pussy when they feel that they cant seperate sex from true love, or are not down witht he physical activity. Some women are still caught up with finding the difference between Sex and Love, and why us men wanna have sex vs doing the romantic stuff that the women desire. We can all thank modern society for Romance being dead, since media at some people dont know how to romance the woman and make love to their mind.. until all us men do that we ill always have to deal with women rationing the sex.

 

[bgque12]

Not at all. But it seems to me that whenever women have sex with men their lives are complicated by those men....even so called "good men".

If that's the source of the problem, get rid of the source and you get rid of the problem.

If they were "GOOD" men there

wouldn't be a problem. Maybe you should redefine what you think a "GOOD" man is!