Women who withhold sex.

If they were "GOOD" men there

wouldn't be a problem. Maybe you should redefine what you think a "GOOD" man is!

They think giving them sex is all that is required, thus withholding sex. In fact, most men don't know what being treated "good" is.
 
Are you serious??? I don't believe that, but if you feel that you need to spend money to get pussy... do you playa.

I know a man who says that women have to "earn" his sex... he feels that he brings an intellectual quality to the table, so she needs to bring good conversation or something... your pussy/dick has whatever value you give it. If you choose to give it away all willy-nilly, that's on you... but if you cherish it... you not gonna just give it away, just like you not going to give your hard earned cash away to just anyone...

Women who "ration" pussy to their men are wrong.. that means that they think they control the relationship with sex.. and in reality, NO ONE is in control of a relationship... But that's what they've been taught, and thats what they see on tv.. so they think its how it should be... :smh::smh:



:lol::lol::lol: @ Da Don's comment about the dining room with no furniture... that broad needed a job!!! A lay-a-way plan on something...


NO ONE is in control of a relationship...

Yes there is! There is no human relationship that is 50/50. The reality is that the one in control has the compassion to understand the other person’s feelings and not take advantage of weaknesses, hence the term “strong man”. It has nothing to do with your economic status
 
They think giving them sex is all that is required, thus withholding sex. In fact, most men don't know what being treated "good" is.

True but, sista's are always quick to turn the problems on the other person instead of internalizing and understanding what they do wrong and how they can fix the problem. If you ask a woman why her last relationship broke up, almost all of them will say it was the man's fault. They never take responsibility for their part in the demise of the relationship because they never internalize and analyze what they could have done differently. That's why woman carry so much baggage from relationship to relationship. You will never have a healthy relationship until you are able to admit where you are weak as a person and accept your weaknesses and find a man that is strong where they are weak, instead of looking for the man with the Lexus who is just as weak as she is but, tries to cover up his weakness by degrading the her. It really comes down to separating your wants vs. your needs
 
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True but, sista's are always quick to turn the problems on the other person instead of internalizing and understanding what they do wrong and how they can fix the problem. If you ask a woman why her last relationship broke up, almost all of them will say it was the man's fault. They never take responsibility for their part in the demise of the relationship because they never internalize and analyze what they could have done differently. That's why woman carry so much baggage from relationship to relationship. You will never have a healthy relationship until you are able to admit where you are weak as a person and accept your weaknesses and find a man that is strong where they are weak, instead of looking for the man with the Lexus who is just as weak as she is but, tries to cover up his weakness by degrading the her.


And that is why they have serial relationships, and can’t figure out or admit why they don’t have long relationships. They go after the same jerks. It seems the same guys are getting females pregnant. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, you need to wake up!
 
And that is why they have serial relationships, and can’t figure out or admit why they don’t have long relationships. They go after the same jerks. It seems the same guys are getting females pregnant. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, you need to wake up!

Great minds think alike!
 
And that is why they have serial relationships, and can’t figure out or admit why they don’t have long relationships. They go after the same jerks. It seems the same guys are getting females pregnant. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, you need to wake up!
Co-Sign. I know women who are always talking about men aint shit and how every dude they meet are no good. One of them got mad at me because I told maybe it was her fault for having poor selection skills. Everybody has 1 or 2 bad ones, but once it becomes everytime, then its your fault.
 
Co-Sign. I know women who are always talking about men aint shit and how every dude they meet are no good. One of them got mad at me because I told maybe it was her fault for having poor selection skills. Everybody has 1 or 2 bad ones, but once it becomes everytime, then its your fault.

I think it was Katt Williams who said, "If you keep attracting ain't shit niggas, maybe you got ain't shit pussy!" :lol::lol:
 
If a female has gone cold on you and won’t tell you why, you would be fool to stick around. The game playing get’s old real quick. I played the game for a couple of months and then told her to get out. Shit, it was my place. After a couple of weeks she started calling and all of a sudden decided to become talkative. Yea right!

Well done my brother

 
And that is why they have serial relationships, and can’t figure out or admit why they don’t have long relationships. They go after the same jerks. It seems the same guys are getting females pregnant. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, you need to wake up!


the answer is, what a woman wants and what a woman responds to are 2 different things....thats why a lot of women say they "WANT" a nice guy but always end up with a guy that treats them like shit. Once you learn to differentiate between the type of guys you want and the type of guys you respond too, you will get what you want in time.
 
Is this the primary tool women use to manipulate
and control men? My patience level and tolerance
for this behavior has reached ZERO!:angry:

GeT U HOT was in one thred talking about make him
"earn" you.....how about some of yall chicks earning some dick
for a change!!

Digtalangel talking about she withheld from her man
and watch him go jack off:lol: damn thats cold bloooded!

jam jam I not even going to go there. She just has alot of game.
from what I've read a total cool and calculated operator.

like Snoop said you not giving me none.
I'm giving you some:hmm:

hope there is no bannable offense here:D
Not trying to stir the pot to much just my impulsive rant.

My advice to all brothers, as a man married 11 yrs, never give in to it. Once they see it doesn't work, they'll never use sex as a weapon. Remember, sex is two people (usually). The pussy don't work without the dick. Take that particular weapon out of her arsenal or she'll use it over and over again.
 
Like I tell my wife....Hold out and watch what happens. If you ain't puting out, I know somebody that is.....:angry::angry:
 
By any means necessary.
Ok JAM JAM X:hmm:

:lol:

Women who "ration" pussy to their men are wrong.. that means that they think they control the relationship with sex.. and in reality, NO ONE is in control of a relationship...

c/s That's why the idea is very bizarre to me. It's a sad attempt to manipulate it seems.

:lol::lol::lol: @ Da Don's comment about the dining room with no furniture... that broad needed a job!!! A lay-a-way plan on something...

Da Don was her layaway. She was going to pay him one nipple and one pussy lip per month as a minimum balance. If he bought a matching sofa and love seat for the living room she might have even sucked his duck. Yippee! :lol::hmm:
 
something one woman i was dating told me a while back:

for me to be in the mood for sex i have to be comfortable/happy...i can't be happy while my dining room area is empty without furniture......


:hmm:

:angry::yes:MMMMAAANNNN, that would be one unhappy,sittin on the floor, wit a hamburger azz:hmm:
 
That's not me...but I was with a man who would. Said he couldn't if we were having issues...didn't feel right:confused:

Don't know about him.
Best sex I had was when me an my BM would fight like two niggas in the street and go home and fuck like two wild azzz animals! Grunting, snorting screaming! She'd be a low down dirty bitch and I'd be a no good black motha fucka. Fuck, cus each other out, cum, rest. Fuck, cus each other out, cum, rest. ect, ect.......Where's my phone............
GOD i MISS THAT CRAZY BITCH. LUV HER DIRTY DRAWZ!!!:yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes:
 
I personally think women should boycott sex with men altogether.


Just stop fucking them.


If I could put a spell on the women of the world, I'd do that.

:smh::smh:Naw gurl. Our ass would be like LORD of THE RINGS up in here. Good vs. evil. Go get me a couple of black hobbits, a king and some other niggas with some heart and come attack your azz until undo such a evil spell against all men! Wit yo evil azz............spell on all women:devil:you are the devil!!!!!
 
Some body ban this fool. Don't allow her to spread that poison to anyone.

femm If that was true the world would be a sad sad place for me. brothas would be fucking goats, sheep and other animals....:lol:

:eek::eek::smh::smh:Naw my dude:smh::smh::eek::eek:
Id just put some lipstick on my left hand and a dress on the right and have an orgy.
But never animals:smh::smh::smh::smh::smh::smh::smh:
 
If I am not in the mood I am just not in the mood. A man needs to be able to respect that. Sex will not be good if I am not in the mood. Sometimes I am not in the mood because I am deeply involved in personal projects and don't wish to be distracted. If the man did or said some fucked up shit then it is very difficult to be in the mood until he makes it right. This is not "witholding pussy". I hate it when you guys count pussy. Nothing will put me not in the mood faster than that.

BTW: there is no way you guys can guarantee that we are thinking about you while we are fucking you neither.

Ay baby, what your talking about is NOt with holding sex! You had a long day with some shyt on your mind, thats just human. I get that, but I do think they are talking about when a woman with hold sex because she needs to punish her man for one reason or another, that's all.
 
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