Women who withhold sex.

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Is this the primary tool women use to manipulate
and control men? My patience level and tolerance
for this behavior has reached ZERO!:angry:

GeT U HOT was in one thred talking about make him
"earn" you.....how about some of yall chicks earning some dick
for a change!!

Digtalangel talking about she withheld from her man
and watch him go jack off:lol: damn thats cold bloooded!

jam jam I not even going to go there. She just has alot of game.
from what I've read a total cool and calculated operator.

like Snoop said you not giving me none.
I'm giving you some:hmm:

hope there is no bannable offense here:D
Not trying to stir the pot to much just my impulsive rant.
 
Is this the primary tool women use to manipulate
and control men? My patience level and tolerance
for this behavior has reached ZERO!:angry:

GeT U HOT was in one thred talking about make him
"earn" you.....how about some of yall chicks earning some dick
for a change!!

Digtalangel talking about she withheld from her man
and watch him go jack off:lol: damn thats cold bloooded!

jam jam I not even going to go there. She just has alot of game.
from what I've read a total cool and calculated operator.

like Snoop said you not giving me none.
I'm giving you some:hmm:

hope there is no bannable offense here:D
Not trying to stir the pot to much just my impulsive rant.

That's not me...but I was with a man who would. Said he couldn't if we were having issues...didn't feel right:confused:
 
THAT'S A STUPID MOVE ON A WOMANS PART,ALLOWING A MAN TO
MASTURBATE INSTEAD OF MAKING LOVE TO HIM. FIRST WHEN HE DOES
YOU CAN'T GUARANTEE THAT HE IS THINKING OF OF YOU WHEN HE DOES.

GOD FORBID HE GETS TIRED OF IT AND LOOKS FOR THE REAL THING.
NOW HE HAS ANOTHER WOMAN OR WOMEN IN MIND AND HE AINT LOOKIN'
FOR YOU!

EVERY DAY, EVERY WHERE, ALL THE DAY/NIGHT LONG HIS EYE IS
PEEPIN' ALL THESE BEAUTIFUL ASSES AND SOONER OR LATER SOMEWHERE,
SOMEHOW HE'S GONNA HIT AND ALLLLSHITSON! NOW THE WHOLE GAME
CHANGES AND HE NO LONGER CARES IF YOU PUT OUT OR NOT. HIS MIND AND
DICK ARE SOMEWHERE ELSE!!

BUT YOU SHOWED HIM DIDNTCHA!!!! YOU RUNNIN' SHIT AINTCHA? NOW YOU JACKIN' OFF AINTCHA?
 
When you take things out of context, they take on a whole other form, including the link, would be fair and better explain my answer as to why, you should NOT have SEX, on your mind within 5minutes, of meeting someone.

Quite simply, it sounds like a hoe venture and if you can decide that quickly you should quit your day job and get paid to fuck...

Voice in your head callin' "Make that money, don't let it make you!"...:hmm:


P.S. multi talented woman and me and my man have a even exchange, lovemaking and satisfaction is not even a factor...
 
THAT'S A STUPID MOVE ON A WOMANS PART,ALLOWING A MAN TO
MASTURBATE INSTEAD OF MAKING LOVE TO HIM. FIRST WHEN HE DOES
YOU CAN'T GUARANTEE THAT HE IS THINKING OF OF YOU WHEN HE DOES.

GOD FORBID HE GETS TIRED OF IT AND LOOKS FOR THE REAL THING.
NOW HE HAS ANOTHER WOMAN OR WOMEN IN MIND AND HE AINT LOOKIN'
FOR YOU!

EVERY DAY, EVERY WHERE, ALL THE DAY/NIGHT LONG HIS EYE IS
PEEPIN' ALL THESE BEAUTIFUL ASSES AND SOONER OR LATER SOMEWHERE,
SOMEHOW HE'S GONNA HIT AND ALLLLSHITSON! NOW THE WHOLE GAME
CHANGES AND HE NO LONGER CARES IF YOU PUT OUT OR NOT. HIS MIND AND
DICK ARE SOMEWHERE ELSE!!

BUT YOU SHOWED HIM DIDNTCHA!!!! YOU RUNNIN' SHIT AINTCHA? NOW YOU JACKIN' OFF AINTCHA?

:lol:


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CHURCH!!!
 
THAT'S A STUPID MOVE ON A WOMANS PART,ALLOWING A MAN TO
MASTURBATE INSTEAD OF MAKING LOVE TO HIM. FIRST WHEN HE DOES
YOU CAN'T GUARANTEE THAT HE IS THINKING OF OF YOU WHEN HE DOES.

GOD FORBID HE GETS TIRED OF IT AND LOOKS FOR THE REAL THING.
NOW HE HAS ANOTHER WOMAN OR WOMEN IN MIND AND HE AINT LOOKIN'
FOR YOU!

EVERY DAY, EVERY WHERE, ALL THE DAY/NIGHT LONG HIS EYE IS
PEEPIN' ALL THESE BEAUTIFUL ASSES AND SOONER OR LATER SOMEWHERE,
SOMEHOW HE'S GONNA HIT AND ALLLLSHITSON! NOW THE WHOLE GAME
CHANGES AND HE NO LONGER CARES IF YOU PUT OUT OR NOT. HIS MIND AND
DICK ARE SOMEWHERE ELSE!!

BUT YOU SHOWED HIM DIDNTCHA!!!! YOU RUNNIN' SHIT AINTCHA? NOW YOU JACKIN' OFF AINTCHA?

Shit, you can't garuntee that when you are fucking ya man he's thinking of you.. That's doesn't have anything to do with whether you have sex with him or not.

Why does a woman have to be withholding sex? Why can't she just not be ready to share herself with him sexually. It does take time for a woman to become comfortable enough with a man to want to give herself to him (well some women anyway!). Maybe if the man was genuinely concerned about the woman and not just getting his dick wet, these are things he would undestand...
 
Why does a woman have to be withholding sex? Why can't she just not be ready to share herself with him sexually. It does take time for a woman to become comfortable enough with a man to want to give herself to him (well some women anyway!). Maybe if the man was genuinely concerned about the woman and not just getting his dick wet, these are things he would undestand...



something one woman i was dating told me a while back:

for me to be in the mood for sex i have to be comfortable/happy...i can't be happy while my dining room area is empty without furniture......


:hmm:
 
"Let's say I'm in the room with a bitch
and that hoe don't wanna fuck
like a man, Ima beat my meat
and get my fucking nut, fa sho!"
- Juvenile, 400 degrees
 
Where I'm from, we call withholding sex...rationing the pussy.::angry: And it was done by my ex-wife and lots of my boys' women. It was definitely a manipulation move. I'm not talking about women that you don't have a real, committed relationship with. I could give a fuck, then. You don't wanna get busy, TRUST ME, I got other options. :yes: But if my woman starts rationing, it creates huge problems...in and outta the bedroom.
 
The dumbest thing a woman can do is withhold the pussy for disciplinary reasons. Some woman don't and will not believe what I am about to say next. Woman don't give pussy the power Men do. Men make the pussy as powerful as we want it to be.

If you believe that pussy controls a man then you are naive and probably have been played your entire life. You are actually doing most men a favor by withholding the pussy. That allows for him to go after other pussy safely without getting caught. Yes we will whine and cry in your face like a baby but that is all apart of the game. We want to make it seem like we can't live without it from you....But bitch I was tired of fucking you anyways.

Holding the pussy hostage is pointless because a man is going to do what he wants regardless. There are plenty....I mean plenty of woman who will be more then willing to take your place. If man has a good job, adv looks, and intelligence and most importantly confidant, then he can almost fuck any woman
 
Shit, you can't garuntee that when you are fucking ya man he's thinking of you.. That's doesn't have anything to do with whether you have sex with him or not.

Why does a woman have to be withholding sex? Why can't she just not be ready to share herself with him sexually. It does take time for a woman to become comfortable enough with a man to want to give herself to him (well some women anyway!). Maybe if the man was genuinely concerned about the woman and not just getting his dick wet, these are things he would undestand...
So a woman might not be ready to share herself with a man. That is perfectly fine for a woman to do that. But also don't expect the man to share himself. A mans wallet is all that he has. That is the most important item a man can posses. Based on what is in his wallet will be how he is judged in the world and society has a whole. When a man spends his money you are taking a part away from him. Women are quick to take away but when it comes to them it is different. A womans pussy and a mans wallet are equal value.
 
From my experience, at what point you both decide to begin to have sex is something that has to be established. Whether she has a strong libido or you have the stamina and desire to want sex a lot is something that you both will discover about each other. Now once you are in an ongoing stable relationship and the rules change then, that is another story. Some woman think that playing games and keeping you off of your guard in your regular sexual routine can spice up an increasingly boring relationship. I guess in that case it is a power thing. Some woman may just want to have sex with someone else. Women use the term “I love him, but I am not in love with him.” My interpretation is that he is a nice guy, I can depend on him, but he doesn’t hit my walls the way I like. I guess if a women is withholding sex, it’s like withholding funds from your bank, in order to get it you must put in more.
 
Is this the primary tool women use to manipulate
and control men? My patience level and tolerance
for this behavior has reached ZERO!:angry:

GeT U HOT was in one thred talking about make him
"earn" you.....how about some of yall chicks earning some dick
for a change
!!


:lol::lol::lol:

I had to go back and read to see clearly what you meant by witholding.
That's kind of a strange concept to me for "disciplinary" reasons :confused:
I'm not trying to discipline no grown ass ninja- if I'm mad at you , I'm just mad at you not trying to make it into a punishment deal. Rationing- lol! Like its war time and shit.

I can understand just not being in the mood though. It happens.
 
Brown Turd, I agree with some of what you say..maybe alot of it. I think there is a difference between a gf & somebody serious. I have to look at those issues totally different. I kinda agree on your point about a man's wallet. As long as we live in America... we "keep score" by your $$$$. I don't like to tie my self worth to how much I make, but let's face it..society does. I don't remember the exact words he used, but Chris rock hit it on the head when he was talking about how women saw him as more attractive, once he made a lotta money. Money is the ultimate aphrodisiac and physical attribute a man can have.
I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one..my philosophy:yes:
 
I personally think women should boycott sex with men altogether.


Just stop fucking them.


If I could put a spell on the women of the world, I'd do that.
 
THAT'S A STUPID MOVE ON A WOMANS PART,ALLOWING A MAN TO
MASTURBATE INSTEAD OF MAKING LOVE TO HIM. FIRST WHEN HE DOES
YOU CAN'T GUARANTEE THAT HE IS THINKING OF OF YOU WHEN HE DOES.

GOD FORBID HE GETS TIRED OF IT AND LOOKS FOR THE REAL THING.
NOW HE HAS ANOTHER WOMAN OR WOMEN IN MIND AND HE AINT LOOKIN'
FOR YOU!

EVERY DAY, EVERY WHERE, ALL THE DAY/NIGHT LONG HIS EYE IS
PEEPIN' ALL THESE BEAUTIFUL ASSES AND SOONER OR LATER SOMEWHERE,
SOMEHOW HE'S GONNA HIT AND ALLLLSHITSON! NOW THE WHOLE GAME
CHANGES AND HE NO LONGER CARES IF YOU PUT OUT OR NOT. HIS MIND AND
DICK ARE SOMEWHERE ELSE!!

BUT YOU SHOWED HIM DIDNTCHA!!!! YOU RUNNIN' SHIT AINTCHA? NOW YOU JACKIN' OFF AINTCHA?

lol so true:lol:
 
something one woman i was dating told me a while back:

for me to be in the mood for sex i have to be comfortable/happy...i can't be happy while my dining room area is empty without furniture......


:hmm:

Man, you stay running into hoes. :smh::smh::smh:

I personally think women should boycott sex with men altogether.


Just stop fucking them.


If I could put a spell on the women of the world, I'd do that.

:lol::lol::lol:

Evil, evil woman. If you do that, men AND women would be at your door ready to kill you. Ya'll like sex just as much as we do.


A woman withholding sex in the beginning makes sense. Women can't jump into bed with every man they run into, that's stupid.

But in a relationship, withholding sex is bullshit. Not being in the mood, stress, children etc, all legitimate reasons for not having sex. As much as we want, can't get ass everyday. Any woman who withholds sex as punishment is a menace to society, they should all be thrown onto an island and left to rot.
 
Man, you stay running into hoes. :smh::smh::smh:

i attract them for the wrong reasons......


then some just liked to show their true colors after the fact....

i use to have my female employees laughing their asses off...one even suggested i write an autobiography titled "six figures and sick bitches":lol:
 
I personally think women should boycott sex with men altogether.


Just stop fucking them.


If I could put a spell on the women of the world, I'd do that.
Some body ban this fool. Don't allow her to spread that poison to anyone.

femm If that was true the world would be a sad sad place for me. brothas would be fucking goats, sheep and other animals....:lol:
 
Some body ban this fool. Don't allow her to spread that poison to anyone.

femm If that was true the world would be a sad sad place for me. brothas would be fucking goats, sheep and other animals....:lol:

:puke:

IF that happened, YOU would be fucking goats, sheep and other animals.

I'd be strengthening my grip.
 
Damn Femm..how ya really feel? We seemed to have struck a nerve with this topic.


Not at all. But it seems to me that whenever women have sex with men their lives are complicated by those men....even so called "good men".

If that's the source of the problem, get rid of the source and you get rid of the problem.
 
The thing that women lack to understand is, that if a man really likes u, it doesn't matter if you make him wait 6 months or 6 minutes....because ultimately he's not there for the sex, he just likes you for you. Because if a man doesn't like you, you can make him wait and at the end of the day he will still shit on you...So the best thing to do is to try to find out what that person wants initially
 
I feel that any woman withholding sex from her husband/boyfriend as punishment is wrong. It just makes me think that the woman feels sex is a privilege, like she is doing him a favor by letting him have sex with her.
 
The dumbest thing a woman can do is withhold the pussy for disciplinary reasons. Some woman don't and will not believe what I am about to say next. Woman don't give pussy the power Men do. Men make the pussy as powerful as we want it to be.

If you believe that pussy controls a man then you are naive and probably have been played your entire life. You are actually doing most men a favor by withholding the pussy. That allows for him to go after other pussy safely without getting caught. Yes we will whine and cry in your face like a baby but that is all apart of the game. We want to make it seem like we can't live without it from you....But bitch I was tired of fucking you anyways.

Holding the pussy hostage is pointless because a man is going to do what he wants regardless. There are plenty....I mean plenty of woman who will be more then willing to take your place. If man has a good job, adv looks, and intelligence and most importantly confidant, then he can almost fuck any woman


Where is TD Jakes when you need him?????

CHUUCH...

Lets take up an offering....
 
Explain "complicates", please. And is this a hetero issue or do gays/lesbians have the same issues? The gay peeps I know echo the same sentiments. What's the alternative? Everybody go celibate? Having a billion dollars is complicated, also. But, I'll deal with those complications for the HIGH rewards. Sex, IMHO is the same thing.
 
Not at all. But it seems to me that whenever women have sex with men their lives are complicated by those men....even so called "good men".

If that's the source of the problem, get rid of the source and you get rid of the problem.

You're slowing turning into a dyke ,without you be aware of it . why all these propagandas against men . if you withhold the sex , then every men , even the ones you called "good ones" will go look elsewhere. It's a simple as that.
 
Explain "complicates", please. And is this a hetero issue or do gays/lesbians have the same issues? The gay peeps I know echo the same sentiments. What's the alternative? Everybody go celibate? Having a billion dollars is complicated, also. But, I'll deal with those complications for the HIGH rewards. Sex, IMHO is the same thing.


And that is why there are people who choose to live without money. It's not feasible in the states but lots of people go live in countries to avoid the "complications" money and capitalism brings.

I certainly don't blame them either.
 
I totally agree ma'am. I WISH it was possible to get away without dealing with the complications of $$...go live on an island, somewhere. BUT, love, women,children, relationships, sex..theyr'e ALL worth the trouble.
 
You're slowing turning into a dyke ,without you be aware of it . why all these propagandas against men . if you withhold the sex , then every men , even the ones you called "good ones" will go look elsewhere. It's a simple as that.

I think she is a dyke already.lol

Maybe women withhold sex from a man because it's the only thing they have to hold a man.They lack substance and fear that once they give up the goods they are no longer interesting.Believe it or not,if a man is going to use a woman,withholding sex ain't gonna stop it.It might slow it down.
 
I totally agree ma'am. I WISH it was possible to get away without dealing with the complications of $$...go live on an island, somewhere. BUT, love, women,children, relationships, sex..theyr'e ALL worth the trouble.

I used to think that, but not anymore.
 
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