Just was speaking in general terms. There are probably fat, out-of-shape cats on here who get approached for their jolly appearance. Doesn't make it the norm.
They make "just for men" hair dye for a reason. Leading men in Hollywood also dye their hair for a reason. But at the same time, the same cats hit the gym for a reason too. I'm about to be 37, and the fact is that all things being equal a youthful appearance is usually preferred. It is what it is. People tend not to look youthful with gray hair.