Why do some many young broads look at dudes much older than them?

[Understand My Story]

Older dudes generally have more money and more game. Also many have daddy issues whether it be not having one or having been abused.

 

[RoadRage]

this


nigga doesnt know what fuck he is talking about!

Word??
If you know how to play the game, you can make it work for you......
If not your gonna either get played or live lame!​

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Can't argue with ya, I'm a overthinker I guess.

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Just relax. You overthink shit to a ridiculous degree. Relax.

anyone saying that women are more mature than men at any age is a cot damn nincompoop.

people mature at varying rates based on varying influences and circumstances, so you'll find a 12 year old girl who is more mature than a 50 year old man, vice versa and everything in between.

no one matures faster than anyone else based on gender alone, and girls CERTAINLY don't mature emotionally or intellectually faster than boys.

Yep. Girls mature faster than boys physically and that's gotten twisted badly.

You are so right and as a teacher in an all girls high school, I have experienced this all too often. As one of the other posters mentioned, young girls gravitate to older men especially when they don't have fathers at home. The way some of these 15 year old girls are looking lately, it's hard to resist their sexual advances no matter how professional you are. For some of us teachers it's damn near impossible. Personally, I think the age of consent should be lowered in order to avoid teachers being unjustly punished. There is nothing like trying to teach a class with a hot young adolescent in the front row in a mini skirt showing you the full essence of her burning desire between her legs. I actually had to tell one of them she should think about shaving down there. Sounds kind of inappropriate but our teacher-student relationship is strong. THis kind of frankness and maturity is what attracts these young females. I just tell my coworkers, if you can't resist, don't do anything more than cunnilingus and don't touch with the hands. If you do that, the feds can't do much to you.

You are one twisted mofo.
I think you're batshitty sometimes but you're so fucking crazy I think we could hang out.

Since when have women used logic to make relationship decisions?

Who does?

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Right. It's threads like this that made me think he was in his 20's.

I know. I went through the same thing so I knew where you were coming from.

 

[Naha-Nago]

This is nothing new I remember being salty when I was younger and peep old kats pulling the baddest dimes.. But to be honest its not as wide spread as I thought it was, back then.

But now that I am older and a bit wiser I have a different take on the situation. First i think it has a lot to do with how men a women develop differently, and how these differences seem to be exasperated in the black community (probably due to lack of fathers and male role models)....
But here is how it usually goes down...... During the High School years, you know how it goes down, the ones who usually get the top chicks are the kool kats, pretty boys and jocks..
Most can't controle being a Jock or a pretty boy, but being cool is something we all can be, so most young kats try to be cool and go hard at it, often getting in trouble both leagally and physically.. But hey it works and the older you get the harder you have to go....

The problem is the game changes at around 22 when kats start moving away from Mommy crib.. Also around that age, the hot chicks have been pumped with so much bullshit by dudes trying to play fake baller, that they develop a resistance against the bs.

So at 22 the only ones that will fall for that High School game are less atractive chicks, fat chicks, not to bright chicks (chicken heads) or younger ones who don't know no better. Whats makes it worse, the older you get the situation also gets worse..
This is due to the fact that women mature faster, coupled with all the bullshit lies that they fell for by so many fake players out there pumping their heads with so much bullshit...

At around 30 most guys catch on, and begin to change their lifestyle too bad for the majority of us, by then we are either settled down or have a kid or two, but those who is still in the game and got their game tight, this can be a golden age. Because is you keep yourself up you can still have your swagg but now you have the head to deal with the women, and wile the ages from 22-28 usually favor the women, (they have the oportunity to choose from wider pool of populous, young guys still and older men), however from 30 and above men run the game (this is when our pool is wider we have the older women to choose from to the younger chicks)...

If your game is tight you dont even have to go after the women, all you do is meet a lot of them, networking is king, and sit back and let them come to you... A rule of thumb with dealing with women 22 and above, the less thirsty you appear the better off you are, but on the side note you must be smart enough not to fall in the friendship zone. Me I always kept it 100% and if they wasn't with it I always had numbers to say fuck it and bounce to the next chick. Guess after all the bullshit we get smarter also, so keeping that in mind its much harder for a younger female to pull a older guy especially one with swagg, so it becomes a challenge for them, and guys know how competitive females can be..

But young kats dont be tight, this scenario dont happen as much as you guys think, most older dudes lose their game, swagg, get out of shape, dont keep up with their appearance and are too committed in life, to be a real factor, and even the ones that keep their shit up, arnt as thirsty as you guys think, so even though they can do it, dosn't mean they will.... As far as being a sugar daddy or a trick, that shit is mad lame, most older guys have to do the bare minimum and these younger chicks are happy as hell, mostly due to the fact that young kats dont even take their girls out or treat them like a woman, plus they are less up keep than a mature woman who been around the block a few times ..

The good news for the young kats is that the sooner you get up on this game and the better you keep yourself up, the longer you can live the golden years of getting that pussy...
And don't get upset, its a fact of life that's been around since day one and when you get older it will be there for you too..

Lot of truth in this....

*two cents*

 

[big pimp]

Men their age are broke, they want citizen jeans and handbags.

 

[gene cisco]

i get approached by young and old(er) ladies about my salt & pepper goatee and for my 'grain' of hair.

but a woman has never asked me for hair. they want dick or money or both... that's about it.

Just was speaking in general terms. There are probably fat, out-of-shape cats on here who get approached for their jolly appearance. Doesn't make it the norm.

They make "just for men" hair dye for a reason. Leading men in Hollywood also dye their hair for a reason. But at the same time, the same cats hit the gym for a reason too. I'm about to be 37, and the fact is that all things being equal a youthful appearance is usually preferred. It is what it is. People tend not to look youthful with gray hair.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Just was speaking in general terms. There are probably fat, out-of-shape cats on here who get approached for their jolly appearance. Doesn't make it the norm.

They make "just for men" hair dye for a reason. Leading men in Hollywood also dye their hair for a reason. But at the same time, the same cats hit the gym for a reason too. I'm about to be 37, and the fact is that all things being equal a youthful appearance is usually preferred. It is what it is. People tend not to look youthful with gray hair.

There is nothing more feminine than men who dye their hair. I'm 38 and there's a lot more salt than pepper in my goatee (that I wear long) and I could give a fuck and I don't get people that do.
They make "Just For Men" because more than ever men are getting to be more vain than women (and for me, an at times very vain man, to say that is saying something).
We spoonfeed kids all this bullshit about being individuals and being yourself when most of us don't believe it or live it.

 

[BKF]

There is nothing more feminine than men who dye their hair. I'm 38 and there's a lot more salt than pepper in my goatee (that I wear long) and I could give a fuck and I don't get people that do.
They make "Just For Men" because more than ever men are getting to be more vain than women (and for me, an at times very vain man, to say that is saying something).
We spoonfeed kids all this bullshit about being individuals and being yourself when most of us don't believe it or live it.

 

[gene cisco]

There is nothing more feminine than men who dye their hair. I'm 38 and there's a lot more salt than pepper in my goatee (that I wear long) and I could give a fuck and I don't get people that do.
They make "Just For Men" because more than ever men are getting to be more vain than women (and for me, an at times very vain man, to say that is saying something).
We spoonfeed kids all this bullshit about being individuals and being yourself when most of us don't believe it or live it.

All the leading men are some feminine, bitch ass cats then.

Used to be a time when a man being our age and looking 50 was in. That was back when working out was considered gay. Times have changed.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

All the leading men are some feminine, bitch ass cats then.

Used to be a time when a man being our age and looking 50 was in. That was back when working out was considered gay. Times have changed.

At least they do it because work but grown men in our range walking around with ink in their hair just 'cause? Nah bruh.

And looking at how many dudes walking around with these big ass bellies, working out must still be gay to a lot of cats.

 

[gene cisco]

At least they do it because work but grown men in our range walking around with ink in their hair just 'cause? Nah bruh.

And looking at how many dudes walking around with these big ass bellies, working out must still be gay to a lot of cats.

Even if it is just for work, it speaks to what people(women in this case) prefer to see in this day and age. Also, men in our age range might do it for professional reasons. Age discrimination is very real. Gray hair can add years to your appearance. At the same time, a man may want to look older for professional reasons(experience look).

 

[Naha-Nago]

Even if it is just for work, it speaks to what people(women in this case) prefer to see in this day and age. Also, men in our age range might do it for professional reasons. Age discrimination is very real. Gray hair can add years to your appearance. At the same time, a man may want to look older for professional reasons(experience look).

It's called the "Grey Factor" and that shit is real fam. People professionally connect grey to knowing what you are talking about.

* two cents*

 

[Zeferino]

Even if it is just for work, it speaks to what people(women in this case) prefer to see in this day and age. Also, men in our age range might do it for professional reasons. Age discrimination is very real. Gray hair can add years to your appearance. At the same time, a man may want to look older for professional reasons(experience look).

Actually, when my hair started graying I started getting more attention from my students. My beard started turning gray too but I shaved it because it kept getting in the way. I think deep down, most people would rather their daughter receive cunnilingus from an experienced and mature educator as opposed to some thug off the street that's goiing to just dick her down, hit it from the back, slap that ass, and make her back that "thang" up.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Even if it is just for work, it speaks to what people(women in this case) prefer to see in this day and age. Also, men in our age range might do it for professional reasons. Age discrimination is very real. Gray hair can add years to your appearance. At the same time, a man may want to look older for professional reasons(experience look).

No no. An actor is playing a role and that role might be a younger character and he wants to look it. That's cool as long as he doesn't walk around like that all the time. But the number of men doing it to avoid being discriminated against in employment is probably much, much smaller than the ones who do it to look younger to some young bitch they don't even know.


You sounded like the "Just For Men" commercial.
Gene, don't let me find out you got some "Touch of Grey" sitting in the medicine cabinet.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Actually, when my hair started graying I started getting more attention from my students. My beard started turning gray too but I shaved it because it kept getting in the way. I think deep down, most people would rather their daughter receive cunnilingus from an experienced and mature educator as opposed to some thug off the street that's goiing to just dick her down, hit it from the back, slap that ass, and make her back that "thang" up.

Mental illness is a sad thing.

Except with you.

 

[Zeferino]

Mental illness is a sad thing.

Except with you.

I agree and some of the greatest geniuses have been mentally ill. As Jesus said, "Thou mind is dumb but thou knowledge is deep as the pits of hell."

 

[gene cisco]

No no. An actor is playing a role and that role might be a younger character and he wants to look it. That's cool as long as he doesn't walk around like that all the time. But the number of men doing it to avoid being discriminated against in employment is probably much, much smaller than the ones who do it to look younger to some young bitch they don't even know.


You sounded like the "Just For Men" commercial.
Gene, don't let me find out you got some "Touch of Grey" sitting in the medicine cabinet.

It's just funny that the typical late 30's look isn't considered "young enough" so actors have to dye their hair to appear younger. I do agree that the men who are doing it for professional reasons in our world is much smaller. I was just pointing out that it happens.

I don't need "Just for Men" yet..........but if I ever do I'll be that cat blaming my youthful appearance on carrot juice. Medicine cabinet my ass. If I get a shit load of gray before 45 and die, they would find that shit in the back of the safe and be like..................this nigga here.....

 

[gene cisco]

It's called the "Grey Factor" and that shit is real fam. People professionally connect grey to knowing what you are talking about.

* two cents*

I agree. But then you have the problem of people associating energy with a youthful appearance. I guess that is why they have that "touch of gray" shit. When you want it part this way....part that way....

 

[cameo]

Man, ya'll late, I been fucking these young women, youngest I've dicked down was 20. It's the whole package, they see A MAN, a real man. When you talk like a man, walk like a man, good looking, educated, but came from the hood and can relate, the pussy is all yours. Not to mention, when I take my clothes off I got the body of a 20 year old, no fat, abs tight. My money is good, nice four bedroom home, decked out, comfy and cool to be around. I ain't gonna lie, I spend a little bit of money but only on the ones i really wanna dick down, once I dick em down, I don't have to spend any money like I did to get em, cause now I got em !

 

[Artist Monk]

Man, ya'll late, I been fucking these young women, youngest I've dicked down was 20. It's the whole package, they see A MAN, a real man. When you talk like a man, walk like a man, good looking, educated, but came from the hood and can relate, the pussy is all yours. Not to mention, when I take my clothes off I got the body of a 20 year old, no fat, abs tight. My money is good, nice four bedroom home, decked out, comfy and cool to be around. I ain't gonna lie, I spend a little bit of money but only on the ones i really wanna dick down, once I dick em down, I don't have to spend any money like I did to get em, cause now I got em !

I hear you, I look at it like this, young females, hell even females in 30's don't discuss TECHNIQUE of sexual encounters, they don't even know how to put shit in words to have a conversation about it. With that said, the average female in her 20's don't even know how to KISS right much less anything else she THINK she doing right and I tell them this dead to their face. This relieves a lot of pressure on females with any sense and they look at you as someone they can be insecure or unsure about when it comes to their sexuality because you already SEE them as not knowing what they are doing but you OK with it. Opposite day gene kick in and they determine to LEARN how to be open sexually and I mean in the DISCUSSION of it, hypothetical scenarios and all that and not concerned with judgement, better yet they will ask you on how to handle their "REGULAR/STEADY" dude and are the hardest females to get rid of once hooked on the MENTAL.

Obviously you have to be proficient at what you supposed to be proficient at but more than that you have to be natural with it, if you try to act like you all-world then you going to get the screw face sooner than later.

It deeper than that but yeah.................simple when you really think about it.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

It's just funny that the typical late 30's look isn't considered "young enough" so actors have to dye their hair to appear younger. I do agree that the men who are doing it for professional reasons in our world is much smaller. I was just pointing out that it happens.

I don't need "Just for Men" yet..........but if I ever do I'll be that cat blaming my youthful appearance on carrot juice. Medicine cabinet my ass. If I get a shit load of gray before 45 and die, they would find that shit in the back of the safe and be like..................this nigga here.....

 

[black again]

I read alotta the replies here and

Honestly, I could give a shit about why younger chicks are tryna holla. They have their agenda and I have mine.

Black men have plenty of things that don't work in our favor, but usually looking younger than our age is one thing we got and I thank God for it.

 

[twillz1]

Stability, Security....Daddy wasn't in their lives......

^THIS, plus being repeatedly called a bitch gets old quickly. Older cats want to go out, whereas young'ins wanna go to Mickey Dee's and the chicken spot too much.

 

[big pimp]

Bump

 

[Rick Ronson]

Security is spoken on as the secondary

But its the primary.

These young niggas really can't compete now that street
money isn't flowing like is was. I wouldn't be surprised if
it was their mothers advising them.

Some of these mothers don't give a fuck whos wing they
get up under.....

Child support and welfare stops at 18 and many moms ain't
in no better position financially than they were when they
had their child sadly. That's the downside of free money.

You don't value it and you ain't motivated to work when its
given to you for years. So you think ur getting over yet
fuckiing yourself.
That's why I don't take hand outs from these devils.
get met it pays.

 

[stickyfingerz]

Cause we offer security & stability.....+ we know how to fuk better...I like fuckin young bitchez.....the only pussy better than pussy....is young pussy....I dickem down wit no problems....
Fucked a guys daughter that I know for a few months...hr & I are pretty cool...his wide is nice too but his daughter wanted her pussy fucked right so...I smashed...he still snt know .....& I dnt feel bad about it....

 

[SNYC]

Bump for the tricks

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[Daddy43205]

im not in my 30's and i know the answer to this smh.

 

[max-dawg]

Older kats know how to guide the lost and bring them into the light.

and older cats (like me) don't mind concentrating very hard on some pussy too...taking my time with it to make sure she gets a good, hard orgasm.

i'm in no rush to be with my podnas or to play video games... i roll my tongue & my dick slow & steady.

This man knows. These old heads ain't giving these young chicks the excitement they seek.

young chicks like the excitement until it gets old or hurts. then, they look for stability.

I can truly say, there is nothing like an older man with experience, that knows how to hit the spot and make it do what it does like

the young lady i'm banging always comments on how when i'm with her, i'm not in a rush to hurry-up & finish like her boyfriend... who wants to play madden all night with his friends.

Interesting...because at the end of the day Women even in their late 40s can are some of the most illogical immature muthafuckas walking.

the ability to use logic and the inability to grow-up has nothing to do with age.

There is nothing more feminine than men who dye their hair. I'm 38 and there's a lot more salt than pepper in my goatee (that I wear long) and I could give a fuck and I don't get people that do.
They make "Just For Men" because more than ever men are getting to be more vain than women (and for me, an at times very vain man, to say that is saying something).
We spoonfeed kids all this bullshit about being individuals and being yourself when most of us don't believe it or live it.

that 'just for men' shit is hilarious to me.

It's called the "Grey Factor" and that shit is real fam. People professionally connect grey to knowing what you are talking about.

* two cents*

in my profession, we actually have clients (big oil project managers) who literally request the "A Team," which consists of a bunch of higher-paid, grey-haired, worried-looking mofos.

little do they know that we usually just check the work of the younger engineers and spend most of our time managing from a distance.

 

[SNYC]

the young lady i'm banging always comments on how when i'm with her, i'm not in a rush to hurry-up & finish like her boyfriend... who wants to play madden all night with his friends.

How much you're paying her?


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[max-dawg]

How much you're paying her?


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sorry, but i can't disclose my pussy bill to another male... that's a violation of man law #274, part b. now, if your girl wants to know, i can cut her a side deal...but that's after i break-off my other broad; your girl can get my pocket change.

but tell her that i will: help her pay some of her bills, spend time with her (and your) kids at chuck e. cheese, pay to have her car detailed (including an oil change) and every now and then, i'll treat her to a nice dinner, which includes appetizers and dessert.

all she has to do is let me fuck for 'free.' ​

btw, i'll open doors for her AND pull-out her chair. and when it's time to meet her parents, i'll be on-time.

 

[bham_brotha]

I have a 20 year old that has been hinting that she wants to fuck for about a month. The only and I do mean ONLY reason I won't do it is that she works as a temp in one of the offices on another floor in my building. It's become even a bit spooky how we continue to run into each other in the lobby and in the elevator before and after work. Not all that great looking but her body is flawless. She told me she "loves seeing a man in a suit."

 

[SNYC]

sorry, but i can't disclose my pussy bill to another male... that's a violation of man law #274, part b. now, if your girl wants to know, i can cut her a side deal...but that's after i break-off my other broad; your girl can get my pocket change.

but tell her that i will: help her pay some of her bills, spend time with her (and your) kids at chuck e. cheese, pay to have her car detailed (including an oil change) and every now and then, i'll treat her to a nice dinner, which includes appetizers and dessert.

all she has to do is let me fuck for 'free.' ​

btw, i'll open doors for her AND pull-out her chair. and when it's time to meet her parents, i'll be on-time.

not chuck e cheese

And dont think im the enemy. We actually agree on a few points. (Pussy is pussy no matter the color, people pocket watching, etc)

Its just hilarious how this trickin topic always starts a bgol civil war. Its never fails

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[max-dawg]

not chuck e cheese

And dont think im the enemy. We actually agree on a few points. (Pussy is pussy no matter the color, people pocket watching, etc)

Its just hilarious how this trickin topic always starts a bgol civil war. Its never fails

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shiiiitttt... that's where i hang out: chuck e. cheese and near the baby supplies section in wal-mart.

on my off days, i volunteer at the battered women's shelter.

that's easy pickins.